Fornication, though popular among many today, is still wrong, sinful and dangerous. Now, one of the things many ladies do complain about is that guys (particularly those they are in a romantic relationship with) won't stop disturbing them for sex.
One thing you must realise is that premarital sex is still wrong and comes with unpleasant repercussions. The Will of God is that sexual pleasure should be shared between a married man and his wife in the safe confines of their marriage institution. So, any guy who isn't your husband (even if he's your boyfriend or fiance) doesn't have a right to your body. Any guy who is not your husband but persuading you for sex doesn't have your best interest at heart, and you should have nothing to do with such.
Actually, boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship is one of the problems we have today (as it keeps bringing unpleasant heartbreaks and heartaches, as well as increasing the rate of immorality and getting the society more corrupt). As a lady, know that once you are going into a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship with the average guy in this part of the world, he sees you as a mere pleasure-satisfying tool (of course, he will lie that he's in love with you).
Hence, the best way to approach relationship is going God's Way (being a genuine daughter of God and allowing Him connect you with one of his genuine sons for marriage). You should give your life to JESUS CHRIST and give Him your all, doing away with sinful and dirty stuff. Just call upon the Name of Jesus, and He will come to you. More tips will be posted on sundayakanni.com.
So, if you are currently in an ungodly boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship, please break such relationship. The devil keeps deceiving many ladies today, and it's so unfortunate. Listen, you don't have to be in a boyfriend-girlfriend romantic relationship before you can live a happy life devoid of loneliness. A romantic relationship doesn't even guarantee a happy and satisfactory life, but the opposite.
You don't have to depend on any guy for money to take care of yourself. You have a brain, you have talents. There are many productive skills out there that can fetch you lots of money. Don't be a mere object of pleasure for one nonsense guy somewhere.
You are meant to be a daughter of Zion. If you can have an intimate relationship with God through Jesus Christ, He will empower you to fulfill destiny, and you will live a quality life for His Glory. Source
DamZik: You see constructive criticism as an affront against the school. That's not how our society can become better. We need a mind change in this country.
Read my comment again; CU is currently one of the best university in Nigeria and I will gladly send my kids to that University. The transcript preparation period was not too long as against the comment I read. Then I said: build a faster system if you are intellectually equipped to do so". You can only criticise other people's effort if you have done something better.
DamZik: So you people believe that flimsy reason of name mismatch is enough to take the school six (6) months to sort out. I can assure you, if VC's daughter has the same challenge, it won't take the school up to six (6) to sort it out. I love everything that has to do with Oyedepo but I don't like this issue of sluggishness from CU. In the timeline of events above, look at the wide gaps between the dates. Who does that in a sane country?
Build your university and implement a faster system.
ASUU is still on strike, so we need competition. Produce a better system if you have the required knowledge and wisdom. ..More Grace...
soulstalker: A matured man(45-49 yrs) was seen crying bitterly this morning in a bank at surulere, when we tried to console and asked why he was crying, he said the girl he has been spending alot on dumped him for another person. Infact i almost slapped him, so i was wasting my sorry because a girl broke ur heart.
Guys come in here, let's share our emotional sides in break up or failed relationship.
tobechi74: Not good news at all. Must he marry now, can't he wait and have shop first. If he is living in rivers where rain falls for seven consecutive days , no market be that children will suffer You know this society is not working. you are managing to exist. eating from hand to mouth. struggling to make a living.
you find a partner in similar or worse situation like you and for love or other selfish reason, choose to get married and bring a child into this world.
A child that would be forced to struggle like you. To use him as cheap labor in your farm ? As a secondary source of income e.g bride price,child hawking As bragging right among your peers? So you can flex your authority and power on him/her
Why? so that when you get old you will guilt trip them into taking care of you with words like ” after ,bringing you into this world after all I have done for you.
you think because you brought him to this miserable world,he owes you his life. what did you do for him? you starved him, no tertiary education, no comfortable bed.
Who says the Man won't succeed in the nearest future?, when did you become God?, do you know the man's plans?. Congratulate him and mind your biz, he is building his world, face yours.
