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@tbaby thanks. I dont have an answer to your questions, hopefully someone will do but noge that when questions go unanswered its not like people are ignoring you...just that they dont have the anser.cc@shiloh

@mummyf...the stress was with my boss not even Lagos normal stress cuz i live pretty close to the office. Thanks jare. Amen

@waistbead, how did your iui go? Hope well, long time no post, no peep....

@ nictos mama. Thanks for checking in. I pray its triplets thats in ur tummy
@mamat i was beginning to wonder what happened to you
@ chidinma...happy belated anniversary, i pray God will meet you at the point of your need
@all after resignation my plan was to concentrate fully on ttc, have time to go to the hospital, rest and do everything i need to do for conception.

However, today day 1 of sitting at home...i'v been so bored. I salute all the stay at home wifeys o! E no easy..abeg iv started pushing my cv out again. Pls say a prayer for me when you can

Breakfast: oat biscuits
Lunch: Boiled plantain & Banga & Fish

Dinner: Nothing (hopefully)

@mercifull

i dont think exercise will prevent you from conceiving. I personally noticed even before TTC that exercise makes my cycle longer, that and stress of any kind, change of environment, etc..i think it has something to do with PCOS & DHEA

so personally i have stopped exercising but people say exercising, weight loss, etc is gd for TTTC so i will say, if it doesnt affect your cycle, then you are good to go

my dear, read Seanbell's post, i think she mentioned at a point she was suicidal, her husband had to install a software that ban any page that has to do with conceiving, ttc, etc from loading, im sure you know today she is mama born boy.

Just hang in there ok?

Everyone here is going through shit, if i tell you i resigned from my job on the day before yesterday, what will you say, this is a time i need money more than ever, cuz TTC is expensive, i'm considering IUI, i'm considering IVF, there isn't a worst time to go from earning over half a million to nothing, cuz its not like iv found another job and its not like i have huge savings, the frustration here at my office was just too much, if i tell you i feel like a failure most of the time, im unable to succeed at my job, unable to succeed at conceiving, attacks left right and centre, even against my marriage, this is me that everyone used to call favored, cuz everything i touched (notice the past tense o!) turns into gold....failing at anything is foreign to me, i know if i allow myself start thinking i'l just slip into depression and i need to be strong for myself, for my future children, for my DH, for my parents.

i suggest you reason it well and take time off TTC, and gather yourself together.

@Tbaby4real..

don't get distracted, it means your testimony is closer than you think, the devil just wants to frustrate you. you have to rise up above it. everyday I all ask myself why me? TTC is very hard, but hey....for me personally, all the disappointment in my life have always turned out to be blessings, when i look back with hindsight,

If you commit suicide, you will now add widower to DH's childlessnes, your parents nko? your family, people that care about you and are there for you regardless of any situation? I hope suicide is beginning to sound selfish to you! what of eternal condemnation.

My dear, there are some of your mates that don't have husband, talkless of dreaming about child, some are crippled, etc...they will take childlessness any day to just be able to do things you and I take for granted like walking, etc

My prayer for you today is that God will meet you at the point of your need, that he will cause is face to shine upon ou and remember you for good.

Hang in there, your sorrow will soon be laughter....even after the darkest of the darkest nights, day must break abi? since you have been born im sure there is no day that you slept, and woke up and morning refused to turn up

thanks muma

@ Iyabetajos, iv abandoned my own metformin for a month now, one night i couldnt sleep at all, it was like my navel was being squeezed, plus i was on 1500mg and it made no difference to my period, infact i had 40 days, 42 days and 45 days cycle...maybe i should have gone up to 2,000 sha

breakfast - nothing
lunch- beans and plantain and fish
dinner - nothing

@ all, my fridge is still empty, so no breakfast or dinner which can seriously slow down my metabolism in a bad way..can't wait for the weekend to stock up

@ Twingirls, thanks o! don't worry, your own share of the chocolate is on its way to you...

@Jade, yes o! i hear slimming drugs in not only bad for TTC, its also bad for woman wey never born finish

@ Iyabetajos..coke ke? warn yaself o!

@nmagirl
carry go babes, nothing do you. I pray this month will be IT for you.

@twingirls

babe go and do a PT

camrygmail: I agree.

(Lol i just dey find your trouble ni)

lol.noted

@ Godsent

you made a lot of sense

Iyabetajos: favoured gal no mind me ohh.we wil get dere sha

yes o

yesterday: breakfast: Nothing
Lunch: beans, plantain and fish
Dinner: 1 kitkat (i need tog et rid of all these chocolates)


Today:

breakfast: 1 kitkat
Lunch: boiled plantain & Veg & Fish

Iyabetajos: Well i weighed dis morning n i noticed i dropped 2kg ONLY!!Walahi am nt happy at all.i was thinkin maybe 5or6kg.so am nw 89.we wil get dere sha.Jadareese my body dey itch me to cane u oh.no push me.weldone dear.

