Health › Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Fearcom(m): 11:20pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Eulalia: Ok. but Like I said in my other comment, sex is not all about penetrating a woman. There are other ways to relieve yourself!!!! You can repeat yourself one million times. I TOLD you in my earlier post; if your intended husband AGREES then you won't have issues. If he doesn't( which I'm SURE he will because that's what YOU RESOLVED) you WILL have issues! There's no I in marriage. There's 'WE" |
Health › Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Fearcom(m): 11:12pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Eulalia: God gave us wisdom. Let use it. I'm not saying you're going to be staring at each other like statues for that 6 months. Think! Something tells me this lady will.get married to a guy without thoroughly trashing out this issue and then carry out what's in her mind to do. That thing also asked me to tell her good luck. When the consequences come up, she won't be back here to talk...or she will create another moniker to hide her identity to tell us the results |
Health › Re: After Child Birth, How Long Should A Woman Stay Before Having Sex? by Fearcom(m): 10:48pm On Apr 30, 2020 |
Eulalia: Buahahahahaaaa.. this your meme eh? I don laugh taya. Well, like I said, there are other ways you can help relieve ogar without him necessarily penetrating. I mean ... It for your own good. As for me, that's what I'll do when I get married. Because after listening to complains of Young mothers who after child birth could not get their hooha back to size, I resolved within me to observe the full waiting period. Our mothers know better.
Hubby will have to chilax o because if anything goes wrong, they'll jump on the next available mhm.. Lol Let me tell you the GOSPEL TRUTH! Marriage is about compromises. Unless your intended fully agrees freely (YOU HAVE TO DISCUSS IT WITH HIM AND ALSO SEEK SPIRITUAL COUNSEL)and you ask him to be patient, then you will have no issues rather than saying that's what I WILL DO. You can't make rigid decisions for the two of you so as not to create a precedent where your spouse will also make a rigid decision involving the two of you in another issue. One full year because you gave birth  A birth without complications  |
Health › Re: Lorna Breen: US Doctor Dies By Committing Suicide by Fearcom(m): 2:46pm On Apr 28, 2020 |
FatherBona: Uncalled for That's the difference between them and Nigerian trained doctors. They can't stand to see suffering. Nigerian doctors are emotionally hardened. |
Politics › Re: Enugu Pays April Salaries Of Workers, 25% Allowance For Health Workers by Fearcom(m): 7:47pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
satelliteDISH: Is it only the health workers that deserve the allowances?
What about us that have not opened our shops since the Lockdown.? You're at home hearing about it on radio and television. WE are at the very centre, touching it! |
Family › Re: Share Your Stay At Home Experience With Your Partner. by Fearcom(m): 3:02pm On Apr 24, 2020 |
Boring.
Still going to work(health worker).
After that cant go out. |
Nairaland General › Re: The Snake I Killed In My Room In Enugu (Photos) by Fearcom(m): 9:23am On Apr 21, 2020 |
FunkyAlhaji2015: There is a difference btw a Mozambique spitting cobra and a king cobra.
King cobra can be found in Nigeria but not the spitting cobra.
The spit from a cobra causes temporal blindness which can become permanent within 30 mins without treatment. The spitting cobra doesn't miss
King Cobra don't spit. There are different species of spitting cobra and some of them are right here in Nigeria. I work at a federal hospital and several people with snake bites are brought here for treatment. Some of the snakes had to be identified so as to know the proper antidote. |
Nairaland General › Re: The Snake I Killed In My Room In Enugu (Photos) by Fearcom(m): 10:29pm On Apr 20, 2020 |
FunkyAlhaji2015: A spitting cobra in Nigeria?? You must be dreaming, there never has been and you will never see a spitting cobra in Nigeria NA LIE! Happened to one mama I buy sweets from for my son. She bent down in front of her shop to wee....she squatted beside some blocks...only for her to look to her right(she was right beside the blocks)only to get vemon sprayed into her eyes and nose....the snake chose not to attack by striking her mulitple times her on the face! Her screams alerted us making us approach. We checked in between the blocks and there it was. It spat at us twice but missed it's intended target. |
Health › Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Fearcom(m): 11:03pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Thank you Op for sharing your story with us! .
I wish you all the best and I pray you and your wife love very long lives in the best possible health. By God's special grace you will live to watch your children grow and fulfill destiny. They will become parents with children of their own |
Health › Re: How I Found Out I Was HIV Positive!!! by Fearcom(m): 10:27pm On Apr 15, 2020 |
Remijuice: You dash your girl HIV abi na she dash you HIV ?? Oh! You said she both of you didn't care and moved on. Very Anyhow People.