What you typed up there use to happen 2000 years ago not this 21 century We already have independent girls now I'm sure you come across them when you go out don't you envy them too.? Just this morning I saw a girl driving a Benz E class And here you are, aspiring to be a full house wife When you husband money is gone you as a wife you're expected to support him now tell me how do you want to support him when you sit your ass at home all day Doing nothing all in the name of house wife. After sometimes without him dropping anything at home you will later frustrate his life And from there problem will set in ... Girls of nowadays I don't know maybe you think with your pusssy. Girls like you are just a piece of junk
virginprincess: I said what i said because you guys are taking it like it a must that women must part of the family responsibility, it not suppose to be a must but choice, a woman money is not suppose to be shared.
True, a woman can contribute but its not her obligation to do so.
Kranediggy: Choi! Aspiring housewife spotted. Nne no go develop yourself and your mentality; be there looking for a man that will spend what your daddy can't spend on you. This is 21st Century o! Women are now becoming powerful and you're here wallowing in outdated lifestlye. Your type will press your man with iron...
Some people won't just take those reasons as an excuse. Just pray you don't come across a that's partner is obsess or having my mental issues. Obsession is a very bad behavior
True, such people are either not mentally stable or are possessed/obsessed.
Pancakeey: This is funny. Because people react to things differently Talk to them and try to make them understand.
You should know that they’re hurting too and they’re reacting the only way they know how too.
It hurts when someone who was your everything slowly becomes nothing. In a relationship there’ll always be a weaker person. Someone who can’t let go of the other person no matter how bad the relationship is.
You need to talk, be there for them. If they cry, be a shoulder Make them see why you can’t be together anymore. Explain the bad things that would keep happen if yiu remain together. Please don’t suggest to be friends because that’s a lie. [b]People say we can be friends but it’s not possible. [/b]You’ll go back to being strangers no matter how much you try.
Make them see reason. And if it’s that you already have someone else you like, let them know. So they don’t keep hoping that things might work out
You’re welcome!
What they need is a psychologists, Na craze dey worry them.
Always interested in what I do or where I am every minute
Comes to my workplace at lunch break so we could have lunch together everyday,
Insists on spending the whole weekend together, I never had a me time,
Says things like "it's me n you forever", "you have no choice" " there is no way you'll ever leave me" "I can kill for you" "if I'm dying, you're dying too"
A friend received threats cos of frequent talks with me
Doesn't want me to have any friends, even females, he feels they'd take me from him or introduce me to another man
He cries anytime I miss his calls
A sex freak
Sends 5 love sms to me everyday
Changed his church to mine just to always be with me, if we are sitting apart, it's either he comes sit with me or drags me to wherever he's sitting,
He drives me everywhere I want to go,
Etc.
Hahahahahahahah you are right ooo... I can relate, crazy people calling obsession love. I dated one like that, very mad dude. Calling you per second and getting angry when you don't pick, not comfortable with you having other friend.. It's a long story. Mag God continue to help us.
GreatResearcher: I'm not supporting assault but the lady got what she deserved. Watch the video very well you will see that the lady deliberately wanted the soldier to beat her so she can post it on the internet and trend. Even when people begged her to leave she thrown herself on the soldier.
Modified: Whenever you see a soldier or officer in military uniform, it's most likely that he or she is on official duty. These men while on duty try to steal a little time from their busy schedule to attend to their personal needs.
That is why most of them when the go to ATM stand they try to beat the queue because of their limited time.
This soldier went to the ATM stand as you can see his dressing. There's 90% possibility that he is on duty.
He tried to beat the queue. Instead of the lady to speak to him politely she started with insults.
Was the lady the only person at that ATM?
The soldier annoyance was she bringing out her phone to record the soldier.
That was when the soldier puts his wallet in his pocket and brought out his belt.
He didn't even beat her o.
She wanna trend that's all.
So he is right n she deserves it abi?, every Nigerian should know that a military man on uniform is on duty n needs to buy time? we suppose to know by default abi?
He is not your friend but your ex. Give yourself some much needed boost and block him. You are married, face your home and your family. Never ever give an ex room to have conversations where they jokingly, seriously or without thinking even utter "na me give you belle? Am I the father of your kids" Put an end to such disrespect towards your dear husband and family.
nwaimoroseyaho: When a married ex doesn't respond to your messages but constantly views your social media pages.
It is confusing at times. We didn't break up but got separated cos he traveled abroad and we lost contact.
When he came back I was married but we couldn't see each other, he travelled back and marries a South African lady.