My dear...2kg is prooooogress congrats and remember rome wasnt built in a day! You are on the right track

jadareese: Hey sisters hope all ☀̤̣̈̇f us stil de on track unlike me wey derail yest(owambe come meet me for house S̶̲̥̅☺ couldn't help it .been kinda busy dats y i didn't log in all dis wyl@ twingals and @iyabetajos(..thx for noticing*kiss kiss*).m starting afresh cos walahi i don 4get d past days own.so for 2day,breakfast-4 slices ☀̤̣̈̇f wheatbread/1 egg/lipton tea, lunch 3 cobs roasted corn/coconut/2 wedges pineapple,dinner-hoping τ̅☺ skip D̶̲̥̅̊A̶̲̅τ̲̅ and make do wt lots ☀̤̣̈̇f water.welcome bk @favoredgal..hope d love de "su ugbuna" now ur back? And m S̶̲̥̅☺ tappin τ̅☺ dt annoiting ☀̤̣̈̇f urs oh cos in 9 mnths, na ntoii τ̅☺ devil.♍γ̲̣̣̥ darlin twingirls don't let d mood swing u abeg oh..u'd be surprised wat laughn can do S̶̲̥̅☺ take time out τ̅☺ do d tins D̶̲̥̅̊A̶̲̅τ̲̅ bubbles u up! @ all,baby dust τ̅☺ u,u and u.

Thanks dearie...hmm pineapple...iv missed it

omonikiba: Hallo mothers, how are we doing. Have really been busy, my G.mother inlaw(hubby's gra ma)is ill and I have been shuffling their place, my work, home and all. Its not easy, haven't had enough sleep for like three days now. God dey for her ooo, I pray God help me give her more years,want her to see my baby(babies), she always pray for it. Though she is a great grama already since 14years, but I want her to see my hubby's own too. God, thy will be done.

@GenBuhari, waooo, how lovely to hear from you, congrats on your wife pregnancy, she will definately carry to full term. You never hear or read? No more miscarriages on this thread, so be rest assured, you are a father.

@Favouredgal, welcome back, as you have said, so shall it be, we are waiting for your testimony.

@Sotum, congrats, God will do more for you.

@Udoka, weldone. How body? Am sure belly don dey show now abi? Remember u said you will do shakara ooo, so get nice gowns now you have not started getting them. God is with you love.

@All, we are closer to our miracles than before.

Amen. Thanks. I pray God grants your gran inlaw more years and i pray your lo comes very very soon. The lord will have mercy and make it so ijn

Btw where is mamaT

chidima: gudmorning all, have been feeling sad for sometime now. Don't know y i get this feeling. Oh God hear our cries and answer us. I need some upliftment. Myl my wedding annis is on the 13th of june. 4yrs of marriage. Oh Jesus, i need a bfp as my annisversary present.

Sorry for boring you all. Just a feeling i had to let out.

Its well, happy anniversary in advance...may it be unto you as you have requested

Chi16: @favored gal...welcome back. hop ur vacation was romantic.
@chidinma...happy wedding anniversary in adv.it is wel with u sweety. pls try to relax and b joyful. may God crown ur 4th anni with bfp. pls i suggest u and dh engage on fasting, prayer and high praises on d day of ur anni.remind God of His promises in d bible that neva fails on fruitfulness.u sha celeb ur next yr anni wit ur twins, sorry na triplet.cheers sis.

Very romantic.. went to they city of love (Paris)

onyinyechika: I heard true care fertility clinic is also good. I plan using there.one street off Adeola odeku vi.dey don't ttend to nyoda thing except from fertility issues.

I hear its good but havent read anyone on this forum that has gotten a bfp tho. Olive branch (dr emeka) is also a fertility clinic if u live on d island

Fvine: @ Mummyf, Cjnone2, Alwaystrue, Omonikiba, Safe06, Dreamsinbc, Amaturahman and All Mummy's and Dad's here. I want to say a big thank you to you all for your comments and advice on my post on my predicament with my Dr asking for N50k before touching my lab result.

I and my hubby have decided to go to a proper hospital / Fertility Clinic if need be when we get all our results on Wednesday. This way, we know we're getting the right advice and whatever advice or option they give us can be followed up on.

I read somewhere about Regenesis Clinic in Ikeja, anyone know about them pls share. Happy new week Fruitful Mamas

Someone on this forum got triplets from regenesis during her firt iui try.
So if you live on the mainland, may be worth a try

Toyin Akan: @favored gal:
Welcome back and I believe its the 3 or 4 of you that returned together. Stay blessed.

