₦airaland Forum

PresidObi:
Ronu Mockery will come out and blame Peter Obi

APC people will blame unknown gunmen even when they know who the killers are

The FG will pretend it didn't happen

They will mount another 10 checkpoints on the 10 kilometre road

And everyone goes to sleep again.

sabbiboi:
To corroborate this statement of a girl coming from a broken home. A girl whose mother resents her father, will always see things from her mother’s lenses.
There is this girl I met in uni back in the days, I still check her WhatsApp status. The story I heard was that both her parents were separated, and her father is irresponsible and didn’t cater for them. She worships her mother on her status.

Whenever I check her status I just smile, because I know she will have relationship issues. Already, she is separated from the guy who took her virginity because of her indecisions and flimsy opinions from friends.

It will be hard for such girls to see the potential in a man. It can’t work, because you can’t give what you don’t have.

Coming from a home with both parents living together, I know the type of discussions my mom and sis have against my father, just because he isn’t a full provider of the home.

How much more, a girl that isn’t from a home with the father has the foundation. Something will always be missing in her life. And do you think you can deal with it?

Settling with a girl is beyond being in love, other things need to be considered.
You need to vet her properly, set boundaries.

proeast:
If this is true and the victims happen to be innocent villagers, then I won't blame Northerners if they accuse the iragbiji man of ethnic cleansing. These same aerial bombardment of villages and massacring of villagers have happened in Kaduna, Sokoto and Zamfara etc in quick succession!

Coupled with his anti north policies and confrontations, it begins to appear highly suspicious 🤔

Nonexisting1:
I keep telling men to forget about marriage and focus on child bearing and child raising with women because that's all that matters. After all, God didn’t tell Adam and Eve to marry, he simply told them to multiply. Your faithful wife is still with you because she doesn't have options and hasn't seen someone better. This one had the mind to jump on a singer on stage, just imagine what will happen if she happens to meet him in a hotel room. This is someone her husband was dancing and shinning teeth on their wedding day and telling everybody he had found a "good thing". The day I will leave this country for good is the day government will make marriage mandatory. As for now, fucck marriage.

Kobojunkie:
This scammer-in-the-lords too wan use social media shine! Why else would anyone engage in all of this nonsense in 2025?🙄🙄🙄🙄

SIXTEENTH:
Her current and ex guy should be summoned and be investigated at first

tokunbobo:
This is not totally true. Many of us believe that America is better than other countries because of what the western media made us to believe. But not true. Russia is way more better than the US in many ways. Even America cannot stand China in infrastructure and developments now. Although the US still have the number one spot in economy and military

WriterNig:
30 Trillion GDP this, World power that.

But do you have water in your fire trucks??

Can you fight goat herders & cave dwellers without the military and financial backing of 30 rich NATO members?

Can you even manufacture fighter jets and weapons alone without the assistance of other countries??

😂 😁 🤣

IGBOPROMISE1:
There's a massive underground anti-Igbo effort aimed at demarketing the south-east! It began during the wasted Buhari years and hasn't stooped even in this emilokan era!

Thewrath:
In an attempt to paint the SE as unsafe,you have forgotten that they kidnap and kill in thousands in the north! Some communities and local govt in the north are controlled by terrorists!

Hemanwel:
Na wa o! On Christmas day!

This is a case of mental health issue. If you want to do money ritual and you're told to bring your mother, the moment they mention it to you, you go run!

There are many people who are mad, only few are roaming on the streets.

purples25:
Not if they've seen shege.

If you haven't fallen into that hole before, following someone else because you think they are better, only to suffer terribly for that, yeah you'll skip right up to that new golden person and fall for them even if you don't want to.

But if you've made that mistake and seen pure hell, you will never try it again. In fact when you see the so called 'better', you will do one of the following:

a. Run with slippers on your head and pass.
b. Revoke the devil and pass.
c. Laugh very hard and pass, saying to yourself, 'not today, devil.'

Better people, especially when you have a partner, are mirages. Harmful mirages. Put water in your mouth and taste hot sand instead.

Hopez456:
This is crazy. You didn't see other agencies websites to clone but the country's secret service's. What was he thinking??

