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Thank you sister.

pocohantas:
Rules are rules. I think a beauty queen in Nigeria has faced same controversy. It is assumed that contestants are maidens. Not necessarily virgins, but no kids or (ex)horseband.

Harlequeen:
I opened this account because my main one is pretty popular.

I've had this issue and don't know what's wrong.
I can't seem to get into a new relationship. I am now 25, about serving, working a normal job

My dating history is not too rich. I dated just one guy for 2 years, i became sexually active with him, we enjoyed each other, but things didn't work out. I tried to be better, have moved on, and he has too. This was mid last year. I have been celibate since then not because i don't like sex, but because i had time to think, i read a lot of books, listened to a lot of relationship counselors on YouTube, reddit, Nairaland and so on. I decided to approach dating differently, with my head and not my heart . i would vet men out who were not in line with some basic standards, to avoid fuckboys and meet high quality men. He should be well spoken, either with a career or into trade, accomplished, way older by at least 10 yrs(no i don't have daddy issues, i just like mature guys because i think like a mature person) he could also have plans to leave the country, because i plan to do that also.


Here's the issue, the men that express interest in me do not fit this criteria. They seem to have no plan for their lives. I get this impression that they are broke, they recycle the same lines all the time, i usually see their bull sh1t tactics a mile away. some are in the army(i can't date men in the armed forces, they lifestyle is not what i want for myself, cannot date doctors either for the same reason)others are artisans, some are plain hustlers who just do whatever to eat. I have a soft spot for ambitious men, and i have not seen a lot in the area that i am in. I have been advised by my friends to try highbrow areas like lekki or VI or go to church, but i don't believe in religion.

But whenever i see these men, i am not attracted to them. I have even tried online dating with some male nairalanders, but i get disinterested easily. I get turned off when someone asks for my normal pics, it is quite frustrating. There's that fear that some of these men could use my pics to masturbate or one other creepy purpose. I block them if they ask for nudes. But the issue is, it is quite exhausting to keep chatting with someone without seeing them in person and some of these guys just want to smash and run which i won't allow. No man will have access to my vagina and womb without investment and commitment. Eventually it becomes hard to keep up communication and we just fizzle out like that.

I am not under pressure to marry from my parents, infact my dad says he won't allow his daughters marry until they clock 28 and i am the first. He wants us to have a career and a life before moving with a man. I just want to know if what i am doing is right?

To be honest, i just want some words of advice and encouragement, you can ask me questions if you want. This approach of mine? Is it the right thing? Am i being too smart for my own good? Am i afraid of commitment?

you should try and reduce your ideal man

zicoraads:
A boss who pushes and go physical? No, I won't survive beyond that day. Because I'll return the favour, in a more aggressive way.

Had one who was pushing for my sack when I started working. She never saw anything good in whatever I did. The day she made the mistake of shouting at me, I did same and worked out.

Good thing is, she didn't have the outright authority to fire me. But she was the head of my department.

Anyway, she was removed as the head not too long after I came. And she was fired afterwards. Now, I'm the one heading the department.

Saw her the other day in town, I just horned my car and smiled to myself.

you bad

Inyaka:
A Manager in one of the top notched new generation banks made me hated my life. He liked my younger sister, and wanted her. Therefore, he tried to bully me into having his way to her.

I was just a contract staff relieving someone in the branch. And one of the tellers had a shortage of 50k, he(the manager) said I stole the money because I was the first to leave the banking hall(with due permission from the ABM).

Because I was a new contract staff, Obafemi thought I didn't know my right and was daft. He threatened to froze my account, I bluntly told him he had no right and proof against me.

I got fed up and wrote a resignation letter, because it was a three weeks contract, and I had already done 1.5 weeks. It wasn't worth it. The pay was so small. My parents advised me to just let go, before he implicated me further.

I reported the case to the regional manager, but because they were all Yorubas and I wasn't, they spoke in their local dialect and sold me off( Reasons for sudden hate on Yoruba Muslims from Osun).

He wrote on my resignation letter that I stole, hence, I wanted to resign. When I saw that, I told him "Obafemi, I would fight this to the last drop of my blood, it has just begun".

I went straight to the headquarters and reported the case to compliance. Compliance said they were not aware of any shortage from the branch. That it was a case of witch hunting or artificial shortage.

I told them about the conspiracy between Obafemi and the yoruba boss. Compliance pulled out their secret chats and realised the boss and Obafemi had something fishy going on.

