₦airaland Forum

merbenko:
A close friend of mine was treating by his girlfriend, that if he can't secure a job by December she will brake up with him . He graduated 2014 and served 2015 that was the year he started dating her after his service. He is managing with a private school after various attempt to set his hands on a lucrative job. He call me yesterday and told me about the issue. My answer is to let her go even before December because if wishes are horses no one will likes to be poor. Please if there is any opinion more that I need your help. Please

Tell yourself the truth. Are you happy with yourself as you are poor like that. Your Girlfriend must have seen you becoming too relaxed on mere cheap private school teacher salary. You need something to push you up. Don't allow a temporary blessing become a permanent solution. Your Gf maybe the positive force God is trying to use to make you uncomfortable from your temporary blessing to move up to something bigger.
You shouldn't tag every girl who is pushing you to wake up to bigger opportunities as Gold Diggers.
Reject life of mediocrity. Challenge yourself. Widen your horizon. You can never sustain a family with basic necessity with your present condition. The Girl has a valid reason to be worried. But at the same time you supposed to have known her and her xter to differentiate between Gold digging mentality and a valid concern of a loved one.

TheUpsetGirl1:
if you have this things.. trust me your marriage will peaceful 100%


1. Money
2. Money
3. I repeat, Money
4. Have Money and there would be no quarrels
5.If there's money ,peace is guaranteed... ijust looked up your profile and i realised that you will be very good for money ritual







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Kimbraa
Highqueen
Chikita66
MhizzAj
Rukkydelta
XhosaNostra
Lionezza
Safiaa
Safarigirl
Biacan
Blackhawk03
Oyindidi
Missraine
Lilyann71

i just looked up your profile and i realised that you will be very good for money ritual

life2017:
sell all the refinery as scrap for 1 dollar to an international company who can revamp it with huge investment and manage it efficiently.

Government don't have refineries in United State, UK, France, Italy etc. Refineries are own by private corporations. Nigeria govt should stop investing and wasting money on Refineries.

Selling it off just like that is not the solution. The PHCN they sold off like that, what do we have. Every month your bills will keep increasing while the no of hours the power is provided to you keeps decreasing.

Coitus:
Entrepreneurship is good but Nigeria is not business friendly. I've witnessed a lot of people around me suffering because their business has crumpled, forget all this nonsense motivational speakers talk/write about entrepreneurship, in an actual practical sense using Nigeria as a case study, its very very hard. Learning a skill and leaving the shit hole of a country has become my only goal.

Because you are not motivated enough. Failure is part of entrepreneurial skills. Great entrepreneurs fail many times and still find a way to stand out. With your mindset find a job, learn to manage your salary, any amount you will still be happy. Don't forget to ask your employer how many times he failed so that you will have a different story to tell your children

So. There is nothing Jonathanian about this News. Dude is a relation of the current Vice President, comes from the most prominent family in Yoruba land. By the way curryiny favour from the most influential family from each region is expected close to the period of Presidential election

Okoyeebos:
Traditionally, the SE doesn't vote Against the ruling party at the Presidential elections. 2015 was a miscalculation because they thought Goodluck was going to win.

In 1999, they betrayed Ekwueme at the PDP primaries and voted Obasanjo at the elections.

In 2003, they betrayed Ojukwu who contested under APGA and voted for Obasanjo of PDP.

In 2007, they betrayed Orji Uzor Kalu of PPA and voted Yar'Adua of PDP.

In 2011, they voted Goodluck under PDP instead of Osita Okechukwu.

In 2015, they voted GEJ again, but he lost.

Opposition politics is new to the SE and they can NEVER survive it. One reason is that the SE hasn't had a central rallying force since the time of Ikemba. The present leaders are just fraudsters, thieves and crooks.

The SE votes are very inconsequential simply because they are predictable. Buy the leaders and the people vote as usual. That is what the present PDP and APC leadership is rubbing in the faces of the PDP members at the national level.