Thanks

Iyabetajos: yoohoo see who is back?FAVOUREDGAL .Na so so favour we go dey c for dis thread b dat.amen to d foetus dear.seriously kipin my fingers crossed for u.

thanks dearie

Iyabetajos: FAVOUREDGAL wow welcome back.from ur handwritin i can c u had a blast.fingers crossed make e b u ,dh,n loS(little ones)AMEN OH.welcome dear

thanks dearie

Goldenbaby: Welcome ma dear,hope d vacation was cool? yea, you,dh and lo. It is so ma dear. Yea,have suspended ttc,but all is well with me now.

Amen. and Amen

Hello sisters. Im back. 4kg heavier. Yes. Hopefully the 4kg is the feotus in my tummy but seriously Oyibo pple no get food. I ate bread, fries, chicken and all sort of rubbish.

But im back on track now. Work resumes tomorrow with my diet. No carbs. Welldone y'all kept the thread alive

Iyabetajos: @Goldenbay sorry no mind aproko lyk me oh bt favourdgal is on vacation chillin wit dh oh.seems she mentioned it somewhere its wel wit all of us

Thanks darl, how have you been?

GenBuhari: I am looking after a long absence from the thread.

Wow !! congrats to Seanbell, I do not even recall that you became pregnant.

All other new mothers and mothers-to-be (including those about to become pregnant ) best wishes to you all.

God has shown pity on me again and my wife is 6 weeks pregnant.

Wow! Congrats! GOD IS GREAT

Oluwatise2401: Hi Ladies! Am more of a newbie in the house but I peep a lot . I will like to commend all the fruitful mums in the house for the contributions,advise and most importantly the prayers on this thread, may Alimighty God reward each and everyone of us with fruit of the womb IJN.
Please permit me to share my testimony on this thread
I have been TTC for about 32 month,I had a case of very high prolactin with a benign tumor and was placed on a drug to bring on my period. After that I never missed a period , we tried different stuff from local herbs to clomid but nothing seems to work, So late last year DH and I decided to go through the IVF route. We met with the Doctor and did a comprehensive investigations and it still came back that the prolactin is still very high( meaning I can not ovulate on my own at all) and DH has low sperm count, so we decided to start the procedure in May. We waited for my 21 days to commence the IVF, on the day of the first injection to start down regulation I did pregnancy test just to be sure I wasn't pregnant it came out negative. I started the injection( it's suppose to bring on period) on the 10th day on the injection I spotted and told the Doctor and he said to continue the injection,after that day no more spotting or period,so I was told to come in for scan to check my womb lining, and after that a blood test( which I had no clue of wot for) to cut a long story short the blood test came back POSITIVE for pregnancy,I couldn't believe it. Am still in shock. I just want to encourage someone that the God we serve is still very much alive and that miracles still happens.
I NEVER SEE THIS KIND GOD BEFORE OO!! !
WO-N-DER (3ce)

I never see i never see o! Wonder wonder wonder wonder.

Congrats sis. Happy bumping

shiloh: My people ooo...am dancing azonto and etigi here. One of our very own sister has put to bed on d 1st. I got d msg late cos ve not bn able to access my internet for ova a week now. I screamed when I saw d mail,am so happy for her. And yes its SEANBELL..our very own. This is d mail she sent to me: My dear I Bon yestday oo.had been on admission for
weeks due to uncontrolled bp that enterd
preeclampsia.they had to deliver yestday at 36
weeks b4 pesin go kpeme.here he is,I hope the pic
attaches.im still at d hospital to regulate my bp still
and care for the baby till he's better cos he's
hypoglycaemic from the medications I took.will
email u properly wen I get home.please tell pretty
momma as well.how naww?hope u r alright oo,love
to dh . Thats d mail she sent,she also attached a pix of d baby bt I can't upload it now..will do it when d network is friendly. @MSTIA..congrats my darling! Thank God for safe delivery. God bless u n LO..HUGS. @All my wonderful mothers...I greet all of u o,thanks for kiping this thread alive. Very soon we will be singing a diff song by his grace. Amen!

God is so so faithful. Congrats Seanbell, i pray God will grant you all you ned to raise him up in the way of the lord and to prosper here on earth. He will continually be a source of joy to u and ur dh ijn

Goldenbaby: @Favouredgal,where art thou? Hope Ɣ☺ΰ are cool?
@Blessedmum and all our preggy sis,may d good lord see you all tru.Amen

Hey darling. Went on vacation for two weeks...just got back today. Hopefully 3 of us (me, hubs and LO) came back. Thanks for checking up on me.

How u dey na? I see you v suspended ttc. Whatever he matter is, i pray that the long hand of the lord will reach out to you