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Kobojunkie:
Objectivity decrees you only give advice on marriage to a younger woman but not to an older woman since you have no personal experience of such things to begin with.

There is nothing myopic about common sense.

I WILL NEVER ADVICE A MAN TO MARRY A WOMAN 6 YEARS OLDER THAN HIM... So what's your problem with this?

Kobojunkie:
You shouldn't even be advising anyone on anything you don't yourself have experience with or at least have some sort of exposure( preferably direct) to.

That's a myopic way of reasoning.
I am an experienced married man with kids. I must not marry a woman 6 years older than me before I can advice anybody on such issue that is so glaring. I cannot advise my younger brother to marry a woman older than him with 6 years. The advice I will give to my brother is what I will advise another. I am been very objective.

Kobojunkie:
So by the statement in bold, have you actually dated an older women and actually seen her age faster the you or are you here regurgitated what others have instead told you or such things?

Out of one side of your mouth you proclaim that experience is the best teacher yet while revealing you have none of that experience to actually boast of except what others equally as ignorant as you feed to you.

Let us be objective and stop arguing like a debutant you are. I cannot advise my younger brother to marry a lady six years older than him.

Kobojunkie:
Stop looking to others to validate your life and existence.

Too many of you go from cradle to grave never once actually making your own decision because most everything you do so based on what others have done in their own lives. What is the worth of you as an individual if you exist only to copy others and doing life exactly as others do it. ?

Experience is the best teacher. This is a simple thing to understand. Women age faster than men. Allow him do the experiment. He will display the results for you to see. Marriage is sacred. Unless you want the young man to start funny lifestyle in his marriage when the age thing clocks in. To avoid wahala, marry at worst your age mate. That's my opinion.

That's what they will say, age isn't a barrier... I want you to do an experiment. Look for a 44 years old woman and also look for a 38 year old guy. The difference you see, it's what you will see when you are just 44 years and she is 50 years. You will now understand that numbers are really numbers. Lol! By the time you are 55 years and still hot, she is 61 years, then you will also understand that age is a barrier. People that married their age mate, ask them how the journey be not to talk of 6 years older than the man. How old was Abraham and that of his wife? If you guys are not age mate, forget her. Simple!

Imo State prophecy, how far? Please go and rest joor!

GraciousGod190:
no bro, am a business man.
finishing Ssce is enough, am 36 years old I should upgrade myself because her family refused to accept me for who I am.
if this is the end of our relationship, so be it.

You sound very egotistical. If you have taken such decision, why then did you post this write up? If you were the parents of this lady, you will take more stringent decisions than them.
Anyway, everything depends on the lady because if she opens her legs, you do your work and it clicks, the parents will be the one to beg you to come and do the needful. Decide with your woman. She is the determinant.

... From Katsina State? Who did this to us??

I condemn the act of a man slapping his wife. Its a condemnable act. I don't support that. There are ways to convey your correctional messages to her. As for her, she took a very wrong step. She does not expect the family to spend their little earnings at the police station as a Result of an error from the husband.
Please Sir, forgive her. Let peace reign. She should also apologize too. You are the man of the house. Be in charge. Remember, Love endures all things. God bless your home.

My best actor. I am so happy for you.

As for me, God gave us evil and good to choose. If you like smoke from today till tomorrow, I am happy cardiologists must eat. When its time for your judgement, you will know whether its a sin or not.

Its like you prefer these highway ladies abi? Sorry!

Its so amazing. Lol! My senior brother is a captain so I know how the whole thing looks like. Well, one advice for you is '' Don't count your eggs before they are hatched. Happy Sunday.

God bless you my sister. Nice articulation. It's only God that is there for us.

Please Sir, can 4 million build a 3 bungalow (with normal zinc like Cameron zinc) where a bag of cement is #3200? Also, what's the best way to start up a building especially as a civil servant?

At least, he likes education. Happy Birthday ORO!

You are a virtuous woman. Your husband is a lucky man. God bless your home, Amen.

Back in the old school days, my roommate Martins ate Rice with Pap! I joined him. Crazy experience!

The Alpha and Omega! The God that sees the end from the very beginning. He who sings prays twice. Keep praising him my soldiers! HE NEVER FAILS.

cococandy:
why would Jesus be particularly interested in their case? I don’t see you calling on him when women share men.

This is the same line of expression. Jesus Christ should come so that all these will just end.

AntiChristian:
I am human. So what do you expect?

But can you answer the question?

Where your wisdom stops is where God's own starts. Be careful!

AntiChristian:
So why didn't Jesus know the hour when he was asked?

His father refuses to inform him?

You are just using human wisdom here. Be careful!!!

Jesus Christ should just come and end this mess in this world.

I am a married man with a son. Women are in charge of their home. Take charge of your marriage. You have what it takes to do that.
Erase the issue of your husband cheated on you etc. Man up! Spice up your relationship with your God given man so that you will have peace and your son will have a future.
As for your ex boyfriend, he just wants a bite once more. Run away from him.
Just bear in mind that there is always a tomorrow.

I guess she got that admission to study medicine because the father is a minister and not that she got up to 300 jamb score. A guess shaa!

I guess she got that admission to study medicine because the father is a minister and not that she got up to 300 jamb score.

This tool known as sex the devil is using to manipulate humans, if we can say NO to it, I think most of us will make heaven. What's even so special about sex? Rubbish!

That's why its called a film.

Sponsors of Big Brother Naija, have they seen this

Nawa oooo! Are you sure its not the Industrial Physics that led to his calamity?? It's unfortunate.

The devil is just using this sex as a tool to send people to hell. Your write up is wonderful but base on my past observation, its mostly believers that will read this and not mainly those who indulge in the evil act.