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[quote author=TonyeBarcanista post=130283697][/quote]You submission isn't an intelligent one.

They have money to share during election but they complain of paucity of funds for people to eat and not strave!

Sebi Tinubu said the government saved 1 trillion within only one month when subsidy payment stopped in June That Nigeria will have more money for other things since we no longer pay for fuel subidy
What about the new electricity tariff where you can pay as high as 100k per month if you have constant electricity

A Congo of beans sells for 2,400 naira. A Congo golf garri is 1,700 naira and the FG is offering 60k
Anyway, the drama that will play out in the following days and weeks will shake a lot of the dogs of this wicked government

Let Tinubu collect that 60k for himself and use it to take care of his family.

Angola 🇦🇴 just increased their minimum wage to $120 U.S dollars.
Angola has almost the SAME circumstances with Nigeria. They produce crude oil and their currency has suffered devaluation like ours.This is a country with over 800,000 civil servants, besides the teachers.
A cleaner will get $120 dollars (an equivalent of N160,380). Senior civil servants and medical staff will get about $2,150 (N2,973,475).
Their government ALSO complained. It was THEOR LABOUR UNION'S BRUTAL show of force during the strike that FORCED the government's hand.

TimeManager:
What consequences?, pls stop joking!. FG can pay any amount but can your state governors and private employers able to pay?. Can Ajaero pay his driver 494k?. If Labour is not being careful, government will be forced to retrench workers and private employers lay off their staff and nothing labour can do about it.

--Kiss the truth!

Oloriburuku ni e.

Let Tinubu and the rest of them be collecting that 494k per month.

Ajaero cannot pay his driver 494k because he's not a senator or house of representative member collecting 37million per month and he's not a member of one of those house committees milking the parastatals under their perview. He's also not being bribed with hundreds of millions for sponsorship of bills and tampering with constituents funds......

Some of us know exactly how these people get ridiculously wealthy from holding political office, buying million dollar homes in places like America, the United Kingdom and Canada.

All ýou have said is rubbis.h

bolaayenimo:
Yinmu...covenant advance secondary school to UI the first and the best

Oponu....the rest of the world has left you behind.....better pull your head out of your a.s.s to see clearly

FitCorper:
Bro in d Old Testament. God specifically warned against sleeping with two daughters from the same house. It is taboo. I just de pity how una de reason, d worst na those sleeping with married women. Solomon just summarize am say na who lack understanding go fit run married women.

Then why did JACOB MARRY TWO SISTERS OF THE SAME PARENTS in the same old testament? Uhmm?

Dialpad:
Absolutely stupid for pleading guilty... in all you do, Never pleading guilty.

She can never get visas to most countries

May you never find yourself in a situation of facing jail time in a maximum security prison

If you're guilty of an offense that you KNOW you committed and can be proved beyond all reasonable doubt in court, then you risk heaping additional charges, leading to additional time behind bars for wasting the court's precious time, energy and resources.

Jennyclay:
God knows if a man bash my car like this I won’t let go until he fix every single thing. Especially if the man is a poor man

I will drag the poor man to court and I will make sure he pays with his last blood or else he will serve jail term .

I will make sure he’s left with absolutely nothing after fixing my car

They know how to destroy but they can’t build. Nonsense poor men!!!

Find yourself in the situation first nah.
You don't know anything.
You won't let go.....that is if you can even locate him......
People destroy other people's things and then disappear......
People have stolen millions and then disappeared to where they can't be touched.

DrFunmisticGlow:
yinmu.

Your retirement insuranceschildren are wising up. If you be a deadbeat parent. A word of caution is enough. The Bible never said we should act like mother Theresa to deadbeat parents. Honoring someone doesn't mean they should step on your head and make inappropiate demands,nor act entitled to their children's wealth

You can do whatsoever you like. LEAVE GOD AND HIS WORD OUT OF IT

[quote author=DrFunmisticGlow post=128116509]yinmu.

