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boninho:
He's tactically deficient, too conservative, very predictable with his playing system.... He's blessed with a very good talented squad but he's not progressive and innovative....hence, we can never see the very best of those players

Zhuhilat:
How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband

Dear all

I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.

Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.

Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,

i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.

On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.

Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .

But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.

I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.

I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.

Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?

Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all

Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.

Emotionally, i am done.

Crixxx:
abeg whats the name of this Nigerian keeper that ended the match.. He looks foreign

tohyorsih2:
#Nobraday#

zeuss:
Kai! Something just didn't make sense to me there.
I have no intention of making anyone feel bad here but I think there was no rape in the whole saga. There was rather a silent attraction that gave birth to mutual conjugality.
Why be around a man for that long if you never liked him?
Why keep mute on him raping you while your sister was in the house if you never liked it?
Why didn't you shout and raise alarm when he was leaving, after the purported rape if you never liked it?
Why didn't you share the first and second rape issue immediately to your beloved family if you never liked it?
Why still go to his church if you never liked it?
Why go stay at his house to help his wife and even sought to sleep in their master bedroom if you never liked it?
Why follow him in his car to drop you if you never liked it?
Why didn't you struggle when he took the u-turn to give you the supposed second rape if you never liked it?
Why didn't you tell anyone again or even the police if you never liked it?
After the third day, when he came to find out why you didn't go to church, why didn't you refuse going to the same church when he asked you to if you never liked it?
Why didn't you show any sign of what he did to anyone? Why conceal the whole issue if you never liked it?
Are you totally innocent
Why didn't you tell us if you ever seduced him?
Why didn't you tell us if you fell for his looks?
Why did you do what you did and are still doing what you're doing to him now? Is it fair?
So because someone accused you of sleeping with pastors in the past and is accusing you of being unfaithful in your marriage now you want to pick on the pastor who was in your past just to cover up on the accusation meted on you?
Who knows if you probably seduced him to push him to that extent?
What looks did you give him when he entered your house with your nighty on? Why didn't you rush to change? Why allow him to come in when you were probably Unclad in a transparent gown?
Please,
Pastors are humans. Let's be fair on them and their weaknesses as human as they are.
Don't go seducing a man with your talent and beauty and expect him to act as brother Paul in the Bible when you refused to leave him and his territory.
A man will chase you and get what he wants when he knows you're interested in him.
We're not fools please ����
The woman should just admit that she was wrong as much as she claims that he was wrong

theButterfly:
Nairaland men will come parading in here any minute now.

remababy:
Tag your favourite Nigerian TV host

A. Frank Edoho
@frankedoho

B. Ebuka Obi-Uchendu
@Ebuka

C. Uti Nwachukwu
@SirUTI

D. Joseph Benjamin

cerpvad:
This one got me. Someone should please tell her that vagina is a self cleaning organ. It requires no effort to take care of itself

ShawttySoFyne:
140k choi my one year rent

folake4u:
Hmmmm "Ugbowo to Textile Mill Junction".
He grew up in Benin then .



Hehehehe, is he single, asking for a friend though .

carzola:
This whatsap chat shows nothing. .
Just a rude stewpid girl. .

Amarabae:
I just don't like this lady and her crap music

pocohantas:
Congrats to her. The publicity was obviously low this year.


I hope Emenike will allow another footballer have her, as he might wanna upgrade again.

AwkaetitiBabe:
All this people saying keep it, do they even know the financial capacity of the new family? Lets drop morality and sentiments aside and reason rationally... You caring for a baby and wanna be saddled with the ish of morning sickness and wahala that comes with pregnancy... Op you guys should safely abort biko.

A305:
Like as if, if he plays for Nigeria, Nigeria will lift the world cup. Rubbish. See that Lexus down my sig

healthserve:
I think say Timi say him be gospel singer. Benjamin sha

davodyguy:
Is this not the guy that lost his father that walked with NTA channel 10 around tear 2010 or so?

JONNYSPUTE:
.. You are the ode here because common sense should ve told you that they have been mating.

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Funny how you people judge issues. She can't wash cloths because he has not married her,but she is fucking him without being his wife. So which is easier? Sleeping with a guy that she is not married to or washing his cloths?No wonder,they say pussy is cheap.

maynation:
Yeah. It's true.
If my guys tries this I swear I am going to bite him. I can't imagine how disgusting it will be.