dkidd:
Speak for urself. I have friends I'm far better than and those a lot more better than me but we still communicate. As a matter of fact the only friends I have are my old friends from secondary to a few university friends but my secondary school friends are still tighter. There are some we haven't even seen for decades but we talk like we see everyday. Becoming a billionaire today doesn't change shii.. sure my business circle will be upgraded and some social functions to foster good business Comms and engagement yet it doesn't mean I have discarded old friends because they're financial less fluid than I am atm? I mean this thinking is DOA. I might not have all the free time like I used to buy it doesn't mean I can't create time to chill with the same people who know me up to my grandparents house? When U understand the value of true friendship U will laugh at Ur statement. All those battalions when dey follow Davido, WizKid, Naira Marley etc. U think say na today them know themselves. Most of them na Day one padi's when never get their own so they're under their friends payroll doing one or two for him diligently. Or U think say them just love to carry plenty people join body travel... Lol oga anybody when money change na him true nature be that. Make Una no dey reason as if human being na robot without emotions. The relationship might be strained yes but then who wise when dey efforts go meet me half way that's why it's friendship any which way we'll be in the matter together even if we see once a month as against almost every day. Those types have privileges no others have and they can barge in on themselves any time. Most of my friends no dey Naija, some in other states, some we haven't seen for over 2 decades, some more some just a few years, some we see occasional but anytime we see its like we never stopped seeing. Maybe U haven't had real friends sha na why. Na wealthy politicians even keep old friends pass anybody FYI cos they need them more

Akalia:
Why would a person steal and stash 52.8 million dollars for herself, what for?

This is madness, greed, ungodliness,
wickedness, and mental poverty combined.

Shaa this woman really offended God and humanity in one of the worst ways.

dkidd:
Only shallow and unstable people change like that. Wether it's a romantic relationship or just casual friendship. U don't go about changing people because U met someone better. There will always be someone better and that doesn't make Ur current partner/ friend useless. If there's no real valid reason to be with someone then like a leaf in the wind U go anywhere that seems rosy only to realise the grass ain't always greener and then U jump again to someone else and on it goes till U become tired and wasted. People who do this are mostly worthless and will end up miserable in the end because everyone around them knows they're unstable and unreliable so everyone deals with them from afar and no one takes them seriously

Carndidlaydid:
Fake news everywhere

koladata:
Well I can publicly say it, I don't really think I could do more than once a week in marriage or serious relationship with the same person even before 10years. Sex to me is like food, I could eat rice , bean , yam . But I can't eat rice more than once or max twice a week. I'm sorry

Namaster:
Oh boy!

1. Married for 10 years.
2. Has 3 kids.
3. RECENTLY got a job with BETTER pay.
4. NEVER initiates sex.
5. RATIONS sex and it's doen to just 4 times in 30 days.
6. CONSTANTLY complains of stress.
7. BLATANTLY tells you to get your sex elsewhere.

Dude, this woman NO LONGER finds you attractive if she ever did.

She has achieved her goal in marriage. She has 3 kids and has gotten a job with MORE money so she does not need yours anymore.

By the way, realise this:

NO man ever thinks his wife is even CAPABLE of cheating on him.

They'd SLAM their chest with confidence and proclaim it to the world. Meanwhile, the said wife is giving professional porrnstars a run for their money with ANOTHER man.

So NEVER discount the possibility that she's cheating on you.

BUT even if she's not, the fact remains that she is NOT attracted to you anymore.

Sex is an INCREDIBLE way to relieve stress.
A stressed woman who finds you attractive would be EAGER to jump your bones. Not refuse you.

Also, a wife who STILL loves her husband and finds him attractive would NEVER advise him to go out and fuccck OTHER women. Instead, she'd do better.

The fact that she was even the one who brought it up should be a HUGE warning siren inside your skull.

She could be INSTIGATING you to cheat because she ALREADY cheated and is attempting to assuage her guilt.

Someone suggested you do MORE chores with the hope of getting MORE sex.

That's RIDICULOUS!

It has NEVER worked. And it'll NOT work for you, either. In fact, it could AGGRAVATE the issue.

Women HATE it when men do "nice things" for them with the hope of getting sex.

They find it REPULSIVE. And close their legs, padlock their pussies and melt down the keys for good measure.

Doing more chores will NEVER get you more sex 'cause she'd counter with the argument that it's something you should have been doing anyway.

So, it'll NEVER work!

The fact is something FUNDAMENTAL has changed for your wife and she has REPLACED you.
Either with ANOTHER man or her new job.

You have 2 SIMPLE choices:

1. STAY in a sexless marriage.
2. DON'T stay in a sexless marriage.

It's up to you.

But before you make your decision, consider this:

Your wife no longer cares whom you stick your dick in, as long as it's NOT her.

koladata:
I'm beginning to think men are wired differently, 4 times a month after 10years and you are still complaining .... wow just wow

gabazin080:
I have been married for 10 years and we have 3 wonderful kids. She took a well paying but stressful job recently and her sex drive has reduced drastically. We now have sex like just 4 times in a month.
She doesn't ask and if i ask it is always excuse of fatigue.
She doesn't cheat, i am 100% sure of that.
She even told me she wont mind if i find another girl to satisfy my urge.
I am not the type that can cheat too.
So I am worried on what could cause this change. Someone told me it could be an infection

Northernblood7:
Trump is coming, Everything is falling in place to avoid woto woto overload. This is a sign of the white flag to the Israelites, Next thing is to cleanse the land from Terrorists and Headslaming