₦airaland Forum

Rechargeam247:
Lol, it's the plenty nonsensical comments here for me, women are more sensible and intelligent than men, take it or leave it.

Even your comment says alot about level of your intelligent.

I DOUBT IF YOU KNOW DIFFERENT BETWEEN INTELLIGENT & CUNNING.

TossTos:
I had to quote and I am sorry for that ..

I have similar this experience you stated above , I changed her phone , mobile number and piam, na him I saw the number called her again that beautiful day ..

She had forgotten she show me the number , I just have about 4 to 2 last digit of the number off hand ..

To cut the story short , she go her way after sometimes, I saw her with that same guy .. ( this damn true ) ..

She posted a picture of her on Facebook back then, I check the comment and saw the guy , go on to confirm if is another man or the same person I know only to found the same number she used for the Facebook as the number he always calls with ..


I no even know where the lady dey now ..

When I read where some guys said, he should cut off, I just laughed, if not ur comment I won't comment on such foolish advice, destroying SIM not solution but the girl herself, that girl only playing on his intelligent, by telling him, ex still calling her, maybe for the guy to be feeling frightened.

That girl still calling the guy and doing all sorts of romantic on and off phone.

brain54:
Poverty and frustration...

Reminds me of a guy way back in warri.

This guy, his wife, brother and brother's wife were all cramped up living together in a room and parlor like sardines. At the time he was just deported from Libya his brother wasn't doing too well also.

Every day it was one issue or the other. You could always feel the tension in the atmosphere.

It got to the point of this particular guy bringing out a cutlass to threaten his brother one day. They were separated by neighbors.

Now I met this guy again years later at an event with his family-the whole gang. His wife had put to birth and apparently he was doing well for himself. Dude had even built a house for himself, car etc. (yahoo money )

I couldn't help but notice how cool and lovey dovey everyone was and happy. So me and my big mouth jokingly commented on the day they were chasing themselves with cutlass.

What he said next amazed me. He said all those fights and quarrels at the time was due to poverty. That he couldn't even give any reasonable explanation as to why they were always fighting. That the cause of the fights sometimes were so trivia but it mattered then.

He went on to say that since they started doing well for themselves recently they had never had any serious issues as they always resolved any misunderstanding amicably without blows... He said they could have just killed themselves back then over very trivia issues that didn't even matter. That looking back he could not even remember what was so important to the extent of him raising a matchet for his own blood.

Poverty is really a terrible thing. It leads to frustration.

It's really difficult if not impossible to hear this kind of news coming from the rich folks.

Poor people problems!

Yes poverty, but the main reason was that, two adults that were supposed to be leaving in separate apartments were leaving under one roof.

Even today that, things have turned around for them, if all them go and be staying in one apartment again, they would start fighting.

To cut it short!

Mature people who are not married to each other, always find it extremely difficult to leave under same room

post=133406343:
Source: https://www.google.com/amp/s/thesun.ng/man-kills-wife-over-yam-in-ebonyi/%3famp

This story is far more than ,how it's being reported now....IM VERY SURE OF EXCHANGE OF PROVOKING & COUNTER PROVOKING THAT LED TO WHERE THE TWO FIND THEMSELVES NOW

AngelicDamsel:
Most importantly, don't be a fool.

Not everyone will like you, no matter what you do.

From very time I started dating girls, after trying a little bit to convince girl to date me, but keep doing strong head, I cut her off immediately, infact, she herself would be embarrassed astonished with the level I used to ghost her.

Any lady, who doesn't have atom of feelings for you from very beginning, in which a man wants to date at all costs, it's calling for disaster.

eventainment:
Well, in your opinion it's a prejudiced way of reasoning which I won't debate because it's your opinion, but your opinions are very valid some men/women take extramarital affairs as a sport irrespective of how their spouses play their roles well these men aren't satisfied. I've seen men date women their wives are far better in all areas. Some persons start this infidelity habit because of peer influence and truth be told when you are with a like mind even evil can be made to look good. If we play a close analysis you'll still agree that if a man is comfortable at home he barely hangs around with friends except it's his nature to be around friends. In my conclusion, there are lots of exceptions to what I propounded the first time but if a man/woman who wasn't a chronic cheat begins it after conjugal bliss there is a high possibility that their own spouse is the cause.