I don't roll with this kind of folks.
Oga I think you should tell us how you contacted this disease. For us to be Away and not fall into such situation with you. Thanks. You're so mean and judgemental! What's with the holier than thou attitude or are you claiming you're better than he is just because you're negative  |
Romance › Re: Mention The Lies Your Ex Told You by Fearcom(m): 1:09pm On Apr 14, 2020 |
I want to buy handouts  Today's my birthday. I want to go to the hospital; I have typhoid I want to put my teeth out Lagos state government demolished our house |
Politics › Re: Bala Mohammed: Bauchi Government Urges Contact Persons To Come Foward by Fearcom(m): 3:48am On Mar 25, 2020 |
End Time Virus. |
Politics › Re: Northern Nigeria Developing And Growing Stronger Than Ever Before(photos) by Fearcom(m): 2:52pm On Mar 15, 2020 |
You're just posting pictures without the names of the places these structures are located for verification. How are we sure they're authentic ? |
Crime › Re: Tanker Driver Slumps, Dies In Lover’s Lagos Apartment (photo) by Fearcom(m): 12:08am On Mar 12, 2020 |
mrsfavour: The same sex offered freely at home, you go out and pay for it and die in the process. Is okay oh. If at 68 he's still driving trucks about it means he's still taking care of his family at that age. And we all know too many Nigerian married women DON'T offer sex freely at home. Let every Nigerian couples children be put to a DNA test. |
Politics › Re: Nigeria Would Have Been A Better Place If My Husband Did Not Die: Turai Musa Yar by Fearcom(m): 12:28pm On Mar 01, 2020 |
So True!
Rest in Peace, Mr President |
Christianity Etc › Re: Was Coronavirus Included In 2020 Prophecies? by Fearcom(m): 11:44pm On Feb 29, 2020 |
CanadaOrBust: Not at all. He said sicknesses many world leaders have been hiding will finally surface this year. No mention of China or type of illness
If prophecy does not have to be specific or have a time frame, then anybody can be a prophet. Also, this type of pandemic is precisely what a prophet would see. Even a non-believer with gift of divination will likely also see it. There's something called the "gift of a word of knowledge" by the HOLY GHOST. 'a word' in this case means partial knowledge. It can come in the form of saying a particular event will happen but the time and place of fulfillment is hidden. It can also come in the form of saying a time for a particular event to happen without the knowledge of the event itself. |
Celebrities › Re: DJ Cuppy And Anthony Joshua Laugh At Each Other As They Try To Speak Yoruba by Fearcom(m): 12:00am On Feb 25, 2020 |
englishmart: Tyson fury will teach you to focus. Keep Shagamuing and flirting with a billionaire's daughter. For a young, famous, handsome, man(the heartthrob of millions of ladies)estimated to be worth roughly 200million U.S dollars(about 72 billion naira) he can sure flirt with her... Or isn't she the one flirting with him  |
Romance › Re: Checking Her Phone Has Cost Us Our Beautiful Relationship by Fearcom(m): 9:57am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Biafrareform: Yea. I have always done that . I am willing to stand by her and correct her . I sees it as her past.
I just realised it takes a second for someone to change . I wasn't expecting her to remain the same after I left .
My issue is, will things remain the same after I told her my findings ? Once again, STOP IT! You can't see clearly because of the SEX shes giving you. Don't go down a road you will regret but CANNOT change! If you marry her your fate is sealed! |
Romance › Re: Checking Her Phone Has Cost Us Our Beautiful Relationship by Fearcom(m): 9:53am On Feb 21, 2020 |
Biafrareform: Good morning all, for those still awake.
I think my relationship just ended. Something we both cherish.
Well, months back my ex and I came back together. We had a bliss relationship while in our final year, but I wasn't committed at all and she knew it and left. Back then in school she kept going to my phone and of course she do see things to talk about .
After 1 year of being apart, I needed a committed relationship cos I wanted to settle down. She came to my mind and the feelings was so strong even though I tried to resist it. We finally met and resolved all issues that led to her leaving .
Is been the sweetest memory we have had so far. Everything was going fine. She is a nice and sweet girl. Our agenda is marriage and she is aware. She fits perfectly to my ideal woman. Our emotional and spiritual connection is just perfect.
