₦airaland Forum

Asapchikki:
Have you being in relationships with someone who is desperate to get married and whenever you are with him/her they will always bring up the topic.
The problem is am not ready for marriage now?


what advice will you give someone in such situation now?

Opinion needed pls....

Never let your self be forced into what you are not prepared for.

Let me give you typical attitude of partners in a forced marriage;

1. They easily flame up in anger due to slightest incident against their partner or even people around them, obviously in frustration.

2. They cheat a lot. Because they didn't decide on their own to leave bachelorhood, settle down and get married.


Bro, don't let anyone ruin your life. The final decision should be yours. End the relationship so that someone else who is ready for marriage can find her.

Chai

That second House too fine to pull down oo

Look at him forming all manners of resistance. Resisting arrest, struggling from arrest and ceasing taser away from a policeman doing his duties are you nuts?

Why can't you cooperate in the arrest and if you're innocent, YOU WILL BE FREED after investigation. You can call your Lawyer if you dont have one they'll offer you a Lawyer.

These guys just want to put up TOO MUCH ENERGY over something that could be resolved by sheer respect to authorities.

He has just sacrificed his own life and it won't matter like George Floyd, because Floyd obeyed the authorities by not resisting arrest, yet he was still killed. If you thinking "if you let yourself get arrested you'd be murdered like George Floyd". I'll tell you this "if you resist arrest and wield weapon against a cop you could be murdered too." Solution, just do the damn right thing and leave the fallout for posterity to judge. If you're just, it'll lead to revolution, if you're found culpable, nobody will march shit in your memory.

Note: not every Cop arresting you is Derek Chauvin who would kill even after you willfully succumb to arrest.

musa234:
More girlfriends more problems. Nigerian women are mostly liabilities and distractions, you gain absolutely nothing from them other than sex. Does it worth it? I say a big NO!

Truth in the part I bolded.

They can't argue football with you.

They don't play video games.

They don't argue politics either or know how to make money (most of them).

Just sex, dates, spending, eateries, gifts, presents. The more you HAVE gf, the more you spend carelessly in order to earn their sex. And when you try to play smart guy by sleeping with several of them while spending minimal money, you could as well reflect how much more money you would have earned if you invested that effort into making money.

In the end, all the effort is just for five minutes pleasure.

Mtchew

Who still gets erection by what this FG intends to do everytime

My God

One day like that in 2018 summer.

My old rommate was a junkie, literally a weed addict. It happened that he had other friends whom he brought over and they all smoked together over a loud Trap music playing from the Bluetooth speaker. In some days, I'd be part of their group; seated outside however I was just a passive member as all I was involved in was listening to their gists, picking up their slangs, listening to music and not feeling bored.

Then, everyone was scared of baiting me to take a drag, because nobody wanted to be held responsible for "ruining" someone's life. So, they all let me off the pressure. It came that there was a need to cook food after the normal joint session and they all agreed on large indomie, spiced with weed.

It was prepared and I joined in the eating. I never felt the kinda experience I anticipated anyway, maybe the quantity of weed used was too little to matter in such large size of indomie.


Until an eventful day when there was just my old roommate with our mutual friend dragging outside, it was about 5pm and I was bored and alone inside. Something came upon me so I stood up and walked up to them outside, where I requested for a drag.

Instead of sharing his half-used blunt with me, the mutual friend opted to roll one full blunt for me rather. He did, and using his blunt, he showed me how to light, and drag, swallow it down your throat, chest, then blow out a clear smoke.

.....

I did that, I wasn't sure if I got right the first drags, but along the line I started feeling a chest burn, and coughed. I remember they clapped for me and commended me for getting it right as it was the sign that a newbie just took a first drag.

I went on again, and another drag, the spree resulted into me burning half of my blunt. Of a sudden, the result was rapid, took less than five minutes to observe CNS ( central nervous system ) effects.

I felt commotion in my head, dizzy, I literally supported myself on the wall till I got into the room and bed, albeit I used some help from my friends. They helped lay me down on the bed, and the mutual friend put on a Trap music, he said it's what is good for the moment.

It was damn loud! Louder than any noise a speaker had ever emitted. I requested that it be stopped, it was turned off. However, I kept on hearing loud noise inside my head. Somehow, I felt I was losing consciousness of my identity.
My name, what I was, my memories were being drowned or submerged. I thought if it was successfully suppressed, if I lost control of my consciousness that I would run mad. So I resisted the drowning. I fought it.

That led me to exhibit all manners of strange behaviours. Well, after some short while in bed, I picked up my school bag and decided to go to night class. My first stop was campus boys hostel. When I arrived there in order to get some materials I looked into the mirror hung on the reception wall and Boy were my eyes bloodt red!!

