otipoju: So if your younger brother is misbehaving and frustrating the hell out of you, you will not tell your husband...because to you na outsider ?
Like I said you never marry before.
And if she chooses not to tell me? Is it everything that happened to you, you do share with your wife too? You guys just like to bring mountain out from ant's hole.
Meanwhile, I biliv u know who you are replying? y marriage is more than a decade and still glowing.
otipoju: It's obvious you have never been married.
When time reach you go talk true.
I agree both of you should never stay in a family house though, and even staying close to both inlaw is not ideal...but pretending that members of your family are saints and do not have faults will land you in back in the streets eventually because you will never be fair when conflicts arise between your family and him. Your husband will see through you and will resent you for this even if him no talk, but him affection for you go dey reduce dey by day.
Secondly you still see him as a stranger...if you are still referring your siblings as your family. Who you husband come be? you never ready.
DID YOU WANT A WIFE THAT WOULD ALWAYS INSULT HER FAMILY MEMBER TO PROOF LOVE FOR YOU?
I doubt if you read to understand that aspect in her comment, perhaps, you want woman that would be worshipping you,all in name of marriage..... she said .. NEVER TALK DOWN OF YOUR FAMILY MEMBER BEFORE YOUR HUSBAND,
DeBrain045: Okay actually this question poped up in my mind for a while now, are Tall guyz really attractive to ladies at first sight?? I have alot of friends thou and colleagues any time we hangout together there this kinda feel i notice from ladies when the taller ones talk them or wo them me personally have experienced it, pls keep character aside o, dat why i said at first sight am not short sha
If you are tall and a well built body structure, you have sex appeal from women, this is confirmed fact. Many women will like to date you, but not all.
If you don't want to spend shishi, make sure you don't toast random women, but only women who give you greenlight.
I have a childhood friend, since our teenage years till now, that had been his weapon to bed women for free. Infact,they spend for him.
PantShifter: Being married to 4 women in this harsh economy is highly commendable but the guy has serious work to do to keep them happy.
Anyway he has 4 different pùssies so he won't get bored
Truth always bitter to utter! While they would be with him as wives, different men waiting outside to help him satisfying them, if possible, given them pregnancies.
If wife who doesn't have single rival still sneaking outside to enjoy herself, how much less 4 energetic women competing for rod of old man. ..........3×4= 2wks.
Which means, a woman that spend 3 days with you, must wait for the next 2 weeks before she even dream of sex. Haba.
Ibkay32: For someone in their 30s living under their parents' roof, the situation can bring about a mix of emotions and challenges. However, just because someone isn't living with their parents doesn’t necessarily mean everything is going perfectly in their life. It’s easy to assume that independence equates to success, but the reality is that every situation, whether living at home or on your own, has its own set of struggles. People may face pressures in other areas of life, financially, mentally, or emotionally, regardless of where they live. Sometimes, staying with family offers a form of support that others might not have, and that's something not everyone can easily understand. Each person's journey is unique, and outward appearances don’t always reveal the full picture.
You only shalaye to proof a point, by 25 you supposed to have started your own journey of life. So irrespective the situations that still holding you, since you are still staying with your mama and papa, you are a domestic servants to your parent.
NB. YOU CANNOT TOTALLY SEPARATE YOURSELF FROM ERRANDS DAD MIGHT SEND MAID, SINCE YOU STILL MUCH UNDER HIS ROOF, HE WILL SEND YOU.
kcpumping: Well, Mr blogger, the truth is that what has happened here is a normal thing in the eastern region and it helps to build stronger bond and to reassure the ladies parent that she will be well taken care of where she is going. If you watch the video very well, you will agree with me that at a point the guy on shirt was even been told to slow down while he winked on the brother and smiled....ike adighi eme na ogo. No man goes to his inlaw place to fight them...Happy new year
Do everything to defend nonsense, anyway the year you will know the truth, is the year they will set you free.
Family will exhaust the groom, without even thinking that their daughter is going to that family and they will feed and take good care of her, they would fight as if the husband would not continuing giving the bride family,gifts till end of his life on earth.
AFTER THIS FIGHT NOW, HOW ARE THEY GOING TO SEE THEMSELVES WHEN THE MARRIAGE IS OVER?
GistMedia0: Is it true that the Marine Kingdom has allegedly released strange women into the world, as claimed by Dr. Daniel Kolawole Olukoya, the General Overseer of the Mountain of Fire and Miracles Ministries (MFM), in one of his New Year prophecies? If so, how can these women be identified?