Well, things take a turn when I went to her phone and saw stuff that knocked me out. What really got me mad was her dating a married man. My emotion was dead. She said the relationship is in the past. She was forced to go into it after she left school. Her mum forced her into it when she stopped caring for her and asked her to go fend for herself. Then we weren't together. She confessed to becoming someone else from who I knew when I didn't tried to bring her back. But she is not a bad as I think , she concluded .
I also saw her chat with someone where she sent a bedroom pics she took in my house. She said she is just flirting with him (they have a fling) but that I should give her time, she is going to completely cut of tiers with them.
Well, I love her was ready to stay with her. She was around again this Val and was tempted to check again and noticed she is still communicating with the married man. Infact I noticed they met lately in January. I locked up , and decided that is over. Didn't talk to her about it.
We went out for on Saturday. She is the type that hardly post on Facebook. Infact she has reduced my activities on Facebook. Her reason, our lives shouldn't be on social media. I uploaded our outing on WhatsApp. She did too, but didn't upload the one we took together. Yea, she hasn't done that b4. I was angry and voiced out what I saw in her phone. Accused her of deliberately hiding us from her contacts. She apologised and told me she isn't doing anything with the man again. Just the normal chat cos of the friendship they have had b4 . She even handed her phone to me to call him and end it if I want . I wasn't taking any of that cos I saw from her browsing history where she is been searching how to make a married man fall in love and spend on her but didn't let her know of it. She pleaded that nothing is happening between them again. Then she begged that I should stopped going to her phone that is destroying us. That if I ended up destroying this relationship, where do I want her to start.
She is back to her base and we chatted last nite and she brought up the case of me going to her phone again and I was angry with that and told her about the browsing history too.
She was completely devastated with my findings. Is lengthy right, sorry about that. This is a relationship we both cherished and I know she love me real good. Ohh, I forgot to tell you, she bought me a native dress and sent 6k to me from her 33k NYSC allawee. She is a good girl. She is nice and caring. I love this girl real good. Never loved anyone like this before.
But I don't know what has really gone wrong with her. I was determined to really make this right, but as it stand now, it seems dead to me and I am sure she also feels same too.
I should have stayed away from her phone. But guys, is not my fault, I love this girl and I am serious about it. My dear brother, I will advise you the way o will advice my own son. DO NOT MARRY HER. YOU WILL LIVE IN REGRET THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. I'M TALKING FROM EXPERIENCE |
Crime › Re: Woman Attacks Her FMC Doctor Husband In Owerri, Cuts Off His Nose, Upper Teeth by Fearcom(m): 11:34am On Feb 20, 2020 |
Auxtin85: This look like a cook up stories to me It's not your fault. You're not the parent or the young doctor that was attacked. |
Crime › Re: Eric Igbedion Agboegbulem Death: Police Tried To Blackmail Family - Ena Ofugara by Fearcom(m): 11:07am On Feb 10, 2020 |
Maxymilliano: You are not justifying the action, yet you are making a case for cheating in the search for self gratification. Why not just picked the young girl from the street, and sponsor her rehabilitation to become a better person in the society as a KNIGHT that he was before his demise ?
Moreover from the circulating video, no hypertensive drugs was found, one of the drugs found with the dead man is called Meinnah, a member of the Viagra family.
Like all Sildenafil, it is a common medication used to stimulate erections in men with erectile dysfunction (ED) and treat certain heart conditions.
Also found on him was an anti-malarial drug called Coatal Forte.
The family should just mourn the departed in peace, Nobody holy pass!
