₦airaland Forum

fluxbush:
Why are you blaming the woman for this? You said she has always been a housewife but started selling just last year due to the recession. An entitled and lazy woman won't even bother doing anything to help out in the family. You don't live with them,so you don't know if the husband strikes back at her verbally cuz of frustration. I know that broke and frustrated men lash out at their wives and children unfairly. Again, do you expect her to work all day and come back home to start all the chores? Please be realistic. Enough with all the macho. There is nothing wrong with the man helping in the chores since he has nothing doing at the moment.

Lastly,which responsible husband and father will attempt to use a heavy object on his kid? He even threatened to use them for rituals. Smh.. That man is the one with the issues and you as a fellow man,have no other option than to support him with rose coloured glasses.

At the risk of being insulted by you, Somebody needs to tell you the truth, no matter how bitter it tastes.

You're not a good person.

I read that post over and over and then I read your comments and they are very wicked comments.
I'm sure you read where the man was badly affected by the recession. I'm sure tiu read where the children were well fed and going to a private school when the going was good. I'm sure you read where the wife was a full time house wife, meaning that the man shouldered ALL the financial responsibility for the family. I'm sure you read where the Op said he made the children of the man his friends and they told him of his their home was once a happy home. All that CHANGED when his FINANCES were hit.
You read where the Op said HIS WIFE constantly BERATES, CURSES and ABUSES the husband NIGHT and DAY. The Op also said the wife KEEPS HER MONEY with cooperative and DOESN'T HELP her husband. The TRUE COLOURS of the wife has come out. A good woman would also NEVER ABUSE HER KIDS. she would NEVER LEAVE HER KIDS. a wolf can wear sheep's clothing but still behave like the wolf it is. She's a bad egg. Period. Don't defend her.

REIIGN:
Prisoners

Wicked!

Pidgin2:
Apostle Sulaiman, it's not possible for all these ladies to lie against you at once.

It is VERY POSSIBLE.

Remember Jezebel, King Ahab's wife? Because a man refused to sell his vineyard to her husband, she arranged about two or three good for nothing scoundrels to accuse that man falsely of something he never did.

That innocent man was stoned to death.

This world is full of innocent people who have been condemned to death for a crime they NEVER COMMITTED.

FunkyMetahuman:
Even vampire dey go church

Like I always say, you can do anything and back it with bible.

Kill in the morning, ask forgiveness in the night, doesn't matter who you kill,even if its a baby, god will still forgive.

And so people will be tell us morality comes with religion.

NO.

Be not deceived. God is NOT MOCKED. whatsoever a man plants, THAT ALSO will he reap.

Sai Buhari; Sai Baba! Sai Osinbajo

kingzizzy:
My only criticism of him was that as a signatory to the Aburi agreement, he should have spoken up for the western Region when Gowon broke the Agreement by dissolving the 4 Regions and creating 12 states. General Adebayo was senior to Gowon. It is unfortunate that he, along with the Yoruba nation, just could never stand up to Northerners. Adebayo, as Military Governor of the Western Region did not sleep in Government House because he was scared that he might be killed like Fajuyi. A Yoruba man who could not sleep in his official residence in his own land out of fright of the Northerners!

Tufiakwa!

And who would have protected him from danger?? You??

choi see traffic...especially ladies...

Pascalville:
chill ooo...I cant suffer in school for 5 years under the hand of silly lecturers and their stress in school...only to be given graduate starters #46000.. Nope nope...I will reject such offer..if I was the one

Let me quickly cut your ego to size right now.

The labour market is already saturated with highly qualified graduates with really intimidating qualifications. I'm not telling you this to discourage or underestimate you but to make you humble....whatever you see to do immediately you graduate please do for that time...who knows...that's how a graduate humbly accepted security work at a bank when he started only for a chance meeting with one oga at the bank who noticed his accent and composure and got to know he's a grad...that guy not only works at the bank now but is heading for regional manager now.

Horlufemi:
All of them are thieves. Not one of them will make eternal life.

Their defenders will come for me, while I ignore them.

Before you say don't judge, I'll tell you don't twist the scriptures

Really? What proof have you presented to justify your statement?

Xcelinteriors:
Says who? Abeokuta is a very peaceful town and everything there is affordable

Liar.

GodsLastBorn:
Brotherly if I were to think about that "my woman is my #1 priority" in this life and world that I came into?!?! I was left speechless, the level of their selfishness is fascinating. I dumped an ex that wanted me to make her #1 in everything I do. In a world with hundreds of countries, beautiful islands, mind blowing culture not to even talk about the people that brought me here or siblings that I share the same blood with you want me your bf to make you #1/priority?! why? can any lady tell me why?

I Wonder oh!

Adamsdelrio:
A soldier or a model?

Both. Bad asss slay queen.

