₦airaland Forum

The guy wanted to marry a white woman. But you forced it. That only means you destroyed his plans and there is a karma for that.

When such things happens and other plan if his doesn’t work he will begin to blame you. That you are the cause of his failure. When a man tell his wife to give him space like when you leave the house it means he is going through alot. I thinking things are not working for him as it should be. Him sleeping with many girls means he is trying to cut you off and Bleep other girls to try his luck

Maintaining car nor he beans oh. Anyone who struggles to buy a car will find it difficult to maintain the same car.

Engine oil is over 15k now. Not even synthetic oil oh. Fuel daily and other unplanned expenses due to bad road.

DeLaRue:
Hmm...it's a little complicated.

Even after her brother offered to put in N3.5m, your wife could have told him, that's very nice of you. I will discuss it with my husband and get back to you since he's the one providing the N1.5m balance.

It's just a respect thing.

But that didn't happen so the next best thing is for your wife to ask his brother to call you and discuss the purchase.

Again, that'll be a subtle way for your wife to send a message to her brother that her husband's participation in the decision to buy the car is necessary.

You calling your brother in law is not the right thing to do.

Tell your wife to ask his brother to call you.

If he calls, thank and appreciate him, and inform him you will give your wife the N1.5m to add to the purchase price.

If he refuses to call, then clearly your wife should not continue with the purchase.

You need to assert authority in a sensible, and considerate manner.

You sound like a gentleman and I appreciate you want the best for your wife. But certain things must be done.

DO NOT CALL THE GUY. YOU WILL LOSE RESPECT.

the brother will not help if he knows its the husband that own the 1.5m

Greenfaces:
c180 Mercedes classic is a very good car. Very low maintainance and fuel cost. Its not flashy but its a very good car to start with and it's less than 3.5m

nice one

Used shocks except you were there when they removed it from a tokumbo car. Otherwise it’s Nigeria used shocks that was worked on.

China used is far better. And more costly

..Nigeria is a banana republic.

Lawlessness and unprofessionalism

What were you doing before you got married?

If i heard you correctly you said you are jobless how were you able to get married and have a child.? Feeding and paying rent if you said you are jobless.

That’s less than a million dollars.

Maybe he is trying to secure a contract or a deal

Beans of all crops. You nor see yam or casava.
Maze and othes.

The best way to farm cash crop is fire. Burn the bush during dry season. The fire help to reduce pest, kill disease and fertilize and prepare the soil. Fertilize the soil when planting.

From your picture the leaves is still green. More like diseases effect your crop and not the chemical

Your problem started with obaseke when you tried to hijack the state house of assembly? Of what use when you already have seating governor and you are deputy?

Your principle wouldn't be comfortable with such stunt. It was the beginning of your problem. From that day obaseke was not longer free with you or trust you again after he encountered your plains to hijack the state house and distance you.

When you started showing interest to become the governor that worsten everything.

Next time spray little portion of the farm.

If it turns out well you can then spray the rest.

Renew hope

Nicepoker:
When you talk about farming in the villages, Most of them still deploy crude method of farming basically manual. How do you expect them not to appeared haggard. I hope you know there are tractors equipped with Ac. Imagine such a farmer.


An average village farmer will use weeks for land preparation. But a tractor will execute same amount of work in few hours.

but I have heard of village market where food are plenty and very cheap? Are they not the same farmers?

No, I have one she is the first daughter and bread winner.

She is begging me for marriage. But I can see so many things she is not seeing. I just refuse oh.

If she is from well to do home at atleast manageable. But from a poor family run oh you can't escape the billings.

The money she is making you are not seeing it in her body.

austine4real:
Another thing is that exposure to much too much sunlight

they should invest on farmers hat

missjekyll:
This is a very low information thread. Or are you trolling us?

You mean you don't know why malnutrition is more in rural areas?

This is astounding. If you are still there, make some friends,then ask them this question.

Gosh

I thought they have food and bush meat more than people in the city

You stop going there. Thats the reason. It hard to start going there again

1TrippleCee:
My dear, Satan has them in blindness. There is a river in the rural community I came for a project. If you stand 30-60 minutes, you can count up to 100 fishes within this time space. Do you know that common to buy two fish nets like 4,000 Naira to be getting daily access to fishes, these people refused to do it.



There are bush animals but now very limited unlike back in the days. If each household has two traps they will have stable access to meat weekly. But they refused to do it



The youths do not have eyes that see the maximum gains in farming and those that farm can't optimize to increase and expand enough to create jobs and opportunities for others just themselves.



When our forefathers farmed they do everything. The current breed of farmers only aim for the market abandoning self care. Those haggard people you think are suffering are just behaving that way to attract pity and then not draw attention to themselves most times for fear of witchcraft. But they overdo it and abandon themselves. When I see farmers farm for the market but abandon themselves I always laugh at their fullishness.


