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Surulady:Thanks |
olalayo1710:wa feeki, he's fine. |
olalayo1710:wa iyakum |
My BS continued At around 7pm the contractions became more powerful but everytime I called on the nurses or doctor they'll not bother to look my way,the doctor will say "if we check now you are 5cm". They were only giving me a chance at VD,they weren't expecting me to pull through with it but didn't want to suggest CS straight away. I prayed to God not to let the Senior doctor on call that Friday be around when I would deliver my baby,the man was crazy,rash and more. I remembered the pain when he was rupturing my membranes and I hated him. The pains became unbearable at about past 9 thereabouts,I think I stopped answering my phone then. I spoke with DH and had to end the call abruptly,I would stretch like one convulsing for about three minutes and get relief for a minute as the next contraction commenced. I hit myself the way no one dares and I thank God I was on just my natural shuku else I might have pulled out my hair and prayed when the contractions went. I kept calling on the matron who was more homely, 'Mummy,it's pushing me" and she'd say "Pele oko mi Aduke", "Pele oko mi Abeke" et al and that It shouldn't be pushing me yet. Ha! It was the 2nd drip pumped with oxytocin fa. At about 11pm thereabouts I had the urge to poo and called the nurse but she just gave me side eye and told me it's my baby's head. The urge was getting stronger but they kept saying the same thing and the doctor said I should be moved to the labour room though he doubted if my baby was coming that soon. The nurse asked me to lie on my back while baby's heartbeat was monitored. I kept reiterating that I needed to poo and begged for potty if they thought it was baby. The nurse asked if I wanted to teach her her job and I said no but I'm sure its poop and not baby. She called the doctor who said the same too and that I shouldn't push and tear my cervix and they left. The contractions kept intensifying and I almost yanked the I.V line from my hand (I already disturbed the previous one and they had to switch it to the left hand when the right became swollen). How could they tell me not to push when the urge was so strong? I wondered. I decided to listen to my body. The doctor came in and said not to try pushing and left but I pushed anyway and poop dropped. The nurse chose that moment to walk in and shouted that I was crowning,she could see my baby's head. She instructed me to hold my ankles while she dug her hands into me. I screamed and she told me to continue defecating,I pushed once more and my darling boy slipped out and was assisted. The cord was severed and he was put on my chest immediately and I was chanting "Alhamdulillah! Alhamdulillah!" The nurse called on the matron who asked me the sex of my baby and I replied then she started cleaning him right beside me. I watched my baby while the nurse cleaned me up,they told me his weight and I looked up at the clock in the labour ward. The nurse spanked him severally to make him cry. The doctor came in and was shocked,he couldn't believe his eyes. My mum was called and given the good news. I was told later that when the IDIOT doctor ABANDONED me in the ward,he requested my mum invite those in the lab to get my blood sample for a PCV test and get a theatre pack in readiness for CS,see God! My Eletigbaroye listened to me,I was granted Sabr, I experienced supernatural childbirth (no sweat or tears or episi) the doctor didn't witness my delivery and I did it with Allah's ramah,they didn't have to 'bring this one out'. Alhamdulillahi Rabbi'l Al ameen. Cc ToyosiR |
Surulady:You're welcome,btw I can't forget y'all. He's fine. Ameen to your prayer. |
Hey mommas,how are we today? May this week bring us goodness and fortune,ameen. Just because it's Prayer Monday- Almighty God,our Creator,we have come bearing thanks for your goodness and mercies,accept our thanks o Lord,Alhamdulillah. We thank you for the belleful mamas,the waddlers, the ones acting drama presently in the favour room(s),those who have offloaded,our ttc sisters and those whose faith(s) you tested,we say Alhamdulillah. Ya Rabb,because none can do what you do, we ask that you give the belleful and waddling mamas strength and grace to go the distance. We ask that they enjoy favour all through their journey,we ask Lord that you annoint all their birth assistants with divine knowledge,compassion and empathy. That there shall be no loss of any kind and end in praise. Dhul Jalal wal Ikram,because YOU own all the beautiful names,we ask that for those who have offloaded you make all that is tied to them beautiful. That they and theirs shall obtain YOUR ramah and barakah. That their LOs shall give them salam. Ya Rahman,You are the Beneficient,we ask that you give our ttc sisters BFPs like never before,let it rain Lord! We ask that for our sisters whose missionary journeys were cut short,that you grant them respite and save them from scorn. Ya Rabb,give them double for their losses and let what is coming to them be better than that which they've lost. We ask that every family represented here be blessed all round. You're Gafur, Ar Raheem,please grant us pardon for all shortcomings and give us succour. Ameen Ya Rabb. Alhamdulillah because we have asked with faith and believe You will answer with the best,ameen. |
Rhemy2013:I yaf sent a PM |
Good morning mamas,my adorable prince will insha Allah be named @ noon today. We dey Lagos Island. |
Droyal:It's not a must but it's better |
temmy2103:7:30 Mondays |
ladytaurus:Yes,Alhaja Olatunji is BAE! |
