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HarlequinLekex:
One mumu man will marry this one and he will be like her past didn't matter

l3st3r:
Good day. I own a betking shop. I also run a POS service in the shop. One day a customer came that he wants to play virtual sports bet. He asked to use the POS cos he doesn't have any money on him. I tried his card and it was saying "insufficient funds". He says he has money in the card and I should try it again.

Meanwhile I saw he was attempting to still play the bet. I told him he should wait let's resolve the withdrawal before he plays his bet. He went ahead and play a bet of #1000. I became angry and asked him if I didn't ask him not to play that bet until we resolve his withdrawal. I asked him how he intend paying for the bet now. He says I should use his atm. I told him his atm card is still showing insufficient fund. He said why am I shouting at him if I know who he is.

I asked who are you? na you open shop for me. The whole thing broke into a shouting bout. Luckily his game won. I deducted my #1000 and asked him to leave that he won't be allowed to play game here anymore as he is a troublesome person.

He says he is going to play and if I know who he is. We got into more shouting bout again. He finally left and says he would be coming back.

He came back today one month later wearing an army uniform with two of his other colleagues. He started hitting me with belt. Says I should do frog jump and other nonsensical punishment. People around later heard the noise. They started begging. When they asked me what the problem is before I try to explain, they would hit me with the belt that I should shut up. When they are satisfied they finally left.

I checked for the name tag on his uniform but he has removed it. His other two colleague are putting on muftty. I do have a CCTV camera in my shop which they are not aware, so everything is on video.

Please, how do I proceed with this case and get justice, pls don't say police cos I took an issue to the police the other time when money was stolen in my shop. Even with video evidence nothing was done. They tasked me anyhow. One naira no come out..

I know this is not the right section for this just want somewhere with a bit of traffic. Mods pls move this to the frontpage so I can get a range of advice.

Olaoluwa112:
Baddest

How I wish man should win APC primary and fail in the general election.

One thing I know is only few Hausa will vote for him and then the Igbos, it's certain that their party members will be the one to vote.

And for the yorubas, we know he owns the south west. I just pray he loses, at least that will teach him how to talk less and learn how to speak.

Simran94:
Isn't your statistics supposed to tell you that it's not an intentional thing from the part of the wives? And that it's just the changes a woman's body goes through when she has given birth birth or when breastfeeding coupled with the workload that comes with raising kids and taking care of the home?

Bola146:
Then he shouldn't complain, if the woman he married wasn't working when they got married, he struggled to get loan she is still complaining, then he should get the woman what she wants if that is what he told her before he married her, most responsible married men are really struggling alot seriously, the wives should understand their wahala up and down, it's not easy ooo for this Buhari. Some men committed suicide because of wahala from homes, no words of encouragements, no sympathy at all. Both of them should sit and talk because what would happened if they start bringing in kids They should know better besides they are not kids.

booz:
Wives are fond of asking husbands the question; ' Is sex food?' just to make the husband look like a pervert and most times to kill his drive.

Husbands, please when next your wives ask this question, show her pictures of 'small girls with big gods' and explain to her how sex is worth more than food, it's worth Mercedes Benz G-Wagon, duplex, foreign getaway, iPhone 13 pro max, designer bags, shoes, watches and the likes.

Abi, what do small girls give to their big gods to deserve the 'huge returns'?

Hence a husband deserves enough of it from his wife, to EITHER or BOTH parties satisfaction.

EzegeNdiigbo:
I'll Fvck her and go without paying her any 1Naira..


No go cast her bcuz she dey her lane i dey my own..

decatalyst:
Most people really don't understand what is money or the concept of money.


Money you don't work for has a way of messing you up if you are not very careful. Sadly, she is 6 feet down.

zyphr:
I have been in a relationship with my girlfriend since September 2019. I intend to marry her.
The problem is that, I don't desire her sexually. Any intimate touch from her feels like the touch from a blood sister. Very uncomfortable.
She is a strict Christian with a policy of no premarital sex. So we have never had sex except for occasional kissing and romance which I sometimes initiate.
However, since January this year, I lost sexual attraction towards her and I avoid even simple touches. In fact, last Sunday we were walking down the street and when she placed her arms round my shoulder, I stylishly evaded it. I don't feel like this towards every other woman.

I'm currently not seeing any other lady but I have had sexual flings with two different ladies including an ex.

Question is: Is sexual attraction/desire neccesary for marriage? Is it normal not to feel sexually attracted to your partner? Can this be a basis for break up as I fear it might persist in marriage and make me cheat on her.

Igbankpa:
He is my business sir. Can't watch him bring destruction upon himself. even if he fails to take my advice, I'll keep pushing till I exhaust all my options.

DWJOBScom:
You are the foolish one
You have refused to be neutral due to your mutual hatred of ladies.
So all self defense suspects turn themselves in?? Given your current state of mind and body language - it would've been instant justice if she did!

