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I've actually been called ugly but also been called very handsome. Infact people who think I'm handsome are more than the ones that called me ugly so I don't let that bother me now. And when people call me fat I just laugh because later other people will still say I'm not fat. I guess I'm created uniquely to confuse people. If you say I'm not fine you are right and if you still say I'm very fine you still aren't wrong.

[quote author=alabiexperto2 post=120379686][/quote]Just do your thing my bro. Nobody will believe you, but when you make it come and rub it on their face and when they ask for help charge them heavily for it. That's how the rich become richer, don't know how the poor become poorer though. That's what I plan on doing.

eseka12:
Okay I got ur point but am a very disciplined punter in disguise. Firstly I have a steady source of income aside punting, secondly I have not and will never play 2 sure odds with big money because there's nothing like sure game. As i dey here so am worth more than 50m both in monetary and landed property, but I nor go say make I use 5m take win 10m on 2 sure odds, dis is were punters get it wrong. If some of u guys were to be in my shoes una for don go broke for dis betting business. I don't bet everyday, except midweek games from top Europe league which is mostly played on weekends, so if to say league matches nor dey dis midweek i for nor bet until weekend. Great advice though 👍

God when?

Tenrack:
If you currently live abroad stopped me in my tracks

She prefers not mandatory you live abroad. So you can reach out to her if you want.

NerdyThings:
I'm looking for friends, females and males welcome. I work in a rare and fast-growing field. Two degrees and working on my third. I'm single and not looking for love per se but but I'm open to it with the right person, starting with friendship. I prefer if you already live abroad like me, but I'm willing to support the right person. I'm not in a rush for anything. "Slow and steady wins the race" is my motto.


Don't message me if
-you're in a relationship
-you're married
-you're a single father with kids
-you lack communication skills
-you have anger problems
-you have no knowledge of current events and can't hold an intellectual conversation.

Sent you a dm. But I live in Nigeria. And I tick all up you wrote up there. Let's see how current and communication savy you are because I've met many girls who doesn't know how to communicate but think they can. You probably will be current tho due to your degrees.

But the problem I have is how will you cope communicating with all the people who show interest in being your friend here? So I suggest you open a group chat on WhatsApp for this purpose where we could all chat and when the need to go private come up you can go to dm since you wrote up there that you want male and female friends. That way we can meet other people that might meet our sexual and romantic interest and shoot from there. You can add people from the state you are now even. Thank you

I was once in a bus too one day. Normal I used to avoid too much contact with female if I find myself seating beside them, so on this day I sat beside a pretty girl and as we almost got to the bus stop I put my hand on the headrest but this girl was trying to either put or take something from her pocket when are elbow was touching me. I didn't want to remove my hand not to look weak since she was just going to take or put something in her pocket but bethrens to my utmost surprise her hands didn't leave her pocket(her elbow continue to rub my hand) for Upto 2 minutes. I knew it was greenlight but as usual I was too timid to do anything.

pansophist:
Park one side.

There is no optimism here. The poster made it clear that he wants to nack, not enter a relationship with her.

If na your sister or daughter, maybe you'll give her this advice you wrote up there.

Well I was assuming they're already in a relationship.

Starboytwo:
wahray ni op, he can’t marry her, he should leave her alone, ahhh, hmmm, help us beg him. Oloriburuku feh baye omo lomo shy girl hey, ahhh, wahray.

Oh! I thought they were in a relationship already.

AlphaNugget:
Avoid see finish and try to be nice to people outside this space.

Another 5h to 10 people for airtime, just indicate network and your phone number

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First bank

pansophist:
Chai, na wa O. Leave her na. You just want to spoil her for her future man. Her past will now make it difficult for some men to wife her up.

She fit no be virgin again. And if she is OP fit marry her na. Let be optimistic sometimes.

Qatar2022:
Very big lie, she may keep him for what she gain from him

Exactly, all the girls have dated, either they guided me to that part or told me yes immediately. No playing mind games.

Winterhaven:
cutting her off is proving tricky for me.

It's you who is finding it tricky. You don't want to offend her. You don't want to be just her friend but still want to be her friend. You see how confused it sounds? That's how confused you are. I'm also in a situation like that. This one doesn't even call she just send good morning on WhatsApp, fine and you kind of message, that's all but will always do that especially when it's already looking like I've moved past her. Just sit her down and talk with her like i want to do. Tell her no problems being her friend and you wouldn't look at her sexually again(don't say romantically, sexually will drive home your point more and pain her, trust me girls love to be perceived sexually) ever again. Then tell her she should only call when she needs or give important information not checking up and those useless chitchat. That you guys are just friends do you don't owe her attentions or commitment. This just an advise sha, you may or may not use it.

Seun:
When she's gisting with you, if the gist is going in a romantic direction, call her out. Keep it strictly platonic and cordial. Not intimate. If she wants more than that, she will have to put a ring on it. If you can do this, delete her number without blocking her.