On the 8th/9th I didn't sleep till almost 04:00 am,I was praying and crying. My parents that I always abandon in the middle of prayers left me on my mat. I got up early on the 9th,prepared my cousins and sent them off to coaching with the exception of the youngest,I was her tutor. I occupied her with letter work and simple addition while I cleared the kitchen sink,washed the bathroom and toilet till they sparkled and did a little laundry as I didn't want to come back from delivery to meet dirty clothes. My mum was astonished. After all that nothing happened still other than excruciating back ache. On Thursday,10th August I did all I wanted to,engaged my cousin as usual and asked mum to continue with her while I dashed to the hospital to carry out the Biophysical Profile and that I'd show it to Alhaja (chief matron of my ANC) and I'd let her speak to my mum on the next step to take (this was to calm my mum cos she was afraid of induction going awry nd having to resort to CS). I met Alhaja who asked why I was still waddling and I told her,she said to bring the result to her when it's out. I got my result around past 3pm,baby's estimated weight was 3.9kg,and we were rated 4/8. I went to Chief with the result and the 1st thing she said was "stand beside me",she started on how she wasn't sure I could deliver vaginally considering my height and the baby's weight. I called mum and Alhaja just told her she'd do what was right for me and I would let her know if I needed her. We proceeded to the emergency unit where the doctor on call examined me and said OS was still closed,he had 2 of his colleagues with him. Alhaja rang for the senior doctor on call and he arrived with another colleague and I was being spoken of like a specimen. 'Are you sure you're 1.52m tall?' 'We'll have to bring this one (baby) out ni o!' And all. I was told I would be admitted and I was given a list of things to get. I called my mum and she set out. I was distraught with all I heard but I had to be strong,I couldn't call DH- he was at work. I called hunniesuzie (God bless her) and I narrated everything in tears. She calmed me and told me to go ahead with induction but keep an open mind for CS and prepare to bear the pains of delivery,she and her mum were with me in prayers. I cried and cleaned up before my mum arrived and I furnished her with as little info as I could. By the time I was ready to go into the ward it was almost 6pm and the dr gave us another list of drugs, injectibles and all. The procedure was for 12:00am,Friday morning. We were three,two were induced using tab Misoprostol while I was taken to the labour room, stripped,a cartheter inserted and something pumped into me (they called it transvaginal whatever)then I was moved back into the ward. Sometimes during the night contractions started and two of us were moved into the labour room. I watched my partner scream and cry till she delivered and I was just praying,contractions stopped and I went back to the ward. The doctors came round and said I couldn't be given anything till 12pm, so I was abandoned. I kept having false contractions till about 2pm or so when my mum was asked to get more drugs and the doctor came around to rupture my membranes. I was placed on oxytocin drip and then drama started. |
BS My Birth Story My EDD was july 31st 2017 but as God will have it nothing happened. Before long I'd been having on and off contractions but nothing real. Other scans gave me August 1st and 9th respectively but I had hoped to have my baby before my first EDD. At the last ANC (7th August), doctor told me to come in on the 9th to be induced and asked me to go for a Biophysical Profile to know if baby could withstand the stress of induction. I got home,told my parents and DH and we concluded that I wasn't going to be induced,we all hoped Fortune would arrive before 9th. On the night of the 8th I told DH and my mum I would wait till 10th and if nothing happened I'd go in. I'd been holding vigils most nights since insomnia was dealing with me,what better way to spend the night than turning to my creator. I told Allah Ta'ala all I wanted,pre delivery,during and post delivery. I told God I wanted to experience natural childbirth, asked God that HE is Kabiesi and NOBODY dares question HIS authority if HE grants my heart wishes. I told God I didn't want weeping,sorrow,grief or loss associated to my childbirth. I couldn't get the supernatural childbirth ebook cos of my phone issue but I had so many prayer points,down to my PCV issue. |
Phlakkeys,I cried when I saw your post. Innalillahi wahina ileahi rajihun! I'm not going to say anything in the form of condolences because you've conquered already. And God has said that what is coming is better than what is gone,please hold on to that. Congratulations in advance on your BFP! |
@ Katchycouture congrats,God bless and keep her for you,amen. Phlakkeys,please send me a PM,my thoughts and prayers are with you honey! |
MoyosBlog123:See how God is exposing my enemies via confession,lol! I don't eat much at once but my mouth is almost always busy,I've been a fussy eater since I was little and have sweet teeth. I used to take lipton/Top tea and had milo on few occassions but here I am with my 3.2 cutie ![]() MoyosBlog123:See how God is exposing my enemies via confession,lol! I don't eat much at once but my mouth is almost always busy,I've been a fussy eater since I was little and have sweet teeth. I used to take lipton/Top tea and had milo on few occassions but here I am with my 3.2 cutie |
katchycouture:Congrats mama,God bless and keep her! |
Lol @ Hunniesuzie and Benignasweety, I said 'was' so you should chill,remember my phone dey craze, soon as DH gets back I'll use his phone sama una Fortune ( A K A 'The builder') pishur. |
Good evening mamas,thank you all for the well wishes and concern. I was gonna send my BA with a picture but DH beat me to it,using SIL's account because it was a long time coming. BS coming soon. |
Spakuls:cc Martins4christ |
1Sharon:We all know the economy isn't smiling but she didn't portray any 'entitlement' and how else would she get the money without the acc no,let's just not lose our humanity if we can't help. Mbok. |
Evening mamas,hope we're having a good day? May this week be a favourable one,amen. It's Prayer Monday but today I just want to give thanks and no, it's not a B.A. Almighty Allah Subuhanahu Watahala,we give You thanks,praises,honour and we glorify your name, subhanallah walhamdulillah! We say alhamdulillah for the gift of life,for sound health,for family, for our LOs (both in the womb and outside),our DHs and all that is tied to us. We say alhamdulillah for the manifestation of your works and omnipotence in our lives! We say alhamdulillah for our health assistants from the highest ranking to the lowest. We thank you Ya Rabb for ramah,salam,sabr,shukr and barakah. It can only be You and You alone! For all these and more we say Alhamdulillahi Rabbil al ameen! Ameen. |
lady25:I've been experiencing same for the past month or so,sorry. |
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