I went straight to the bank portal and whistle blew Obafemi. Showing proofs, and I uploaded the letter where he claimed I stole money. He was doing this without the consent of compliance, and without the knowledge of the bank. It wasn't in his power to write such on my letter when the case hasn't been investigated.

The case was investigated and Obafemi was the guilty one. Headquarters nearly suspended him. I left the bank. My account wasn't frozen. I got my full pay. I hate bank jobs today.

This made me vow never to work in a bank. Today, I'm self employed and earning 10x their paltry sum.

P/S
The regional manager was also witch hunted and he resigned one month after.

PLEASE ignore the errors.

Dear Obafemi, if you're reading this, please change your ways. All those girls you set up because they refuse to date you, all the times you use official bank cars for clubbing, all the times you frustrate young men like me with dreams, remember God is watching. Your cup go soon full.

My Bro I love the way you handled it.

duduade:
At least he called you and promised to fund your account on Monday...


Mine.... I made sure I swore for him.. He eventually called me seven years later.. saying it seemed he was cursed, nothing was working for him.. He even had to come back to Nigeria.. He actually needed me to pray for him..

you pray for am?

solite3:
having spiritual elightenment is not salvation.
People might perform miracles in the name of Jesus it does not translate to being saved

Brother are you telling me that Hebrew 6:4-6 is not those that were once save? So you mean to tell me that not everyone that receive the baptism of the holy spirit that are truly save? Because this your doctrine is truly out of this world.
Didn't the bible say that the believers will holy spirit and fire. Was Lucifer not created by God? He was described as one of the best angels God has created but when he rebelled against God, God drove him away. Why didn't God say I've forgiven you, because I created you so I owe you?
Let me tell you, as born again as you claim to be,if tomorrow you say I don't want to serve God anymore and you start worshipping Satan, God will never force himself on you. He gave us freewill. What a man sow that he must reap. God cannot bend his rules for any man. Deuteronomy 30:19
International Version
This day I call the heavens and the earth as witnesses against you that I have set before you life and death, blessings and curses. Now choose life, so that you and your children may live.
The bible prophesy about people denying their faith. So does that mean the bible is filled with lies. May God open your eyes

Ray97:
pls wer do u reside because With 300 or 500 naira, one can buy enough yams in benue. Same situation niger state. Wic one is mid yam size 500.

I live in Lagos, I buy a big tuber of yam for 1200 sometimes 1100. I later got a place where they sell at wholesale price of 800 naira

Depressed101:
i still wouldn't have done what she did

That is for you. That she chose to do that doesn't make her a bad person

favourite787899:
It happened in my school days we all queued under the sun just to change our school fees tellers to receipt. This woman was just delaying for nothing. We had to check what she was doing only to discover she was playing Zuma on her phone. The experience was annoying cuz she could see clearly that people we were much waiting for her.

very common in the university. My course adviser character was worse. To get her signature on your course form will take ages. She's hardly around, if you now finally see her she will tell you she's not in a good mood and send you out.

Depressed101:
that's heartless.. And you are happy somebody lost their job because of you. I am in no way in support of the way you got treated. But habba how can you get some one sacked in this harsh economy and you have peace of mind. You dont know if she is her family's bread winner..

you're even heartless with your comment. Because its not you it happened to. They see themselves as God. She has family is that why she treats people like scum

ichuka:
Lol sis.
Sis,we should stop preaching the gospel of fear,instead we should focus fully on the Gospel of Grace which is also the Gospel Love.
We should try to know the difference between Eternal Life and the Kingdom of God.
A believer might lose the Kingdom Reign but not his/her salvation.
My is Chuka,why is that?because I was born a Chuka!! (That's like been born again)
Whatsoever I do am still a Chuka(born again)
If I decides to work hard and become the Governor tommorow(that's like reigning in His Kingdom) but I might still lose been the Governor(that's like sins depriving me from reigning in the Kingdom)
But I AM STILL A CHUKA!! I can't lose that identity,why? That's who I am.if Chuka(born again) is a Doctor,Geologist or a tout,he's still Chuka.
Because Chuka was not born of blood ,or the flesh nor the will if a man ,but Of God!!!
It's all of God and not us .

That's good to know

ichuka:
Hi sis,
Pls I want to ask you same ?? I asked big bro.ok,
" Are you saved by yourself or by the Lord Jesus?”
Thanks

Bro that's between me and Jesus

Ihedinobi3:
Hello.

