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Hemanwel:
Na wa o! On Christmas day!

This is a case of mental health issue. If you want to do money ritual and you're told to bring your mother, the moment they mention it to you, you go run!

There are many people who are mad, only few are roaming on the streets.

purples25:
Not if they've seen shege.

If you haven't fallen into that hole before, following someone else because you think they are better, only to suffer terribly for that, yeah you'll skip right up to that new golden person and fall for them even if you don't want to.

But if you've made that mistake and seen pure hell, you will never try it again. In fact when you see the so called 'better', you will do one of the following:

a. Run with slippers on your head and pass.
b. Revoke the devil and pass.
c. Laugh very hard and pass, saying to yourself, 'not today, devil.'

Better people, especially when you have a partner, are mirages. Harmful mirages. Put water in your mouth and taste hot sand instead.

Hopez456:
This is crazy. You didn't see other agencies websites to clone but the country's secret service's. What was he thinking??

dkidd:
Speak for urself. I have friends I'm far better than and those a lot more better than me but we still communicate. As a matter of fact the only friends I have are my old friends from secondary to a few university friends but my secondary school friends are still tighter. There are some we haven't even seen for decades but we talk like we see everyday. Becoming a billionaire today doesn't change shii.. sure my business circle will be upgraded and some social functions to foster good business Comms and engagement yet it doesn't mean I have discarded old friends because they're financial less fluid than I am atm? I mean this thinking is DOA. I might not have all the free time like I used to buy it doesn't mean I can't create time to chill with the same people who know me up to my grandparents house? When U understand the value of true friendship U will laugh at Ur statement. All those battalions when dey follow Davido, WizKid, Naira Marley etc. U think say na today them know themselves. Most of them na Day one padi's when never get their own so they're under their friends payroll doing one or two for him diligently. Or U think say them just love to carry plenty people join body travel... Lol oga anybody when money change na him true nature be that. Make Una no dey reason as if human being na robot without emotions. The relationship might be strained yes but then who wise when dey efforts go meet me half way that's why it's friendship any which way we'll be in the matter together even if we see once a month as against almost every day. Those types have privileges no others have and they can barge in on themselves any time. Most of my friends no dey Naija, some in other states, some we haven't seen for over 2 decades, some more some just a few years, some we see occasional but anytime we see its like we never stopped seeing. Maybe U haven't had real friends sha na why. Na wealthy politicians even keep old friends pass anybody FYI cos they need them more

Akalia:
Why would a person steal and stash 52.8 million dollars for herself, what for?

This is madness, greed, ungodliness,
wickedness, and mental poverty combined.

Shaa this woman really offended God and humanity in one of the worst ways.

dkidd:
Only shallow and unstable people change like that. Wether it's a romantic relationship or just casual friendship. U don't go about changing people because U met someone better. There will always be someone better and that doesn't make Ur current partner/ friend useless. If there's no real valid reason to be with someone then like a leaf in the wind U go anywhere that seems rosy only to realise the grass ain't always greener and then U jump again to someone else and on it goes till U become tired and wasted. People who do this are mostly worthless and will end up miserable in the end because everyone around them knows they're unstable and unreliable so everyone deals with them from afar and no one takes them seriously

Carndidlaydid:
Fake news everywhere

koladata:
Well I can publicly say it, I don't really think I could do more than once a week in marriage or serious relationship with the same person even before 10years. Sex to me is like food, I could eat rice , bean , yam . But I can't eat rice more than once or max twice a week. I'm sorry

Namaster:
Oh boy!

1. Married for 10 years.
2. Has 3 kids.
3. RECENTLY got a job with BETTER pay.
4. NEVER initiates sex.
5. RATIONS sex and it's doen to just 4 times in 30 days.
6. CONSTANTLY complains of stress.
7. BLATANTLY tells you to get your sex elsewhere.

Dude, this woman NO LONGER finds you attractive if she ever did.

She has achieved her goal in marriage. She has 3 kids and has gotten a job with MORE money so she does not need yours anymore.

By the way, realise this:

NO man ever thinks his wife is even CAPABLE of cheating on him.

They'd SLAM their chest with confidence and proclaim it to the world. Meanwhile, the said wife is giving professional porrnstars a run for their money with ANOTHER man.

So NEVER discount the possibility that she's cheating on you.

BUT even if she's not, the fact remains that she is NOT attracted to you anymore.

Sex is an INCREDIBLE way to relieve stress.
A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you.

Also, a wife who STILL loves her husband and finds him attractive would NEVER advise him to go out and fuccck OTHER women. Instead, she'd do better.

The fact that she was even the one who brought it up should be a HUGE warning siren inside your skull.

She could be INSTIGATING you to cheat because she ALREADY cheated and is attempting to assuage her guilt.

Someone suggested you do MORE chores with the hope of getting MORE sex.

That's RIDICULOUS!

It has NEVER worked. And it'll NOT work for you, either. In fact, it could AGGRAVATE the issue.

Women HATE it when men do "nice things" for them with the hope of getting sex.

They find it REPULSIVE. And close their legs, padlock their pussies and melt down the keys for good measure.

Doing more chores will NEVER get you more sex 'cause she'd counter with the argument that it's something you should have been doing anyway.

So, it'll NEVER work!

The fact is something FUNDAMENTAL has changed for your wife and she has REPLACED you.
Either with ANOTHER man or her new job.

You have 2 SIMPLE choices:

1. STAY in a sexless marriage.
2. DON'T stay in a sexless marriage.

It's up to you.