But the few communications we had before he started ignoring me was as if he was angry, every conversation must be diverted to marriage, something like this, am I the father of your children, you dey vex for me I give you belle? You didn't leave a marker when you had the chance. Etc.
I told him that am sensing he is angry with me but he said not at all. Am married too. He is my first love from secondary school.
We are from the same village. Is this the attitude of a friend?
Hahaha......funny story... You better concentrate on your marriage and leave the guy alone. Block the guy na, this kind mumu story
Some call it a disgusting slum, some were born there and call it home. One thing remains for sure, it has to change in a way or another. What do you think about this incredible Makoko ? How should it be developed ?
Thank you for the video. I usually view that area every morning through the bus window when goin to work. I thought of doing a documentary too. I have thought and wonder how they live and sleep, every morning i see them defecating, some bathing, some swimming,others fishing while others are cutting wood. Different activitiaes happening at the same time in that same water,they seem ok with it as if its normal. I was told they refused renovation of that area, governor of Lagos state made an attempt to do it but it was not accepted.
Pavarottii: Wen I tell people that buhari will go another tenure... They think am mad... Mark my words in this day... Buhari will rule another tenure(the both chambers av never been keenly contested the way this was contested, that apc even had to infritrate the minority whips meant for pdp and as for the judiciary u know the story) ... U people think it's easy to relinquish power or u think GEJ doesn't know what he is saying?, maybe u have not tested power before den... I av and I know how it feels... Wen he has us, uk and Saudi Arabia backing him...
If only Nigerians know Wat we have entered... Its unfortunate but it's d reality... We must face it and bare it... We need like another extra 4 years of buhari before we will come out of shell and do a real protest against this govt. Right now the people of the West that ganged up with the North... Will even be the first to burn theirselves... And Mark this word again... Anybody expecting sowore to come out any time soon... U must be on a bicycl3..
Am not a prophet... But remember this quotes I av made... Just a small info... The kaduna mafia( The cabal) dambazau, babachir, daura, funtua, buratai. Mongonu, elrufai, the sokoto caliphate, abba kyari, Hamid ali, salami etc... They are the ones that even the elites in the North have been avoiding(because they know say their own no good).. They kept them away from power for a long time... Buhari has been contesting for power since 2003 till 2015, why didn't he win.. If he was that popular.. Cos they av been keeping dem away... Even obj tried to keep tinubu from power..because he knows this one's their conscience is dead... If yaradua did not die, they won't av smell power... But because of their greed. And the born to rule ideology the British colonist gave them , that a ss or se man should not be President den agreed to join forces back with this mafias and the west(tinubu)... And that's how Buhari came to power... And after 2019, they av pushed those northern elites who av been avoiding dem, markarfi, atiku, obj, ty danjuma, markarfi, saraki, shekarau, kwankwaso etc back to pdp... And now they are in charge... So don't expect abba kyari to leave anytime soon.. They are going back to the military way... Doesn't it surprise u how they disobey court orders or av u seen a successful orotest against this govt? ... They av installed fear in Nigerians by using life bullets to disperse protests... All we do now is murmur, hide behind d internet to talk, no one can come out to talk again... That's their plan... U wonder why all taxes. Are increasing, till gate back... They still av more for us .. Watch out.. Its gonna be long ride of sorrow, suffering and blood...
Who saw Wat abba kyari did to head of service... Oyo ita.. That's what will happen to anyone that opposes...
FisifunKododada: When (and trust me it is very rare) a woman loves...she loves for real BUT when a woman's fed up, there is NOTHING you can do about it...
If you have never experienced this, you will not understand.
Remimadrid: I hate it when people do stupid things or fight because of religion. She doesn't know where her help is coming from tomorrow, maybe the helper will be a Muslim, she never knows. Religion only differentiate us, we are all humans first..
Her helper is God and He can help her through any means. Dont ever depend on man.
TissuePaper: lol i'm not greedy o, i'm also a fan but i just feel she has been in the sport for too long and needs a break...new wine is always better than old wine ya know
She is still strong ans she is so much in the game. In sport you retire when you feel and know your body is weak. Serena is still strong, lets support her and let her shine...Lol
Religion / Re: When Your Boyfriend Is Disturbing You For Sex by Fitz22(f): 6:10pm On Dec 27, 2020 
..Naomi still takes the cake on this one, Serena Williams should retire and stop being greedy, let others have their shine