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@all im fasting this week..hence no post.

Il be back in full force on sat

@Amy...welcome to the thread and like seanbell has adviced the issue of high prolactin has been thrashed numerously on the thread...any pharmacy will have any of the drugs you mentioned

Were you diagnosed with pcos? That dint come out clearly in your post..

@seanbell.congrats your baby is so freaking cute....who says our God is not faithful...and the name sean is nice..

@nikkygal and all other pregnant mamas...pls feel free to post. Contuary to what you think, you guys and your posts and your stories give us hope and joy cuz you were once in the positon we are now.

@all...God is really faithful and i thank him because i know we will remember this month july 2013 for good ijn

Just read on linda ikeji's blog about the 32 year old make up artiste that died from complications of childbirth.

Its been a crazy bizare as we were confronted with the hard and harsh reality of ttc and marriage and some of us were reminded of fears or pains we will like to forget or pretend doesnt exist..

However let us not forget to thank God for life - ours and our DH.....and God knows best....maybe if this woman was still ttc-ing she will still be alive today.

Dear God,
A lot of things happen that we do not understand and with our own human minds, it makes absolutely no sense....but in the midst of our tears and hurt we submit completely to you, because your plans towards us are good and not of evil.

Help us to not forget how quickly you can turn things around for good.

For this remaining part of the year, we soak ourselves, our dh and our loved ones with the blood of Jesus.

We declare and decree that it is well with our souls

Thank you lord.

Goodnight sisters

MamaT i see you peeping....see! Even people on sabatcal have come out of hiding just for you...we love you

The last time all these people came out in this no is when udoka shared her testimony

Your testimony is on the way...the love and prayers everyone has showered on you today will not be in vain....heavens wll open up for your sake! Our father in heaven has taken note

@ beloved...what hav u been up to....! Its well with you ijn...waiting patiently for your own testimony

@omonikiba...take it easy it is well with your soul.......just keep praying for your dh and your marriage. GOD WILL look upon you and answer you with mercy

@mamaT...it is well with you. In as much as people are saying dont tell friends or family member....you know what is best for you...i dont believe in suffering in silence or covering up wrongdoing...im not saying shout it out on the roof top but he must be accountable to somebody else especially as he is a pastor...and you said an girl was involved.....that is an underage child most probably....i urge you to discuss it with the marriage couselling dept of the church, or your pastor's wife or somebody you both trust and look up to....someone he respects


For you to have said your mum that means you trust her and she is your mum....she loves you and im sure will not want to see your marriage end! So if you have that kind of relationshup with her and she is a christian wel grounded in the word pls go ahead with your plan to seek counsel with her...whatever you do dont deal with this alone and bottle it within you.

May God lead you aright amd its ok also if you dont want to give more details or talk about it further here

@alwaystrue i agree with you that mago mago goes on in fertility clinic because i read some days back on the ivf thread how the dr at regenesis persuades women to use a donor sperm for better results. That kain man can switch eggs or sperm durinf an ivf process just to get better results...but fear shouldnt hold us back. Even at the point of delivery...babies can be switched....let us prayerfully conduct our research...while also being careful and diligent. God will always lead us around

@wannabe mum when i used fertilaid was the first time i had a 42 day period. The longestcycle iv ever had before then was 37days..i also had three bours of midcycle spotting....so i ditched it..somepeople however have had testimonies from it


@iyabetajos i think the reduction in your cycle days is as a result of your weight loss in recent times

@omonikiba...thanks so much you have spoken my mind from beginning to end...

We need to start thinking of next steps...if you have tried clomid without success. Try injectables with ovulation trigger, if dh sperm is good try iui..if not try ivf...if ivf has failed try again as soon as you are emotionally and financially . Blendy, who happens to be my church member tried ivf 4 times and got her results from the 4th one....

While also doing this we need to take care of the spiritual and also pray for our dh...anyone is prone to temptation..

If dh marries second wife and she no concieve nko...what is the way forward 3rd wife...! These second wives can even bring child that isnt for the dh and say it is his so as to cement her position in the marriage...she fit even push first wife commot cuz nobody like to share...she fit even go to any lengths to make sure first wife no go ever born children....and a man that has two or more wives can still cheat..even man wey him wife don born 7 fit cheat.

This mamat's matter had me shedding tears....but we must not let our faith waver of fear to overtake our hearts.

It is well with us. Our matter is settled here on earth & in heaven.
My only prayer is that God wil comfort her and everyone going through similar in our midst and he wil open down the windows of heaven and rain bfp on us this month of july

@ venus...thanks for your post...i'm however curious to know...in cases where the man have zero sperm count....will you advice the woman to take another husband or will her husband advice her to take another husband

O my God. MamaT...im so sorry to hear this.......

This TTC matter na die! Lord abeg o. The devil is a big fat liar....all the darts and arrows be is throwing at us we return it back to him in the name of jesus

Iv said a prayer for you. May God comfort you and show you the next steps you need to take. Hugs*

It is well with you. GOD WILL restore your marriage...no one will reap where you have sown......