Now that's one big pile of s.hit.


Its a GAME. Regardless of whoever has sex in the game or not, there will be only ONE WINNER. and there can't be one winner if the rest aren't EVICTED. PERIOD.

...that's why when I see some ladies type gibberish that ALL nairaland guys are crazy and stupid and the such I just smile......
You can't have a clear head and make the wrong choice.

Happy Married Life to the couple

Rukkydelta:
Can't date a guy that's more than 5 years older than me cos I always have this kind of respect for those much older than me
We won't be able to flow together

Abraham of the bible was 100. Sarah his wife 90. U.S President Donald Trump is 70.His wife Melana is 46. Buhari is 72. Aishia is 46. Beyonce's husband Jay Z is more than 10years Older. Love cuts across age, tribe, colour.... Love makes people do strange things you know...

humblemikel:
SHUT UR TRAP, ODE
BIRD OF FEATHERS

It's 'Birds of a feather', you im.becile. We aren't on the same plain intellectually. And don't quote me again, or else i will embarrass and humiliate you.

Any body that criticises and condemns these people is a hypocrite.

Don't watch BBN. Cameras are on you 24/7. You can't go out. No phone, no T.V, no privacy, no church, no socialising with the other world, nothing. They're like lab rats.And you're being supplied alcohol! Of course your body will be set on fire!! If everybody's privacy was taken away EVERY BODY criticizing here will be silent.

BlackAfrican:
Only on these conditions:

1. She's just beauty and figure with no brains

2. She has mouth odour

3. She has acute bacterial vaginosis

Madam any guy who dumps a girl after eating from her honey pot, just know she has one or a combination of those three cases.

4.Pride, arrogance and a lady who is vain:too full of herself yet soon empty.

5.He already has someone in mind he wants to marry.

A guy doesn't just dump a lady SIMPLY BECAUSE he has had sex with her. wish a lot of ladies understood this....

iamDaisy:
kikikikiki banging body is what? Brain? Iranu.

Look at this one.



Don't you know that the very first thing that is noticed and that attracts a male to a female is PHYSICAL attraction?

fuckboys:
yes it's them, the most industrious, the most hardworking, the most gifted, the business moguls, the pride of afonjas and zoogerians, the only tribe who doesn't wait for the government to feed her,,we are the IGBOS!!




Lalasticlala and mynd44 oya show them what we're made of.... FP things

The only tribe.....the only tribe......Its because of mindsets like these that you cannot have an Igbo President. WHY did I say so. You're too full of yourselves that you are blinded to the achievement of others. We have industrious, highly intelligent billionaires from different tribes, including the north and the south western part. they are numerous and unknown because they don't make noise.If an Igbo man depends on government to feed hi. will he tell you or you don't know that we have many Igbo's here in government establishment who left their states to come and work here. they're not on transfer mind you.

Every HAIR on my back stood on end. looking at the picture alone gave me the chills...

Stupi.d girl. What a silly stunt. if she fell na die be dat.....forget the yarn sey na water she go fall inside...the water go be like rock

cstr100:
The man is at fault here too for allowing himself to be deceived.
There are behaviours my child must never exhibit. Physical Features that would immediately put a doubt into his paternity.
Nigerian women have been adjudged the most unfaithful in the world. Any sensible Nigerian husband should covertly run all his children through DNA analysis. It doesn't have to happen all at once.
Love should not erode common-sense.

Yes u read that report too. Reminds me of a sad story if a married woman who came to serve as a corper and she introduced another corper, a male, to her husband as the guy who helped her immensely through camp and he husband even put his hand into the pocket and gave the corper guy a lot of money....if only he knew...the corper guy kept humping his wife over and over and over for a full year....and to those females shouting that this is is case of only one woman, I've seen too much to know that you people cannot be trusted; you can TURN and you're two-faced. Chai. I rest my case.

Philpham:
The funny thing is men think they can cheat around and get away with it.
Too bad, 65% of children in homes are not fathered by their so called dad.
He must have been an irresponsible man.

May God forgive you for your presumptuous comments and for justifying a very wicked woman. Am sure you were blind to where it was written that he's a doting father and he brought the boy to england to study. this world is full of wicked people and may God deliver the few good people left from wicked ones like this one

thorpido:
That woman is wicked.Why can't she be upfront from the beginning instead of causing sorrow to the man and the son.

Like I always say,men that are not street smart or men who are philanderers are the ones 'buy' these pregnancies.How will you not know 'when' you sowed and also 'examine your harvest'?
You sabi.Some men just dull.How will you not look out for similarities with you in a child you see around your house all the time?

bro don't say that. it takes the grace of God to reveal to you hidden things in darkness.

MakeWeTalk:
When did they become men of God.
They dont know Jesus.

And you know him, right?