Your retirement insurances children are wising up. If you be a deadbeat parent. A word of caution is enough. The Bible never said we should act like mother Theresa to deadbeat parents. Honoring someone doesn't mean they should step on your head and make inappropiate demands,nor act entitled to their children's wealth

DrFunmisticGlow:
what kind of gaslighting, offpoint bullsh!t is this. You typed an essay without saying anything in relation to the topic. The scripture is clear. Actions have consequences. I used 2 scriptures to back up my point. You only used one.I

Fvck around and find out season is here for many deadbeat, narcissistic and abusive parents. Winter is here for a lot of you and SHEGE PRO MAX will be unleashed. OP has every right to hate her deadbeat dad. Hate, disinterest and dislike are valid emotions.

Children of nowadays are no longer gullible to be deceived by your tithe extorting pastors.

Why are you deceiving yourself

SINCE YOUR ATTENTION AND COMPREHENSION SPAN IS SHORT, THE 2 SCRIPTURES YOU QUOTED DOES NOT GIVE YOU A PASS TO UNLEASH "SHEGE PRO MAX" ON YOUR PARENTS

YOU ARE TO FORGIVE YOUR PARENTS AND HONOUR THEM. (I have already given you scriptures for this)

God won't force you, but YOU'RE ON YOUR OWN.


Why are you triggered and angry at what the Bible says And your use of foul language plainly reveals worlds of information to me. You had better repent and rid yourself of all anger, unforgiveness and resentment so you don't end up in hell

DrFunmisticGlow:
The same Bible in Ephesians 6:4 says, “Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord” where did Op's father do that?

while Colossians 3:21 reiterates “Fathers, do not provoke your children, lest they become discouraged.”

The father has completely discouraged op, if he dies in a dishonorable way, he had it coming

YOU have ERRED GREATLY!

If God had the same mindset about you, you'll be long dead. Do you think it's by your righteousness that you live and breathe or it's by HIS mercy, long-suffering and goodness toward you?

1. FIRSTLY, WE ALL DON'T DESERVE GOD'S LOVE and FORGIVENESS. WHY? BECAUSE WE ARE all FILTHY
The Bible says all our righteousness are like filthy rags
(Isa 64:6)

So there's NONE RIGHTEOUS.
Rom 3:10

All we like sheep have gone astray; we have turned every one to his own way; and the LORD hath laid on him the iniquity of us all.
Isaiah 53:6 KJV

2. INSPITE OF OURSELVES, GOD STILL LOVED US
What is man, that thou art mindful of him?
Psalm 8:4 KJV
But God commendeth his love toward us, in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.
Romans 5:8 KJV
For God so loved the world....
John 3:16 KJV


God loved us while we were yet unlovely!
sinners! ungodly! filthy!

Now God commands ALL his children to walk in love. We are to love people the SAME WAY and with the SAME KIND OF LOVE that he loved us. And that love includes FORGIVENESS.It is by walking in love toward one another that people will know


By this shall all men know that ye are my disciples, if ye have love one to another.
John 13:35 KJV
If thine enemy be hungry, give him bread to eat; And if he be thirsty, give him water to drink:
Proverbs 25:21
Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy. But I say unto you, LOVE your enemies, BLESS THEM that curse you, DO GOOD to them that hate you, and PRAY for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;
Matthew 5:43‭-‬44 KJV.

I can give you more than enough scriptures, but I don't have the time.
But the message I'm passing across is CLEAR. THE OP HAS NO JUSTIFICATION WHATSOEVER TO HATE HIS FATHER.

Justkatty:
Go back and read what that same portion talked about parents in respect to the children wellbeing.

It's not me you will tell to go back and read. Instead, use your brain to reason where it says in scripture that children are free to dishonour their parents should their parents fall short of bringing up their children in the way of the Lord. The shortcomings of the parent doesn't give the children ANY grounds to DISHONOUR their parents. Why do you think the scriptures talk about forgiveness or you think God is dumb?
So you can't be telling me to read scripture when it's ýou that needs healing and to walk in forgiveness.

Kobojunkie:
The pick-n-chose churchians are never far away with their many lies to deceive people with. What about the other 613 commandments in the book? Do you also keep those or you don't realize that Law you quote from is All-or-nothing meaning that if you don't keep all 613 commandments at the same time, you will get absolutely none of the benefits of that Law.

By the way, that Law only applied in the Land of Canaan.

