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Holyfield1:
This is not even about us misleading you or anything but my brother just do it... Don't waste the slightest of time, I've been in your shoes before, she was a virgin too and awaiting admission. Everything changed immediately she got to school, got deflowered and came back to me. Had my share though but the love was no longer there, she went back to the guy that deflowered her. We dated for a year and 8 months. If you don't do it now you'll be sad and disgusted when another guy does it. You'll be traumatized, save yourself that stress and the imminent emotional breakdown by doing it now.... A man gats do what a man gats do...

Thanks bro..
You understand my point.
Things change when girls go to school.

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Sparkyhayzee:
Did they pay your bride price before they disvirgin you?

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Sparkyhayzee:
Did they pay your bride price before they disvirgin you?

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Sparkyhayzee:
Did they pay your bride price before they disvirgin you?

Zhahovic:
What is deflowering again..?.. Is it similar to debugging in my phone USB settings?
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Seriously!.. If u really want to marry her deflower her and stick to her... And also try to marry her before she enters that university!..
There is no crime in early marriage and besides once she gets into that Uni... If u don't marry her, she could become very slippery and forget you

I'm glad someone understands my point.

femi4:
you will not marry her, you just wanna be her first.

After opening her drink, you all lose interest. I know your type wella....Bottle opener

I've stated my reason for wanting to do it..
I'll marry her if she stays loyal but in case she doesn't,since shit happens,I'll be happy I am her first..
I know it is selfish,that's why I'm confused.

Sixfeetbelle:


Imagine the audacity.

In this era of scarce virgins and a nigga is passing through them like ping-pong ball.

Virgins ain't scarce..
Maybe you look in the wrong places.

gift2xl:
He's likely to do such. Because base on his read, his love is based on the girl's virginity.

Read again bro.
I never planned on sex.
It came up when the number of guys pursuing her drastically increased plus she'll be going to school soon.

hashtagged:
Ill make a bet when he sleeps with her he will loose intrest in her.

You'll lose bro.. Unless she cheats on me.

OscarJaden:
she's just dating you cus she hasn't seen a higher bidder,so if you wanna disvirgin her den go ahead,it your choice

She isn't materialistic at all.
At least for now..
I love her.
Wanna keep her till we get engaged officially.
But I might lose her when she goes to school.

merieam16:
hmm...er u telling me that those few u've deflowered u didnt at that time love them or wanting to marry them?

Anyways, u deflower her or not that doesnt guarantee u guys getting married.So its left 4 u to decide either doin wat d devil asks u to do or follow d right path by letting d girl be so she focus on her future

I did.
And this might turn out the same.
I want to have her if that will be the case..
And I don't want to,at the same time.
I love this girl so much.

XiaomiFanBoy:
You better take that flower

If not once she enters our domain (School). We will help you take the flower till the the flower pot will be wide enough to accommodate a tree .

Yesterday is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is offering you a present grab it with both hands.

I love this girl to the point of wanting to keep her till we are engaged. But this is exactly what I'm afraid of bro.

hashtagged:
I probably cant give an advise cause ........

But if you love her you would do whats best for her, not by your own greed, there is a high chance she will leave you and loose it to another man, she is 18 after all, but love means doing whats best even if you dont end uo with her take her welfare into consideration, dont disvirgin her.

how was my speech

Thanks bro,I have a lot of thinking to do tonight.

Ayemileto:
According to the story, the girl never wanted to have sex yet, till after marriage.

But so far, OP has successfully brainwashed her into giving in to his demands, and that's probably why his conscience is disturbing him, making him come here for "support".

OP isn't looking for advise, he only needs people to support/encourage him so he can convince himself that what he wants to do isn't bad.

But not minding how much encouragement you get from this forum, it's only you that will bear whatever consequence that comes after the romp. None of those who supported you will be there then.

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Also, you appear to be a selfish self centred individual. It appears you are much more concerned about the "Virginity" than the lady herself.

All those ladies you claimed to have deflowered before, is it not someone that will marry them?

Then why should you be scared that you may lose out on this one, even if you really want to marry her?

Or you want to marry a virgin, or be your wife's "first" but you are going around deflowering as many ladies as possible, and making them hoes for their husbands?

You see, having sex with a lady who isn't mentally or emotionally ready for it is like loosing a nut on her head. That few minutes enjoyment will only make her a hoe, and she'll never be able to recover from it.

The reason is because after enjoying it, she will want to keep enjoying it and exploring as much as she can. And when you're no longer available, or able to keep up with her demands for it, she'll find an alternative. And the more alternative she finds, the more slutty she becomes.

And at the end of the day, you'll never marry her, because you'll catch her cheating on you over and over again, and on each occasion, she'll keep apologizing.

But not minding how much she apologize or regret cheating on you, she won't be able to stop the habit, because she's enjoying the slut spirit you planted into her.

Finally, you won't be able to keep up with the heartbreaks...

...And you won't marry her...

