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I still don't know why women find it hard to completely cut off ex. Someone you, yourself know is a potential destroyer of your marriage. If you tell them dnt,have anything to do with exes, they will say since "we are not enemy nah".


Gradually person that u claim is not your enemy will crop in and destroy once a beautiful marriage.

If husband catches you and send you parking, will ur ex u refuse to cut off will accept you and allow you to leave with him? yet u can't do without him.

Maybe I should start believing some people who say women have fish brains sha.

Naija , a country with total dishonest individual.

Maybe only God can lead Nigeria successfully.

akbonus:
YOU ARE JUST CONFUSED,OSIBANJO IS TEN TIMES BETTER THAN 1 MILLION TIFNUBU,PEOLE ARE SAYING HE MENTORED OSIBANJO,OSIBANJO WHO IS AN INTELLIGENT PROFESSOR OF LAW WILL BE MENTORED BY A STACKED ILLITERATE DRUGEE WITHOUT ANY KNOWN SCHOOL CERTIFICATE,NOR BE JUJU BE THAT?

Infact , u re not only confused but mad and I doubt if ur madness is curable, check the last paragraph of my mentioned

.........ur emotion will surely destroy you, I doubt you will be able to succeed in life since ur emotion is totally overwhelmed and controlling you.

If u married, I salute the innocent girl that will be leaving with madman.

I think to be truth and candid, Tinubu had laboured to become president long time ago, starting from when he was confronting almighty PDP led by Obasanjo and latter Jonathan, how he spared head battle to defeat/remove PDP govs in south west and Edo, how he established radio station,
TVand newspaper to project his name and his party, and most important ,so many political actors he had almost single handedly enthroned which includes Buhari.

If we are comparing the percentages of his contributions in APC with Amaechi and Osinbanjo alikes. I think the gap between him and them will be too wide to measure.

I'm not surprising wen he defeated all other candidates and I think he has better chance to defeat Atiku than others. Though, how I wish it's Osinbanjo that becomes next president.

..but for naija, they will tell u to go back to iragbiji......... hypocrite set of animals

So, " all Nigeria girls are not useless again?
Gradually you are waking up to reality.

Jozilinn:
Na you Sabi that one oh,you are even proud to say it that your child is been trained by someone else abi ,guy if you love it so much why not allow your wife to go fucking around and having people's kids for you...dey there dey form senior man cos your sperm swim.well,tueh to you maybe you aren't a man after all cos no real man is gonna let another man sweat and hustle for his baby while he's still alive ,do you know the pain a father feels for his child haba ...we must stop encouraging all this abeg , there are women here,even wives reading comments,if you're encouraging this...just imagine any of your sibling isn't yours won't to you hate your mum,guy go and take your child from that bae be a man chaii!!!.
The only excuse for not taking your child is if you are now married you sound callous to me though.

Ur ignorant is not curable, I have sex with a lady and after a week interval she said I'm the one responsible......if it's u ,u will take that pregnancy, .......check DNA of ur children if u married , I doubt any of children u are claiming actually belong to you.

Jozilinn:
Tell her about it and see her reaction first...if you want to continue you are only hurting yourself and your family cos the truth will surely come out.
The father of that child will certainly come for his child sooner or later or maybe he might be closer than you think self and they're probably still having sex OOO. You just have to let go trust me,right now that the child is little or you might feel the shame later when the dad surfaces.
You were tricked and decieved, good women don't do that,why did she keep the baby?was she raped? If you married her traditionally OP you are digging your grave because what your wife did and might continue doing with your silence is going to start affecting your health as her husband ask around make Dem yarn you now. Women who sleep around either make their husbands die early or their child die at a young age. Ask elderly men or women it's not acceptable in some culture. Use your head not your heart cos you might loose that heart of yours later then you won't have a head to use too.

U sound funny, several of such children are with different fathers they taught are their own fathers til death.

