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Chai!

The people on this thread at this time is over 1000!

See female monikers everywhere!!

Come to show support for one of your own....


Or not

frozen70:
Are you that weak or you are too soft to take a decision that will give you freedom and happiness

I laugh when men says women don't have brains

Am average woman knows how to handle her man

She choses not to drive so that you will always be there for her

Smart woman, that's what she is

If you can't take a bold decision now, once those kids gets to teenage age, it will be extremely difficult to pull out

You think you are doing favour to her, Mr man, you are creating burden for yourself not yer

She is on her game and she has mastered the act

Why are you afraid of her reporting you to your family

Is it that you want to remain with it or that your family will disown you

Use your brain that's why it's in your head

If you don't know, fear women, they must do things to their advantage

She doesn't have brains.

If her husband suddenly collapses and dies due to exhaustion, she will blame God for his early demise.

That's not being smart; that's being sly.

If she's smart let her apply her intelligence in handling and managing her home, family, work and business with wisdom.

Her "smartness" will backfire when he eventually snaps.

My wife was once like this; even telling me that she's older than me upstairs.

Then when she talks and shouts and argues she knows she's talking to a wall. I don't get into any arguments with her whatsoever: I won't be pulled into one. She knows.

When I've made a sound decision that's all. If you go and do otherwise there are heavy consequences

iamclime:
Are churches supposed to have employees in the first place? I thought they were non-profits and should have non-salaried volunteers?
Am I missing something?

Yes you are, sir.

The church has THOUSANDS of church branches HUNDREDS of primary schools, DOZENS of secondary schools, more then THREE UNIVERSITIES, POWER PLANT, BANKS etc all with PAID STAFF

portune:
What should I do about this? I am gainfully employed. Gives her 60k for house upkeep. I buy bulk thinks like yam , rice, oil tomato etc. She locks shop on me always. I need your thoughts on this pls.

Always giving excuses. At night, "I am tired". In the morning, "go work abeg others have left and making money and you are here looking for who to ram."

Even few moments I press her to it she will insult me sotee my prick falls down.

She might be cheating. You need to be sure.


Put spy app on her phone and install tiny cctv cameras in your room and parlor without her knowledge. Then tell her your office is sending you on an assignment to abuja or something and see how it goes.

The person you have an Issue with is the fellow who RAPED you and then RECORDED it.

Have HIM ARRESTED and BRUTALLY interrogated. He will confess when he's decisively dealt with.

The stupid mistake you made was not having the fellow who raped you arrested immediately. If not for the tape you wouldn't have bothered yourself. That's a careless way to live life.

Your boyfriend must also be handled because he has to be made to confess how he came about the possession of the tape. He was must dealt with in such a way that he won't use his mouth to spread what's on the tape about.

All the best to you

1.9

If the Op is reading this , know that your wife isn't being completely truthful with you. How?

She wants to get it off her chest by saying she cheated but you will NEVER know the degree or frequency or intent of what she did. That's how all female cheaters behave.

She waited for a year.
She must have known that you were cheating so she confessed using the LESSER CHARGE trick
She told you she did it ONE time ( come on!)
If she enjoyed it she will NEVER tell you as if will hurt your ego.
She might have been blackmailed or overwhelmed so she decided to come clean and tell you before someone else did

GENERATOGERIA:
You should be worried about your country. Stop talking trash,huh? Ghana is doing fine and your people are arriving here in their thousands despite the “border closure “. How are these nigerians able to pass through a “closed border?”

Fuckeduppedness I can’t believe nigerians think not allowing a couple of Ghanaian trucks to enter their country will collapse the Ghanaian economy very foolish reasoning, if you ask me. By the time your generator-powered economy zooms into recession, na that time una eyes go clear

Very ironic how our generator powered economy is supplying your country with gas and energy. When the supply is cut you will know how far.

maynation:
Why do you people like posting trash and what you have no idea of?

I swear before man and God, I am level 8 and my take home is 121k. In one if the ministries you listed there. I don't have to reveal much.

Don't mind them. On 12 Mine is almost 200k

GrabHisBalls:
LOL. On one picture she's dark and on another, she's fair. To be sincere, she looks ordinary. And op, why the hype on Seyi? Seyi that would have bleeped Tacha if she'd agreed? No be him help Tacha pack her pants? His gf should be worried.

Looks can be DECEIVING!

prettysom:
You've really done well sir, by keeping calm up till now. Please forgive her and let this issue slide, I'm sure she was afraid of being stigmatized, that was why she hid it. This woman has been trying and you're still negative because she has been taking her medics judiciously. Please just encourage and support her to continue taking her medics and check her viral load to know her current state of health. HIV Is not a death sentence. Once she continues with her drugs, you and your children will still be negative.

Arrant non sense! Didn't you read the part where he said she was VERY EAGER to know HIS STATUS?? She RISKED his life WITHOUT his knowledge, permission and encouragement!!
So many ladies have done the EXACT same thing and their husbands weren't so lucky as the Op! Several got infected and the women continued as if nothing happened!

Hobbsandshaw:
I need mature advice from nairalanders.

