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Op nice topic. For me since I clocked 30 I’ve been gradually losing interest in sex and even when I do it after I cum I regret and often question myself why I did it, but as of now I am ready to be celibate till marriage. No gain in jumping from one bed to another as a man. Na yourself you Dey kill gradually

ebijimi7:
Good day guys
I made the worst mistake of my life and I think it's affecting me now
I have a girlfriend I dated for 4 years before we had issue she was 22 years and I was 25 so she doesn't listen to me she kept communicating with her ex although it got me angry and I broke up with her while her friend got married to that her ex she begged me to come back I refused until 2 years after I decided to listen to her then I found out she had dated many guys close to 10 guys why I was with just 1 girl until I started having issues with her so I decided to question her because I disvirgined her and she doesn't like a protected sex after interrogation I discovered she had 1 abortion and I try to man up and accept the fact that it cannot be changed so once in awhile it gets into my head but the one that got into my head recently I collected her phone to help her repair it then that was how I came across the chat with one of her ex that got her pregnant all the nude they shared how they zucked each other and how she went ahead to abort the baby and she was still asking the guy if he wanted the baby and how the baby would have been a year old although she said she no longer communicate with the ex and I discovered she has blocked him and was telling the guy to stay clear that she is married now.
This got me angry and furious although she told me she had abortion but not full information of what happened then I called her to challenge her then she said I'm always using her past to hurt her because I kept saying it and the mother was there and she heard everything and the mother got angry that I disappointed her because she wasn't expecting such from me the mother never knew she did abortion until the convo I had with her then the mother was mad at me that she never expected such from me and the mother is a churchy type of person so she got angry ad said if not for my mother that died she would have blocked me from calling she and her daughter I felt bad that I messed up everything and tht ishoud not have said what I said and she said I should return her daughter's phone and everything belonging to her daughter including her things in my place and since that yesterday I've been begging the mother and it's now looking like she doesn't want me to talk to her daughter any more and I plan to marry her very soon I'm 29 and I don't know where to start from I have been down because I love the girl she made a statement that I felt bad for she said why does nobody loves me I felt broken it's been 24 hours now I've not heard from my gf im sticker in between moving on or wait if anything can be done......

OP trust me, you don’t need advice; what you need is “sense” so pray to Baba God make He have mercy on you and reactivate your sense.

Yes men also get damaged emotionally and this makes it really difficult for these set of guys to bond with any female no matter how cute or pleasing to the eyes she is. Basically they just need her for release and not companionship. Solution however is to stay celibate for an extended period of time and serve God faithfully, then watch Him do His magic in your life.

Jagaban you do this one. See how baba had the whole country filled with anticipation and suspense. Nigeria must be great again

Columbine:
Recently relocated to warri as a result of what I do. It has always been from work to my base and vice versa, which is seeming boring.

According to my little observations, it's a lively place, crowdy with rough life. As such I'm very skeptical.

Looking for friends; male/female I can blend with, as I wish to enjoy my stay why it lasts. Both the friendships, relationships, hangouts, sex life, church life, anything at all that's gonna make my stay in warri memorable.

Peaceful places in Warri. All of Uvwie, airport road, Enerhen, Mccdermot road. But places to stay away from, riverine areas, iyara, udu, ugboroke, ugborikoko. These areas are very rough. Like someone said up there make friends with females without sex o, this will make them give you updates on consistent basis, then if you want romantic relationship look for a sound church and hunt from there. Avoid changing girls for fun as it’s not worth it on the long run. Godbless you and enjoy Warri. If you wan konect quote me make we arrange location.

That’s an emergency exit and in case mess just show unexpectedly so e go just deflate downwards and nor smell much.

Bro pray hard against every spirit of stagnation and try sharing alms to those Almajiris so they can intercede on your behalf. If you are ready quote me.

Ourtruth247:
The mystery of the Solar eclipse

Another fact every astronomer knows is that there is a one in a trillion chance that a planet's moon would appear exactly the same size as the sun during an eclipse.

By the way if you view a full eclipse from space, you will see the picture below. Does it look familiar?

This is the eyes of God watching our wicked world.

Congratulations Bruno. You deserve it more than anyone else. Glory Glory Manchester United.

DADDY2or3FISHES:
Hello my uncle wants to send wants to send me money from abroad.
He is not in Europe. He is currently in one of the South Pacific countries.

The banks in that country doesn't support bitcoin because I asked him to download bitcoin app but his card was unable to purchase the bitcoin.

I want my name to remain anonymous to my uncle...
What other alternative means can I use to receive this money....
Please I need this information urgently

Yahoo boy you better repent now before it’s too late.

Bleep her, get her pregnant and then make another niggar do the abortion procedure. Trust me she will be bleeped for life.