If its to make DNA compulsory, Nigeria would be consumed by emotional fire within 10 minutes of results of DNA.


The more u look the less u see.


I knew a lady that I slept with in the past, after just a week aafter the first sex, she said I'm the one responsible for her pregnancy, and after 2 months of claim and counter claim, a man show up and started dating her without knowledge of pregnancy, last last he was the one he claimed the child.

PoliteActivist:
See this one. Even yahoo boys will deceive someone to extent of sending all their cash, talkless of marriage. Also some red flags don't emerge till years later.
Also people do change.
Also, things change people - like introduction of pregnancy/children or change in financial status or even marriage itself can change people!

See this one, u don't ready for marriage yet, if u like keep liking yahoo to marriage stuff, just like yahoo, if you too attached to reap where u are not ssowed youu will be deceived and swindle,. wen u are dealing with others either marriage or anything, you must be observant to know at least 55% of his or her characters, with ur knowledge of basic his character u know, you can use it to project, what he or she can turn to in future, ......if u can cope, so be it and if u can't you leave.


......oga my analysis is for intelligent people ok,..... I'm very sure u can't understand.

But I insist, red flag often show clearly during courtship, but knacking, cuddle and amount he can offer do normally blindfold the errors.

PoliteActivist:
Good advice, but easier said than done. Many times red flags don't emerge (or are hidden) till after marriage

Most cases (99%) red flags do display by intending couples, but you guys always overwhelmed by passion of love lust.
So many actions you will turn blind eyes to when u re dating newly,but which are red flags on long run.

....Characters like smoke cannot be hiden so our ancestors say.....

Chinonye2022:
must u comment why not keep quiet If wike was chosen as VP to Atiku wil ortom pull out

Foolish people, you think these people are fighting Ayu, if u are not slowpoke you will know, they are indirectly want to pull down Atiku a Fulani man from be a president

obynzo:
See your tribalism ehnnn it will be your destruction.

Obi don't know you and he will still not know you even if he spend twenty year on the throne.


If you don't want to be destroyed you will carefully analyse them and vote, and when someone is analyse, you will object with reasonable good answer and not result to attacking as usual.
Just as you are behaving now, if obi becomes president, people like will not allow him to deliver claiming it's ur turn

Adekunlegold9ja:
Good evening guys,

Which is the best approach to get a lady into you. And being in a relationship with you.

Professing your love at first

Or just been close to her and playing the dating game(Hardon)

I have tried both tho and the two ended in absolute shame.

It ended in shame probably because of these reasons.

1. You went for ladies with higher standard
2. You are not ok , both physique and financially as guy.
3.You carried redpil indoctrination and you think it will work for you in reality as they are claiming here.

The only area where Obi will have an edge over other candidates is cut excessive spending, apart from that nothing, nothing and nothing.

And my fear is that Obi may turn presidency to Igbo presidency just the way Buhari doing now, and this will not allow him to bring best brains from different part of the country to make him succeed

AdamuKD:
You are right. I later connect to my former girlfriend when I was in my 2year. She too married but it didn't work she came out of the marriage we connected and married. I would say I am the luckiest guy because we separated like 11 years ago but fate still brought us together. Now I am enjoying my marriage with my baby on the way in few weeks from now. We didn't have problem connecting because we dated for 3 years then. And we have both learnt from our past marriage mistakes. Everybody dey respect himself now because experience is the best teacher. How did you meet your wife? And which tribe are you?

My brother, tribe , religion and whri u met ur wives has nothing to do with good wive/husband.

My advice is that during courtship, intending couples should not be carried away by lust and other goodies goodies and by extension pressure to get married.
They should look at the each other red flags, if his/her attributes are the one you cannot cope with better pull out.

asanausana91:
Ortom is betraying his brother AYU because of the dollars foolish Wike is sharing. Ortom and wike will not stay to hand over to the next governor if Atiku win.
With what this fools are doing, the love for Atiku in the north is skyrocketing.