Let me just quote Seun for the first time in the history of nairaland. I can't believe I will find him here. Always thought he's somebody that doesn't even enter nairaland again, just somewhere outside the country enjoying his money.

Stephenmoka4:
Welcome... Don't send. Good night.

Stephen, Stephen. May God continue to bless you more and more may you never lack. When people are going to be paying back your reward it wouldn't be because you need them but it will just be to show that you accept their appreciation. I just remembered the other day he gave me data free. So I want to use the chance to say thank you again. God bless you infinitely.

FulaniBanzaNe:
You are right but your last sentence is not true. Betting is making a lot of guys bastardly rich and you would have think it's yahoo they do

Bro, you get update for me. I also believe that too. It's just a matter of patience and intelligence.

UnusualEmissary:
Not all poor people get rich sha and it doesn't mean they're not serious or not hardworking.

Just said I should add that not that I oppose your message that discourages women from rejecting broke men.

I feel like, you can do whatever you want, choose whomever you like and whatever you see there, bear it.

Exactly, not like playing the guy now and when things turn around you start yelping about how he was disturbing you when he was broke but doesn't give you face now that he has money but wouldn't mention that it was you who didn't agree to date him then.

Toosure70:
This is not the first one o. Peter Fatomilola was the first papa ajasco while Iya Awero was the first mama ajasco

How checked google now. It was true. Omo I'm impressed really.

Toosure70:
This is not the first one o. Peter Fatomilola was the first papa ajasco while Iya Awero was the first mama ajasco

Seriously? Or you just catching cruise? I can say I'm among the generation that watched Papa ajasco when it was newly broadcast and it was this on I knew.

2dice01:
That is how they do

They won't date you still won't leave you they will want you strap in their web giving you mix signals

All those epistle you wrote to her is what exactly she wanted

Just starve her of your attention
Don't reply her message
Snap with a prettier girls use it as your status(Operation Pepper Dem )

I so love this advice. Thanks bro, I will do that.

PureFace1:
Starve her of the attention she crave by all means and move on with your life, even if it means blocking and deleting her number if you can't ignore her chats.

You already told her your position so stick with it don't let her manipulate you into any friendship or get any of your attention, don't care whatever she thinks. If she is not ready to be in a relationship with you and you are also not interested in being her friend then she should stop talking to you, enforce that by all means and move on to someone else that is interested in a relationship with you.

Unless you have already fall deeply for her and just can't move on. Then you are already her dog lol

Thanks Boss. Will do that.

Guys help me with this girl matter. You already show no desire for me. I wrote epistle about how I can't be her just friends. If we aren't fvcking, we can't be together. But she still wouldn't stop greeting me on WhatsApp every fvcking day with her boring chats and all.

obembet:
Only foolish Yoruba will vote for Obi leader of unknown gunmen. Igbot never support or like YORUBA for once even though no tribe support them like yourba in Nigeria.

Brigadier Asebanjo comes to mind. How can someone support you because he feels your tribe was being subdue and at the first sight of disturbance you sacrificed him just because he's Yoruba and to what extent? To satisfy his tribesmen.

Eatfucksleep:
[ the lady no fine uote author=fattprince post=119925178]You guys should stop the hype. Bibianna is only a 5 or 5.5 at most even with her makeup.

I guess you trying to say "the lady no fine". Well you are not wrong.

MeZee:
So if women are as sexual as men why are they more selective

Can't you see the reasons there? Eggs are expensive, sperms are cheap. A lady can get pregnant only once in a year. A Man can impregnate 200 ladies in a month. All these and more are reasons they must be selective.

You guys should stop the hype. Bibianna is only a 5 or 5.5 at most even with her makeup.

crafteck:
So as atiku and obi are theives,who do you suggestis better?

Are you saying you don't know they (as the poster you quoted likes to claim) are under APC pay, the calamity that will befall them is worse than the one they claim will befall Atiku and Obi supporters because they support APC that is worst than those 2 combine.

Ybholy:
I don’t actually get. You mean the people they call chocolate? Like you’re one of us or entirely brown

Definitely one of you. I'm not an half caste oo. Yes, you can say chocolate sha

Badb0y4lyf:
Handsome is handsome either fair or dark but you being dark and still handsome is unmatched most fair guys would be ugly if dey were dark. Me photo of dark and fine.

I'm as handsome as this.

I really don't see myself as handsome before, Until the compliments started coming in I mean bot male and female telling me cute and fine to my face. I just have to accept it. And most actors I see people hype on tv both African and black Americans, I'm just as handsome as them if I have money. I've been of the opinion of handsome guys are light skinned guys and I'm not light skinned. Maybe that was why.

Ybholy:
Are you black or fair?

Which one be brown skin again.

I'm a lighter shade of dark. You know we have dark, fair and light in complexion so I'm fair.