I shoke it off, got into a room belonging to my friend's. I pulled out my sweater at that spot, a fine one at that, and dashed it to him right there! He was so grateful. I know I made that decision under the influence of weed but I realised days after, that weed makes me very emotional and ultra-good in expressing my feelings; especially the ones i hide deep inside. If i feel love for you but pretend, at that point I'd tell it to you like a baby and express it too. If i dislike you or you disgust me I'd spit it out.

Later on, I proceeded to night class and slept there till morning with my bag hung on my back all night.

When I got home by 6am ( can't remember if someone woke me up or I woke up by myself ), I prepared for school while picking the coolest combination of outfits in the wardrobe. I combined mine, my roommates and rocked them effortlessly. Lesson two; weed gives me a different perception as to swag, vision and overall perspective. It was a very fine inner white polo of our mutual friend, ash jeans of mine, sneakers of mine, a blue denim jacket of the mutual friend.

Mad denim jacket oo

I got to school and acted very calm, quite, soft, pitiful, and emotional. People were worried about me.

It took two days for the effect of weed to wear off my body. That coldness, calmness, less talk, kinda stuff.

My subsequent weed experience were totally different from the first. But in 2018, '19 and '20 I've had about five weed experience. So I don't think I'm a junkie, at least not yet.

Nooil:
It's an infection, most likely HPV

Or urinary tract infection or candidiasis or staphylococcus infection.

A combination of antibiotics and antifungal pills for oral administration and vaginal insertion respectively will handle it.

She just needs to go see a doctor, they'll guide her to conduct some tests to confirm which of the three I mentioned, before appropriate medications will be administered to her.

Easy to treat at early stages, if delayed could cause complications such as resistance to therapy or even infertility.

Danielhouston:
Hi, yeah I’m fine. Hope you’re fine too

I greet you chief
We really miss you

pDudd:
That guy is right. It is best to do a survey by yourself and see what the healthcare field looks like in order to make a decision. Ask for pharmacy, I have a relative here who is in pharmacy school. Before he started the program, there was a career counselor who came to speak to them about the pharmaceutical industry in US. He said that future projections showed a decline in the lucrative aspect of pharmacy because it was gradually becoming automated. People won't need a pharmacist in the future to fill out prescription and all that stuff. They can just do that online and in a few hours or days, their prescription arrives at their doorstep.

Pharmacy used to be a very high paying job but from what I was told, automation might slowly kill that industry. But please research this for yourself.

Kaiser Permanente is one of the biggest healthcare delivery giants here and people subscribed to Kaiser can easily refill their meds online and have it delivered to their doorsteps. This process just started but it is already widespread now.

Please can you request him to connect with a Nigerian based Pharmacy student who intends to come over there and practise

RuddyFusion:
It shows that the story written the other day by the Prof in the USA, that Gambari doesn't have direct access to the President as his COS is true.....

It also shows that the boy Tunde is now the one wielding the power that Abba Kwari once wields......

If Buhari's CSO can easily order the arrest and detention of the President's Wife's security details, it shows that the President beyond all reasonable doubts is not in control or doesn't know what is happening around him or he doesn't have any regard for HIS WIFE.....OR maybe there's no Buhari at all in there, maybe Nnamdi Kanu is right on this

Whatever be the case, if those people can carry out such action against the President wife, it simply shows that anything goes is the word in that place and that they don't have regard for Mr President......Only God knows the damage and permanent harm these men have done to Nigeria we can only know this at the end of Buhari's Presidency

But regardless, I expected Aisha by now to know how to deal with these elements.....She should know or found a way to have only her people around her husband even if it means having a deal with any block that can pull that off, by so doing she will be effectively in charge.....

What a funny Presidency

Can i see the link

daddytime:
Okay.

Na to jeje use the state resources [b]prosecute the election under a different party [/b]or sponsor an opposition party.

Everybody body go cool down.

The party stands a chance of losing their victory when challenged in the Tribunal.

Based on these same certificate issues raised by APC. Any party flying Obaseki is on his own.

Racoon:
Being part of this struggle then, I can just said the turn out of events were so unfortunate.Abiola left the scene when the momentum was supposed to be sustained & returned when it had died down.

Then came Abiola's secret but dangerous romance with Abacha, betrayal of the struggle by his some of his close associates, final journey into detention & demise

Please can you give a detailed picture of events in that era?

Some of us were not mature enough to discern what was going on in the country that period.

We cannot be taxing them when they earn little. It is wrong. From today henceforth, let nobody collect anything from them.