Then why did Apostle Paul quote this same scripture in his letter to the churches?

And next time, learn to communicate without insult.s and condescending talk. People who do that do not have answers

Justkatty:
You are even a good person sef.
He should thank his ⭐ he gave birth to children with soft heart because hmmmm all those times he kept saying he doesn't have, wherever he was keeping such money,that's what he would have been using.

It's not your fault you spend more when it comes to your mom, he caused it.
Parents should learn,kids won't be kids forever,they see everything and they learn too.
God bless you dear.

Honour your Father and your Mother, that it may BE WELL WITH YOU and that you may LIVE LONG on the earth.
It doesn't say honour your father and your mother only if they have done their duty.

[quote author= post=127666660]Why?

Alright,
this makes more sense now.
Thanks for sharing.[/quote]Don't forget it was co firmed that some commissioners forged the late Governor's signature

letstalksense:
There is this lady I plan to marry, which I have made known to her already even before she travelled for her NYSC. Although she just came back from NYSC service recently. We are just discussing the way forward and on the process I was asking her about her sexual life and how recently she had sex. After insisting for her to answer. She opened up and told me she had a sexual relationship during her NYSC service. And the reason was because I didn't call her at a particular time so she thought I have find anther woman. And that was when I was having some personal challenges. According to her, they ended the sexual relationship in the camp. That she is sorry and all that. I didn't really expect that attitude from her as she seem to look responsible and Godlily. I was just disappointed even though I pretended like everything is well. And I was also thinking she had the courage to tell me the true.

Now I have to make my decision, but needs a matured advise and guidance from a mature mind please.

Do think I should continue my marriage plan with her?

Pease what do you advise I do?

Thanks in advance.

Don't marry her.
Why? She's a W.HORE
Imagine the excuse.
I saw so many responses.
Many sic.k and damage.d people online.
She did what so many ladies (SINGLE AND MARRIED who go for youth service do.
AND SHE DID IT BECAUSE SHE WANTED TO.

dominique:
Tell her to get the rice for her mum with her own money if she feels her mum is badly in need of it. Don't under any circumstances give into her pressure or emotional blackmail. Once you start, the entitled behaviour and demands won't stop. However I don't support your idea of not wanting to give anytime a dime. Tis the season of sharing love and gifts. Gift at your own discretion

Apt

yoniehuin:
She did the right thing by doing family planning, the only issue is not telling you but she did the right thing.

Pregnancy isnt easy, she isnt a machine, at the end, it takes a toll on the woman body

Let her be and let her pursue her dreams

Positive plus negative equals negative
She was W R O N G altogether. Her husband is her HEAD. She took a decision involving both of them without his consent.

EyeCumInPiece:
Baby snake. Less than 3ft if that's 2x2 tile.

Ika limo ejo

Interpretation: A baby snake is wicked.

Romanoff:
I have said this before and I'll say it again, no woman leaves a man who treats her well.

My own MIL, the highest she can stay for Omugwo is 3weeks, she even try for you sef for that three weeks. She will be running back to her husband.

You see a woman that "nags", it is because she still cares about you, when she goes silent, wetin dey her mind, na only she know. She will endure till the right time to bolt. The man will now be wondering where he went wrong not knowing that he went wrong a long time ago, na manifestation he just dey see.

Treat your wives well, don't be a Lion in the home, be relatable, treat your wives with love and respect, develop friendship and intimacy with your wife that will sustain you both till old age.

I know old women who don't stay for Omugwo cause them no fit leave their husband, such husbands are reaping where they sowed ni. If they were bad to their wives, you think the wives will be running back to them?

What kind of old woman wants to start life afresh, even looking for a job in UK at that old age when she should be enjoying retirement with her husband?

Make una dey ask these kind questions.

This is a presumptuous statement.

Why not admit that a woman can be toxic all by herself

Fine. We know the economy of the country is bad and she saw an opportunity to stay behind for a little bit to raise some cash. Nothing wrong with that. But to say she continue to be a pest to her daughter and her family staying rent free and eating free food without paying rent
Whether she likes it or not she will eventually be on her way back.

