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naniawini:
She was lik she nd my fada inlaw allowed relatives 2 live wit them wen they were living in a 1 rum so i have 2 and i was lik God will not allow it... She said if i knw hv cum 2 influence her son i shud start parking. Lol... Mehn i was angry didnt even tel my hubby...

This generation is different from Hers...She has no right to send u packing...
For this reason shall a Man leave his Father n Mother..........and the 2 shall become 1 flesh...
I love my MIL cos she hates intruding in my home affairs.I beg her every time to come around but she will say I should come over...She will support me instead of her Children in any issue..

ClassicQueen:
Thanks

Uwc

Hmmm...
Beaten to the point I asked my Mom who my parents really were and longed for a day they'll tell me some1 else was my Mom...
Dad didn't really beat me much.

I remember my Mom beating me mercilessly because I sold stuff above her normal selling price and kept the Surplus to myself...
Guess What? After beating me I had to still go and sell the next day.

Looking at your Mother in the Eye when she is talking.....You are too bold and rude.

Not looking at Your Mother in the Eyes when She is talking.....You are taking her words forgranted or lack concentration.

Building Blocks...
Toy or real Car...
Clothes...

When I see how much myself and hubby puts in to satisfy our daughter, It reassures me of God's Love...
Nice Post Op

I love guys who are proud of their Lovly Married Wife Instead of fooling themselves with baby mamas...
Ts been Adaeze and Still Adaeze even after 2 kids...
Good 1 Yobo...
Proud of u guys just like I'm proud of My Hubby and I..

What did I just read
The best student in department had hearing and speech problems but as I speak now he has bagged his masters..
This is not fair...
I even had a Lecturer who got him hearing aids on his trip from Indian...
Infact he became part of us...
This is Discrimination in its highest order..
If a public Institution can't accept her, where else do you want her to turn to...
Imagine a Govt. (Sch) that ought to protect her is the 1 frustrating her efforts...
What a Shame...

FTBOY:
hello, Miss Righteous, sex is one factor that helps a relationship last longer...good sex, not just sex. that's lesson number 1


presently, sex is not sacred neither is it expensive. there are many hoes today who would willingly allow men to chop their punnay for free. i don't know the kind of book u've been reading. lesson number 2

it's not true. if that pvssy is wet and tight enough, i'd do everything within my reach to keep it. it may even lead to marriage.
lesson number 3


those are foolish men who can't see beyond their nose. like i said earlier, it depends on the pvssy and the lady's attitude. if she's good enough she'd earn the man's respect......and letting a man fvck u doesn't really make you a hoe, mind you.
lesson number 4


i can only take this story with a pinch of salt like the former one. were you not the same girl whose boyfriend used to give 75 percent of his salary to keep you in school? na real mugus just dey come your way

I love that name Madam Righteous..It reminds me of the name I was called in School when I refused to join My roommates Clubbing..I was called ' Holier Than God ' but today people like you who can't stand an Holy girl are same persons that can't believe I went tru Sch without Sleeping with any boy..What an Irony?
My dear u only guilty about your lack of Selfcontrol and I've long crossed the hurdles of guys like u who try to bring down responsible girls to justify your Selfish desires and dump them when you are through Only to get back on a thread like this and say girls are bit.ches..
The same guy who advises the OP not to sponsor a girl because She will end up sleeping around, suddenly admires hoes...
Cheap Sex is Nice for you because you can't Afford the Original...
When the consequences of Cheap Sex hits you like unwanted pregnancy,Stds and Heartbreaks, you will be same person crying Wolf...
Only a foolish girl will deceived that Sex Makes a Relationship Strong..
If it were so, all the babymamas and Hoes would have had a better story to tell...
But I can tell you that The Fear Of The Lord is the entrance of Wisdom...But Fools despise it...
Well my Principles have landed me a Happy Home so I Stand a better ground to counsel you and all who have ears to hear...

And Yes I Met a Mugu who is now an Hero in Marriage cos his foolishNess handed him One the Most Reasonable and Supportive Wives on Earth..
In summary Learn to be a Mugu like my Man cos guys who claim to be smart are filing divorce papers daily with lot of regret.