Ortom not supporting Wike for nothing but fighting for his own people, Ortom doesn't want another Fulani to be president, having seen how Buhari is supporting his people despite killings by heardsmen in every angles in Benue, infact, it's Ayu that is mad, it's only Benue man that's mad, that would still surport Fulani man to continue as president, despite alltrocites they committed in Benue.

AdamuKD:
You are very right. I am a guy of 35 years but this is my second Marriage. My first Marriage was hell. It lasted on 7 months. We did wedding and event at keffi barrack . But the lady was just too stubborn and wicked.
For the sake of my life, I ran away and married another early last year. This happened 2017. So marriage is not a do or die affairs. Already, I am happy with this one now.
The lady in question is from Kebbi state, Zuru by tribe

When you married right you will enjoy marriage and wen u married wrong u will regret the marriage, no other definition for that.
I'm very sure, you carefully went for good character after ur failed marriage, what happened to you is what is happening to many guys/ladies wen they married in their first attempt.

Many married wrong person mainly cos of physical attraction they had for each other and not good character, they believe things we changed after marriage, but instead, it continuing agravating, meanwhile, most are unfortunately to have opotunity to remarry as u did.

huptin:
Can't say the reasons on a public forum suffice it to say that women will always treat a kind man badly...they prefer the bad ones.

You are the one who deliberately or ignorantly went for bad women when you wanted to married and stop generalising pls. (Provided ur woman is even at fault)

Heathrow44:
shut up there, goblin, how dare u stand up t talk when others are talking ? ! go and find ur level

Your type (redpilers) have their section "inside-inside", I am very sure you're still in agro" of kainkain you took yesternite and that's why you are commenting on issues that are meant for rational human beings.

Pele.

benqo01:
Look at what ended this relationship na wao

Well the guy did well sha

In as much I biliv man shouldn't be turned to ATM, I am school of thought who doesn't biliv in 50/50 contributions in marriage.

A leader is the one who contributes more in a project most especially in area finances.

Infact, where is African in you if you are asking for equally contribution from ur wife

The mentality of women should contribute equally is satanist and bend towards destroying marriages.

Olunmercy56:
Number 10 is okay for me

Yet he will still have element of 1-9, no matter how small it's.

No human is perfectly designed.

jmichael259:
it's obasanjo i blame for giving gsm to underage fools like you. I'm a self employed landlord hustling pre-dawn till morrow. I don't have time for simps like you waiting for your mamathankiu.

Take to my advice please. U are not supposed to contribute to this issues.

The last time I checked, you said u still buying "bread and akara" for breakfast that normally cost u 2k 500 daily.

I will advise you to work hard so that you too can be able to be "man of the house", by then, you will be able to contribute meaningfully to this kind of discussion.

For now, with no single experience, ur opinion is going out of way.....too senseless.

Many people do not always prepare for marriage, they only go into it biliving they old enough and it's time to have children.


When you are going to marriage, you have to knt that ur freedom Will be cut by 3/4.

jmichael259:
it cost me 2k average to feed myself daily. Not less than 600-700 to have breakfast of just akara, bread and beverages in nigeria currently. How much is a satchet of milk, noodles, cup of rice or garri etc?

Multiply it by 11 and stop talking trash.

Go and married, the issue being discussed is more than what small boy like you can comprehend.

Which war in particular? Is it war with almighty God? With all other countries combine or USA vs any singular nation.

For the first two it's truth but last one absolute lies.

I think it's contest between Tinubu and kwankwasor, while Atiku will rake reminant.

Melodydoctor:
How much is 33 plates of rice in the restaurant if 1 plate is #400? Convert this and see the truth in his estimate. The story could be false but his estimates are true.

If he is spending 420k on food daily, how much he will be spending for entire expensive per month? Yet he a welder that leaves in room and parlor

Both story and estimate are 100% pure lies