Poten111:
I have fallen in love with my colleague. She has been so helpful and close to me. We hangout a lot and she creates time for me. She dots me. She is always in a hurry to help and support. If i have a complaint she scampers to look for solution. She buys me lunch and surprises me with snacks and gifts.

I a have a place to go and I impromptu tell her. She volunteers to drive me there. She has a car and I don't. E speak at length every day. Morning and night.

In all this, I reciprocate the gestures. I show her love and respect.

After about a year. I came to the conclusion that I want to date her against my principle of dating colleagues. We once lodged in a hotel where i made my intentions clear. She said she was in a relationship. A distant one but the guy is ready to marry her. He has met her parents.

I know women love to keep their options open to avoid disappointment but i felt betrayed because how is she making out time for me.

I have re-emphasized my interest on two more occasions. She is thinking about it. I feel she wants to go ahead with the marriage plans.

So i have moved on. Cut off consistent communications with her. I rarely respond to her message especially if they are not work related. I have subtly told her that we cannot be having a subtle affair.

She doesn't seem to keep off. She has maintained her fake interest in me.

What do i do?

Quick Question:

Have you two been intimate? If not have you kissed or touched each other in an intimate manner or is it all just platonic

HacheNoire:
Who collected your biscuit? Why are you so pained and bitter early morning?

Abi se oloriburuku ni e ni Or you think this is the time for stup.id mockery, you idiot
Unless you are a thief holding political office can you buy fuel for #1,200 per litre? Or are you in.sane

publicenemy:
I'm not interested in going to heaven abeg... The criterias are too hard, I can't come and kill myself ...
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Don't fornicate
Don't adultery
Don't drink alcohol
Don't this don't that....
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If I miss heaven I will chill out with my other niggas in hell abeg... I go dey sip beer and Suya for hellfire Make una dey eat mango and banana for heaven...

There's no SUYA and BEER in hell, FOOL.
Im fact there's no drop of water
Only TORMENTS and demons and snakes and worms and maggots and sulphur and brimstone and anguish and fearful screaming and cursings and regrets and thick darkness and NO REST and NO RELIEF WHATSOEVER

IkeIgboNile:
This is the first topic i have created since i joined this forum.
For a while now, my mind has been restless, i haven't spoken to my father since i left his house on January 5 2023. We had an argument and i left some days later. I wasn't angry when i left, i just wanted to give him space and find my own way as a man. Though I'm his first born son and his exact replica but we are so different and share very different views.
Some days ago, i called him and was very angry at me and ended the call before i could say anything and he has refused to pick up my calls since then.
I really don't understand why he's angry at me or why he's not taking my calls but i have decided to stop calling him and let him be.

Please any positive advise,will be greatly appreciated.

The day he dies you will slowly realise the stupidity and foolishness of your outlook on life.
Youre operating on the assumption that he can't die suddenly and unexpectedly that's why you will go months without speaking!؟ What is wrong with your head؟؟

Fineman2:
My name is John. I am 35 years old. I lost my first wife in 2020, so I remarried in 2021 so that my daughter can grow up with a motherly love.

However, my new wife has made it a point of duty to always maltreat my daughter.

Each time, I want to interfere, she tells me to stay out of it. I know I should stand up for my daughter but I am in love with this woman because she came into my life when I needed someone the most.

I reached out to the family of my late wife last month to allow my daughter to stay with them while I send money for her upkeep, but they refused. They said my daughter cannot grow up without a mother and still grow up without the presence of a father in her life.

I have had several conversations with my wife and I have begged her to accommodate my daughter since she is yet to conceive but she told me to get rid of her from the house.

She practically complains about everything my daughter does. I am unhappy about this but at the moment, I am caught in between the woman I love and my beloved daughter.

Please what should I do?

What are you begging her for When you beg someone you should be dishing very dirty slaps then you have been charmed.

Don't you know your daughter is in danger of untimely death or are you stupi.d Your wife is your daughter's sworn enemy and you are here talking love. What s.tupid love is that

Haven't you heard the news where some women clubbed their step-daughters to death??
Are you so daf.t or you need a destiny resetting slap
Obviously she has beclouded your senses otherwise you will know that her animosity towards your daughter is a red flag!!! Your own daughter!?!?! Haaaa!



