₦airaland Forum

Don't tell me people are going crazy or what?
What's wrong with kneeling for my hubby in secret or open? I think youths got to know marriage is NOT a celebrity paparazzi thing but a Heart to Heart feel.

Im my hubbys best friend. I can hit his head in public and as well kneel if i Choose.

After going through this, i felt like crying.
The whites have never loved us and have always looked for ways to crush our efforts in Arts, Medicine or whatever.

mydreams25:
And so i started my weaning process yesterday mehn its not easy i took my son to my mum's place which made it easier but am experiencing pains in my breast,couldnt sleep last night,they are so engroged.pls my seniors what can i do to reduce the engrogement?am already wearing firm bra,can i squeeze out little to relieve me or i should just leave it but for how many days wil it try up completely? pls am in pains o. help out

Don't stop abruptly next time. Stop slowly by cutting down on the number of feeds.
This way, the baby starts adjusting and your milk production starts reducing. At the end your baby weans off naturally without itch and you cease to produce milk without feeling pains.

Pressing out milk will make the breast fall. Start using a smaller bra (pre lactation size possibly) to keep your breast firm. It will both decrease milk production and keep your breast firm.
If i tell you ive breastfed you will never believe cos there is no difference in my the way my breast looks pre and post lactation.

1. Expose diaper area to fresh air for some minutes when you are less busy.

2. Wash diaper area with water and a clean wash cloth Morning, Afternoon, Evening and after each bowel movement.

3. Use Pampers premium care. It has lotion that protects baby skin from diaper rash.

4. If it persists and spreads more after 2-3 days, see your paediatrician.

I've been seeing this topic but never clicked till now...
God grant her speedy recovery.

I'll do my best as God helps Me.
Thanks to all who have contributed so far.
God bless you all.

sonOfLucifer:
R u sure? He left about 3000mw, PDP spent over 20billion dollars on power. Today, Nigeria has the most expensive darkness in the world.

What has power gotten to do with THEFT...
If Abacha had invested that sum in various sectors of the economy at the prevailing Exchange Rate of His time, we know where we would have been now as a country...
Imagine returning such funds now that the Naira is almost valueless

utenwuson:
I grow up wt my elder bro, we live 2geda b4 he even get married, I don't c y d wife should send me on errand, I do things I want 2 do, like take my bro cloths to laundry, wash his car @ tyms, I even cook cos she was friendly, d moment she started seeing it dt is mandatory I help her I quit helping her, I will voluntarily mess up d whole place dts how we guys tend to grow, even mum cnt send me wen she s hard on me, but I can do anything 4 her wen she sound nice n friendly

If you were my BIL, you will certainly be typing this carp from your village. If it were your sister's house will you act like that? You sincerely don't regard your brother and I fault your upbring.

utenwuson:
if he s not living with u, u won't cook? who fetches d water wen he hasn't come? leave dt boy mk he groove no be house boy

You're not married...I'm right cos there's no need to ask.

She should fetch water and cook for a teenage boy...will her son act that way?

SmartMugu:
The most painful part of this story is the gentle dead man that was dug out of his own house when everyone already thought he's resting in peace.

When a man marries Different Women he seizes to know Peace...Even the Peace of death is denied him cos his place of rest will be dug without regard since he likely left no legacy for them like good education and sound morals.
In Ibeju Lekki Children digging up their parents grave and selling it is no news...

MoneypassGod:
some pple sef. U made about a million naira frm armed robbery and d first thing dat came to ur mind was to buy a car... Really?? Wot will a car add to ur pathetic life, just to show off i guess. Smh! Why not use d money to invest in a profitable business so dat u can stop dis shameful and risky act as soon as possible.

Stolen money is never used properly.
If invested, the investment will crash in no time..
I know of people who stole so much from their ogas biz to start theirs. Guess what? 2 are no longer in biz. 1 is still on but I ddoubt how far she will go

DeathStroke007:
uncompleted building.. 18 dead. what kind of people rent an uncompleted building?

It was not rented...These people are site labourers, site cooks e.t.c.
Lots of them come from afar to huddle...
Instead of paying T.fare from their meagre daily pay, they remain in the Site and work for days,weeks or months to enable them safe a lot..
And it helps them complete their days job since they start work early instead of going tru the regular lagos traffic.

Stories. We know the owners of lekki gardens.
Nothing will happen, just gragra for media and masses.
I just feel for the victims and bereaved.

amiskurie:
The foolish Richard guy needed to be arrested,I had reported countless times to the EFCC about the activities of him fronting for Jonathan's government without them taking actions.

Jonathan's Government?
What happened to Tifnubu....
Investigate properly you'll know the real owner of Lekki Gardens

We all know the politician behind Lekki Gardens.
Richard is immuned believe me.

I wonder when we will come to the realisation that all that glitters on the social media is not Gold...
You'll be shocked the reality is as dull as a clay bag.
What is in Celebrating Ann as his woman when he might even be on bed with a prospective baby mama while posting this...
Youths be Wise...
Tuface has no legacy whatever to offer when it come to Marriage Nd is not a Role Model in this regards. Neither is Annie the BabyMama turned Wife.