What you just narrated, common when men are at 35-45, that are prime ages for men, to be "hot cake" for different women, most especially, if you are a type who is working in reputable organisation and having little change to give out as gifts.

By this age, all those hot women of yesteryears that had made serious errors by marrying wrong men, their eyes would have cleared, that, it's not "dark and tall" that are most important when choosing hubby. So, these type of women would be rushing for attentions of men in that range. If such men not careful, he won't know nwen he forgets his beautiful marriage.

MyExpression:
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This is the advice here ☝

Is she a kid that can't handle her ex or her past?
Why pushing it on you...she no get fear o.

A lady you love, will you tell her your ex is still disturbing you?
I believe you'd have cut it like a man, and tell the lady to stop calling you...else...

So she should get her shit together, take charge of her life and decisions.

Don't stupidly go and fight for love o...you'll keep fighting forever.

Tell her to go and fix her shiiii, you no get energy for ex wahala.
A lady that wants to stay, knows what to do to stay.

At times, you need to threatened a woman for her to know, you mean business, and for her head to receive senses. if you a man that wants your woman to always fix her issues alone ........ intruder would break in and destroy your beautiful marriage o.

Not everyone man wants to be married and remarried and litter every town and villages with uncaring kids ooo

Peterobiisathie:
https://gazettengr.com/tinubu-orders-security-agencies-to-eliminate-kidnappers-bandits-separatists-by-2025/

Why saying this publicly? Is this one even qualify to be in defence ministry? No wonder they say, he had hands in terrorism in the state.


I pity informants that would collect gadgets from him, they would eventually use him to count scores.

Olafada:
The Nigerian Gov’t is applying a diplomatic approach to manage the situation because if things get bad between Niger & Nigeria, be rest assured that Nigeria will suffer significant setbacks as Northern Nigeria will support Niger.
BH will be just the tip of an iceberg.

It’s dicey mate

Opinion but not reality. In international community, Nigeria only portrait herself as weak nation, Niger is too minor to be fear right and left by Nigeria.


Obasanjo can never ever week to this level.


You think north want to leave this union, that beneficial greatly to them?



Even the news i doubt it's credibility, no major news outlets carry it.

Vikto17:
she is the one telling me all this things ,, l did not find out myself

I pity who know pity you.

Let me tell you this. If your girl shout at him and warn him, in a strong term not to ever call her again, you think, the communication won't die a natural course immediately?


And for you, shout and warn ur girl In a very strong way you haven't done before and treating to cut the relationship, after that, go ahead to cut communication with her for just a week and see if the girl won't do the needful.

Women are like kids, they need carrots and stick approach,for them to behave normally and for husband to be in control of the relationship


If you do that and she doesn't show remorse, oga flee for your safety from bad girl.

Vikto17:
My dear Nairalanders ,, a girl l want to marry next year is consistently been stalk by her ex...

The guy called her last three months and l warn her sternly about her having anything to do with her ex... she should either choose the guy or me... in which she called the guy in my present and warn him to stay off ... she block his number too...
Just yesterday, she told me that the guy called her again with a different number.....
l told her that the last thing l will take is cheating and she should know how to handle this guy since she claim to choose me....
Honestly,, l am thinking of ending the relationship,, don't want to drag this issue into my marriage..... please anyone with experience ..how do u handle this...

If ur post is not figment, you need to study your girl very well, if her mind has made up to be with you or her ex. Oga, your girl still given him full access for communication, provided not still given him romantic gesture, and if you dnt careful, your girl would be going behind to warm his bed.