Mine started at in Discoverers Class at a year nd 7months and it helped in every way...
Both in speech, Sensoral and Interpersonal Skills...

Earlier the Better

Olaone1:
Ok, sister. Let me ask you this question: did you do this because you're a virgin? Or you had a bit of 'previous'

I mean when did you get deflowered? The day you tied the knot?


Sorry oo, just try to put the pieces together

Did it because I had the fear of God, sound moral principles and knew my personal self worth...
Capital 'YES' I was a Virgin but this was my personal secret and told hubby as surprise Not like it was the basis...One does not necessarily need to be a virgin to realize her self worth...It's a simple Ive done it before, regret doing it and don't want to do it anymore....I've advised some Ladies to do this and it produced same results as being a Virgin...
It's the Lady's body and her opinion not the guys..
So it wasn't about been a Virgin but about Personal Principles...
I was Deflowered by my Hubby and I'm proud of it...

Reminds me of my final year in the university...
I nd 2 friends went to a secondary sch to invite their students for a youth empowerment programme aimed at upholding sound morals.
As we walked into the school compnd, We greeted the Principal nd introduced ourselves and what we came for...He just turned into his office, got a Cane and started Chasing us (Adults) saying he will flog us if we didn't run out of the school compnd. The Security told us to run out that he is an Old Soldier...
That was a Govt. School anyway.

It's difficult to believe that a Woman will so love her Hubby to brag about him but I do Cos He Loved Me First...

I'm a Strong Christian with Spelt out Principles, and been in need did not reduce my personal Value..So instead of building My relationship on Lustful Sex, I built it on God's Word, with focus on the future...
I remember we drew a sketch of the kind of House we will build in courtship, Named our Children, Spelt out our ambitions and goals...
In fact most of his documents I come across today as his wife shows He was already using me as his Next of Kin during Courtship...
We were already married in our hearts...
All we looked forward to was the physical joining to enable us have Intimacy and Live together..
I actually underSTATEd What he went tru for me...Believe it or Not, Few Friends I kept can attest to it...
And I went through alot with him too before God blessed him.
Various comments that finds it hard to believe a Little of what our Courtship really entailed makes me think of Creating a Topic with details of our Courtship process and Our Married Life Today...
My Only fear is details will easily make people identify me cos this is a Public Forum..
I'll seek consent from my Hubby...Maybe Val's Day will be a good time to do that...So singles can Learn that Love Is Sacrificial...It's about Giving...It's about Trust...

Olaone1:
Slept in an uncompleted apartment?

And, no sex oo
Nairaland, o ga oo
Lai Muhammed

If we were having sex, we will obviously have broken up...Cos I wud have seen no need in been loyal to him since he was getting his reward for his deeds already.
Sex is Sacred, not Cheap, and goes with a price 'Brides Price'
Having sex with a girl in the 1st place really gives you nothing to look forward to...So Cheating by both parties is most times inevitable.
A man respects you more as a girl when he has not slept with you and can do the Unbelievable to make sure you are his...
The guy I would have initially dated agreed that it was a no Sex affair but latter Started asking for it and backed out since I'm not a Cheap Sex material or a free giver...But when he was ready for Marriage, he was all over me begging like a Fly but it was too late Cos a Deserving Man who knew my worth had swept off my emotions...

Fawklicant:
My dear as much as we all like to be socially compliant, many of such men secretly wish they had a male. Even the women too. Genealogy is traced through the male, not female. If you are lucky enough to get the best of both worlds, all good and well. If not, count your blessings still and make the most of it.

By the way, how are Obama's kids much more valuable than anybody else's? If one person is to be chosen for execution between say your loved ones and Obama's kids, who do you think you'd pick?

Your points don't have much to do with education, you are just trying to be socially correct likw everyone else.

I refered to Obama's girls cos the person I quoted talked about a male being more valuable than 40 females which is the Fattest Lie...Just tried to make him understand that the value of a Child is not in its Gender...I'll Love and value both my Sons and Daughter equally...
Thats why I said Obama's Daughters are more Valuable that a Thousand of his Sons..

holyokoto:
Beauty or whatever, most of us are mature and understands the Principles of our contemporary time. Any lady that came out Giving false credit to a man He has married to as you are doing in this blog has a serious hidden agenda. No one is jealou.s you before you come to a wrong conclusion. Just that someone like me can't inhale all your fabricated Lies!