The victim allegedly gave her his card and details hence the withdrawal which I wish she didnt

You forgot he ordered his own drugs (of course you don't believe it)

Your friend or co hater or never respecting ladies relation died of over confidence that kills every stupid man

Don't worry more people are speaking out about the dead dude and am so happy his ex wife wi soon speak out and we will see his blind likes

DWJOBScom:
Small small more evidence to assist the poor girl defend herself.

Noone is listening to her story

I hope she wins

If there's a gofundme for her suit expense , i will gladly pay and rally a lot of people to.
Enough of grown men using wealth to mess the lives of young girls.
That's why you marry them and they turn toxic thanks to the nasty faulty men and now women we have around.

Those quoting me
I gat a record today!

You missed a part where she said there was struggle and he even cut her with the same knife - there's a scar for it.
You missed the part where she said NO
You missed the part where she was on her own and He came after her again.
The ATM card - I wish she didn't touch that fund but he gave her the details and asked her to take whatever she wanted hence the withdrawals.
The dude is a mess!

So men or boys out there when you are about to shame yourself with a girl or a boy and he or she says NO - STOP AND WALK AWAY

obembet:
I learn this in Nairaland..

Always hear the other side of the story before u judge


Maybe there is no marriage agreement. Let consider the lady.

HappyPagan:
I don't care about Jesus.. no time for him..I no send am work. Na the Christians wey dey worry me be my concern

grossintel:
I'm disappointed, this is an example of irrational thinking. He can as well encourage FG to ban mobile phone and laptops entirely since yahoo boys use it for fraud.

Ban kitchen knives because women are now using it to kill their husbands and boyfriends.

The benefits of social media can never be overlooked, if not for YouTube I wouldn't have learnt coding, graphics design or game development.

If not for Nairaland, I wouldn't have known freelancing works and how to go about getting clients abroad who pay well.

If not for Facebook, I wouldn't know the best and trending products to dropship.

If not for Twitter, SARS will still be out there killing youths for owning an iPhone.

Whats my own, can they really sensor social media? I don't think it's ever going to happen. Nigerians are very smart people with dump leaders so they will end up playing catchup.

HappyPagan:
Pastors take care of sheep. Nigerian Pastors sell the wool and milk the sheep.

Human being wey say im be sheep, na to use am full barn.

Vyolet:
He's feeling remorse because he feels he has HIV, the thought of the disease alone has a way of humbling people especially adulterers.
Once he confirms that he is negative he will go back to the lady or find someone else to do it with.

I only feel pity for the wife.

ThiagoKid:
So, how did she scam you?

Lalasticlala sef!

lushak:
Hello Girl,

U don't have to be blaming urself on this issue. Most comments might be unguarded anyway. But here is my little advice and it might seem awkward to many and I might be baracked at the end of the day as a result. Do not report him to any police. Just leave him to his fate and move on. Delete everything about him and stop expecting to hear from him as u have said he hasn't even called u since then. Be urself and realise that u have known him as a bad person, a rapist. There's no justification for rape whatsoever. But don't base on that and take him to police or stretch the matter. Avoid him like a virus. Again, remember there exist some atoms of luv u have for him and I guarantee u taking him to the police wud hurt u the more. Just be urself and don't take ur life but make a decision on whether to keep from men or not until u are ready for marriage and make sure it wud purely lead to marriage and is based on reality. Finally, go the hospital for medical check up so as to know ur status, infection-wise and the likes. U don't have any blame whatsoever here. He is simply the opposite of what he portrayed to be...

JovialJune:
Then tell us what you feel is jittery that made her do the test 7 times na, doing multiple tests is not out of place, abi don't you know how some stupid labs dish out wrong test results at will? Tell us what you feel, let Op inform abi question the lady, then give you feedback, abi?

chatinent:
Remain brainwashed.

chatinent:
Why are all of them the same?


Why are all of them receiving the so-called prophecy the same time yet difference in visions?


Take a look at number one. This is sb who never saw it coming. He had to resort to giving a close guess with a high probability with no specifics.


Everything is “God says” because that's what the gullible want to hear. Where did God tell you those?

Lying and stealing in the name of God.



Church is business.
Pastors are entrepreneurs.

mployer:
They actually want the new strain to enter Nigeria so they can cash out more.

Zzor:
Nothing special, just there.

bukatyne:
What is going on between you two that your wife would have the guts to travel for a burial with the kids without your knowledge?

How do you both run your marriage?

uboma:
Bitter truth indeed!


Not all single mothers led a wayward life.

There are some ladies who are victims of sexual violence and choose not to abort the resultant pregnancies.


There are also some ladies who got thoroughly deceived by the men who promised them heaven and earth. Some even got married but the men abandoned them.