₦airaland Forum

You might be a good footballer and be a poor coach /bad manager.

I remember nedved during his playing days.

If all the security agencies and judiciary can be up and doing in Nigeria, be professional and honest in discharging their duties, Nigeria would have far better as a society.

Nigeria become jungle wen all those who are expected to be upholding the laws are the one who will first break them.

shanaka4u:
That is for the court to determine and not him.

So, let them take Adeleke to court for new change.

efficiencie:
Madness. I blame the churches and families that accept to make wives out of hoes. They will ask for genotype, blood group test and pregnancy test but they will not ask if the couples, especially the lady is sexually pure as a precondition for the solemnization of a marriage. Then when the couples start having sexually related issues in their marriage they will start rubbishing the marriage institution instead of calling out the fools that joined two misfits in an unholy matrimony. If every clergyman and every family enforced the virginity of ladies before marriage, this foolish mother will not allow her daughter have sex before marriage let alone going as far as recommending family planning for an underage girl and even the girl will never try any sexual nonsense knowing fully well she would be jeopardizing her chances of getting married. This will elevate the punishment for rape to capital punishment and will make rape victims easily prove their case.

Keep blaming church for ur daughter wayward behaviors ok. If church starts bringing stringent measures before wedding now, you will also be the number one person that will wail on nairaland that church is becoming something else.


Meanwhile, if church starts asking for virginity test, who will remain to be wedded in this decay society? Starting from you, can you even remember ur body count?

Hope you know virginity/body counts not for one gender alone?

shanaka4u:
See this one. Does he have legal advisers? The change of name passed through a process at the state house of Assembly before it got changed so he cannot unilaterally change it like that. Moreso there is a pending matter in court as a person challenged the change of name and I think he won at the court of first instance and there is an Appeal. So the Governor lacks the power to unilaterally reverse the name but am sure the court will do that. I hope this man is not dull oooooo.

The change he forced state legislators to change, does it have legal back up in Nigeria constitution?

BISHOPCHARLIE:
So, I've been seeing this lady for some time now. June this year, I began taking her serious - she ticked some qualities I wanted in my future wife, not that she's perfect, I'm not either.
Her faults are those I felt I could live with.

She mentioned a local politician as a friend of hers prior to now. I was curious, the man is quite notorious with women and serious guys don't like to come near any lady that comes off as being close to the said politician. She told me they never dated, that they had outings a few times, had food and drinks and it ended there. That the said politician wanted to date her but she declined because she doesn't date married men and their friendship ended because he wanted to date her and she doesn't want to. I didn't quite believe the story but took it with a pinch of salt.

When she visited me at Ibadan some months ago, she received a call from a male neighbour of hers which she abruptly stopped midway. Told me it was her caring neighbor calling to know how she's doing having not seen her in the neighborhood for some days. My question was "is that how he calls every neighbour to know how they are doing or what's special in your case?

On her birthday, we were together, I saw a few messages on her phone that really didn't sit well with me. Her mum's doctor sent her a message describing her as his runaway lover. Another guy that always gave her missed calls scripted a beautiful message for her. Both of them married. She explained it away that there was nothing between she and them.
At this point, I chose to softpedal on marriage plans, even though I have made enquiries at the registry, I didn't move past that. Whereas she gave me the phone number of her paternal relation for me to call on engagement details, I put a hold on that. Also, the money I credited her account with to buy engagement ring, I left there without further action.

I visited Lagos and paid her a visit, she lives alone and told me no man ever visited her place and the moment I came, she happily announced me to her neighbors as her fiance.
While in her bedroom days ago, a guy walked in on us. Said he's been knocking on the door and didn't get a response. How did he know to go to her bedroom and not the sitting room? What if we were naked? She got up, walked the guy out and came back to apologize. That the guy is her colleague at work and knows her place because he assists her in getting stuffs done whenever she needs help and that he was just in the neighborhood and wanted to pay a visit on her. And didn't call your line? She said she missed his call. I declined to speak further.