But before you make your decision, consider this:

Your wife no longer cares whom you stick your dick in, as long as it's NOT her.

koladata:
I'm beginning to think men are wired differently, 4 times a month after 10years and you are still complaining .... wow just wow

gabazin080:
I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 wonderful kids. She took a well paying but stressful job recently and her sex drive has reduced drastically. We now have sex like just 4 times in a month.
She doesn't ask and if i ask it is always excuse of fatigue.
She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.
She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.
I am not the type that can cheat too.
So I am worried on what could cause this change. Someone told me it could be an infection

Northernblood7:
Trump is coming, Everything is falling in place to avoid woto woto overload. This is a sign of the white flag to the Israelites, Next thing is to cleanse the land from Terrorists and Headslaming

Nnamdipapa:
I honestly do not understand why people think genital mutilation is a cure for female promiscuity. Some of the elders nor get sense at all reason I don't take everything coming from them.

RaulteeSupremo:
keeping ur virginity does not means you are 100% morally sound

richmond500:
I am also not Ronu.
Maybe u don't understand well with that ur 2milimeter brain

DatNiggaDaz:
Their cancellation of the meetings has proven that no Governor aside the Governor of Lagos don't trust Tinubu & his Tax reform.

Their is no trust between the State Governors & the FG.

This Tax reform will be difficult to sail through under the emilokan government because the maladministration has trust, competence & integrity issues

Britishpea:
Hes not as wise as you think....He s driven by power and his stomach just like his fellow others... else he wouldnt be played like a kite by Tinubu with the way he hated him...He even fought Tinubus fight on his behalf. He even almost looked his saviour Buhari in the eyes becaue of tinubu

Factcheck0001:
see ehn I am beginning to see tinubu as a master strategist

Do u know y?

He's doing everything possible to bring people who opposed him last election to his team n also do well for people in his team during election

What I'd happening with el rufai case is that tinubu is using proxy to finish him, after reducing him to nothing n humiliating him through proxy then he will turn to him during election n el rufai will have no option than to come on board

Indeed politics na chess game, it requires sense

Eyinju112:
My upbringing might be the problem. I am a Jehovah’s Witness and we believe in sex after marriage. If I have sex before marriage, I have fornicated. And there is a huge punishment for that in the congregation and in my family. They all gonna disassociate from me including my family because I’m stained and i should be immediately removed from the congregation so I don’t pollute it. Yeah!!! I couldn’t forfeit my love for God, my family and the congregation. I love those 3 things and I watch them stand while I watch my romance life sink. I have no regret so far.

Eyinju112:
Lol, so true love revolves around sex to you? Hahaha, your mentality is weird. You sound so much like a person who has never being in love. Love that will turn you into a complete fool, love that can make you a slave to it. Someone hurt you and you feel like you need to walk away and the next day you coincidentally meet the person with his bended knees apologizing then you forgive. This process can go on a 100 times until you find someone to drag you out of that bondage. True Love can’t be controlled, it’s a beautiful thing but at the same time the most dangerous thing. If you can’t relate what I just said to what happened to me please rest. Don’t quote me anymore.

Eyinju112:
Which country did this one happen? Gambia? Lol. Because if you wanna tell me this happened in Nigeria then jokes on you. The only reason a Nigeria woman would willingly tell her husband to marry a second wife is if she’s barren. She might pity her husband especially when she confirms she’s the problem. It’s normal and wise for her to implore her husband to marry a second wife. It is cultural believed by yorubas that children bring more children, she might be hoping that her paving way for her husband to get a co-wife and they bearing children might open the way of child bearing for her. And sometimes there are selfish ones that immediately they give birth through that process, because truly that process sometimes work, they begin to envy the Co-wife because she has the heir, and then problem begins in the household.

Eyinju112:
I do not agree. I understand you might not have tasted true love from a woman, so my darling, speak for yourself. Women are Mumu when they are in love. I once loved one dude years ago. I can tell you it was real love, because I was the one spending in that relationship, dude never gave me 1 kobo. I would visit him, buy foodstuffs , cook, clean and all, Because I couldn’t open my legs then, dude left me for a lady who was willing to open her legs. The betrayal I felt then broke me into pieces. I promised not to love anyone but I was lying to myself. I kept loving and loving and still loving.
Even the bible mentioned Ruth who loved her husband till death. So don’t think every lady coming your way don’t love you, that mentality won’t give you a happy home. Love and be opened to be loved. Have a blessed day.

Eyinju112:
Na the first wife I Dey pity 😂😂😂 I’m pretty sure the second wife won’t see anything bad in that because anyone who is comfortable marrying someone’s husband can do so many shit. It’s better to leave a crazy marriage than allow my husband and second wife trample on my dignity. An independent woman can never accept polygamy, Na hunger and long throat fit make you embrace polygamy. Check well, women in polygamous marriages are mostly lazy housewives and dependent women.

fabolouz1:
90% of our politicians lacks ideology , they only go where they would benefit for the time been.

hisexcellency34:
https://thescrutinyng.com/2025/01/05/thisday-suffering-nigerians-deserve-man-of-the-year-award-not-tinubu-adedayo/

kettykin:
Trust this man at your own risks.


A railway on a narrow gauge instead of a standard gauge? A glaring step backward. Igbo entrepreneurs, stop waiting for a government that has sidelined you since 1970. Seize the opportunity, obtain the necessary licenses, and develop the Anambra Basin yourselves. Dependency only deepens the marginalization.