Thank you for your kind words.

I quite agree that sin opposes our Faith. Faith is directed toward God, but sin heads away from Him. What the Bible says about a reprobate mind, however, has to do with unbelief, not merely sin. If we refuse to accept God's Testimony, that in itself is already madness, but to persist in it actually steadily makes the person rejecting it insane. The result is that such a person will begin to behave in a way that is simply impossible to reconcile with sanity, that is, they have been given over to acting in irrational and unapproveable ways.

As Paul went on to describe, an example of such behavior is homosexuality. It is a sign of a reprobate mind that such a thing is even conceivable to anyone, much less excusable, because it makes no sense on any level at all. But that is the result of an adamant refusal to believe what God says.

In short, if we refuse to believe God, what then is Truth? That is why it is insanity. The only thing that we can trust to be true is what God says. If we reject what He says, we essentially reject all truth and reality. In doing so, we open ourselves up to madness. That is what Paul meant in Romans 1. It isn't so much that when we sin we get a reprobate mind. It is that adamant unbelief, that is, a rejection of the Gospel eventually results in our minds being emptied of all reason.

As for demonic attack, I wouldn't quite put it that way. It is true that sometimes the Lord uses demonic attacks to discipline a sinning believer (King Saul's experience, for example, in 1 Samuel 16:14), but even when we do not sin, the Lord can use demonic attacks to test us (witness Job in Job 1:12). So, it is not wise to create such a hard link between sin and demonic attacks. Sometimes, it is an elect angel that is sent for discipline (2 Samuel 24:15-16), not a demon.

What the Scriptures teach then is that when we sin, we will be disciplined by the Lord. We may not know how the discipline will be administered or what form it will take, but it will come. The wise thing, therefore, is to avoid sin. But if we do sin (and we always do, no matter how careful we are: see James 3:2), we ought to confess our sin (1 John 1:9) and trust the Lord to turn discipline into suffering for blessing.

Thanks for this

Ihedinobi3:
@solite3
@ichuka

I'm addressing you two because I have higher hopes of you than I do of many I've met here, and I hope that you will not take that as an insult.

I think that I can understand the desire to believe that one can never lose one's Salvation, although the reason that you may have for having that desire may be different than I once did. I got saved when I was a child, and I don't even remember when or how it happened. I only remember growing up with that confidence that Jesus Christ died for my sins, but like most people, I was brought up in a home and a church with little interest in learning the whole realm of biblical truth, so I stayed at that basic level of faith for a long time. That meant that I did not advance in santification at all. I struggled with very difficult sinful habits. For example, I had a foul temper. It wasn't the only thing. It was only one of them.

I struggled to behave the way that I thought that a Christian should. I tried so many formulas that it is extremely rare now that I should read any "Christian" literature without being familiar with the ideas in it. Nothing was more important to me than pleasing the Lord and being able to "make heaven." Many of the teachings I was exposed to growing up, especially in the Methodist Church that my family went to, were of the Arminian persuasion, that is, they taught that you could lose your salvation through sin. So, sometimes I gave my life to Christ several times a week. Every time I knew that I had sinned, I had to "rededicate" my life to the Lord. "Backsliding and rededication" was the theme of my growing up years, and it was that way until I turned 17.

At that point, I decided that I wasn't a Christian if I couldn't stop sinning so badly. I figured that I probably couldn't be saved, and I even feared that I was the Antichrist because of my very strong grasp of the Scriptures. I had this charisma that people around me responded to, although I was quite shy and retiring. When I spoke, especially in Christian gatherings, people listened. But I struggled with things in my heart that made me ashamed. And my behavior was obviously not perfect to me.

It took until a few days before I turned 21, when I had an emotional experience before I believed that I was saved again. One key thing about that experience was that I was persuaded that my behavior had nothing to do with my salvation. It was all the Lord and my job was to trust Him to keep me saved. It was liberating, and after that day I rarely doubted my salvation anymore. But that didn't mean that I had come to understand what the Bible teaches about Salvation, so I was still quite confused about how I was struggling with sin, and my struggles actually got worse after that time.

My point is that I spent a long time looking for something that I called "assurance of Salvation." It occupied my childhood, especially my teenage years. I read everything from Kenneth Hagin to W. F. Kumuyi. I even tried to exorcise myself using Rebecca Brown's teachings. Suffice to say that there is nothing that I have seen since then that I hadn't already seen. I knew about "Once Saved Always Saved," but it has never been a comfortable thing for me to believe, although I taught it sometime between 2012 and 2014 on this platform. The reason was probably because of how I saw people who believed it behave back in secondary school. They were fellow members of the school's Christian fellowship, but their behavior was horrible, and they seemed okay with being that way, while I was struggling with being obedient to the Lord.