Earlier, she had declined to give her body count even when I gave mine. However, in our discussions, various names of her past relationships keep popping up meanwhile she had given me this look and act of a church girl.

Earlier in the life of our relationship, she told me of how she lived with her deceased eldest sister as a teenager and her husband routinely abused her. She was cold and sad saying it, I felt her pains too, I asked if the man was sleeping with her and she was silent; I took this to mean yes.
Fast forward to when we began planning marriage, she wanted me to talk to same brother-in-law as an important member of her family. I reminded her of the abuse charge against the man but she denied it, saying the man wanted to date her while she lived under his roof and that she refused, that he never slept with her. Now he revers the man as a good man, that they are still in touch.

Please advise me.

That girl is using ur head to play gangan (talking drum)

My brother, you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free.

Kenneth10110:
Choose bigger odds and watch them loose 8-0 accept the fact betting is mostly designed to make you loose.

U know that, u still blaming bet company that they are manipulating?

U guys learn how how to think before you post.

charlesdinho7:
if you dont post on socials, how will your enemies know that you are progressing?

And if you dnt post on social media how will ur enemy retrogress you?

GloriousGbola:
this nonsense is going too far

do they want to claim that soldiers NEVER took pictures at their weddings before now?

these clowns need to update their antiquated rulebook

can they claim that when the children of their ogas at he top get married, it does not get to SM?

Join army and changing for them nah.

Kenneth10110:
Those people will do anything to manipulate and deceive you at the end they don't loose the gamblers do.

Why can't you manipulate them back by choosing bigger odds.

Why flirting with politicians?


You just wake up and denying obvious


Naija will not great until we play games according to rules

Kwanza:
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2022/11/26/its-wrong-of-you-to-frolic-with-politicians-atikus-aide-tells-cjn/amp/

Onanoghen did not do 1/4 of this when he booted out of office.

kodded:
When will this fools called hunters will realize that all this animal are gradually going into extinction

While the white are busy looking for were to preserve this endangered species we black enjoy killing them for money and merry

I wonder what will happen when the hunters kill all of them.........I guess they will start hunting fellow humans

#BabaNowThatYouAreThere please preserve our wild animals from all this blood sucking demons called hunters

Is anything working in naija?

When human beings are not safe in the hands of heardsmen, how much less animals in the bushes.

Nigerians with evil minds, no wonder Nigeria is not moving forward.

This is November, why rushing to sign budget for Christ sake, having known you are leaving govt tomorrow.

No reason why cjn should be going to all these pseudo...political gathering.

Professional should learn how to play games according to their rules.

Moh247:
Never outshine your master

Buknor wanted to Outshine Tinubu same as Pedro, and they both got retired

U know this yet u re saying trash about Shetima not being Osinbanjo.

Moh247:




Yep, Shetima would deal ruthlessly with all enemies of Nigeria


He is not Osinbajo that keeps shut while his people get disrespeted like an ice cream seller


Shetima would never turn to an Houseboy or mere commissioner because of some yeye Cabal,

*Shetima, got Bsc in Agric Econs UniMad
*Masters in University of Ibadan
*Has 1 wife and 3 children who are all educated
*Retired as a Banking Director in ZenithBank


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Hope you know, who will be his boss Sha?

Go and check his incoming boss antecedent when he was gov.

sonature1:
Each time I see PDP campaign, it becomes clearer that 2023 will be tough.

Believe it or not, PDP is a strong force to reckon with.

May God help Peter Obi to win, amen.

If they had come down south to present candidate, but with fulani, PDP already in the casket

Antyislam:
I have some friends who wrote down their name just to collect Tinubu money which he stole from Nigeria

The same way they will collect money and vote for Tinubu, bf u know that gap between Tinubu and obi will become wider and wider

Some post and chart recklessly.