I got married to my wife December,2015. The marriage is now blessed with two boys, the 2nd boy came last month.

The issue now is that I just discovered my wife is HIV positive during this 2nd pregnancy.The woman that I showed so much love tricked me into marrying her knowing fully well that she was HIV positive. I'm not really angry because she is HIV positive,I'm angry because she has been playing me all along.

She was in the Uni in another state while we were dating.Almost to the end of her study in 2014, she called that she was pregnant after I visited.She came to Lagos with PT and scan results to prove her claim.She then pressured me into paying her bride price before the pregnancy become public.We did our traditional marriage and went to the registry.Months after the marriage,my wife said the pregnancy has mysteriously disappeared, blaming it on "village people",but the gentle man in me didn't allow me to read any meaning to the movie.She tricked me into marrying her with the fake pregnancy after discovering she is HIV positive.

She eventually took in(for real this time),she came back from antenatal one afternoon crying, when I enquired what the issue was, she told me that they booked her for C-SECTION,that the doctor said the baby's weight is below 2kg and will almost be impossible for her to have the baby by herself,I was there consoling her not knowing that the doctor opted for C-SECTION because she is HIV positive.She actually told them not to disclose her status to me.The baby was 3.6kg at birth.My son was giving Nevirapine.I did some search and discovered that the drug is an antiretroviral drug,I became worried but I still played it down.

Her lid finally blew when she started antenatal for this my 2nd son in a different hospital, maybe she might have thought to herself that at this point there is nothing I will do any more, she told me that the doctor referred her to a government hospital for HIV confirmatory test.We went and did the test,I don't know the trick she played this time, the result was non reactive for her, me and our son.I went to the hospital and made Alot of noise,we went home and celebrated.Seven months later, she had an accident and was admitted, the doctor not satisfied with result of our confirmatory test,took her sample and send it to one of the best labs in Lagos,all the kits shows she was reactive.Because of the scene I created earlier, the doctor called me and showed me the result.That was when I started playing back to the first pregnancy scam, the rush for the marriage and the Nevirapine that was giving to my first son and I discovered I was being fooled by this woman all along.

This woman has hid her status from me and have been taking drugs under my nose for over five years without me knowing.I and my boy have gone for test twice at seven months interval and we are confirmed negative. I was told at one teaching hospitals I went for the test last month that maybe I'm just lucky or we are "discordant couple"
I have been expecting her to show remorse, and maybe apologize but she is still doing as if nothing happened.

I can't discuss this with my family or even hers, she will be stigmatize.I feel betrayed,I don't know how long I will stay in this marriage, but then I'm concerned about my boys. I'm afraid she might get desperate and try other means to infect me,I don't trust her.
What should I do?

It's like you're sleeping and you need a rude awakening!

You will DEFINITELY be infected sooner or later. If I were you I would also use the same trick she used in getting IN to also trick my way OUT of that catastrophic marriage!

She may be the weaker sex but she's the smarter of you both! What you've seen is just the tip of the iceberg!

SMEConsult:
Just in case this will happen to someone else.

Never tell a person you've been keeping secrets from them especially your spouse. No one wants to hear that.

If you know he's already showing of discovering, don't go on your knees and start spilling.

Tell him you'll see a doctor. Go see a doctor different from the one that treated you. Get the result and cry all the way home.

He will be happy you have 3 kids at once and most likely share testimony of how God knew ahead and gave you the 3 kids before the mishap occurred to shame the devil.

He even now see it as a free pass to sleep with you more since there's not gonna be any fear of pregnancy.

And.... most importantly, your marriage will be protected.

Sometimes attracting sympathy is way better than apologizing.

Now, the deed has been done. Pull on with him. He may never trust you again but there are smart ways to make him do that. Sorry, private message for that.

Yeap. Except the truth comes out in the most unplanned, unexpected way. Then What

Nnemuka:
Go and sit down, foolish fool
and the man isn't cheating ?
bloody bully, go and speak to your mother like u did to me
ewu

Why aren't I surprised? Whwre did the man admit to cheating Did I bring your mother into this conversation you blidering idiot

Doubtless you're an animal in human skin. Don't bother responding the message won't be read by me.

Nnemuka:
she was wrong traveling without telling you
she was wrong taking your kid but you need to sit down and discuss with your wife about her business.
Ask her how u can support her.. You may be doing something wrongly

The only maybe in this story is this: May be you're crazy. His Wife is cheating. Period

chiommy123:
Me I'll talk and save a sister cos guys have been breaking hearts since but that's if not with me though I know it can't be with me oh

Women cheat AS well as men and have even upped their game. Women don't snitch on each other bit they will report the husbands of their friends/men.

semyman:
My simplest solution to the hardened ASUU members is to declare their absence as voluntary withdrawal of service after conducting a recruitment process for their replacement even from Ghana and securing a court order

You're an a.ni.mal and I will tell you why.