Mark this post, by 2019, the SE would vote massively for the APC even if it is an Hausa goat not even human being that is contesting.

This is the bitter truth.

The reason is because most people in south East don't vote, it is mostly the Politicians and those who gain directly from them that do come out to vote, so the Politicians aligned with the party at the center are always the ones with resources to gain from. That has always been the case of the South East. If people will come out to vote, then this your assertion will be proved wrong, if not it will always hold true.

soberdrunk:
See face like rotten cocoyam! How someone can believe that this woman that looks like the ambassador for "African poverty' can get him a job with ordinary 'local government chairman' is a mystery to me

Mr man you are always sober drunk true true

Letzdothething:
Many years ago I loved a girl so much but she broke my heart because she finished school before me and she moved on fast. Till this day I still get angry thinking about that because that's the only genuine love I ever had for a girl. Though she wants us back but I can't do it.

Today God blessed me with a job. I earn over 180k as a 25yrs old with a big company but I can't seem to love again. Any girl I date I get tired and am always bitter about love issue. I dump ed my last 2 girl friends for a flimsy excuse.

I can't continue like this. She's gone and I need to move on but I can't but I am so bothered.

What do I do? Anyone ever been in suct situation?

Who gave you 180k Job with this your BRAKING heart

They give them 8yrs to rule a state then they turn around claiming that the Government house is an extension of their Private Estate.
Stupid Bingo. Did Victor Attah determine who occupy which seat during your eight years stay as Governor.

b0rn2fuck:
Hope sensibilities topic continue making front page from today

Seriously any topic that made FP and this your moniker appears on it then that topic has become insensible

iamrealdeji:
how were you almost a victim bro?

My Girlfriend of almost a year was positive. She was positive before I met her. I've already left her before I got to knew that she was positive all the while taking the drugs but I never knew. It took me almost a year and half of constant HIV tests to free my mind of fear of been infected.

TheTrueApostle:
In case u don't know. Those are drugs for HIV patients...




Ladies, please y'all should be careful.

Seriously you are you are saying ladies be careful, so men are not also endangered in this scenario. I was almost a victim of such situation.

Senseless id1ots .So few jobless guys storing PMS in 20litres jerry can will solve nationwide fuel shortage.And they are bragging about their stupidness

Benita27:
Look up the meaning of a "Thief". Spending on a woman is a product of your benevolence, and not stealing. You can't sue her 'cause she rejected you after spending on her 'cause she didn't ask for it. It's not a loan. That's the more reason why some of you should spend wisely, and not use money to make ladies feel they're indebted. Once they feel indebted they may be dating you for that reason and not because they genuinely want to which is a redflag in any relationship.

That's correct but most Guys fail to see beyond their limited view. Why should I want to marry a lady who is with me because of financial security I provide. Spend on a girl that is not yet your wife the limited amount you can comfortably afford. When she says it is over, you will comfortably separate with no hard feelings. Human beings are not dogs you train to be loyal for life.

Indeed Success have unlimited no of friends but failure is a destitute orphan. Sharp Sharp Nigeria is beginning to claim this guy who said that he is now a Briton

The White Lady just bought a new toy

Philosophia:
Thank you so much.

My brother, I will be candid with you. My biggest problem is that I love this lady with my beign. She is the only girlfriend I have ever had. 3years. I have often visualized our life together. We talked about family, kids, everything.

I am an introvert, who hardly gets close to people. I am a guy that usually doesn't give a Bleep unless I want to. But this stuff hit me. It hit me where it hurts. As I type this tears are springing from my eyes. I'm trying to stop but it hurts.

My whole life just seems useless. I don't know exactly what to do. I feel lost.

That
is the reason my friend. Get out there, Man up and befriend many other girls, whatever you think this lady has that is spoiling your day, there are ladies that have double of that. Human beings are naturally afraid of change and that is what is happening to you.
You can't can't be brooding over someone who has rejected you because of your financial situation and you are still calling love.