May God bless you sir and may God bless Ebonyi state.

if power were to shift to an indigenous Muslim Igbo, ask an Igbo man, because there are indigenous Igbo Muslims there; if power were to shift to say, Imo State and it is shifted to an indigenous Muslim Igbo, if you ask the entire Igbo nation who are not Muslims whether power has shifted to them they will tell you no

Indigenous Muslim in which Imo state?

starbuck:
I will easily get bored in this kinda environment ...



Too spacious for me

It's a personal home but some of those stars don't usually live alone.

So many chefs, butlers and several female friends spend days and nights there with them.

Its usually a full home. I've watched some reality shows of Hollywood stars.

SenecaTheYonger:
If you see how difficult it is for people in America to pay me money after I finish thier jobs ehh. And it's because of this. My clients often wonder why it's easier to pay a Kenyan freelancer than a Nigerian freelancer. Money that will take 5 days to reach my account will take less than 30 seconds to enter a Kenyan's account. Ordinary Kenya?

It's because of people like this oh. Some of my clients, the banks will even blocked their account just for trying to pay me my money. They will have to call and confirm that it's a legit transaction and they've not been hacked or scammed.

Nigeria has a very very very bad name abroad.

Boss, show me way around Upwork or still, run some jobs to me let me handle na.

Goke7:
guy, don't stress, the trump supporters in Nigeria are the pdp apologists hating on Obama for not supporting their darling pdp and former president jonathan to remain in office beyond 2015. They are yet to recover from the elections defeat in 2015 and can never recover. Their so called support for trump is just one of their consolation to find refuge for their election loss back in 2015. They know the things trump is doing is bad but they must continue to pretend they love him and hide under the guise that trump love Christians and hate Muslims cos they hate northerners too who are majorly Muslims especially the fulanis of which PMB is one. Right inside them they don't like trump but for political expediences to continue to maintain their political support base in Nigeria. We know them too well, don't stress yourself for their lies.

I swear you said the truth cause I am an ardent trump supporter and I corroborate all you've said.

Tianshie too has a point about the jealousy at Nigerians who have fled Nigeria.

I hope this is not another jail to aso rock shenanigans as it happened with OBJ in 1998.

Orji Uzor Kalu should never represent Igbos in Asp Rock. This is because Nigeria is fond of electing non-ethic champions when it becomes turn of Southern Nigeria to produce presidency, OBJ comes to mind. Orji was born, bred in the North where he also attended university of Maiduguri, so I am seeing the constellations aligning.

May it not happen in Jesus name.

Alu!

Make them carry this one settle doctors make strike no resume June 15th na

Minister of humanitarian affairs and zainab the mgbeke finance minister, buhari's corck sucker.

Palliative don land for you guys, dust your bank accounts

codedguy1:
I totally agree with this 100%

The rate of development will even amaze us.

However we in the south especially need to find a way to force the North yo comply or conform to this but the constant bickering between the west and east is rather frustrating and annoying.

Let us blame the politicians from the two blocks for not having a common ground, and stretching it out towards the North, while winning over some elements in the middle belt.

I am strongly convinced that regional style of governance is the only way out of our hydra-headed problems.

You can tell me that corrupt men will still abound, but regional ethnic passion, upliftments and love will defeat corruption.

However, we know that the North won't let this God damn country be restructured.

Trump is killing these leftist Democrats

They wanted to use the COVID-19 derailed economy to hit him on the jock.

Keentola,

Can you share with me, link to the comprehensive post?

Amotolongbo:
Even with the most powerful microscope on earth, one won’t see Nigeria on that list

I'm starting to enjoy your posts, lady

Amotolongbo:
Is this the new form of terrorism?

These things have always been happening in Nigeria dear.

Amotolongbo:
This is a very big lie.
Foods from the north were sold to the southerners, not given for free or even subsidized

Every revenue realized in each region then was used in developing the region, not shared among the regions.
Unlike now that the crude oil revenue is shared among all states.

Don't mind those idiots.

I guess their poor level of education led them to utter baseless facts.

salford1:
Buhari is probably 85 years old and not the football age of 77 he declared, yet he is shagging Nigerians left, right and centre especially the IPOBs.

It's a shame that you stand here, making mockery of Buhari's mis-handle of IPOB.

But you have the gut to critique Trump's handling of the Leftists' protests.

I now know not to take you serious on this platform.

And a rejoinder, Trump will win Biden.

Davash222:
If US, Canada, Germany, Australia etc Visa is something one can buy easily with money, na only Buhari and Aisha for dey this country.. That's if Aisha no go leave Buhari run.