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solmus:
A friend Big sister like Vee

Dharmmie21:
I need an advice,

There is this guy we went to same UNI together, it's been 5 years after school now and I came across him and he told me all stories about LOVE he wants us to date , This happens to be my second visit to his place and to my surprise he saved my name on his phone as "Dammy Ikeja" this is someone that have called me by different love names when we chat

Did he truly love me?

UtopianPassion:
To begin with, please, if you believe in no sex before marriage, keep your opinion to yourself.

I am in a sexless relationship almost 4 years now, from the outset the agreement was no sex.

Honestly speaking if I knew I'd someday be writing on NL seeking advice, I'd have moved on from her, but love got me hooked.

It's ironic isn't it, having a girlfriend and still wanking (sighs!). I find it extremely difficult cheating, as I have never done this with any other woman.

As regards my woman, there's nothing I haven't done except rape (which I can never do). Lots of instances when the only thing left is for the act itself, she begins begging me in theories name of God not to do this to her, she doesn't want to get pregnant, she wants to keep it till her marriage night and all that.

Even when I buy a condom, it's one story or the other. She might even turn her back on me or cover her boobs or her pussy.

Recently, I told her I'm done with the kissing and caressing, it's a cycle whose end I know is always filled with disappointments.

She would then go on to tell me, that does not mean she cannot touch, hug or hold me.

Such happened tonight and there we were again at the beginning of the cycle. When it came to sex, she was telling me to promise her nothing like that would happen.

This is something I can't even discuss with friends and even a cousin of mine, guys would be able to relate more, it's something I'm ashamed of.

These days I even began looking up drugs that lower libido, all because of this issue.

I love her, God knows I do.

I am tired and frustrated from the constant rejections, I can't even sleep.

It's almost 4 years, what else does she want?

sapphiere:
I wish you long life and God's protection dearie.

meobizy:
All that matters to me is how he looks on the stage. The guy should stop hosting the show. It is enough already. He is good, yes we know, but there are 1,000,001 Nigerians who deserve the spotlight also.

buhariski:
Hello pls I need your advice now. I don't know if i should end this relationship or tell her to give me some space for a while until she changed completely. My girlfriend and I have been together for closed to four months now. Though we both work at the same company. There is a day we both closed from work so she told me she will pass the night at my place. I said no problem, when we got home as she is about changing her dress cos she brought some dress along, which she kept inside her bag.
The moment she was bringing out those clothes out from her bag I saw some few products which the company produces. I search the bag to my surprise this girl stuffed the bag full with company goods. I ask her. what are you going to do with all this things you put inside your bag. she told me, it is for personal used. I got angry, when she saw the anger in me she start saying she is selling it to buyers outside. For that moment my mood change. I didn't say anything to her, so she was begging I should forgive her that she won't try such again. I said OK since she promised to stop. she vow not to do it again.
As at yesterday during the closing hour of work i saw her myself she was stealing the company products and hiding it inside her bag. I pretend I didn't see her, so when we got outside I called her to one lone place .
I told her, she put something in her bag she was laughing. I took her bag and showed her the things she took. She became remorseful.she said she had nothing to eat. was that an excuse. I left her without saying anything to her. I know no body holy but I hate stealing.

alabi10:
Attached the logo of Nigeria @60 recreated by Student of our Computer Graphics Training. Let have a gentle criticism of their work please.

FunkyAlhaji2015:
Na so Efe family think too ooo. This bigbrother guys are quickly forgotten, 2years maximum

FunkyAlhaji2015:
Na so Efe family think too ooo. This bigbrother guys are quickly forgotten, 2years maximum

Obierika:
He shouldn't spend all his money on designer wears in an attempt to look cool...there's still a lot he needs to do with money in order to banish poverty for ever from his lineage!

byinks:
Lekan time to move to Akwa Ibom

Misslilbootay:
°°°
As humans, no matter how we claim we don't care about what people say or do, there's always something that makes us lack confidence even if it's a bit of it. There is always something we don't like about ourselves and for me, it's my stomach. Yeah, I waist train and exercise everyday but it's the one thing I can't confidently show off. That's mine, what's yours?

#BodyPositivity

Note - Bad belle and trolls should keep off and if you are too dumb to, at least keep your bad energy to yourself.

Heartlessbanker:
I'm interested in understanding Yoruba and I need a teacher here. All you just have to do is translate anything I ask of you to Yoruba.

If you're interested; please mention me.

Righteousness89:
The Rate at which homes are crashing,
It's Clear the devil is so Intrested in Shattering Families.
He knows and Understands the Power that comes with unity and that is his target!

It's Very Important that Couples have an Understanding of the tricks of the devil against the Home..

There is Need for the Home to have an Altar. An Altar where the Man and his wife Come together to Pray and study God's Word Together.
This is where Lucifer targets first. Once the Altar is Weakened, the Home is at the Mercy of the devil and I Tell you he has no mercy.

Do all you Should to Ensure the Family Altar is not Weakened.
The Family that Prays together, Is the Victorious Family..

Kriss216:
She even reference her nyash as the winner.


Wahala for who no get nyash

Godlove4me:
It will end one day