Well I didn't create a thread to give Credence to my Hubby...I only commented on a Thread that provided a platform to share my personal experience...
If you feel jealous about the Credence, wait till you get Married. I love my Hubby, im Happily Married, earn well, and a mother at that..so i wonder what hidden agenda i have on a blog like NL.
Not looking for Date...Married
Not Seeking for a Job....Employed
Not In Need of Children... A Mother
Learn To Trust People...Not everyone has an hidden agenda.

Damfostopper:
All these married and single yeye creatures of bitches saying my husband did dis n dat.... I dump him cos of arrogant n bla bla bullshit.... If u ask dem if d will allow their brother do it.... Dia answer will b No..... Op.... D earlier ur realize wassup d beta.... Rule 99 says... Marry a gal n sponsor ha... In fact impregnate her in d process.... Not doing something u will live to regret

Calling a Married Woman who gives credence to her hubby the Creature of bitch really means you are mean..You didnt spend a dime on me and you have the courage to type such rubbish. What would you have done if you were the one who sponsored me??I see why you can't have a sincere girl as a date...Seriously, i don't blame guys like you who have no regard for Ladies, i blame the Ladies who are too mean to open their legs cheaply for guys like you...

You can state your opinion without being Rude. TaThanks

Omotolu:
...you are an ancient lady borne before 21st century. Ladies of the present age are tiger...

Still in my 20s

AJboi:
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Why u no show us ur face make we knw who dey talk?Mtchewwww.... U hide face dey lue for us.BETTER RESPECT URSELF ON DIS PLATFORM. We don hear plenty stories, ok?!

[quote author=AJboi post=42551174]too
Why u no show us ur face make we see who dey talk.Mtchewwww....Abeggi, make we hear word..



If a guy like you talk this way to a Married Lady, you obviously do not have respect for the Female Gender and no responsible girl will be attracted to you talk less of sticking to you whether you Pay her Bridesprice or Impregnant her..Please work on urself...

Please to all who feel I'm telling lies...
I don't know the Op nor is the girl my Sister so why should I come here to type all that or what do I stand to gain or loss if She ends up been a Graduate or Not..
No woman brags about her Hubby if los not deserving...I owe no 1 apology 4 giving credence to my Hubby. If you feel pained, be a Deserving Husband to your Wife and earn some respect..

Please feel free to quote me and express ur opinions, but I have a good esteem and despise guys who do not learn to be gentlemanly and address every Lady as they would address Some paid Bitch...

Please Note...
I'm Happily Married and don't seek any form of recognition from any guy on or outside this thread. Thanks

sukkot:
yeah let me guess - you are a biafran ?

Unfortunately I'm NOT...
I'm a Nigerian.

razortruth:
Any man without male child is naked both now and in the grave despite fourty female children. Congrat FFK

I'm sorry I don't insult pple but you deserve to be insulated...
If I should probe further, I will find out that you are such a stack illiterate with no future ambition and your so called sons will be quick to dump you and your Surname in the 1st generation cos no Sane son will want to associate with an Insane Father like You except they end up Insane Agberos..
Go and get Educated..
You need Enlightenment..
Obama has 2 daughters that are much more the value of a Thousand of your spilled Y chromosome...

sukkot:
no man in nigeria has the integrity of buhari. i repeat, no man born of woman

Integrity isLooking for men with Integrity to Occupy ministerial positions throughout the the 36 states of Nigeria nd FCT and finally Got
Amaechi
Lai Mohammed
Fashola and what have u...

Integrity is witchhunting PDP members while keeping a closed eye and rewarding all who stole Civil servants money to sponsor His Political Ambition...Infact Amaechi is yet to pay Corpers their Allowance.
Go check your dictionary for the meaning of Integrity or Ask Google.

DeMekus:
See your mouth like simply increase her alawee to like 30 or 40k. How many Nigerians earn up to that as monthly salary?

Did you read the Op's initial post
He said he works and has the ability to train her...

