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Congrats, Muhsin

@Muhsin, Lagosboy, Iwa, Abuzola, Mukina, Olabowale

Keep up the good work. Jazakallah Khairan

I know age is not a factor on any forum, just joking about the ban. I'm a people person, i hang around young and old, male and female and i respect them all.

Amin, wa alaekun salam, wa rahamatullah wa barakatuh

Yes Mukina, pls don't ban this grandma from NL o. I am learning a lot about Islam from you guys as well as having fun with my NL families. My oldest is 30y/o

Salaam brothers and sisters
My 16y/o daughter is asking for my permission to have her nose pierced. I have a mixed feeling about this, hence idon't know what to tell her, I asked her to give me a week to think about it, at the end of the one week, i still do not know what to say. Right now, i'm tipping to say yes but i'm wondering if it's 1) morally okay, and 2) islamically appropriate. What's your take on this?

Mukina, luv ya for the useful and interesting threads u always open. Jazakallah Khyran.

My favourite Ayah is ayatul kursiy and my favourte surah is sratul- wakia. I also love suratu rahaman, fabi ayi allah robikuma tukasiban

Barka Juma'ah to u all.
I haven't been to Juma'ah in a long time (about a yr ago) due to my work sked. I feel very blessed and happy to be there today! I was actually sked to work (according to the master schedule), but somehow my name was omitted from the daily sked when i saw it last night. Of course I was pissed at 1st, then I shrugged it off and prayed that Allah bless whatever little paycheck I get, This morning, after Fajr, i suddenly realised that, yeah, i'm going to juma'ah!!!! Alhamdulillah.
The sermon was about taking care of your family - immediate family. I'm gonna try to request every other Friday, if not every Friday off.

@Lagosboy

Was directed from the thread where Muhsin was voted the poster of the year.

I didn't get too much of the cane. Was too scared of beating, so i tried to be good. I would even cry when someone else is getting whipped. I swear, I hated it, hated it, soooooo much.

Did u c Nanai's post about the woman who was fasting and came on her period? pls reply to that.

Thank you!!!!!!!!!!! Jazakallah.

Abu, clap for me now, at least I know one of them, and that's why i posted it. Wanted to make sure that it's one of the reasons. And now that u confirmed it. Alhamdulillahi.

Did I post something wrong? pls let me know. I don't know much, and i will appreciate corrections.

uplawal:
I have a muslim sister thats looking for a goodlooking practicing muslim man for marriage,the lady in question is a graduate from a very reputable family in kwara state but she resides in Lagos state,she wants a man thats hardworking,lively,fears Allah in all dealings,he could be maybe Doctor,lawyer,engineer,accounting,merchant,dentist,IT PROFESSIONAL,Or Banker,or a legislator, sorry is not that shes got bigmouth but she want the best for herself,pls if u know any man thats interested pls let UPLAWAL know about it,send message via "titialayo25@yahoo.co.uk",thank you .

We have eligble bachelors in the house, anyone interested, e-mail uplawal or jarus.

@Jarus. my bro, don't look away o, she's from Kwara now.

Nanai:
Salaam. A woman was fasting and just during magrib she felt her period. She wasn't sure, though and she had no access to the toilet until about 15 minutes later; and she saw the her period had infact started. The problem is she doesn't know when it started.It might have been during magrib or immediately after or even before. Should she make up for the fast? And what about the magrib prayer she missed? she's making up for ramadan.

She does not need to make up for the fast, since the period was not confirmed before magrib (the breaking of fast is at magrib).
And since we don't make up salats for the sake of periods, there is nothing to worry about regarding the magrib prayer.

My alfas will take care of this. Just trying.

Lagosboy:
Aunty e ku ojo meta o , how are the kids

Thanks Lagboy, alhamdulillahi, we are all doing fine. My regards to your family too.
I was directed to the thread where u are answering 'ifyalways' Qs about islam. Very interesting Qs and As, I am learning a lot. Allahuma Robbi sidna ilima. (Amin) .

Correct me if I'm wrong. Re: the waiting peiod (of either the divorce or death). The reason for the wait is to allow enuf time to make sure that the woman is not pregnant before the divorce/death . So that there will not be any story/rumor about legitimate/illegitimate child later on.

Ka sunre o (going to bed)
Awe olu o (bathing)
E ku orire (congrats)

E ku ooya (braiding hair)
E ku ijo (dancing)
E ku ere (playing)
E ku ayo (playing games)

E ku iyaleta (good evening)
E ku ibani kedun (sympathisers when someone dies)
E ku oro eniyan (pple helping pple in crisis)

E ku orinrin (when it's cold)
E ku popo shinshin (very cold)
E ku oru (warm weather)
E ku atura (when it rains)

Amin o. Ku abo si ori eto wa nibi bayi o, alafia ni gbogbo wa wa, ope ni fun olorun oga ogo.

zayhal:
I'm talking about waiting period after the first pronunciation of divorce. waiting for the stipulated time for both parties to decide whether they want to go ahead with the divorce or reconcile.

Oh, okay. I did not know that there is a waiting period before actual divorce. Thanks for increasing my knowledge. i'm waiting for the answers.

What about beating in schools, even in colleges, and especially merciless beating by parents, and adult family members.?

It's okay to punish an incorrrigible child by beating or other ways of discipline but can we please do it moderately instead of beating to permanently injure the child.

Any beating of children, in the name of teaching them to be good, that will leave the child with any kind of injury, no matter how small the injury, is an abuse and should not be allowed.

What is this 'waiting period' about? waiting for what?

~Bluetooth:
Omo girl yi ti baje sha,abi o ri oko bobo yen ni,o ma le fa idi ya ke

Idi nikan ko lo ma fa ya! Ile omo papa a lu iho.

Iya ngba something!!!!!!!!
Kinni mo nwo ni inu 'profile' e yen! Olorun o ni je ki o pa eniyan.

O jare, nibo ni abule ti yin? odun tuntun ni awa wa yi o.

Nanai
Nothing is greater than the Almighty Allah - the 'kun fa ya kun'. Don't give up, for He has not forgotten you!
When your heart feels heavy, and you can't even say your dua after your nafl, don't wory, Allah already know what your dua is about. Just do a lot of Istigfar, allahumo soli ala sayidina Mohammed, and Lailah ilah llah, round it up with hasbunallah wanimal wakeel. May Allah answer all our prayers.

Too bad, your opinion does not count.
Stereotyping = the lie. modify your usersname

Iya Ngbali!!!!! Make God forgive u o. lol

@uplawal
I've been MIA for a couple of days. Now I hear that u are getting married. That's awesome! May God keep us beyond that day. Pls extend the IV, u never know, I may be able to sneek out of here to attend. Yes, the aqd nikkah validates the marriage in islam and if u so desire, u can round it up with the walimatul nikkah. May God bless both of you with many good children.

@Ayinba
It seems that matchmaking is ur hobby, ok now, your assignment is with our dear bros Jarus. May God guide u through it. I'm not joking o. While u are at it, don't forget my Lagosboy o.

@Lagosboy and all
E ku ojo meta o. Ki Olorun gba adura wa. (Amin)

@ faakay

Emi lero wipe 'e ba efon l'abata' ni won wi ni. Se 'abasa' ni tabi 'abata'? Ati wipe kinni nje bee?