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Aunty which one is protect you in case something comes up? if you are looking for a private security guard go and hire one

Rajosh:
This is enough to label Fulani herdsmen terrorists.

Ooh just because they kidnapped over 300 students? Suddenly we have realized that they should be proscribe as Terrorists? These guys killed more than 300 people in Benue State few years ago in a single attack yet we pretend as if we don't know what they are...the same group killed over 40 people somewhere in Enugu few yrs ago too..if all these killings does not qualify them as Terror group what difference does it it make if they kidnapp people?

jumper524:
this babe just dey sell us out she no know.

be there thinking the ICC would do something.
those guys only meddle in what benefits them.
these foreign bodies placed ban on Nigeria in 2014 f that no country should sell weapon to us simply because our soldiers were killing bokoharam without trials.
but under their Nose, bokoharam is buying sophisticated weapons.
who dey supply them

be there make dey dre say dem go help you..

It's this same APC and some Northern leaders that went to US to lobby them not to sell weapons to GEJ government...They lied that Jonathan Government is killing innocent civilians in North...
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Sirwifi:
Bro , you greedy ohh, from the available information you provided its obvious you're a selfish man , your type dey diabolical for family, how you go be 7th child and dey manage or inherited property solely but won't pay for the full cost of the party sef, you even lucky them wan help you, tell yourself the truth if na you be them , how you go take am ?
Unless you provide contrary information from above
I stand by my statement oga
Pay the full money , 500k small

Very selfish human being judging from his own admission, who knows he might have manipulated their late father while he was alive...some people get mind sha..

soulstalker:
bro i have döne that already but they don't want to believe. Besides, most of them are doing better than me financially, and far older than me. I smell hatred.

Obviously you can't expect them to be happy that their younger brother is in possession of their father's properties, honestly if I were in your shoes I would've called a family meeting and hand over those properties to the right person...

Some people get mind..you no dey fear for your life?

It is finished, the other time it was an American lady getting married to a three, how else can we describe insanity?

I have said it several times, these guys killing and maiming people are Boko Haram, unfortunately our Northern brothers and FG keep deceiving itself by calling them Bandits...

Dpharisee:
People in the South seems to be crying more than the bereaved

That's because insecurity in the North is insecurity to Southerners, make no mistake about it, we are neighbors and it will affect us one way or the other..

pocohantas:
State government in the SE/SS loves to stress GTBank and I don’t know why. If not for nationwide presence, a lot of branches in such locations would have been shutdown.

They wonder why lots of organizations site their HQs in Lagos? Well, LASG though troublesome have a way of making things seamless.



One of the highest earning CEOs in Nigeria can afford 120m Mercedes. He doesn’t have to sell it to fund the organization’s debt.

Entity concept: Segun Agbaje is different from GTBank. The business is different from the owner(he isn’t even the owner in this case).

I beg to disagree with you on this, Is there anything wrong in paying Tax? I don't think there's any state in Nigeria that takes the issue of tax more serious than Lagos State..

pocohantas:
I can’t explain it well, but Igbos are deeply tied to their roots and togetherness. You don’t really know a person except you know his/her ancestral home and that can never change. SanwoOlu can decide to demolish our house in Lagos, but that can’t happen in the village.

Various rites in Igbo land are also stressful, so no matter how long it takes, something must bring you back to them. It is better you start identifying with them early.

Absolutely correct,,

amaham:
She can do a low-key , no canopy , list payment ceremony in the village. Let the compound people share in her merriment. After that, she can hire landmark event center in the city to celebrate her trad and white wedding
Trad wedding is not compulsory but clearing the lists with small enjoyment will make villagers happy

There's nothing like Traditional Wedding, is called Traditional Marriage, people should stop conflicting Africa culture with western Culture...

Mynd44:
It is her wedding and her choice. I know you might feel a bit skirmish about it but it is still her choice.

And how is this an "Igbo tradition" to marry at home? I think the tradition is the marriage itself, the travelling home for it is the culture (I stand corrected). Anywhere you live and you are welcome is where your home lies.

If your worry is about who attends, invite those people over.

But still talk to her and try to find a middle point, make compromise which might include, an introduction in the village before the wedding while it might not be the actual event but she and her husband visits to meet everyone. This can also be agreed on after the wedding.

I have Igbo friends whose traditional marriage was done in Lagos because they felt the logistics was off. Some felt their friends, bosses, mentors, colleagues who they feel are more impactful in their lives than some of the family members they have not seen or even met might not be able to share in their special day especially if the "elders" who will attend even in the village are few and can be convince to travel to the city if they insist.

Anyways, let us know how this goes and remember, it is her wedding and while you want what is best overall, she is an adult and able to make her decisions. Make compromise and listen too her arguments well.

You have spoken well, however, I want to correct one impression in your comment, Traditional marriage is Giving the Bride's family their Right therefore in the absence of the Bride's father, the first Son will assume the position of a father, he has the sole right to decide where the traditional marriage will take place, the girl can only appeal to her Brother for consideration....

CandyOps:
You sound like a 90s kid. Legwork & zanku is the new trend not Do Me I Do You. Wake up bruh

Besides your opinion as an individual doesn't count. Let the market decide what's fire and what's not. And we all know Rudeboy Dem are obsolete

An obsoleted musician cannot ganner 83million view on YouTube...