One behaviour that is certain and common to all women is, "woman cannot completely off her mind from anyone that has slept with her before".
If the ex, really know how to manipulate, it's a matter of time before the woman fall yakata again, irrespective how their relationship ended in the past, ex only needs communications to start flowing between two of them again.

Nazgul:
The defections in LP is as a result of greed and nothing more. The average Nigerian politician fights for his pocket and his pocket alone.

From Obi to the least person in LP, fighting for his/her pocket. Contrary to the notion you guys have that Obi is coming to turn things around, he only coming to register as a president that comes from Igbo and nothing more.

AFRICANS CANNOT GOVERN THEMSELVES TO PROSPERITY.

What they are saying online,you use as a yard stick to take decisions in life , you are finished!


Most especially relationship, religion and politics, soooooooo many are just posting for posting sake and many are deliberately to destroy people life.

confidant:
I think we need a doctor to break this down to novices like us. For me, as a man gets older his testosterone and want for women also decreases. Most men daily habits of drinking and less exercise doesn’t encourage the bedroom performance coupled with the declining testosterone. As a man’s libido decreases, the woman’s own increases. Fact. So, a woman in her forties always requires sex due to her increase libido. It is now a challenge for the man to meet up. Most men in their forties are beginning to realize the work of the prostrate and are also realizing more about their body - that their body is not the same as it used to be. They most times don’t tell anyone but harbor this inside until it becomes too late. I will advise most to see a urologist and open up on issues regarding their reproductive health.

This silent problem is eaten deep in marriages, but very difficulty to speak out, more reason pastors having affairs with wives of members

In future, I pray psychologists/ marriage counselors,won't be telling wives to do a little bit infidelity to spice up marriages.

Ballzproblem2:
Most times is because the women become out of shape after childbirth,women should try and maintain their shape ,I know it's not easy .

So, if the husband now abandoned his wife, such husband dnt have reason to angry if wide go out, to seek sexual pleasure outside oo

Raphsays:
This post does not tell us how to deal with sexual immorality in the church.
So what’s the essence of the post.

Accepting Jesus is just the first step , however, it doesn’t deal with sexual immorality in the church.
After all many so called born again peeps in the church are into sexual immorality.

Provide practical solutions and not rants

The post is about preaching, so it's "muddy waters", where it stains you, you make adjustments and correct it.

khalling2008:
Only the 12 tribes of Israel will enter the kingdom of heaven not Christianity.

Jesus didn't know you, he didn't know any Christianity, the word " Christianity was not mentioned by Jesus. Jesus only sent to Israel and he will judge 12 tribes of Israel

Matthew 19:28
28 And Jesus said unto them, Verily I say unto you, That ye which have followed me, in the regeneration when the Son of man shall sit in the throne of his glory, ye also shall sit upon twelve thrones, judging the twelve tribes of Israel

I guess the quote below, also referring to 12 tribe alone, maybe the instruction not from Jesus himself.

What about John 3 : 16? For God so loved the WORLD...........

I GUESS THE WORLD THERE IS 12 TRIBES OF ISREAL.

PERHAPS ITS YOUR FATHER TALKING THERE.


Many of you religions adherents, ( Xtians, Muslim, Hindu etc) dnt really understand the reason for in that faith. Little wonder, World engulfed by religion ignorance.

Someone who strives hard on earth to obey God, and in which God gives him/her grace to enter, contrary to notion that someone must score 10/10, that's who is perfect. Can anybody perfect? No.

emperor4love:
abuja no b church tinx

Tell people who know English very well, to tell you different between CHURCH AND CHURCHES.

1bunne4lif:
the stampede in Abuja was in church o

You take them to churches and not a church.

eventainment:
Women who weaponize sex at a younger age when they are married are the ones having this issue. When you tell a man no too many times, he becomes used to it and he moves on to other things that will not give him negative feedback. Many women are just like logs of wood in bed; the man becomes bored and wants adventure somewhere else: some pick a hubby while most get other ladies that will match their bedmatic fantasies.