Take a day and mourn the loss of that girl, her loss is best thing that have happened to you.
Your utmost concern now should be your financial situation and let me tell you 99% of girls are a clog in the wheels as far as financial breakthrough is.
It is a fight you have to fight on your own without leeches on your neck.

Note I'm an introvert like you, used to see one girl as all and all. (That is what we introverts does best, we are always the loyal friend and partner) until she misbehaves and I learnt my lessons
Get out there and talk to any girl that takes your fancy, you see that you don't have to mourn for anyone that doesn't give a hoot about you.

I pity Kogi People for electng a dull brain to represent them .

hahnsmall:
Starting a business in this country is not easy though

Do you
think there is anywhere in the world starting a business is as easy as to boil beans.

pocohantas:
Naija babes...always repping.
Unlike our guys with low foreign exchange value.

Lefulefu come and see o.

People like you with your bad mouth your exchange value will be equivalent to Zimbabwean Dollar.

biacan:
She's such a lucky girl......no need to suffer cause her hubby has already worked his ass out just to make her happy.......wish I can be this lucky

See how uninformed you are. So once you have a white skin then you are automatically rich or comfortable in life. I weak for your ignorance.

nurey:
True, I am a living witness

But they should make permanent card faster, I had to wait 6months before I received the permanent card and they text me 2weeks after I have collected to go and collect at their Lagos office. Funny government ways.

I am looking for free North Korea visa, anybody who can link me to Kim jung-un

If you know how to produce a nuke that will wipe out America within a minute, you are good to to go. That's the only condition. Hit me up if you have the knowledge and I will link you up Kim

Hmmm. Hope dey for people waiting for 7 Virgins in Heaven.

That is Turai Yaradua's Pet project as a 1st lady. When they are in Govt, they will be wasting public fund in the name of pet project claiming philanthropy with our collective wealth. Outside Government house then we know who is truely philanthropic.

LexngtonSteele:
Osita Chidoka is just like his father in law, Ojo Maduekwe. ..An opportunist who doesn't have Ndigbo interests at heart.

Won't be a popular opinion but it's the truth. Ojo said any "Igbo aspiring to be President is mad" when Alex Ekwueme contested against OBJ for PDP presidential ticket.

A lot of folks who know Osita one-on-one don't have good things to say about him

So Chidoka is Ojo's Son in law.This explains why he was able to achieve FRSC corps Marshall at a very young age.Nigeria and Nepotism. If you don't know anybody you are going nowhere

Zuma is getting the same treatment he helped to give Thabo Mbeki

God works his miracles on peoples life in a very unusual way.To lift that boy off ignorance, poverty and hopelessness and push up to life of enlightenment, hope and upliftment,he used his father to push him to the lowest ebb of his life.The way God used Joseph's brothers in a very unusual way to uplift him

Haphard:
Kindly edit the post and put ur name their

there there there there there. Go and collect balance of your school fees from your English Teacher.

This is the kind of simpletons that have been left to handle affairs in this country, very childish. Are you still thinking while our country is still a child at over 55yrs.

Esseite:
Can someone put up picture of known ty danjumas highrise in the heart of V.i?

Can someone put up pictures of known atiku's highrise in the heart of V.i?

We fail to pursue people without and iota of career/business profile to check their massive wealth amassment but we dilly dally on that which have a track record of.. charge her to court and convict her period.

The moment Pdp's struggle comes to an end........ dieziani comes up all over the media..

Previous opec president
Prebious Minister - mines and steel
Previous minister - transportation
Previous Minister - Petroleum
High ranking - oil and gas coys board member international and local asides other sectors coys and member of their boards...
International accolades etc...

If kachikwu earned over $1m in mobil oil as Vp/mth, asides gifts and cashbacks, entitlements and PR. We are now talking about a woman who held positions miles ahead of that..

