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@Tundeseun..hugs* im really short of words

My fellow married to benin sister...i know youv said youv been married for 4 yrs......but u never disclosed if there ie any medical diagnosis...i think you should ask him for some time to exhaust all the options available to you people e.g. IVF before discussing divorce and if it doesnt pan out then you will give him what he wants.

I dont know hw they do it in benin or yoruba but in igbo land since its trad you guys did, the elders that followed him to ask for your hand in marriage will follow him you ask for divorce from your own elders...so this one is not lawyer matter...i also suggest you tell your parents whats going on and pray for direction from God

Hahaha..but she may have been on contraceptive na...with the intention of waiting one year before ttc

@udoka...what are you waiting for na...get on with it o jare...if you dont have energy for waka just order online .asos.com delivers to niaja....

@bcola...welcome and sorry to hear about the azospermia situation...from what iv read on this tbread...the next step may be to see a urologist and rule out undescended testes....i think i also somewhere that bridge (clinic) does something called TESE...where they extract sperm directly from the scrotum...and use it for ivf..i suggest you ask the question also on the Ivf thread...

Happy birthday Adedoyinsola...we thank God on your behalf for sparing your life for 30 years because we know that some babies that were born on the same day as you have not lived to see today. We thank God also for your marriage and we declare and decree that this time next year you will celebrate with your baby in your arms........relax and enjoy your day

@ mowafruiful...hugs* this journey is not easy...im less than two years in it and i kmow what it has costed me emotionally and financially....talkless of over 7 years...my prayer is that God will show you that he is with you and is incapable of forsaking you......it is well....it has to be

@ udoka, how the bump dey grow?

@honeypie i guess it depends on her height...i have a friend that weighs 60kg and is overweight cuz she is not too tall

gabrieli: Back in naija, if not for language barrier, paris will be my preffered destination for holidays, though, a bit expensive. The wedding ceremony i attended in Vannes was a full fun. Cheers

Great...welcome back

coolmrjohn: Honestly, i'm so happy over this topic, I realy want to travel but i dont have the money agent are demanding from me and it was somebody that want to pay for my visa fee,but you know what it mean and how it goes when someone who is not from your family is helping you, Please! my dear friends,
can anyone tell me any country i could get free visa? Or if anyone can help me travel to any country? i'll appreciate it and i promise he/she will never regret it.i'm 23 year and wish to do anything.My email johnsamuel1808@yahoo.com

Free visa!!!!any country?? My dear, there is no country called any country and you are just 23...sit down and plan your life properly......have an ambition and pray and work towards it...there is an adage that says if you dont know where you are going...any road will take you there.....

coolmrjohn: Honestly, i'm so happy over this topic, I realy want to travel but i dont have the money agent are demanding from me and it was somebody that want to pay for my visa fee,but you know what it mean and how it goes when someone who is not from your family is helping you, Please! my dear friends,
can anyone tell me any country i could get free visa? Or if anyone can help me travel to any country? i'll appreciate it and i promise he/she will never regret it.i'm 23 year and wish to do anything.My email johnsamuel1808@yahoo.com

Free visa!!!!any country?? My dear, there is no country called any country and you are just 23...sit down and plan your life properly......have an ambition and pray and ork towards it...there is an adage that says if you dont know where you are going...any road will take you there.....

No originals of anything is acceptable at the french embassy. Make 3 copies of everything you are submitting or be prepared to do it for 100 per page at vfs

@honeypie welcome and thanks...
@all just trying to return to my pre vacation weight of 70kg before i set new goals...im 73kg now....target weight is 65kg

@ wonyi so you are my inlaw people...benin people no easy....i also have 6 sister inlaws...dh is the onky son and last child so imagine....una no easy o! I throway salute......

@ chock8ly...do you have open tubes? Is dh's sperm super solid? I think the dr jumped the gun a bit if the answer to the two questions are yes...i think what you need is ovulation induction (if you dont ovulate on your own) and follicle monitoring plus timed intercourse first

@ omonikiba....welcome from peeping

@wannabe mum...congrats on dh's job......that's what we pray about....dont worry you will be fine...im coping with 6 sister inlaws from a diff tribe too...just do what you will want to be done to you and a little more..God will help you

@nma girl... what you are going through is tribal differences...its not really a yoruba thing....im married to a benin guy and i had issues even understanding what they expected from me when we first got married, my inlaws always had something to complain about anytime their path crossed with me (not to me directly but to dh) up till the extent i started dreading seeing them and luckily they dont live in lagos.