Strange women had always been in midst of humans, since time immemorial,even before Jesus Christ.
Meanwhile, people going nude and doing all sort of nonsense, because of money paying them on different social media platforms after viewing.
Conmen should stop using changes in norms and culture in the society, often caused by advancements in technology to deceive gaulible followers.
Before she became pregnant, we've been close and at some point I liked her which she was aware of but didn't give the green light because of her guy then and of course I didn't mind much...so we continued our friendship
Fast forward to the aftermath of the pregnancy and birth of the child. The parents refused to give their consent to the guy wedding Sharon saying he's not God's will for her. The catch is, she was incommunicado for a long while following the trauma in the pregnancy and her parent's decision. I tried reaching out to her to know how's she doing as every normal friend would do. One thing led to another and we became close, now she talks of how much she likes me and why it took her so long to noticed it. Infact she was saying I'm the only one she could get married to and all that ...
Well, I told her to hold on till I've heard from God and I've prayed about it but nothing yet...I really doubt what she feels for me and I think she's using me as an escape route since no guy will accept her again with a child
Please nairalanders, do you think I'm overreacting
You are sign yourself off to polyandry marriage, I don't know if you know the meaning sha?
Meanwhile,she hasn't given you the real reason, why she and that guy didn't marry,....as you affirmed, she is using you head too play gangan.
Yes, that is time for guy man to know, it's not easy and that, life is in despair in 3rd world nation, maybe all these teenagers here, acting gragra would learn from you and plan better before their sun set.
oloriooko: If you shrug off an insult and refuse to take offense, you demonstrate discretion indeed. But the fool has a short fuse and will immediately let you know when he’s offended. Prov. 12:16 TPT
A hot-tempered man has to pay the price for his anger. If you bail him out once, you’ll do it a dozen times. Prov. 19:19 TPT
Now the narrative has changed, he's going to be charged for murder with little or no mention of infidelity as accused of the fuulish man and he will rot in jail. So many holes in his actions, he cannot escape this lailai
Chemicalsolo: This fellow copied Sahara Reporters. My question is this: what type of new reporting is this? The name of the Parish is not mentioned, the name of the priest is not mentioned, the name of the boy shot is not mentioned. How true is this news?
So far, we give RELIGIONS bad name and draw traffic to our house, we are comfortable.
Still better, they don't keep it till Sunday morning before they post it.
The same thing, they did to me, I used phone, I used before to login, no way. Meanwhile, the YAHOO MAIL I USED TO OPEN IT THEN, HAD BEEN DEREGISTERED BY YAHOO.
if you can still log in to email/nos you used to open it, I think you still have hope.
bigpicture001: Having lived all my young to mid adult life in Lagos and then being transferred by my firm to it's Anambra branch , I have now lived here for over two years... These are the differences in life style I noticed
1. Business are late to open in the morning in Anambra compared to Lagos
2. There very few or non existent road side mechanics, most mechanics are in a street inside a compound and fenced unlike Lagos
3. There is still high sense of morality and believe in God in this part of Nigeria by majority of of the people bar the student areas where culturi and believes are imported from various part of Nigeria unlike Lagos
4. There is low level of northern population throughout the state unlike Lagos
5. Most nysc corpers are southwestern and igbos
6. Inside the public transport a new entrant greets the old sittight ones... Unlike Lagos
7. In Anambra, keke driver or bike rider would give u the money to go look for change in cases of no change btw him and customer while he waits for ur return , reverse is the case in Lagos
8. In Anambra , both driver and persongers will reject money to the floor in cases of incorrect disputed price of fare... All allowing ur conscience judge u... In Lagos it results to fight...
9. In Anambra, house rents are very high just like Lagos.. but transport is cheap
10. In Anambra there is a few major fuel marketers mostly filled with unknown names
11. U hardly see anyone criticize a preist of a catholic or Anglican church...
12. In Anambra, student decision of department to follow in senior secondary Begins from SS2 rather than in SS1 in Lagos
13. The senior secondary skls in Anambra are divided to just science or art, while in Lagos it is science, commercial and art.
14. Girls in Anambra are strongly money incited...they judge u by how much u show off..maybe same with Lagos sha
15. Banks are the highest paying private jobs in Anambra unlike Lagos where unknown companies pay huge surprise wages.
16. In Anambra the predominant jobs of the yorubas is tailoring, they are better trusted by the clients than indigenous tailors...