My thoughts and prayers are with you

@hawt mumie the transvaginal scan gives a good and clear view of the ovaries and uterus

udoka...how is the LO doing. Its always joy to read your posts

@Santengelo....spend more time praying with your wife..if possible ..add fast join...i think the dream s a revelation that that spiritual wife is still lurking in the corner

@adedoyinsola and nnmagirl happy birthday in advance. GOD IS packaging your birthday bfp for you

@iyabetajos..it is well. By God's grace tbis is the last time you will see her for the next nine months

@ mamaT..i'm trusting God for double that no too

@ pink 22....so how did the dr interprete the results na....what did he say is the way forward

@mummyf she wasnt talking about bosom sucking o! Its the senior to that one.....and bosom sucking only imitates lactation in high prolactin cases

Welldone @all. I'll be kabashing my way into july (the second half of the year). May the Lord grant us utterance

@nice congrats on your sister inlaw..i pray tbe blessing will reach you too

breakfast: rice, salad and chicken
Lunch: 2 oranges
Dinner; 2 oat bars

@ Cjonne...amen..and amen

meanwhile this your story, na wa o! may evil not befall us o!

@ MamaT...when we hear stories like that, it reminds us that our story isnt the worst out there. May God grant the family the fortitude to bear the loss


Today is the 27th, the month is almost over. Dear God in heaven, let the testimonies you set aside for the month of June not be carried over to July in Jesus name. Pls look upon us with mercy and favor and reduce the no in the waiting room and as we march into July(the second half of the year), life, health and rejoicing shall be our portion...we shall not mourn or sorrow...Testimonies shall abound! open the floodgates of heaven Lord and let it rain BFPs in jesus Name. Let people hear and know that of a truth we serve a living God!

loig for today

Breakfast: 2 slices of wheat bread and 2 boiled egg
Lunch: 4 oranges
Dinner: 1 indomie

I'm in serious pain cuz of the insanity workout i did, i guess i'm really out of shape, so iv decided to give my body 3 days to recover. i will start exercising again on Saturday

@omomire yea, a couple of people on this thread have gotten pregnant with just one tube...try and make out time to read old posts, i'm sure you will be encouraged and more knowledgeable for it

@ Hawt mummie, i dey o! good you are taking a break, i am too! after 4 months of clomid...of which only 1 worked...i'v decided to give my body a break and just eat and live healthy for now.

@ Omomire, welcome, may your time here be short
@Say9n...sperm came out after 24 hours, that one dey serious o! make she seek medical attention ASAP

@ All just ignore Umpteen abeg! not everyone here is genuine...some people are preparing to TTC, bidding their time, so they can shove, either their product, their pastor or themselves down vulnerable people's throat. just taken any post/ advice you feel will be relevant to you and keep kit moving

@ Cjonne, don't worry your time will come soon. each and everyone of us know how you feel

Lol

@pink, thanks for responding

@nma gurl type pid into the nairaland searchbox. I knw iv read about it here on nairaland and he person is now a mom. Cant just remember who

@iyabetajos....i logged yesterday na

Today
Breakfast: 2 slices of wheat bread and egg
Lunch: moinmoin
Dinner: i'l have another moinmoin

@flakeey that is so sar. Do people still die of complications of natural birth or CS? Na wa o! May God give the family thr fortitude to bear the loss

@wonyi, i join you in rejoicing over the life of your dh. I soak yourself and your family with the blood of jesus and al of us in the forum. We shall not be widows, neither will our dh be widowers ijn. We shall vet pregnant and carry to term and have a supernatural birth ijn. GOD almighty will grant us life to see our children's children ijn

@doublebls, i suggest you seek deliverance babe.

@ venus, whatever the bad news you recieved. Jesus has the final say. Cast your burdens on him, it is well with you ijn.

@pink soon you will testify. P.s how do people know they have had a chemical,? Is it tbrough a positive hpt?

@all it is well with our souls. I pray God will have mercy on us and grant us our heart desires ijn

@omonikiba.....aw i remember your previous post about her. May God grant you all the fortitude to bear this loss ijn

@sure welcome...i hope you can get some motivation and inspiration from this thread

@all breakfast; one moinmoin
Lunch: beans
Just finished day one of the insanity workout

@iyabetajos. Hope you have made peace with your dh? Its well with you sis

@twingals, you can switch it up a little and see results. Youv probably hit a plateau

Amen and amen

Congrats mummyF. God be praised. I wish you a joyful 9 months

Congrats Ticha. God is great

@ all...i bought the fat free youhurt from park and shop and dint like it. No surprises though..im not a youghurt / icecream person.

Since i started this weightloss journey...iv bn on dano slim instead of full milk...again not really a milk fan but i ise it for cereal which is gd for weight loss because of the high fibre content

Breakfast@: cereal and dano slim
Lunch: peppersoup goatmeat
Dinner: nothing

Starting this wknd im going off fish and meat for two weeks. Im trying to my beans alone diet again

Goodnight ladies

Yay, read on the ivf thread that our weight loss sister Tisha is 7 weeks pregnant. After 10 yrs of ttc congrats babe

@newbies, welcome onboard, may God meet you at the point of your needs IJN

@ marriedbut lonely, i don't like to give people advice especially married women! but we are in June o! no sex for six mmonth plus and counting! i feel you need to find solution o, have you tried initiating sex, or talking to him, or doing your own investigation to find out if something (someone) is distracting him. Pls don't suffer in silence...i pray God will cause his face to shine upon you and restore your marriage.

@Iyandababs, the units of measurement differs from lab to lab, so you can't compare your results to others, looking at the control, yours fall within the reasonable band, so fear not, relax your mnd, and make sure you tell your gynea about the discharge from your bosoms when you meet with him to discuss the results, it may just be high on the normal side, but you can ask him to write you a prescription

Omonikiba, you'v said it already, everyone has down times....its ok....the most important thing is for it not to erode our faith. Hang in there.your time is now....

Congrats @Zenoj...how comforting