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Felimax:
Or having a mad woman as a side chick.

Yes or dating a toxic girl as fiancee.

Marriage no be scam, Iwo ni ki o maa gba ring lowo were.

Verysmart101:
Ur just talking off point.Look at the topic and repost again with a write-up relating to the topic.

U are just reason off my comment

Go back to comment I replied and come back to correct urself


Learn how not to enter discussion at middle and start doing gragra, by doing that you would be displaying foolishness

Amah70:
And Ayu will go only after his mission to make Atiku succeed President Buhari is achieved.
Atiku destroyed PDP with his inordinate ambition. He looked down on politicians from the south; obviously, it's the turn of the south to produce a successor to President Buhari.
What gave Atiku the gut to believe that a Fulani Muslim, Atiku, can succeed another Fulani Muslim Buhari, as president of Nigeria?

We dnt need to discuss PDP issues again, is dead on arrival, Atiku finally nailed his own coffin when he made Okowa his deputy.

Kano gone from him

Lagos byebye

And if Rivers added?

Infact, he will struggle to be in 2nd place.

Better, what he did for Wike let him taste 1/4 of it.

TheWolfen:
Trying to understand women is an exam one can't pass. Just live ur life if it works fine. If not then walk

And you think man too can be understood?

My friend, human beings are very complex in nature, extreme difficult to understand, it has nothing to do with gender or tribe ok.

Looking for perfect in the land of imperfection, is what making you guys finding it difficult to be in marriage.

When you urself not perfect, you are looking for perfect partner!

As many guys believed. girls as they created, are meant to do their boyfriend/husbands biddings at all time and at all cost. They fail to understand that, human beings not designed in such manner.

You only pick the one you can manage her characters and in which two of you would be ready to make compromise for the marriage to be blissful.

LUAN1:
you are right bro, We don't have any woman who is entirely wicked or have bad character, it all depends whether she likes you all not, if she likes you she will respect you, her bad character will not manifest, but if you are not the kind of man she want, you will see all manners of drama and attitude that she will bring from the pit of hell. Same way you will meet a girl and tried to toast or ask her her for sex, she denied you, while the kind of guy she likes won't even stress himself before she fall for him.

You never meet human being Sha or will I say you dnt know what mentality is.

If a lady has unshaking mentality and attitude of taking money from man or not believe that money should go from woman to man, no amount of love can overwhelm her, I have seen countless examples of such ladies/girls

God1000:
wow, this is serious oo

That woman selling food get mind to have entered the morgue

And you biiliv that tale? Infact, I fear who no fear u o

Lecturer, Taxi drivers, Butcher man, Musician and leader in Theatre group/producer are the first class occupations that can lead to promiscuity.



Though fame in any kind fetch women far more than anything

Must you sleep /date every lady that gives you green light ni?


Guys should learn how to restraint from all sexual advances

How I wish I'm charge of torturing these goats


I would have made sure they open the gate of hell to feel it

kenedy175:
I answered you already.

I could only imagine this though... Let's assume Obi and Zulum were In thesame party and Obi has a very strong chance of winning. Then why not? Zulum will go for it.

But if you're talking about the current situation on ground, he should rather continue with governing Borno

Are they in same party? By ur affirmation u agreed, he can't be VP to any of them as it stand now, yet u still biliv tinubu has minimum chance of winning.

Oga, learn how to analyze without prejudice. As it stands today, tinubu has 65% chance of winning ok

Bye

kenedy175:
If they think their party have a strong chance of winning the presidential election

Never answer my question, did u think Zulum can be VP to any of Atiku, Obi or Kwankwaso?

EgusiShankly:
If Zulum is picked as running mate then I might vote for APC

If Zulum picked to whoever that would become president and the president not have vision or having parochial vision of a region and religion,to make it worst, if the first man doesn't give him chance to use his intellect.

Did u think Zulum will be noticed?

Osinbanjo would have be a great asset and weapon but unfortunately he deputized vissionless tyranny, today Nigeria slide to jungle.

What I'm saying in essence, it's Tinubu that most important and not Zulum.

kenedy175:
The people of Borno need him now. The probability of Tinubu winning is low. Zulum shouldn't gamble that

Did u think any sitting governor on first term can be fighting to be VP of Atiku, Obi or Kwankwaso?

Lighthouse50:
I think the last time i read the bible, the messiah had eradicated eye for an eye mosaic law

Read Luke 22:36-38.

I think it's time Government should start regulating churches and mosquitoes.

If government starts now, people will start shouting religion persecution again, yet religions extremist in our blood is consuming us rapidly.

