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Tonto is Obidient

Plain efforts in futility!

Sometimes I wonder how I would have been feeling if I am not Obidient, most especially when I see all that's going on with this Peter Obi movement.

In 2003, Igbos voted Obasanjo massively against ojukwu. Obasanjo won southeast and even defeated Ojukwu in Anambra state. This is one example of Igbo people coming through for the Yorubas against sentiments. If Igbos were sentimental, Obasanjo wouldn’t have defeated Ojukwu in southeast.

Forget all the Mumbo jumbo, no sane person will agree that Tinubu can run this breaking country better than Obi. Unless we want to keep living in denial of glaring facts.

While not all Yorubas are like this but a good number is them cannot seem to see beyond tribalism.

With over 5million members pvc in the bag, there's certainly hope on the horizon. Good move. The momentum is picking.

Fear this boiler

maleekberry:
A deadly appliance
A perfect example of small but mighty
You fit use am boil water, cook food and also make soup.

But if this heater shock you, all your hair go stand immediately

I dread this appliance than I dread Buhari. It's better imagined than to be experienced. Although I am speaking from experience.

Purple2003:
Good morning everyone,
Pardon me if I am posting this under the wrong section (this is my first time of posting on this platform).


I can't take this anymore. Even if I have a soft spot for family members, I also need to think of myself by taking necessary measures to get my money back before they ruin my plan of purchasing something that will help me survive daily. I need advice, please

I think you need to figure out if your in-law is financially boyant enough to repay you the money and he chose not to. What's his current financial standing in terms of cashflow, work and other related £xps..

How much is his discretionary expenses has he been meeting before and after you began living with him?

Businesses generally are experiencing bad times due to the realities on ground and crunching economic decline and all that. Size him up in terms of the expenses he's been making for the past few months to know if he deliberately chose not to.

Then you can quietly speak to lawyer to write and deliver him a letter of warning, demanding that he pay you or get ready face civil litigation that would warrant him to pay domorrage and interest on the capital etcetera.... your lawyer would know better.

If he fails to comply or do something about that, then you can sue him to magistrate court and have everything strengthens out. BTW: Litigation should be the last resort if Arbitration fails.

Memberclub:
Unfortunately I let people stay with me right from uni, Nysc & now. Help anyone if you can

What's unfortunate about that?

Why do Lagosians travel to the UK if Lagos was What you claim it to be?

Affliction

1 in every 4 Africans is a Nigerian. Whatever concern Nigeria matters to Africa.

Obi all the way, including my extended family, staff, and friend's family who are based in abroad.

Datboredberri:
So this question was asked on r/AskReddit... The responses were honest and depressing... I'll copy some of them here... Very sensitive posts... You may side with the parents or judge them... Personally, I believe this is the reason why we need better adoption homes... Why abortion should be legalized too... Cause not everyone should be a parent... Forcing women esp into parenthood not only ruins their lives but that of their child(ren) as well...

You again!

Lastborn55:
No na, is just that I never been closed to gals even during my secondary school and no galfrend

So you know your problems and you are here asking stewpid question?

WeeYuGetat!

Kibbs:
Let's talk facts, yeah?

This post feels very hypocritical, honestly. You make all types of slander on the Gen Z but excuse you, all these things were inherited from your generation.

Did girls start wearing skimpy clothes today? Where did Gen Z learn about hard drugs? Whose generation's music preaches about fraud and weed and all the likes? Whose generation is in music videos smoking and dancing with half naked girls?

Instead of trying to paint Gen Z bad like they started all these, how about you criticise your generation who brought all these to the fore. I mean y'all are our 'elder bros and sisters right?', we just copied y'all or more like took over from y'all.

It was when one boy saw one bro smoking and mixing codeine that he decided he was gonna try it out. It was when one girl saw one aunty wearing skimpy clothes, twerking on the internet that she herself picked it up so don't come here laying all the blame to Gen Z

One last thing, don't be one of those who thinks that things should be as they were in their age. The world as a whole evolves with the passing of each generation so our thinking as well should evolve.

'Children don't greet or do this or that like before'. A lot of parents are modernised in their ways now. How many teach/enforce their children to kneel or prostrate when greeting? A good morning, good afternoon is okay, no need for the whole show. If you want your child to stay grounded to tradition, you teach them so, if not you allow them be, it's not an offence. It's up to each parent's choice, everyone can't bring up their children the same way. There's a thing called Diversity so let's all try to be open-minded

Peace ✌️

Blame the media not the genZ.

christianjoy:
Sometimes i get sad for no tangible reasons, a minute am romantic the other am just aggressive towards people Life is a bitch.