https://i0.wp.com/www.thenewsnigeria.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/2020/02/Meinnah-a-member-of-the-Viagra-family-.jpg?resize=585%2C640&ssl=1 If you have never committed fornication as a single guy then you're free from condemnation. If not....... |
Family › Re: I Want To Leave My Wife For My Girlfriend by Fearcom(m): 11:45am On Feb 08, 2020 |
Foodqueen: You've been with your wife for 12yrs and your kids are 1. Two years ago, u started having fling I don't understand, I really don't 
Was it that you waited for 11yrs or what Address the main issue gan-gan. There's one challenge married people have espec7if you have been married for more than seven years Sexual decline. If the two of them don't have sex and they're both okay with it, no problem. The problem is when one partner wants sex and the other doesn't. Then the temptation comes. And the boredom, and the loneliness. |
Family › Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by Fearcom(m): 11:30pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun: Hmmmm, so I should encourage us getting 2 cars within the next 3months looking at Nigeria's economy and the need to have multiple source of income?. Waoooh, thanks for the advice!!! Let me lend you a word of wisdom. You don't have to buy an expensive ,fancy car. Buy something that moves, like an old model car. NOT SECOND HAND O! It can be tokunbo but a strong car like Golf 3/Micra/or something of about 500k Cars aren't easy to maintain. You will buy fuel, service it, buy tyres, fixwhen it get faulty, change parts when another car bashes you etc |
Family › Re: I Found Mycoten Vagina Cream In My Wife's Wardrobe by Fearcom(m): 12:20pm On Jan 31, 2020 |
Chi59: Not true. Vaginal infections are not all gotten by sex. Read up and destroy your ignorance. Theres nothing ignorant about what he wrote because you failed to mention the confirmation of his girlfriend cheating. |
Romance › Re: About To Lose A Good Girl. Please Help! by Fearcom(m): 7:49am On Jan 29, 2020 |
Jeffmonti: I told my girlfriend i want to move out, she nor gree o. She said she like the place and we will stay there until i complete my building which is still at the very early stages. .Chai! See dis man!! Word of Advice:1. GROW SOME BALLS 2.MOVE OUT ANYWAY!!! 3.Don't disclose your plans of moving out to your gf until you're done. 4. After you've paid for a new place and the movers have covertly moved your stuff, you can now notify your gf before the weekend she comes so that she doesn't have to go to the old place. 5. Act normal 6. Tell the lady outside that you've impregnated two other ladies so if she keeps the pregnancies she's on her own. The way you behaved with her all this while is what is giving her the guts to be playing you like a beach ball. |
Politics › Re: 8-Year-Old Boko Haram Executioner Used To Execute Captured Christian by Fearcom(m): 10:47am On Jan 23, 2020 |
mynd1: Oh just shut up Pls. Go and separate the country na. mtcheww! I came from an Islamic background and I can categorically tell you that Islam is NOT a religion of peace! Whose name are they carrying out the killings?? Or who was that boy praying to before he executed tha hostage. Or wasnt he indoctrinated in the religion before he became a terrorist?? Was he praying to Sangoo, or maybe the budda, perhaps?? All of them are killing in the name of Allah, the most..... |
Properties › Re: Abeokuta Residents Get In Here by Fearcom(m): 6:56pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
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Family › Re: If You Were To Marry Again, Would You Marry Your Current Spouse? by Fearcom(m): 12:46am On Jan 18, 2020 |
Been married seven years plus.
I love her.
But if given another chance, I wouldn't. |
Career › Re: Minimum Wage: How Much Was Added To Your Salary In December 2019? by Fearcom(m): 12:58am On Jan 05, 2020 |
onyichick: fed medical centre.what will I gain from lying.level 9/3 arrears was 131k Also fed Med Centr. Got about 190k |
Family › Re: Pregnant Woman Dies Of Snakebite From Snake In Toilet in Kaduna ( Photos) by Fearcom(m): 12:34am On Jan 04, 2020 |
ahnie: A really sad story! I remember some years back 2015 precisely..I picked a Bible from a pole wall..the Bible has been left there probably for days .. So I picked it up and took it home...you would not believe what I saw inside the Bible .. names and contacts of spiritualists,their compliment cards, mobile numbers etc.
My husband was strongly against my bringing the Bible home when he saw me with it.okay
So my husband burned the cards,then flushed the ashes down the wc. Late into the night...I stood up to go us the restroom...
Glad there was light..which was my saving grace... immediately I open the wc cover to run my business...
I saw a very thin not too long black snake coming out from the wc. I immediately shut it,then went to call my mai-gida who flushed it down the loo pipe!
That scenery still gives me the kicks till date .what if it had bitten me on my butt? And I was pregnant then o!
Rip hajia! Allah ya kawo..shi ma ya ka'ruba! Kai! Ahnie, Are you Okay? Are you Okay, Ahnie  |
Politics › Re: President Buhari Receives Akinkunmi Adesina In Aso Rock (Photo) by Fearcom(m): 7:07pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
Jimi24: I dont think so. He is very good at what he does. He is widely exposed but he cannot govern Nigeria. It is not a good CV job. If a certifcateless man can govern this country then somebody like Adesina can govern this country |
Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Family Rejects Me Because I'm Disabled by Fearcom(m): 6:55pm On Dec 31, 2019 |
DonFreshmoney: So what do you want us to do?? Give you our sisters or what?
My guy go sit down one side.. Personality of a pig: take him out of the mud and clean him up, he will still go back. |