My sister its easier for me now...the most important thing is to ensure you dont have problems with them as dh as advised you (wisely). At least you underetand what makes them happy. When there is a family occassion pack a change of cloth and put in yoir booth...try and close early and go straight there after work or if you can take the day off....its just a day or two....brace yourself and mix well with them...you need your inlaws on your side in a marriage with children talkess of ttc

Try o! Inugo?

@wonyi like i said its because of uniformity of the results.....even the cd 21 test assumes one must have ovulated on cd 14 /15...for women with pcos they may ovulate later so the cd 21 may not be applicable

Hey muma...good of you to check in...65kg is ok na...thats my target weight....what is your height?

Log for today:
Breakfast: 2 oranges
Lunch: indomie and 3 egg whites
Dinner:1 orange and oatbar (hopefully)

Cd2 is ok....even cd1......cd 3 is just widely used for uniformity of results but the dr...will be able to interprete it for you and the same range still applies

@tundeseun...im happy for you. Na wa...this ttc journey no easy...even the one that u are not suffering from some drs will try and slam it on you. The kther day it was Nictos and Tuberculosis....

May God see us through

Of course who says 15million count is needed for conception to take plac...even lower has been know to wolrk for some people even on this thread

@merciful 33m is very much ok. Il advice you to thread carefully with manix especially as you dont need it...one of us here said manix reduced her dh's count.

Meanwhile i'll also advice you change your gyneo...since you obviously dont trust him or his decisions

@goldenbaby hugs

Congrats @mummyF...i did not realize you have gotten your bfp....must have been when i was on vacation

You will carry to term ijn
Meanwhile that scanty Af may have been imllantation bleeding

@oct20 i know the feeling...we miss ya too

Omonikiba how far?

MamaT Howfar?

Prettymoma howfar? You don born?

Nictos howfar? Im sure you are rounding up first trimester already

Always true where ya dey?

Doublebls i dont understand the conclusion of this your story do you mean you have walked out of your marriage

Whatever your decision this is a big hug from me to you

You are the one that knows where the shoe is pinching you...personally i hate and have no tolerance for domestic violence...cuz its him that has life that can talk of marriage or ttc.

I wont say you should have waited for the other guy or you were desperate cuz i know you did the bst you could for yourself at that time.

My prayer for you is that God will grant you direction, give you peace and a reason to smile again sooner than you expect

Amen...thanks lovee

I think you shoukd still try the fertilaid...it worked for some people too like hebrew woman

Yeah they are pain killers btw..

I support your dh for nlw cuz those berbal drugs...them no get dosage or monitoring

Its just 10 na....what time do u go to bed?

I know what u mean about clomid...its so hostile...used it for 4 cycles and it worked only once....the dryness no get part two. Wanted to go straight to injectibles then i found dh has a alightly lower count so we are trying to boost it now...thankfully he has giving up smoking and drinking alcohol

So for now im just on metformin

Regular ke. Iv never been regular since the day i started my period. My mum says its because of the feldene and cataflam that i take for menstrual pain....the shottest period iv had is 30 while the longest is 42...i had my first over 40day cycle with fertilaid

Been married for 18months, ttc-ing for almost a year

Double post

@wannabemum...hugs...dont worry...dh would soon be back....and as per job i pray he gets one soonest

I cant remember how much i bought the fertilaid...it was over 6k sha...i pay you find success with it as some have on this thread.....

@justwinnie its really up to you to dig dipper and fi d out what motivates you, weight loss especially for high bmis leads to improved fertility...but knowing that you will post your logs here may motivate you to eat cleaner

You can check previous pages for ideas on what to eat....and ad you post your log we can give you ideas as well

Ok. Lol

Yeah whatsup with twingirls

Breakfast: one oatmeal bar

Lunch: boiled potatoes and boiled egg whites

Dinner: pineapples