I can help you deal with that if you don't mind.

The matter tire me my brother. It feels like we are thinking the same line of thoughts.

As much as I believe in something called moral relativism, I still believe that the moral decadence in our society is strongly rooted in the proliferation of social media and the irregularities from the regulatory agencies of the media and entertainment sector.

We can as well see how information fly with the speed of light. A Lady called Kelly Bardie or whatever she's called twerked from a hotel room in Dubai and share the video on TikTok, two days later, you see thousands of other Nigerians ladies copying here style.

I think the agency incharge of media content management should stop claiming that those are meant to entertain the public. They are killing the future leaders, rendering many lives useless and also encouraging several odd lifestyles.

In church, many pastors have stopped preaching against premarital sex, parents now encourage abortions just to save themselves from public shames and as abortion pills market demand is highly on the increase, infant mortality rate is on the increase as well, and the list goes on and on.

Family is the pillar of every strong society and should be encouraged by their pastors, imams etc to keep strengthening the members on how to raise Godly children.

Brokeness is not a status. It's a phase. The goal of a wise lady should be to stay with a man with vision.

Animegirl:
Go brush your stinking mouth and smelling anus, gay.

I guess this might be one of those reasons why rich men detest you. Rich and wealthy men don't like abusive and insulting women. Being Rich is a hardwork, marrying abusive lady is like adding to the problem.

Animegirl:


Don't know why I keep attracting broke men with pure intentions why can't I meet a wealthy man with pure intentions. God abeg!

Ladies usually attract who they become, either by their beauty, skills, intelligence or character. How much have you developed yourself in the past five years?

What do you have to offer them that can keep those wealthy men, even when they meet you?

Who are you always around with, what environment do you live, work and school?

The truth is that many men (I mean rich men) actually know about your existence, but many haven't found you attractive enough, probably because you haven't shown them the attractive side of you.

As for the the broke men, you need to raise your standard, increase your market value by building up yourself in a way that they will consider you very intimidating, but make sure you manage yourself relationship (contact) with them such that they don't consider you proud and arrogant.

I don't regret any break up, although I don't have much anyway but the few which happened were purely out of some things which I felt I may not be able to contain in the future.

So we parted in the most peaceful way that we still remain friends afterwards. One even invited me for her wedding.

I couldn't attend because of distance and logistics, but I rewarded with a cash gift which she appreciated alot.

People who breakup and start hating their ex is still something I don't understand.

Normalguyy:
I don’t know what’s happening to me recently maybe because of the stuffs I read about ladies on here on nairaland and what I hear everywhere about ladies and everything I have seen ladies do with own eyes .... now the problem is every lady i see anywhere I always have this feeling that she’s an olosho and has had sex multiple times ....

Brossxxzz wake up please..the world has changed, and you cannot do anything about it, other than to evolve yourself. This is the reality of our time.

Good ladies are still out there, you just need to change your mindset and you will have everything working your way.

I used to have that same limiting believe until I met a lady who changed my view on the inner thinking framework of ladies.

That blue app is as addictive as shhhitts, most especially when you have reasonable and engaging contents creators.

For the past four months, I deleted the app to stay focus on my new found career.

As for nairaland, I frequent here most because of the company of intelligent and highly cerebrally equipped Nigerian I read their opinions.

You will get to appreciate NL more if you have insatiable appetite for knowledge. Nairaland has it all.

Now I know what it feels like when anti Peter Obi for president sees the movement. It's actually not a good place to be.

Who does that!?

Obi effects!

PoliteActivist:
No sex BEFORE marriage

Let's get talking via inbox...

Iamgrey5:
Why will Madam Ngozi leave behind her prestigious position at the world bank to enter into the dirty water of Nigerian politics?

World Trade Organisation*

Prince111111:
Peter Obi is very funny.. I like him as a man tho but not rooting for him

Be Obidient, you won't be disappointed.

To power to the man who understands leadership. Leadership is all about the people.

PoliteActivist:
How serious? I'm only interested in marriage. No sex or nothing b4 we marry

Nne, there should be more to this...why would you want us to have a nosex relationship?