No 10+.....

Nothing wrong with a 10yr age diff.
Ladies are more mature in their thought and dealings than guys of same age bracket..I think age should bridge the gap.

[quote author=rottennaija post=4him3290]Sacrifices have to be made if we are to succeed in turning the economy around. Everyone has to sacrifice, but we will all have reasons to enjoy[/quote]He has to lead by example, don't you get?
The sacrifice should begin with his kids..

Are these girls still single?
What happened to getting married at 13?
Just for the poor and less privileged I guess...

Beautiful Couple. ..
With money, beauty is possible.

Thank you JESUS!

Sunday School makes you learn more about God.
It strengthens your faith in God.

HungerBAD:
What? what is the definition of idle?

Is there not a clause in our Banking Laws that stipulates that Monies left after a certain time idly(hoarding) in the Banks, should be reported to the C.B.N who in turn have the powers to convert it into Federal Government Money? Cant the C.B.N name this owners of this $20 Billion? who are these Nigerians sitting on top of this money?

The Government should identify, arrest and prosecute those Nigerians who are guilty for the slide in the value of the naira by embarking on dollar speculation.

This Government is working.

You are very funny...Who told you it is a crime to safe your money in foreign currency?
People who are economically inclined do that to retain the value of their money when the value of the Naira is unstable and depreciating.
Can you imagine what will happen to their cash in Naira if our currency is devalued...
If you got some millions in your Naira account you will understand what this concept means.
The CBN governor should stop starring at its Citizens pockets but rather look inwards and come up with policies to strengthen our Naira...
Does he want to say that he doesn't have some dollar lying fallow in his domi accnt?

This news is true o...
I met a Woman today whose relative was among those abducted.
I can't imagine what this country is turning into.

AloyEmeka9:
Do you know the quantity of cholesterol in egusi can kill you in a short time?. eat okro and stop eating too much egusi.

Please stop misleading people.
Melon seeds contain healthy oil and it is known to reduce cholesterol and keep the heart healthy.
Please go and do more research.

Good one....
But how do you combine stockfish and tomato

Please use enough curry...
Colouring is not healthy.

INFOTECH2:
Thank you all for your kind words. It finally happened by 6:55pm this evening.

A Boy has been gifted into my family by the Almighty.

Very grateful to the Almighty for this miracle and I also pray the guidance of the Almighty in his upbringing.

Thank you all

Congratulations. To God be the glory.
Safe delivery to all the pregnant ladies...
Your expectations will never be cut off..In Jesus Name, Amen.

Hope baby has arrived?

Please if Labour is not progressing opt for a C.S...

I wish her the safest of all delivery.

ronald4lif:
This is the most silly thing I have read in a long while I must confess. Marriage is not a refuge for laziness neither is it a shelter to abdicating individual's responsibility.

If you want a slave for a hubby go mould one, if you want a companion then you must be able to contribute significantly and financially I must add.

You want a man to finance every thing in the home including your pads then you must be silly.

A silly wOman expects her husband to finance all family needs but a Wise Man expects his wife to carry his babies for 9months, nurse them, wash , clean, cook, serve him,respect him,........get ready for sex when he needs it and STILL leave the house by 5am to make Money...
Only a Lazy man fails to accept his Responsibilities and its a big Shame on him.

MRBrownJ:
this deluded guy has the right to his own opinion but, to insinuate that this is how each and every men out there should function, is utterly rubbish. the majority of marriages MUST be 50/50 for the sanity of each participants.

what is important to note in this issue is that, it is also wrong because:
A) such men pay for everything at home therefore OWN everything (house, car etc) and therefore in time of divorce, these dumbass women will be left with old Louboutin pair of shoes, while these men will get the house/car they paid for.

B) since they pay for the important family needs, such men call the shots when it comes to important family matters, while these deluded women can decide what Louboutin pair they can buy.

C) the deluded women who will agree with such nonsense probably dont have a cent to their name and EXPECT such man to buy the Louboutin shoes for them anyway, because any smart woman would know better and invest her money wisely.

D) paying for the important family's needs is a must for all wifeys unless they wanna be SLAVES to their union. sadly, we all know that many deluded women bring absolutely NOTHING to their union and have no choice but to be slaves anyway.

You are totally biased.
A) When a legally married man divorces his wife, all he has is split...So you are wrong.
B) It should be a woman's pride that her husband calls the shot to important family matters unlike small boys of these days who wait 4 their wives to spoon feed them.

C) A woman changes her name to dat of her husnhusband when married so has no other name to protect. It is the responsibility of a reasonable man to provide for his wife and make her look flashy.
D)If paying for important family needs is a must for all wives, then babysitting, cooking and all important domestic needs is a Must for all Husbands.

If you know what pregnancy entails.
If you know what nursing a Child entails.
If you know what domestic cores entails.
If you know what home keeping entails...
Then You Will Obviously Know a Wife has her clearly defined role which is 'Must' while Man has a Must do...
I work and assist wilfully and its Never MUST.

blessedtwins:
Faith111 the nearer phase 1 d better for me

Ok...Schools in that area are quite costly.