We should always remember tomorrow/

Soludo is a realist,he knows what is coming and he don't want south easterners to be treated the way Buhari doing now, if not worse.

It's not yet for Igbo to be president, maybe 2027 or more, but for now, not yet.

Then, tribunal would spend more than a year to deliver judgement, but now less than 2 months, which means, Nigeria not working because of loose supervisions.

akbonus:
YOU KNOR GET SENSE,IS MARCHING A DAILY AFFAIRS?ABI ARE WE REHEARSING FOR INDEPENDENCE DAY?CAMPAIGN HAS STARTED,MAKE UNA CAMPAIGN UNA OWN MAKE OBIDIENTS CAMPAIGN THEIR OWN NA HABA.ARE YOU TRYING VTO TEACH US HOW TO SELL OUR CANDIDATE?PLEASE THINK ON HOW TO MARKET YOU DEAD AND COUNTRY BANNED GOODS.

One by one u guys are going oblivion, in election day I doubt if Obi son will still be with him.

YoungLionken:
Tompolo is just getting paid in huge sums, every damn time..

It's somehow unfair how some are getting/making it big, while others are just there with little or nothing..

God please pick the calls of those who have no evidence of good living...

U too form ur own govt nah, after that start confronting federal government, with time either u sent to early grave or u reward with huge pay. Anything good must come from struggle and risk

blueAgent:
I keep saying blacks globally do not have the capacity to rule themselves and create successful countries,

Whether in Haiti, Liberia,US, UK,Europe.

Their best shot at it, is 3rd World countries

If we bring British (not American or french) to govern our resources cum economy and general admistration,if we agree on whooping 60:40 % in favor of British, I am very sure the 40% accrue to us, will still be enjoyable ifar more than 100% that's obtainable today.

Why people not marching for Obi again? I think urchins developed cold feet and suddenly go underground.

Kobonaire234:
A lot...A WHOLE LOT.

In 1960, the nearest teaching hospital to my father's village was a whole 3-4 hours away, across some really bush and non-existent roads.

Today....the nearest teaching hospital is 20 minutes drive away, along tarred roads.



In 1960, my father's village did not have light.

Today...we are hooked up to the national grid.


In 1960, we did not have the highways we have now...now we do.


In 1960, we had just one university, and 4 in the pipeline...now we have over 50 of them


Nigeria is poor because we don't want to become an industrial nation....but we are better than we were in 1960.


South African blacks are majority poor, despite the whites staying...for a while.

At ur bolded, who caused it? I guess white too!


Meanwhile, at ur analysis, so you wanted to be where you were in 1960 before?

You should compare Indonesia, Singapore.

They started with Nigeria almost together and almost same level, where are they now and where are you? In term of infrastructure and others economy indices!

Kobonaire234:
No, they think the white people will build nice things for them....not knowing that it costs money to build those nice things...and maintain them...meaning after some time, the whites will charge ....TAXES.

I laff at people who think colonial rule was nice. When by 1948, the main hospital in Ibadan had three times more beds for whites only than blacks....

Since they left, what is achiement of self rules?


If it's possible for Britain to reconolise Nigeria, I will be the happiest man on the universe.

White has inaniate behavior to develop, while Nigeria has inaniate behavior to destroy.

Adexgentle005:
He won’t be sworn in even if he wins bro

This is Nigeria. Cabals are still very much active. I’m obidient but that’s the fact.

Oga stop deceiving and panicking at same time.

First of all, he cannot win, but by miracle if he wins, no Jupiter can stop him to be president.

ScamHunter:
Nice
More opportunity to loot, unless Obi cuts them off with a victory in 2023.

Obi that will use the money realise from it to buy investments that would latter turn next to nothing.

It needs several hundred of billions for new oil discovery to succeed in a landlocked states, will next president continuing spending such huge amount of money?

Time will tell.

It seems people walking for Obi had tired of walking for him and now port to Tinubu.


Yoruba would say .... masquerade that dances first, will surely become spectators last last .....