Seuntek:
I need ur advice. Please tell me the best TV i can get at 100k. Led Tv most preferably. Thanks

Amarabae:
No 6 is a goal
It catalyses the climax the more

tomiwaaa:
Good day medics in the house...
I'm a 22 years old depressed MBBS aspirant with nothing in my mind but suicidal ideations.
I've been at home for 5 years now struggling for admission....
I wrote an A'level exam (IJMB) this year 2019 at KWASU and had 13points Bio: A, Chm:B, Phy:C
I applied to unilorin (MBBS, Direct Entry) and scored 80% all to no avail
pls I need advice and helpful information on schools that will grant me admission into MEDICINE AND SYRGERY 200lvl with my IJMB result of 13points come 2020...
my O'level is 3Cs and 2Bs.
The schools I have in mind are AAU, UNIMAID, UNIABUJA, ABU...
PLS any medical student with an helpful information or advice should pls give me...
I'm tired of being stagnant. my classmates are graduates already delay is killing!

Hintona:
So I'm in a relationship with this really cute guy, tall, dark and handsome but he's always hitting me for the littlest things, it's getting too much we are course mates and he even hits me in front of our fellow course mates. But they usually take it as a joke, to me it's not, I hate it and I've talked to him several times but he always apologises and does it again the next second though he has never beaten me seriously, I hate the knocks on the head and the slaps on the back.

what do I do?

khallebb:
My name is Caleb and I'm a final year student of CRUTECH, studying Human Anatomy and Forensic Anthropology. I have a friend called Esther who happens to be my music manager now. We were really close during my 1st year on campus but along the line, we stopped talking to each other and we gave ourselves space. Not until my 300 level, when we became close again to the point that other students thought we were dating. Funny enough, we weren't dating but it seemed so. I slept in her house a couple of times during my 300 level first semester most especially, exams period. On the last day of exams, I slept in her house again. She complained of severe cold, I wrapped my arms around her all through the night but I was conscious not to think of anything evil cause the girl is damn beautiful and she's very decent and well mannered. I started touching her all over her body but she didn't react, so I kept on and on but I was afraid to make a next move so that I wouldn't end up getting disappointed. At least to some extent, that was what I thought. We woke up in the morning, we talked for sometime and then I left her house. We both went on holidays and then we were so into each other, we'll call, chat and check up on each other by leaving messages on WhatsApp if we were not online. She stays in Abuja and i stay in Calabar so distance was a major barrier. This whole thing continued only for me to ask her out and she said that we should just be friends, that she's not physically attracted to me. I almost died. I listened to her and I shunned the whole idea of dating her but now I'm regretting my actions..Maybe I should have fvcked her. I think I made a terrible mistake. The only problem is that she is very decent and well mannered, respectful and full of wisdom. I couldn't have just been so wicked because of konji. Anyway, we'll soon be resuming for my final year 1st semester cause I'm currently on my IT. Should I fvck her? Or should I just keep her as my very good friend cause the truth is, I don't want to loose her. Please no nonsense comments nairalanders. This is about my emotions and it's really important to me. Thanks in advance for your wonderful comments.

Samuel4689:
So today i told my girlfriend that since three months we started dating she has never one day wash my clothes.

Immediately she got angry, removed my head from her legs and looked at me and said how will she wash my cloth, that she don’t do that, she will never wash my cloth and if I want her to wash my cloth, I should go and marry her because she can not do that.

She continued to say that was how she washed cloth for her ex and did everything who later abandoned her and after she finished washing my clothes and every other thing like a house wife, i will later go and marry another girl (she saw a old Facebook conversation with my ex where i said I’m going to marry her but deep down me i know i was not serious about it), that she can’t wash my clothes and walk out of the sitting room to living room.


Please advise me on what to do about this relationship.

I love her, and I would love to marry her but there are some characters she displays that i hate but think with time she would take correction and change but this her response looking right inside my eyes telling me she can not wash my clothes and walked out of me is so scaring. I need your advice!!!

I want to tell her that if she can’t never wash my cloths she should leave my house??

pocohantas:
Some time ago I was having a talk with some friends and the state of Nigeria's educational system came up- then talk of degrees.

One person among us said he graduated with NEARLY FIRST CLASS. I was wondering what class of degree is that. He isn't the first person I would see say such, as I just saw a post like that on NL.

Is it regret or pride? I don't get it,
You are either First class or a Second Class Upper. Deal with it...