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Leg chains.. Even if I'm crushing badly on you, it will make me feel somehow

kunleweb:
How about companionship�

You too like grammar

She stated what she wants clean and clear.. no marriage, no buIIshIts, just pleasure from a real man

Some ladies don't need you to spend much.. just show them love and be a good company is all they need.

@OP don't panic yet.. I'm sure she is the understanding type

Oshey! .. and must be good in bed too

Kongi na bastard.

Goodluck in your quest.

What can I say.. give her stern warning to stop coming near your window.

I wonder what she is looking for after 4 kids

Na so.. oyun ko de de fo mo ni

Keep deceiving yourself

You realize she is not up to 18yrs right? you can go to jail if you're caught sleeping with her..

Instead of trying to have sex with her, why not use the love she has for you to build her in a positive way and help her education wise. Even if you two don't end up together, she won't forget you.

Lemme give you example..

A married lady at work who is obviously crushing on my friend decided not to wear bra one day, just free top.. Anytime she's alone with that my friend, she bends seductively for him to see everything live and clear, the fresh and succulent boobs all for him to view.

But my friend wasn't interested.. one of the reasons being that she is married.
Her actions is what guys call green light.. you understand now?

stonez15:
I did. But I think porn viewing is another form of masturbating .

Ok if that's the case, then the OP's assertion is true.

Shebi you can't mind your business ehnn

Lemme help.. you (your friend) find the guy attractive and you so much desire his attention. One of these days he'll end up fvcking you whether you like it or not.

stonez15:
what is porn and what is masturbation?

Did you read the writeup?

I think you should go back and read carefully, you'll notice the difference

I know they like watching porn a lot but can't say about masturbation.

Hmmn.. this one is quite dicey

You want to settle with the poor guy now after exhausting all options with other guys that failed.

The fact that you're best friends now doesn't mean you'd still be best friends in marriage tho.. shoot your shot if you want, best of luck!

Preciousgirl:
What are u talking about

Face front.. there is no guy anywhere trying to kiss you

Are you sure he's hitting on you or you're the one catching funny ideas..

I've observed that most married women thoughts revolve round sex and intimacy.. ya'll need to chill.

Why would anyone want to do that? where is the fun then in the marriage?

I feel your pains.. I hate people telling lies and being dishonest myself.

But from what I read, the guy is really proud of you (can't say for sure if he loves you) and you love him as well.

NYSC year is a year where you see so many free things, especially sex.. Even married women are not spared eg. you can see 3 - 5 guys taking turns on a married woman in one dark corner in camp. When they decamp such lady, she goes back to her husband's house who has no choice than to forgive and take her back.

To cut the long story short, you can forgive and stay or walk away provided you won't regret or start missing him later. So take your time and consider well.
All the best

Obe!

Na food for men be this, not boys.

Most igbo girls I know usually have small boobs with thicker body.. this Chef chi own. get as e be..

She's hot tho.

I take off my shoes at the doorstep so my legs can breathe.. that's the first thing

Feminists won't see this now o.. it's to be bashing guys up and down they know.

Hisduchess:
please not all today girls cos am 100% sure that I have value and I add value to people's lives

Can you prove it? else it's mere speculation.

#Justsaying

Ajeku Chris..

*Longhiss

I think some guys are naturally irressistible.. not necessarily cute cute like that but when women including married ones encounter them, they lose their minds

I've stopped being judgemental on issues relating to married women.. it's okay to feel young and cherished once in a while.

Whether or not they choose to get intimate with a friend is left to the two adults involved... But personally, I won't encourage that.

@OP she is most likely in need of company, don't let your dlck out just yet.

dierich:
Yes.
so can u tell me reasons y we should sleep. separately when we can gist and joke about the day and slept off. he owns no room on my apartment. he only come around & not his permanent place..

Okay..

Since he is your close pal, tell him you want to talk.. sit him down and explain why he needs to stop.

Trust me, you'll see results

That song "yori yori" comes to mind.

What can I say.. ride on lover boy

The first questions is.. Are you straight?

I don't see reason why you should share a room and even bed with a guy in a 3 bedroom apartment honestly.

If your answer to question 1 is No.. then sorry is your case.

Africa which way?

Seek medical help..

There is a way they break the hymen of newly wed virgins with this issue.
I believe they'd counsel you more when you talk to a doctor

Whether girlfriend or 'sarewa' or olosho.. use raincoat (condom).

It's for your own good