We crazy for religion,yet religions refuse to improve our morality, I think aim and objective of religions have been defeated.

Everyday Pastor, Prophet, Imam, Alfa doing unthinkable in the name of God

rickpat:
MARRIAGE WILL ALWAYS BE HELL WHEN ONE PARTY THINKS HE OR SHE IS SMARTER THAN THE OTHER....once one is the mugu and the other the wise .. Marriage don scatter.....

people do have great marriages...maybe they should always come out to teach people how it works for them...NOT ONLY THE PEOPLE COMING OUT TO SAY THE NEGATIVES OR ILL TREATMENT FROM THEIR SPOUSE...


BOTH MAN AND WOMEN GO THROUGH ALOT WHEN IN TERRIBLE MARRIAGE...

Marriage starts from very beginning when guy asks lady out, you will ask urself, are we compactable in all fronts? Can I cope with her/him with his/her attitude for longtime to come? But instead, we normally focus on mundane eg. Beauty and handsome, fame, education, type of job, cars and houses, opportunities to have traveled abroad.

In as much those things are good in marriages, it's not guaranteed to make marriage work, if you guys not there is no compactivity

Promzy99:
Its very disheartening to know that a lot of men go through a lot silently in their relationships.

Open your eyes when you are dating you said no, many of you would say, you dnt believe in man taking woman money for any reason, this is one of outcomes.

..... For me in my marriage, sometimes, I would reprimand my wife from buying things for me, I dnt know how many clothes, shoe, bag etc she bought for me in the past..........

If you guys really meet good woman and if the two couples ready to compromise for blissful marriage, you guys would enjoy marriage maximally.

OgunLaakaye:
I will use this medium to tell all and all, if you in the class of people who don’t believe powers exist on Earth, please detest from it.

Before you make claims to your imaginary, unfounded and fictional assertions, please try to do a “PERSONAL STUDY” before coming online to say voodoo does not exist.

I tell you one truth that was never writtten in any holy book, “When the Almighty created Earth, he placed it in the hands of humans, giving them limitations.”

Those who don't bilv, they themselves had been used and the most pathetic is that, they are not aware, possiblity that they would die in that situation

BadNews:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/2022/07/02/yahoo-boys-police-react-to-viral-video-of-lady-stripped-naked-barking-like-dog/

See The Previous Thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7206800/lady-used-money-ritual-runs

At the end, if ever got convicted, he would be convicted for 2 months, why won't they continuing in their wicked acts?

Ndibuna:
You know nothing of election winning small boy. Ọya take this ball and go play in the rain, your food will be ready before dawn so you can eat and sleep off.

U need not to reply clown in other not to pamper his ego indirectly.

An opposition candidate that neglected his biggest weaponry and want to unseat party in government.

That kid thought it is only Wike that his fighting Atiku, not knowing that several serving and ex govs are with Wike

Ayinke93:
The fact that you people spend the most part of your days bashing women, speaks more about your joblessness and lack of purpose in life. If you all were busy, and have something going on for you, women and what they choose to do with their vaginas** won’t be the only topic you people knee jerk about at every opportunity. You can shove your unsolicited opinions up your a$s. I only care about the moderators and how they allow so many low lifers get away with the bullying everyday.

Joblessness? Not me.

Meanwhile, let women stop that mentality.I insist the bashing will die naturally.

From the point I listed, you didnt counter one and proof a point, instead, you keep talking and lamenting about bashing.


Doesn't many naija ladies dnt make relationship as source of income? Yes or No

Ayinke93:
Something is definitely wrong with the operators of this forum and the way topics are titled to insult women in order to drive traffic from low lifers that call themselves redpillers. So anybody that is mentally unstable was used for money rituals? Has this claim been verified? What other form of reactions were the mods expecting if not another round of women bashing and misogyny. @seun I don’t think this path of endlessly promoting topics that give avenues for women to be bullied on this forum is healthy. It’s very unfair that you have something this toxic attached to your legacy and you are doing nothing about it.

It’s not enough to only curb tribalism, political and religious intolerance in this platform because I see you have methods in place for that, but the misogyny on this platform stinks and you should really do something about it.

Cc Seun, lalasticlala

Preach for ur fellow women not to make relationship / VJ as a means of livelyhood and see that bashing will die of natural death.

After all , they bash women and not Ayinke.

OriOko88:
Na rituals those yahoo boys dey do now. Na so one guy suddenly becomes rich in my neighborhood,within three months he had build a gigiantic shopping complex.. Infact all mouths were wowed at d speed and pace he built the shopping complex.. In less that two months. He later bought a venza. And was a talk of d town. A very young boy oo...like 28 29.. At last he died suddenly last week.. Very shocking death. People could not even rent d shops again.. That that scenario makes me believe that ritual truly exists. D guy case really surprised me.