You've made a lot of sense bro..
I really love this girl and won't wanna lose her.
I totally agree with you and I take every word seriously.
But bro,someone else might do it..
That is my fear..

alexistaiwo:
Bros, talk true.
You, me and every other OGs on this thread know the babe never reach 18.

Murdafvcking pedophile!

She's 18.. And I rude pass you. So chill mate. Even if I lie,you go fit beat me? I dey fear you?

jidamsel43:
You are seeking for our advice on how to destroy another person's daughter

Read my post again.
I love the girl,I want to marry her.
I still wanna be her first.
Not doing it now puts me at risk of losing that.

[quote author=lograr post=92347836][/quote]You want me to lie? Cos I could easily do that.

vincenteger:
Do you think taking her virginity will make you be fulfilled as a man?
My dear don't start what ever you know you won't end well with

Humans changes with respect to time
Don't be surprised if she finds someone that is better-off you tomorrow
Na woman she be ooo
Let her be
Them get manu date & Exp date

If you love her continue to love her and let things slide
Sex na just some minutes pleasures ooo
Tomorrow you will say, it's not your
that you poured it out

Taking her virginity isn't a security measure.
She actually wants me to take it.
I'm a realist,she may fall in love with someone else and I may completely lose out and never make love to her.

illicit:
Leave her flower alone sir

ok thanks

missjo:
If you have to ask, then it's probably best you don't do it.

Your doubts and uneasiness will make it too painful for her cos you're in the right state of mind to deflower her or any girl for that matter.

I've deflowered quite a few but I really love this girl and would wanna marry. I really don't wanna have sex with her now till when I've engaged her officially. But still,I'm a realist.Shit happens,I may lose out entirely and never ever get to make love to her.

ayesco202:
Do what you think is the right thing.

I really don't wanna do it. But I may lose out entirely..

Guys I have this 18yrs old girl who I intend to marry as soon as I'm settled and she's done with her University.She's currently not in school yet.We love each other so much,she's perfect for me and I swear I wanna marry her.We are compatible on almost all facets of life.Though we have our differences but we balance eachother's negative traits perfectly and hers are traits I'm sure I can endure and keep up with.
Now the problem is that she is a virgin and I initially agreed to wait till when we get married,maybe 4-5yrs from now before I deflower her.But this girl is so so beautiful and perfect physically.She's a goddess of beauty and as expected she gets so many male attention.I got scared she may fall in love with someone else(I'm a realist),especially if and when she gets admission,so I talked to her about it and she agreed to give me her virginity tomorrow when she comes to my house.The thing is,as much as I want to deflower her,I still wouldn't want our sexual life to start now.I want it to start when I've officially engaged her and met her parents but I may lose out and end up not being her first.
What should I do when she comes tomorrow?
Advise me please.
I need to know what to do before tomorrow.

jj

I wonder who you expect to believe this story..
You were arrested and taken to a guest house and raped.till dawn and throughout the whole experience you didn't say anything?
You followed them into the guest house ?
Come on be truthful.
You were accosted on duty and the police officers patronized you but seem to either have not paid you or paid you in full hence the rape allegation..

27. Nigeria is being governed by an immortal .. A president that gets younger with age.

I'm looking forward to a Nigeria where "Gossiping" will be made illegal and punishable by death.
I seriously don't understand why Nigerians can't mind their businesses.
They'll even go as far as fabricating stories and exaggerating to make their road side side gossip more interesting.
What confuses me most is why someone you know,someone you're close to would approach someone else and tell them you did something or said something you actually never did or said.
If it's an enemy or someone you ain't close to,it would've made a little sense but someone you're close to and didnt quarrel with for whatever reason.In fact,someone who still greets,smiles and talks to you like he/she loves you(because they assume you're oblivious of what they said you said or did).
What could be on the minds of such people?
What propels such behavior?
Is this an illness?
What do they wish to gain?
Can someone explain this to me?
I'm rarely confused but with this,I am confused .

Led astray by preeq.
Her parents shouldn't worry too much,she's probably in a boyfriend's house.

What does this goro chewing,snuff sniffing retard know about football?

Minister of GANJA resources..

Poseidon000:
abah.marvelous000@gmail.com
Is correct

Ok I just sent you a message. Sorry I made a mistake with the name.

Poseidon000:
Sure.


But the email associated with this account is now defunct. Reach me here>> Abah.marvelous000@gmail.com

I'm being told the email address is incorrect..
Abahmarvelous000@gmail.com?
Is the dot between Abah and marvelous a mistake?

Poseidon000:
Sure.


But the email associated with this account is now defunct. Reach me here>> Abah.marvelous000@gmail.com

Ok bro.

Poseidon000:
For inexplicable reason, I like ladies that are way older than me. I don't even mind if she's 15yrs older.


It's an inherent disposition per se.

Bro you live in Abuja?
Can I PM you?

Check her zodiac sign.. She's either a Gemini or Libra. They can't stay committed to anything as they lose interest easily. Don't blame yourself.