This government has NO RESPECT for the law of law and does not obey court orders. Several rulings in favour of different unions have been given which government refused to implement. The same government will go to the SAME court to obtain injunctions forcing unions to stop their strike and go back to work. That's all they have been doing since they came to power in 2015.
But never mind, they will be voted out

Drchristian:
That's the problem with these coward soldiers all that time, the Bokoharram sects are the ones bringing the war to them.
The Nigerian soldiers has been avoiding the sects otherwise the war would have been won

Are you sure you read where they said they RAN OUT OF AMMO?? BOKO HARAM is a WELL FUNDED, MULTI BILLION NAIRA terrorist organisation.

Dandyboy57:
If Pastors could build magnificent edifice, why can't our leaders do the same, why can't they erect standard hospital, fund universities as at when due, fund both primary and secondary school as at when due

They've eaten all the money and cornered the resources thereof

seunmsg:
Atiku is officially CAN's candidate. It is now very obvious why Oyedepo and the other tithe mongering pastors have been attacking Buhari. It is all about their selfish desire to continue to benefit corruptly from Aso rock and nothing else.

What morality do these people preach to their members when they shamelessly frolic with well known political rogues? They want to forcefully return us to the 'stealing is not corruption era' and sadly, some gullible people are already falling in line.

You're crazy.

We have all be scammed.

Which of the promises that Buhari made during his campaign in 2014/5 did he fulfill??

Is it the sale of the Presidential fleet or the revival of Nigerian Airways or the 5,000 stipends to the poor and unemployed??

People have died at the hands of Fulani herdsmen and the killers got away Scott free in a could try with a government.

Go back and look at my old posts. I supported Buhari believing he came to change things.

Now i know better. He's Rigid and Authoritarian and unforgiving. And to boot, he claims he didn't have money for presidential form, yet his wife's aide was found with N2.5b donations which he held on the wife's behalf.

When the hospitals nationwide where on strike and the health sector was in a crisis, he travelled outside for better healthcare, not to mentioned his son also flown aboard.

When a leader frees HIMSELF and enslaves the people, that's the sign of a fraud.

delman88:
If PDP had won,would you have claimed it was rigged?

then why didn't APC win last Saturday, upon all the rigging and cancellation of results? even the APC chairman has lambasted the out going governor for poor performance.

God punish anyone forcing people to remain in darkness against their will.

Benekruku:
You are hungry

Every body is against APC in Osun State because of BAD GOVERNANCE. Governance is not by force.

eshcol:
You are right but anyone who makes a man his spiritual father is the real spiritual bastard

So Timothy who made Paul the Apostle was a spiritual bastard, right? or the early Christians who had prophets and apostles where spiritual bastards??

handsomeclouds:
He will know his opponents on Judgement day

When he starts accounting for his luxury lifestyle funded by poor masses tithe!!!


Every pastor who collects tithes is a thief

https://www.google.com.ng/amp/dailypost.ng/2013/05/07/femi-aribisala-every-pastor-who-collects-tithes-is-a-thief/amp/

Mr Judge and Jury. Only heaven knows what the film of your life will be. You won't be concerned with what someone else did or didn't do ON THAT DAY.you will be concerned with YOU and YOU ALONE

The bible clearly says to work out YOUR OWN SALVATION with FEAR and TREMBLING.

chai see casting

Ormorlehwah:
Baba 61, if you give me money I go collect so that it won't be as if I am forming but I no apply cos I am contented with what I have.

kikikiki!

You're talking as if Dangote toasted you directly meanwhile he doesn't even know you exist. Don't worry you're excused from applying. lol..

Abagworo:
Useless Bishop that collected money from Jonathan. May that money and the ones you've been stealing from poor innocent church goers choke you.

You must be very dens.e.


Oyedepo purchased the very first ministry jet in 1996.(22years ago. How old were you then?). Can a hungry man of God with a struggling ministry buy maintain a ministry jet?? He purchase another one in 2002. Another in 2005. Where was Jonathan then?

Canaan land started in 1999. From them till now, there has NEVER been power outage. Not once. Covenant University started in 2003. Structures worth over Six billion were already in place before the university took off. That was over fifteen years ago. By 2009, Canaan land had structures worth over 90billion naira. Where was Jonathan then??
And let's not mention hundreds of vibrant branches in Nigeria, Africa, the United States and Europe.

Jonathan became President by providence in 2010.

What have you done to improve the life of that beggar you see everyday? I'm very sure you've never sown 10,000 into anyone's life to help them yet you're here taking panadol for other peoples headache. Whether anybody has come to complain to you that Oyedepo forced him to give money.

Abagworo:
Useless Bishop that collected money from Jonathan. May that money and the ones you've been stealing from poor innocent church goers choke you.

You must be very dens.e.


By the time Jonathan was sworn in as President, Canaan land had structures in the worth of over a hundred billion naira. He bought the first ministry jet in 1996. How much does Jonathan want to give him?

BigSarah:
Only God knows how many times my name has been erased and rewritten

It doesn't matter, my dear.
what's important that in the end, it's there!!!

cruzita:
that's nonsense.can my husband also boldly tell me he is cheating?no, right?what is wrong is wrong .there is no justified reason why one shld cheat .man or woman, period.

Excuse me.

WHO TOLD YOU A MAN CAN'T BOLDLY SAY HE'S SEEING SOMEONE ELSE

A woman WON'T.