You can't know Jesus, because if you knew Jesus you won't be talking like this.

If he had NCE someone will still abuse him by saying,'ordinary NCE holder'. if it was HND they would say,'and so what? not equal to B.SC'. Now if he had a degree they would call his university a mere 'glorified secondary school'. what if he schooled aboard?? they will say its one of those lowly rated universities that haven't had accredited courses. Na wa oh

naijaGhandi:
I wish we all learn from this man... The most influential nigerian today; he has the wealth, power and fame but all that could not save him from sickness...

Nobody has it all. Be good, good shall follow you.

Which man are you talking about?? Or don't you know that that stupid f**k is the one that laid the foundation of the crisis the country is now facing? the words"Devaluation" and "Structural Adjustment Program"were the legacies of his dictatorship. President without the peoples mandate.

Wish you LOVE...



BTW, Let me ask the proverbial question:

If soldier marry soldier and them born mumu, if pilot marry pilot wetin them go born

Olubukola16:
So, you mean he has not even taken or benefited 1 kobo from the customs' treasury Let's not deceive ourselves, in one way or the other, the people that we claim to be corruption-free are involved in corrupt practices, it's just that it's minimal. I won't believe it's not business as usual in customs until they start employing more of the poor and helpless masses than their family members and allies .

My dear sister let me tell you one bitter truth: This man's(Ali) mates who were military governors with him in the 90's are still billionaire's- over twenty five years after leaving office. I always say that no civilian political office holder can ever be as rich as their military counterparts who occupied political office. why?? 1.No body could ever know how much The military stole. 2. No body could EVER question them and 3.They were NEVER INVESTIGATED after leaving office and 4. They are behind the biggest businesses in the country. Abacha died in 1998-Almost 20 years ago- and Nigeria is still in the process of recovering what he stole: nearly a BILLION DOLLARS. His family is still extremely wealthy. look at oil and gas, banking, real estate etc there's no lucrative business sector where you won't find retired military brass. I can't say all that I know on this public forum but like I said, I know this man's life. He stood out among his corrupt collegues.if you weren't a thief when you were a young military Governor who no one could ever question you if you stole, what will make you a thief as an old man as head of customs. Old habits die hard. A highly disciplined man all his life cannot suddenly turn at the twilight of his life and become a thief.

Olubukola16:
Obviously not, corruption is everywhere within the civil service and even the private sectors. BTW, are you trying to tell me that the CG in question is a saint?

I know Ali VERY WELL, right from when he was a military Governor. the main reason for the noise being made is because he has curbed corruption within the customs. A lot of people who are supposed to be ordinary civil servants are stupendously and unbelievably rich with NO TANGIBLE EXPLANATION as to how they came into such wealth with no other source of income or business apart from their job. No more growing fat. No more sharing of revenue running into BILLIONS of naira. it isn't BUSINESS AS USUAL and A LOT of people aren't happy about that......no just look at the new policy they are trying to implement with the clause "No Outsider". hmmm....if we don't kill corruption it will eventually kill Nigeria oh

Olubukola16:
Mtcheewwww....... arrant nonsense! When he knew that, why did he accept the appointment in the 1st instance. Oga, that's a flimsy excuse. Honestly, everything about this govt is wrong, why would a retired army be appointed as a CG of customs.

Why not suggest a senior customs officer of impeccable character within the system who you know is NOT CORRUPT and recommend him for the job of CS?

Oh wait.....there's none.

igidaduro:
There are somethings i really don't understand.
A friend needs an advice. The story goes:-

I met this lady 2 yrs ago or more she didn't say yes until last year September or so, i figure out that are supposed bf broke her h@,

So i was very careful and everything was fine then i discover she couldn't get over the guy so i asked her if she was going to leave me if the guy comes back
Then she started crying (that was a yes for me) i pet her not to cry cos I can't withstand her tears i let her realise I care and want something serious that's why I ask.
Later I discover she stop/reduce the time we see her attitude changed so i ask her and i got to know she is back with her ex. All this happened within 2 month.
So i put myself together as i saw it coming i try to comfort her that I know it's not easy for her.she said she still want to be my friend which i didnt object.

Fast forward to late January she told me she want me to get a woman for mysef that she is getting married this month February, so as a good guy i kept my distance from Her i don't want to affect a relationship. Suddenly she started complaining that am avoiding her blah blah and have changed, this continued for days so I decided to visit her, one of the days I went to her place i tried to get close to her(just to know her motive, if that's what she wanted) she objected but she won't still stop chatting me.

Up till midnight and as early as 6 in the morning. Now i don't even know what she want. Abeg una ladies wetin this kain babe dey find ooo her wedding shud be 2 weeks from now

After reading this very long epistle of saint 0p to the Nairalandians, I have one quick question: Have you banged this lady before?? I have a reason for asking....