For me, I got seeds aside from my market farming. I have all sort of seeds like :


Lemon Grass cuttings

Ugwu seeds

Tomato seeds

Pepper seeds

Okro seeds

Soya beands for oil production




Averagely a farmer can buy varieties of vegetable seeds at say 4,000-5,000 Naira

NPK 6,000 Naira


Clear bush, make ridges. Just two acres can house the assortments I mentioned above and even maize. Lease is 20,000 Naira


100,000 Naira can get them to farm two acres



But they will not because village people have wickedness to others and self in their blood stream and wickedness blocks the eyes of reasoning and thinking

Their biggest problem is that they don’t buy seeds. They replant the bad product from their harvest. Farming on the same land without nourishment.

CoronaVirusPro:
The best part is that, they live longer despite all!

not true. They old faster that why you may think they live longer.

Go and see 45-55years looking like 70years.

Its just the same way children from poor home look stronger to children from rich homes.

I was invited to a wedding in one igbo village like that. For many years now which I cannot even count i have not entered any village and see alot of village people at a gathering.

It’s believed that village people are predominantly farmers. And as such there are alot of food for them as food are relatively cheap over there, also most of the food we eat in the city comes from there.

As i have heard from many elderly people who like to go and retired in the village.

I was shock to see haggard and malnourished gathering of village elders and youth alike.

One thing that cross my mind is this people not predominantly farmers? Why are they looking like this? I was told village people are poor and there are no money. And i ask I thought this people have food like yams, garri and vegetables? Also with bush meats?

They laugh and told me there are no bush meat anymore in the bush, probably they wipe out all the bushmeat’s from trade, and the old papas are just peasant or subsistence farmers of which the soil doesn’t produce much. And the village youth don’t farm.

No wonder all the village youth from igbo land want to come to lagos and other cities. They see every opportunity to milk everyone that come to village from the cities for any traditional rights. Either for Burial or wedding. As long as igbos continue to go to their village for marriage or anything unlike other tribes. The exorbitant billings will never end. They see marriage as time to cash out.

They need education on better farming . Like the best seeds and fertilizer as most of them always plant the bad seeds.

Villages in Europe are not like this na

Nothing is permanent. Enjoy your moment while it lasted

95% of young Nigeria men will abscond with the money.

75% of young Nigeria women will abscond with the money.

40% older Nigeria men will abscond with the money

30% older Nigeria women will abscond with the money.

StrongAlphMale:
As a man you need to feel guilty spending on a Nigerian parasite knowing fully well that your mom and sisters are there.

How you can even spend on a girl who cannot spend on you in return baffles me. The question is "what would she give back in return aside her over used kpekpus" ?

Dating a Nigerian girl is the most 3rd foolish thing on earth.

i have developed an habit. Before i send any girl money i will first send to my mom or sister times two of that money before i send her.

If you send ur sister money she will never forget it. But send to a girl she will just forget about it few minutes

Poor people have a mindset of hating the rich.

Many believe they are poor because you are rich.
Some believe that every rich people are ritualist.
Poor people are happy when the rich becomes poor.
Every youth that is rich is a yahoo plus.
If you help the poor with cash for business and the business failed they will tag it evil money.

During the last election when we try to save the country by liberating it from darkness. Rich states like abuja, lagos, rivers, dalta, edo e.t.c where on the far front wasting their time. While the poorer states, like ekiti, kano, borno, benue said no. So what can the rich do? Just leave them to their problem.

Despite buhari government was the worst in Nigeria it was my best period in Nigeria. Similar thing will happen this Tinubu time. But for the sake of poor Nigerians we fight tooth and Neil to unseat buhari during the second term same thing with last election but the poor people didn’t show any concern of the future of this country.

So I don’t feel pity for any poor Nigerians anymore. I enjoy with no guilt.

It's Possible but not best of it grade.

Us has been known to steal people with capabilities. Us has the capital and finance but need people with ideas in other to claim the glory and success

Fatal doesn’t necessarily mean deaths. An escape or death cheat can still be called fatal

He should have donated tractors and farm tools to his people. Donating vehicles to Nigeria police is a wast even so that’s the responsibility of federal government as captured in the yearly budget.

In 9 months time you would not even recognize those vehicles again

It seems to me I have been wasting money but i had no choice than to still subscribe it since I can't just leave the TV like that.

I don't seem to find ano channel and program that should make me waste 7k monthly.

Here are the channels I do watch and the problem lacks content it's just repeating of what you have watch before.

Nat geo wild
Cartoon network and cantoonito
Discovery family
MMNet HD

I don't seem to find anymore channel to watch. Need help to locate a program or channel otherwise this year I will not sub like I uses to.

Note I don't watch Bollywood or Nollywood

Funny enough i only listen to radio when I’m driving. And it must be jam. If not I will just switch the channel

Your product is Picked beans. Hand picked selected beans

You don’t sound like hausa girl

Owl is an evil bird or bad omen. Any animal that can’t stand light is evil manipulated.

Some people have a bad day when say saw an owl. In many cultures owl is an evil bird and omen.