Back to your question, lot of guys earn far more than that...Infact some earn that daily..
If he doesn't have the resource, he won't think of training her..

Op is ur girl not normally entitled to monthly allowance and basic upkeep? If yes simply increase her alawee to like 30 or 40k and let her do with watevr she wishes with it...I'm sure she'll naturally sort out herself this way and still have a raised shoulder and high self esteem be4 evry1.. The Word TRAIN can be out of ur HEAD since she will necessarily not come to you asking for fee or dues....
If she decides to sacrifice Brazilian for Books with d alawee good for her..

On the other hand knowing her background is what makes u think you gonna train her...If she pretends to be 1 big babe and at the end of the Month calls you for 50k to buy clothes and other stuff, I know you will naturally make immediate transfer to her and tell her to manage it..while the babe will just use the cash to sort her sch Bill..
The problem is Guys don't value Real girls..They prefer Pretenders..

Atmmachine:
Tell me two reasons why i should go to church

1. Because Jesus loves you and is willing to wash you in his blood, purify you, sanctify you,forgive you, and give you eternal life so you may not rot in hell..
2. Gathering with the brethren strengthens your faith If you've met numbr 1 above..

I learnt to be Grateful to God...
I remembered how gracious he has been...

Sex is sacred...Between a Man (Adam) and his wife a Woman(Eve)...
Whenever man tries to do otherwise, the end result is always shameful as seen in the case of Daina...
When girls have sex their reward is usually a bowed Head...
Since My Daughter's head must be raised Wife and Mother, I'd rather teach her the fear of the Lord which is the beginning of Wisdom rather than the way that leads to Shame, Reproach and Babymamarism...
It's shameful for any other guy to tell the colour of my Daughter's Clitoris aside her Hubby...
May God grant you the desires of ur Heart and Grant Me the desire of seeing My Daughter walk up to the Alter taking her vow as a Virgin to a Responsible Godfearing Man and being the Mother to Godly Children...Amen

Wow! Great!! Really strengthened my faith and reassures me that i've got a God who makes impossibilies possible. ..

Hmmm...
With some adjustments, Capital Yes...As long as my parents esp my dad will face reality and do the right thing at the right time. Like go to school, get a job, do a business, hussle real hard and get enough money to fend for his kids and not leaving us to fate like he did...
Though he gives the best moral and emotional support, I suffered so much humiliation and unnecessary pains, lack, and insecurity cos of His poor foresight that made us broke at a time T.

safe06:
Thanks rukemi291,faith111,chigoizie7,your prayers and kind words have strengthened my faith,may God almighty make Your affairs easy..amin..

@iyabetajos,*hugs*..pray to join yoUr league soonest...

My dear everyone goes through stuff but God Is faithful...If I tell you my story u won't believe...Have you ever heard of Pprom?
Well my testimony is cooking

RoyalRoy:
[color=#000033] This is unrealistic.
No matter how bad your mother may seem, she can't definitely wish you evil.

Take a second good look at your mother and the circumstances surrounding her and be objective about it this time around.

I pray all will be well between you and your mum!!

Cheers [/color]

Please don't say unrealistic... That you have a good mum doesn't mean others do...I have a friend who gave birth to her first baby and her mum who stays about #200 distance away didn't show up till day3 after much calls..She said she didnt come because my friend's hubby didn't send her money to prepare for omugwo and she was aware that the guy didnt have much..in fact she went back the following day..Thanks to her mother-in-law who travelled down to help her..She didn't even bother her for the 2nd baby..
So not all mothers are important. Some are just too materialistic and will want you to even steal or break your home to satisfy them..Ive aunts who are like that..

My Mother-in-law acts in similar way n I love her 4 dat...She appreciates every thing you do 4 her..imagine during the eve, my mate sent lots of clothes worth hell of money and other stuff...I don't compete and won't exceed family budget cos i want to impress so i just called my mate and thanked her for been nice...but I was one of the first persons my Mother-in-law called on 1st of Jan to say Happy Newyr to and keeps calling to show she cares whether i give her bronze nd others gv gold...I felt Wow! this is who a mother should be and not just been materialistic ..
Well my own mum is late.