Uhmmm, prejudice way of reasoning, I guess!

So many men, abandoned their wife sexually and running after girls ,that are not in any way match their wife, even in bedmatic affairs.

The infidelity among married women, high abundantly now, no thanks to sexually deprivation of wife, for no reason by men.

In as much, some women are culprit too, but mostly come from men.

This is bitter fact, that we men shying away from.

Dtruthspeaker:
Because he now sees her for all that she is.

He now understands everything about her and has figured her out.

He now knows and understands how she thinks, why she married him and her meaning of every word or silence.

Now is when he sees she had lied and deceived him and she is not fully all he thought she was and so, problem.

Is it every wife deceived husband?

Is it after like 10 yrs or more that, he now realise that?

To me, it's just a flimsy excuse by we men to go wayward.

Must you gather them like beggars before you distribute? You can still give them if you want to, go to CHURCHES and give them to church leaders to distribute it for the members

Did you guys need to write this? To me, as if, Nigeria is prostrating and begging to be friend at all cost with Niger. A minor nation?

This common saying among men, is it true, or just myth? I posted this because of revelation that my friend who is working as a clinical psychologist in one of federal government hospitals shares with me.

He said, many of wives in their 40s, do come for consultancy and usually telling him, about sexual starvation being experienced from their husbands, despite they are married, still young & agile and staying together with hubby.

SeriouslySense:
You are right many people are not in the media space.

Little wonder people voting for wrong people and ladies still falling victims of ritual killings on daily basis.

I can now confirm that people, are not aware of happenings in their environment, perhaps,they know but, deliberately trying to be sturbon.

because I still dnt understand, how the same stamped happens again, wen the one that happened 2 days ago, still much fresh in media space.

lagonovo:
Those who made the claim that Guardiola can only flourish consistently in a big team have a valid point. I don't think he can successfully handle and transform an average team the way the likes of Ancelotti, Mourinho, Wenger & co did. Too many defeats within a short time all because of Rodri and a few aging players.

No huge budget, no Guardiola. Even Pulis can win champions league with big budget to sign his ideal big bully players across the world.

How was Barcelona before he came? What about Man City? The two are just a little bit above average when he came, it was only Bayern that great.

You guy doesn't know that, no empire reigns for ever, not even in football.

Ancelotti you are praising now, he was sacked at Chelsea cos of long run of poor performances, he too has started declining even at Real, if he doesn't leave this season ending, he would experience the same problem with Real next season

GanagiBitrus:
Not quite true.

Obviously, Rodri & De Bruyne are the pillars of City. But aside their absence, opposing teams now have extra motivation playing against City.

Indeed, tough times ahead for City.

If Rodri is in the team ,they would be having the same calamity.

The squad is aging, the ambition no longer there, having won all trophies that available.

It will take minimum of 3 years for man city to come back as force to reckon with.

Will fans and owners have patience for rebuilding, that is another story on its own.

EmperorCaesar:


Are you not also one of the past leaders?

Make all una rest abeg


Na when dem no dey give attention again una go begin talk things to win people love

I will advise you to go back to primary school for more education on pronoun.

They will teach the meaning of PRONOUN "WE"

Edygrin:
Former Speaker of the House of Representatives, Yakubu Dogara, has taken a swipe on northern leaders for failing to develop the region despite decades of political dominance.


https://dailypost.ng/2024/12/21/northern-leaders-failed-despite-40-years-in-power-dogara/

Oga dnt let ur people roast you o, most especially jihadists among them.


How I wish majority of northerners can be telling themselves, this bitter truth,only 2 or 3 voices among millions in North, are speaking absolute truth about the north.

Many of you just desire to study a particular course, not minding if you have mental capacity to study it successfully.

Bro, live goes on as you opined, and to make it, it doesn't revolve around a particular job.