You are the only ally amd cover for your daughter oo. You had better wake up

IyaebeTheGreat:
You better learn self control, no be all women go fit tolerate all these prick giveaway wey una dy do. E fit go market e no go fit work.

Self contorl ko remoté control ni.

Thank God for DNA Diagnostics and Polygraphs and IT.You would think women were saints

Rokiat:
So what do you want us to do?

Advice.....yes
Shut up....yes
Ask stupid questions....nain

frozen70:
Marriage doesn't work that way
Am sure you are not married

How does it work?
Pleasssse, enlighten me

I have been married for over ten yeats, so, sorry! Your being unsure doesn't mean anything to me

frozen70:
I understand how you feel about her treatment to your mum and eventually she passed on because she didn't get the care you have planned for her due to your wife refusal to cooperate with her

Now it's her mums turn, just allow her to come the one let her provide her needs while you focus on the family needs as usual

What she denied you off is what she is requesting your approval to get, such is life

Your refusal may react to another thing

Hmmm!

Awon okurin o raye wa oo!

What is good for the goose is also good for the gander.

All the men should gather here amd take this advoce:

1. NEVER, NEVER PAMPER A BAD WIFE.

2. HANDLE HER WITH AN IRON HAND. LET HER KNOW THAT SHE EITHER SUBMITS OR YOU KICK HER OUT. PERIOD

lhordspy:
Lol. "Singer" Waje with her last hit in 2010.
13years ago

All these forgotten expired yeyebrities found a new way to chase clout and Sneak into limelight again by using Election issue to cookup lies.

I wish police can take up some of this matter very seriously, during investigation you will be shock to find out that most of them dont even have PVC. They will just dress up and be going from one polling unit to another looking for who is going to pinch or march their toe so they can run to social media for their 3hours of internet fame.

We have not had one single report of bully or voters suppression from our celebrities here in the north even though most of the elections here are tightly contested. But in the south, chochocho around, yet they will still produce less voters turnout than the north.

Southerners pay attentions to worthless things and people who dont even worth it. Reason why people go around looking for cheap internet content for fame.

You're either stupid or insane or both.

What has the last time she haf a hit got to do with the issue at hand
So Kate Henshaw that was attacked also dis hers for cheap content and fame that she ALREADY HAS
AWON RIGGING AND CLEARING INC

Do you have any HITS to YOUR MAME??

N3TRAL:
At MIT his name was Patrick Rhodes-Vivour and it's clearly calligraphed on his certificate.

In 2019, his name was Chinedu Rhodes-Vivour when he was contesting for the position of a Senator in a woke dominated district of Lagos State.

Today he's casted his vote as Gbadebo Rhodes-Vivour.

Patriots, expect this dubious character to contest as Haruna Abdullahi Rhodes-Vivour in 2027 for the office of the president of Nigeria after the disgrace he suffers today.

When a baby is born to an educated Yrouba father and an igbo mother, nautrally he will get ENGLISH, YORUBA and IGBO names.

Next time before ypu type, know that not all the people on this forum are mediocre

We can see right through your BIGOTRY and PROPAGANDA

Jeweltz:
This guy has been all about virginity and virginity since we start talking. This is a guy that might've had uncountable sex with all sort of women in America o. Now he comes and he said he love his wife a Virgin. I only ever had about two sexual experience with men . Never seen a grown man obsessed about virginity like that

Leave the Stupid story you're telling.


You want to know if he will know whether you're a virgin because you're fully ready to SCAM him and you're trying to justify yourself and condemn him.

You're better not.

Jman06:
Prof Osodeke and the rest of ASUU leaders are not very wise!

I was supporting ASUU before but withdrew my support when it became obvious that wisdom had taken a back seat in the struggle.

The best thing would have been to obey court order and return to class while negotiation continues.

It seems you don't know what yourr saying!

What stupi.d negotiations is that Or don't you know that what Jonathan signed with ASUU in 2009 (over thirteen years ago) is yet to be implemented

Do you know that the health workers Government forced to return to work four years ago haven't been answered since then That they're still being owed arrears, covid 19 packages etc

Why do you think Government suddenly approved this other union It's very obvious to the determination mind that Government is never sincere