FAMFA oil and gas is the richest woman i guess, how did she amass her wealth, this is a woman who joined the oil and gas industry when dieziani was an ED with shell ?

We have not even asked questions about one time governors that turned multi billionaires and trillionaires or senators or old military men etc..

She might be guilty of crimes, charge her to court and win the case.. not all this propaganda here and there..

Hey Mr Defender of the Oppressed. Please ask your oppressed poor why she should be moving her legally acquired $37 million dollars in cash.Maybe we will start to help you defend her from there

jguy007:
On the 5th of July 2017, i resumed work at a prestige hotel in Ikeja through a man i met at a car wash while i was washing cars for stipend to earn a living. The day i met him, i just finished washing a car and i worked up to him and requested an audience, and then told him i was looking for a job because am a computer engineering graduate trying a make a living, and all this took place sometime around February. He agreed to help and I, without giving much though didn't bother him anymore cause i was already tired of telling people i needed a job when i already know jobs are hard to come by these days. But surprisingly he came looking for my with the MD of a hotel and (devil is a lie) i wasnt at the car wash that moment,i went to see someone. He waited and waited and at some point was angry,then he left only for me to return few minutes later to be told he came looking for me...i was mad
*******************fast forward to 2weeks back*************************
He called one early morning and asked to meet me at the car wash so i could go see the MD that morning and i did. She interviewed me for few minutes, collected my C.V and asked me when i would like to resume work.So eager i said the next day and she was fine with it.Ever since that day i never saw her again but i was going to work and enjoying it too
**************************4days later*******************************
While on my shift, i made some sales and then early that morning,on my off day( cus i sleep in the office and handover sales made earlier the next day to my colleague) between 2am and 3am, two guest worked in to book a room. I assigned rooms to them and they paid me cash. I then handed the money to my colleague that was on duty that morning and went home only to return the following and discover while going thru the records that she only recorded one out of the two rooms i sold for her that morning. I searched the whole books for that room but couldn't find a trace of it, then i knew something was up. I never confronted her about it but i just decided to watch if twas gonna happen again.
**************************4days later after that*******************************
A similar thing occurred and this time so obvious. Four friends came in early in the morning on my off day and one of them paid cash for two rooms which i allocated to them and again gave the money to the same colleague before leaving that morning.On returning on my shift, she wrote down the two rooms sha but wrote 1POS and 1CASH, which was a lie cause i was the one that collected cash from them and they never paid thru POS.
**************************back to present day*******************************
Have been thing of confronting her directly but i cant cause i noticed too that she isnt alone in it, the manager is in with her and they are kind of close(i noticed it on the first day of resumption)
I also thought of telling the man that made me get the job cause later i found out that the MD is his wife, which was a shocker to me cause till now i didn't submit an application letter or bring in any guarantor before i got the job.
I don't wanna betray his trust either cause this might be a test to me
PLease friends what do i do?
NB: AM SURE THIS ISN'T THE FIRST TIME ITS HAPPENING....SHE OR SHOULD I SAY THEY HAVE BEEN DOING IT BEFORE I CAME. I DON'T HAVE PROOF OF THAT BUT I GUESS SO CUS NOW THEY THINK AM DUMB SINCE I DIDN'T NOTICE THE FIRST FRAUD ,WHICH I DID BUT KEPT QUIET THAT'S WHY THEY COMMITTED ANOTHER.

Fraud by staffs in hotels is same with that in places like Banks. it is usually like organised crime. from the top everybody is involved.when you are newly employed they watch you with suspicion trying to know the type of person you are while doing deals on top of your head .when they see you can be corrupted and that you are not suspiciously close to the owner of the business then they will let you in into the dirty deals going on .Trust me it is a matter of time when they let you in to the deals.
It is all on you to and your conscience to choose to leak it to the MD or join the bandwagon.Those guys do make up to 5 times their salary through that dirty deals monthly so you better watch your back if you are going to be the snitch because they are going to be ready for you.