Rituals truly exit? With time u will understand philosophies of life fully.

....... people are taking and trading with destinies, it's complete slowpoke that claimed ignorance of existence of supernatural powers biko......

IamAsiri:
That's how some of you add 2+2 up and come up with 20. How sure are you that the husband is not aware of her message? Or don't you know that it's how women think? The least the women thought she could help with is the house chores, because she believes that the family is indebted to the man. The man can choose to politely decline and laugh it off, that the help he rendered is not a big deal. Else, they'd will be acting as if they are walking as if on eggshells around him.

Common sense will tell her that such assistant would be communicated through her husband. That's how to show clean mind ok.

akenzua74:
. My friend's wife did same to me severally, we're like brother and sister no corrupt feelings towards her. Pls control your mind abeg. Will think of sex if she was your sister?

That ur friend wife doesn't have single respect for her husband. Infact, you too have no regards for your friend. Bye

MITCHELL96:
Will they ever learn ?

Stop following these Yahoo boys up and down

If Client no pay them, they'll be left with no option than to do rituals on top your head, But these girls want to drip and slay without any hardwork, Mtchew!

If you see girls/ladies/women mind (mentality) when dating guys ehn, you would know this type of narrative will keep on growing.

I dnt have single sympathy for her

Many see men as only mean to get money, when they have functional brains, and when legs and hands are not deformed o.

Infact, some ladies, if they buy expensive clothes,bag or hairdos, all their mind would be how to get triple of the money from guys. Guys who are not your daddy, uncle or brother. As if it was guy who forced her to go for what she couldn't afford.


If all ur mind and mentality tailored towards getting money from guys at all cost,why won't you be victim of such relationship.

If you can see what Yahoo boy/rich guys normally subjected some ladies to, you will weep for this generation.

killmods:
Modern marriages are not made to last because a lot of us see the institution as old school. So many woman want the "married" title but still live like singles without any measure of self control and discipline and the men are not left out. No wonder it's very easy to fûck married women lately. Our women used to cut off certain habits and ties once they're married but lately it's not that way. Modern life has confused a lot of people and they will never realise that it's all intentional to destroy the institution of marriage and family as ordained by God. Those who control how the world works are against anything Godly. Look around u and see what is being promoted. All nonsense is now normal. They term it woke or wtv. We are steadily heading towards destruction. All of us

Not only on women side but men too, men want to marry yet still want to do like single, carry different girls even to notice of wife, go out and sleep outside at will, some spend recklessly for women outside and refuses to bring money.

Think9ja:

Call it insecurity, call it low self-esteem, call it pride, call it any names you choose.

I will not have anything to do with a woman that has an advantage over me in any aspect of life.

If you're earning 50k, I must be earning 100k.
If your body counts is five, mine must be ten.
If you have five exes, I must have at least fifteen.
If you have a bsc I must be doing my masters
If you are thirty years I must be thirty five
If your family's net worth is 15M, mine must be 20M
If we both drive a Toyota, I must be driving the more expensive one.

Anything called "Couple's Twist" which seeks to answer many questions relating to relationship, courtship and marriage". is absolute rubbish to me.

And after marriage of 15 or more years with grown up children, God answer ur wife, her income triple ur own?

You guy should learn how to think in broad way.

From very first day you want to ask a lady out, know urself and who you want to ask out, from the day she agrees, make sure u re on top of relationship, after marriage, maintain ur headship, (even if she receiving millions as income, make sure you still doing responsibility of husband at home).

Wen marriage still going on smoothly, be orientating her time to time, It's completely tru that women have fish brains (inferior to man brain) though, only wen it comes to relationship with man o, I think God deliberately did it that way.

Berankis:
Some ladies are naturally and permanently born-stupid! And some guys too can be irritatingly daft.
Go ahead allow her to CUM ova to your house to show appreciation as a woman.
This is irritating! I dislike things like these.
And I sense you Op are an Opportunist & weak too and very immature. A married man acting like a Neophyte.
It's obvious this is just some women's antics. Don't mind all those bastard ladies saying your mind is going towards sex. Yes it is about sex! And if you allow her to come, please do come back to give us the gist of how you messed up your reputation and dignity.

Infact, I begin to believe that women have fish brain.
Indeed ,they are something else.
Going to wash man's clothes that is not ur husband, daddy or ur sick brother without wife in his own house.


If she is honest, why dnt she tell her to bring them to their house to wash them for him?