Can the ex be a good cover for when Varane or Martinez is injured? Certainly better than Maguire.

;I’ll have to go with the modafucka 2 places up. Damnnn niggar. I grab my weed to learn.

Sharp attacker both on and off the pitch. Congrats Greenwood come back banging goals from every corners for United next season.

Nice move. At last we have a president who cares about the masses. Slowly we shall get there. Godbless BAT. Godbless Nigeria.

Oraimo will be good for the first few months but later start detoriating very fast, this is perculiar with all the oraimo products I’ve used, from earpiece to power bank. I will advise you try new age cause I’ve been using my power bank for up to a year now and it’s still standing strong.

The fact say una deny am mean say e go soon happen. I fear this country. Naija my country I know we will get to the promised land soon. Godbless Nigeria.

This govt just wasting time on frivolities.

Magnoliaa:
Interesting.

What advise do you have for me ma’am?

Proserpina:
Based on stories on Nl, you made a decision to break up with your woman. Lol may that girl be sleepless for seven nights if she dare contact you or take you back.

To your question, no that's not what love entails.

Boss indeed you spoke the truth, but you won’t know derstand how I feel unless you’ve been in this situation before. She has been calling and calling but I don’t know if maybe I should pick it up. It hurts me ignoring her calls, but in truth I feel betrayed by her.

RoadMozart:
Chill out bro. Calm down. We no dey rush women matter. The gay guy might be piping her, who knows? We've heard of transgender female inmates impregnating others.

If you really love her, you have to watch out for her. People wey send babe go uni no dey always like the outcome.... You'll literally become a student in that campus if you want to keep her. You gerrit?

Thanks Baba, I really appreciate your input. Like I said earlier Nysc is what’s still keeping my head together. Apparently being busy helps a lot.

Part of me thinks she’s innocent, but the other part thinks the worst because of all the stories shared about on Nairaland. I don’t know maybe I’m overthinking things or not.

RoadMozart:
Who be dis wey wan dey delay idan....

Continue jhor

Sorry baba

Everything was going fine and the sex was great plus I still support her financially whenever the need arises. She travelled to school and decided to stay off campus against my wish so I let it slide since it was her parents that were paying for it. Not up to 3 months, she got into a quarrel with 2 of her roommates as they were 3 who collected the room, and this forced her to move her stuffs to stay with one of her friends. Now note, initially she had complained about this very friend and told me this girl has tried to set her up for hookup in the past but she claimed to have refused. When she told me she was coming to stay with this her friend, I warned her about it and let it slide again. She was there for almost a month then came the end of the semester, we met again and after making out she told me she wanted to rent an apartment and then. “Initially in the beginning when she had gained admission I was so happy that I had to set up an education trust fund for her and I told her about it, she even went to school and I tried to build her, I opened up a business for her but for now she can’t account for anything. And this set me back by 50k Naira”. So one day, she ask I activate the funds I promised her which I did and emptied my account it was a 100k naira. She offered herself for sex which I refused. She left and went to school she called she has seen an apartment and moved there which was opposite this her said friend I warned her about and I travelled there to see her so that I can assess the place. I got there late in the evening and slept over, the next morning, I woke up to a very early morning knock from her neighbor who she claim is gay. The guy came with just a towel, no boxers or whatever naked underneath. (Gay my ass). I kept quiet, they were discussing with her gay friend telling her he is always naked anytime his door is closed. I kept quiet and was listening to their conversation. Then I travelled back to my duty post, on getting there, I piece one and two together and my mind told me this supposed gay friend is fucking her. Since I made that discovery, I had ignored her and deleted everything about her she has been calling and calling and I don’t know what to do I just know I don’t want to see her ever again.

FitCorper:
Hello everyone, I just want to share my story about the recent breakfast I served my girlfriend I would say, or rather she serving me breakfast. .
Well to begin. I am currently a youth corper posted to Benin city, Edo state for my one year mandatory service. About 2 years ago, I met a young girl who was 18 years old and we got talking for sometime before we started dating. She was a jambite and I did disvirgin her before she gained admission to study in one of the universities. I have to get ready for school now, and will be dropping updates to the story when I am back.

So sorry for keeping you all waiting. I will drop the other part now.

Hello everyone, I just want to share my story about the recent breakfast I served my girlfriend I would say, or rather she serving me breakfast. .
Well to begin. I am currently a youth corper posted to Benin city, Edo state for my one year mandatory service. About 2 years ago, I met a young girl who was 18 years old and we got talking for sometime before we started dating. She was a jambite and I did disvirgin her before she gained admission to study in one of the universities. I have to get ready for school now, and will be dropping updates to the story when I am back.