MuttleyLaff:
What exactly is he going scot free from?

Sexual molestation is a crime, he should be further investigated to ascertain if victims were underaged....

There should be consequence for his actions..

There's nothing like Bandits rather what we have in the North is an extension of Boko Haram Terrorist Organization, the earlier the North and Federal Government start treating this guys as terrorists the better for them.

For now, let them continue deceiving themselves..

Kzinne:
See how Ngozi Nwosu was accepted gladly in their midst despite the fact that she's from the other tribe. Yet they can't accept Lola Okoye who has had beautiful kids for their brother.

Enough of this nonsense narrative, Lola is not the first Yuruba lady married to an Igbo family, you must be a Bigot for making making such silly comment...

MeeztaFabulouz:
You can call me a fool, its fine. But I don't wish you my situation and pray you never meet depression.

Sorry about your condition, I noticed that the fear of your kids growing up in a broken home is reason why you dont want to quite the marriage, but I can tell you that taking your own life is the worst thing you can do for those kids.

Human beings are not predictable, already your wife is showing little or no concern about your family and that includes her own children, so what's the guarantee that she will now change and start caring for the kids when you are no more?

The best you can do is to stay strong for the sake of your kids, or if you think you cannot remedy the situation, seek the help of a professional cancillor...

175:



So fast? I doubt this news item. Governors are just too powerful in this country. . .abi?

Governors are too powerful in their respective states here in Nigeria, however, Umahi cannot win this battle because he's fighting against all the political heavyweight in his state and these are the people that made him Governor in the state.

Rugaria:
The mere fact that she stays in your house, takes good care of your house and kids while you feel free to go out and work, well aware that somebody is taking care of the home is enough contribution to your success... So if divorce happens, you must be ready to share... Una dey lucky, I'm not the one responsible for drafting divorce laws in this country..

In my own humble opinion, not all women deserve settlement in divorce...

Ishilove:
How did she destroy your career? Mr Benedict, please don't be unfortunate.

There's noway the guy will focus well n his football career with such a selfish wife...

Rugaria:
When a lady spends a better part of her youth with a man as a married couple, she should be entitled to something substantial if divorce becomes inevitable. Have seen situations where the man took everything and sent the lady away empty handed. That's not right. She could have been something bigger without the guy..

Sir, are implying that women are doing men a favour by spending part of their lives with men?

The lady is bragging that's she's a practicing Nurse but she failed to acknowledge the role her husband played towards her achievement...

Mrmezico:
Is Abaribe the only senator from d opposition party or is he d only man seeing this ongoing impunity in d house today?.. i guess d answer is no, den, y is he d only man contradicting nd speaking out evrytime?

He's the minority Leader, so is expected that he will always be at the forefront during debates...

See who is talking about preservation of institutions, go and tell that to your Boss..

serverconnect:
Please, enough of this killings of police officer. I understand the pains some of them did to us. Let us try to be civil.

Since the deceased does not based in Calaba, I think this is random attack we civilians are confronted with on daily basis, it goes to illustrate the level of insecurity in the country..May his soul rest in peace...

Badonasty:
this is too petty coming from a former SGF...I don't know why this man defection is generating so much issue like this...even Obanikoro defection no cause wahala like this

The reason is simple, Obanikoro defected peacefully without blackmailing or fighting those he left behind in his former Party, Gov.Umahi has continued to wage war against members of PDP in Ebonyi State simply because they refused to follow him to APC..

You don't expect political heavyweight like Ayiam Pius Anyiam not to fight back...

After reading a lot of comments, I have come to realized that Nigeria unique country where standard of Governance has reduced to Bulk passing,in all these is only a handful of people deemed it fit to drag the president into the discussion, Garba Shehu was appointed by the president and whatever he says is the a complete respresentation of the Presidency otherwise he would have been sacked by now.

If the Government is proactive they would have averted the killings,they will rather chase shadows.

Lord Ave mercy......

I'm surprised that those stoneheads at the corridor of power seem to be careless about the total collapse of security in the country, the annoying thing is that they preoccupied themselves with the politics of 2023 instead of thinking how to solve the security challenges facing the nation..

If you complain publicly they accuse you of hate speech....

ERockson:
All this rubbish just because Fashola wants power to rotate back to southern Nigeria. Whether northerners like it or not, Power is moving south. SE, SW, SS get ready!

Point of correction, Fashola want power to shift to SW.. people like Fashola are making it so easier for power to remain in the North due to his divisive tendency..

Leun:
I can only wonder which Nigerian when God calls them home will have the nation weep for them in this fashion.

For the fact that we choose not to recognize our heros does not in anyway imply that we lack one, I will take Prof.Dora Akunyili ahead of Maradona anyway anytime if Maradona were to be a Nigerian...

cbrezy:
The Crock would do same to you if he has the chance.

What these animal advocates failed to realized is that Crocs and wirld animals of such nature are more cruel and deadly, they should pray they encounter these animals by mistake...

Odetokun3:
And do you think it's sensible to use the front of a prison as okada park?? Two wrongs can never make a right

So extorting money from them is the right way to go? If the Prison warders have done their work professionally from day one, no Okada Rider will station his Okada at the gate of the such sensitive facility..

This is what you get for compromising ethics.