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Op if u do drugs please stop, all these na early symptoms of psychosis.

Theama:
Lol... Feminine touch, that's true Sha.

But let's not also forget honestly speaking there are also people (both gender involved) who became aggressive and depressed after getting in/out of a relationship. Some commiting suicide, some wanting revenge/punish whoever they get with next.

I think this is your point and mine meets:
The thing ehn is that a relationship may make a person better or worse than when they came in, it can be a nature-changing factor, but it's not the ultimate or only factor for change. (e.g some people calming after anger management classes.) You get?

I quite agree with you baba. You have spoken well, I pray we all find the right fit for us boss. Happy Sunday!

Op you are 100% complete. People don’t trust what they can’t understand.

Theama:
Can't function well?

Can you boldly say this holds true vice versa?


Let's be realistic. Women's love, as well as other kind of things, can fill the emptiness but after a while, there'll be a longing for something more.

If one has close friends and family to share the beautiful moment with, that emptiness won't be felt. After all na even David for Bible talk say him friend( Jonathan) love dey "more wonderful than the love of a woman"



It safe to say one can't function without God's involvement and human(regardless of gender) support. Na only God fit fill the emptiness wey you go dey completely satisfied.

Note: I'm not against Marriage.

We are not talking about God here of cos God is supreme. But one on one, I’ve seen so many violent and aggressive men become calm, I mean extremely calm since the got a significant other.

Bluearrow:
Oga speak for yourself please!
You can't function without a woman, not men.
What about the men like saint obi women have sent to their early grave? Does don jazzy not look more happy to u than so men in miserable relationship? Don't generalize pls

Okies

Forget all these. It’s not easy being single don’t let anybody deceive u. A man can’t function well without the loving of a woman. If u like make all the money in the world, if there’s no woman or girl to share beautiful moments with and by this I’m not talking about sex. You will realize there’s and emptiness within that only the loving of a woman can fill.

Honestly I see nothing wrong in dating a lady and giving her something to make her life easy. Please Naija is hard already and don’t add more stress to somebody’s daughter. Abi the hookup girls and prostitutes being patronized are for free Like portable said “make money before u love”. Even as a man if u don’t have money u won’t be happy with yourself. So why blame your girl for making demands? Simply meet the ones u can and a good girl will appreciate it.

sex starved Nairaland men. Lmao

Real recognizes real. As there are real niggas, so also there are real queens. So I beg to disagree with ur number 2 point.

The tables are turning. I guess what a man can do a woman can do better after all.

Wahala wahala wahala

Omo cultism is a menace indeed. The movement has been stained and it can only get worst. If govt doesn’t take a decisive action to end this evil bedeviling our society it will be bad for the future, many of us here screaming saynotocultism sef some of our offspring fit play game too and imagine how brutal e go don Dey by then. Government should help us eradicate cultism.

Nicepoker:
They will never learn. Op have you heard of "premium tears".

Please stop with the negativity. Op found love and the best you could do is wish him well not projecting your fears on him.

Emola12:
as you no go European conference league tokles of Europe and champions league abi eleleya radarada

I b United o, but I just Dey imagine Wetin Bayern wan do us tonight.

Make I laugh small.

Them still coming through.

Hmmm na wa. After they’ll say Nigerian graduates are unemployable when we have substandard schools around. God will help us get it right.

chai Oghene Biko oooo. See Wetin u Dey reason. Lol. Well if that happens na to become reverend father b that o.

Street is rough. But Benin boys them too do. I am not in a position to condemn yahoo, cos I’ve once been a beneficiary to this ugly game. Sad. But truth is whenever I think of the harm I caused innocent people I just most times make donations to old people’s home and orphanages and I keep praying everyday that God in His infinite mercy forgives me. Man condition make crayfish bend. But yahoo from my own personal experience is very very very bad. Youths should engage themselves in something meaningful and learn the virtues of patience. With time God will bless the works of your hand and everything will fall in place for you.

I nearly think say na Agbado be he name but when I saw Agbadu, I just had to comment my reserve.

when we tell people to stay away from drugs they think it’s just all talk. Weed as a whole is deeply spiritual and if you are not spiritually strong the thing fit overpower you or at most turn your brain upside down and you start conversing with strange beings.

SultanOfPuna:
My Dad is a classic Simp
I learnt a lot from his mistakes 🙏🏽

Then I discovered Red pill which changed my life for the best!!

Just don’t try too hard to appear tough. Handle your woman with respect and tolerance and watch how she respects you wholeheartedly, some go even ready fight their parents because of you.

Wetin go be go be, I spent my whole life trying to be the exact opposite of my father because I felt he was too calm for my liking. The more I grew older I realized I turned out to be like him even without knowing. And honestly it’s a very peaceful life he is living and I realized it’s the best. Don’t try too hard to fight what you have no control over as long it doesn’t bring shame and disgrace to you as a man. An Apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

Purvan:
Men are like that also


They go to the gym , smoke loud, watch movie , listen to depressing songs when a girl they love so much break up with them

You happen to be one of those niggers that haven't experienced love with a woman

Na pipe and down


When your mama die that kin pain way go pain you is the same as the heart break a girl that you love gives you

Comrade abeg nor kast us.

IconicR:
Emotional abuse is enough for separation as well
Some guys are expert at messing up a woman's mental health but will never go physical on you
There are still nice ones around but they too get baggages

Reason tolerance is needed. But I get your point though. Don’t forget for us men loyalty+respect > love

God bless you GMB. We really know you meant well for this country. To build we first have to destroy and you did that really well by weakening the few corrupt people ruining our country even though the masses suffered for it. Now that the baton has been passed to Jagaban, even as he toils heaven and earth to make our country great again, we will always remember you as the man who started the process. God bless you my unshakable General. Enjoy your retirement in peace sir and may all you lay your hands on continue to prosper in Jesus name. Amen

Anny69:
Do you want to convert it into money for us?

Please take a chill pill. Una too Dey quick vex for this our obodo Nigeria.

If you really love your current guy, then I would suggest u support now when he needs it the most. Most guys if not all are possessive and proud in nature and you going on ur harmless sit outs with other men would dampen his pride as a man. This shit is crazy to the extent that it might affect his goals and concentration if he isn’t mentally strong. Guys are not difficult, all we want is just loyalty and respect from our significant other. Shikena

IconicR:
Their wahala is too much

They don't know how to love and pamper their women

Both genders are difficult to love, but you just have to focus on the positive aspects and then just learn to work with that, with time those quarrels would become fun for both of you as it would help cement the love. Only time I permit separation is in the case of physical abuse. Almost every guy in Nigeria lacks trust for the opposite gender and same too for the females, but most times it’s just the brain overreacting to triggers from previous relationships. In all Nigerian men would still keep on marrying our beautiful Nigerian ladies.

APC go show pdp shege banza. This is pol101

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