I have come to see that the Bible teaches both that our Salvation is secure and that we can lose it. It is one of those seeming paradoxes in the Bible that are really not paradoxical. Let me explain again:

1. As long as we choose to believe in the Lord Jesus, our Salvation is secure (John 3:16-18).

2. Sin is not the issue (Ephesians 2:8 ).

3. If we choose to stop believing, we are no longer saved (John 3:18).

4. Sin can lead us to choose to stop believing (Hebrews 3:13; 12:15-17).

That is, our Salvation is protected by the Lord Himself. Unless we choose to throw it back in His Face, we cannot lose it, no matter what. If we die in sin, we are still saved as long as we believe in the Lord Jesus. Examples are King Saul and Samson. These two were sinning like it was their birthright to do so, and yet King Saul was told that he would be in Paradise with his sons after he died the next day and the Lord granted Samson's plea for vengeance just before he died. They were terrible believers. They are very bad examples to follow. They died without confessing their sin, never mind their regret for all their foolishness. But they are saved. It is not about sin. The Lord Jesus paid for all of our sin. It is only when we reject Him that we lose our Salvation.

However, sin is the opposite of Faith. It is hard to sin without getting a reaction from our Faith. When we sin, our Faith reacts to it with a sense of guilt and a need to confess to the Lord, because our communion with the Lord, our Fellowship with the Trinity (which is only possible because of our Faith in Them) is broken (1 John 1:3-7). We may do so, but still return to our sin. The more we do that, the less happy we will be with confessing. Eventually, we start avoiding the Lord, because we don't want to keep confessing a sin we don't want to let go of. The result is a growing distance between us and the Lord. If this continues indefinitely, we will give up our Faith in the Lord, because we prefer to disobey Him rather than trust Him for whatever "benefit" we think that we derive from sinning against Him. For this reason, and also because our sin says something false about Him to people who witness it, the Lord disciplines us (Hebrews 12:4-13).

If we insist on continuing to sin, we will only get more discipline from Him. The more stubborn we are, the worse the punishment. Eventually, some of us do decide that it's His Fault that we sin. As a result of such thinking, we deliberately terminate our Faith or Trust in Him (Hebrews 12:16). Once we do that, we have given up our Salvation. This is not the only reason that anyone can give up their Salvation, but it is a real reason and a major one too. It is important to remember that only those who believe are saved; those who don't are not (John 3:16,18). We don't lose our ability to choose to believe or not believe after the first time we make that choice (Matthew 24:13). We can choose later to stop believing, if we want (Matthew 13:20-21; 24:12-13). This is what the Bible actually teaches. It is not only possible to terminate our Faith in the Lord, but others have done it throughout history. Being fond of a given sin is one big reason why many do, but it isn't the only reason. My point here is that while merely sinning does not result in loss of Salvation or Eternal Life, we can love sin so much that we decide to stop believing in the Lord so that we can enjoy sinning against Him without the interference of our conscience and His Discipline. Whenever we make the choice to stop believing, we sear our conscience (cf. 1 Timothy 4:2) and remove ourselves from the Family of God, so that we are no longer worthy of His Discipline and will no longer receive it, as a result (Hebrews 12:6).

This, however, is not the only outcome for sinning so insistently. If we insist on holding on to our Faith even while we sin, we will not lose our Salvation. As I told you, you can only lose it by choosing to stop believing in Jesus Christ. That is a choice you can only make consciously. No one makes it by mistake. One can be seduced into making it, but no one makes it without knowing what they are doing. So, it is very possible to continue sinning like an unbeliever while holding on to Faith in Jesus Christ. If we do so, after several punishments meted out to warn us of the Lord's strong disapproval of our behavior, the Lord commences the discipline of the sin unto death (1 John 5:16; 1 Corinthians 5:5). This discipline is the Lord's Way of preserving the Salvation of the foolish believer who chooses this path. It costs him all of his eternal reward (1 Corinthians 3:15), but he himself is saved from the Lake of Fire. If this does not show how secure our Salvation is, I have no idea what does.

The reason that it is a very bad idea to teach "Once Saved Always Saved" is that the Bible does not teach it at all. That is, it is a lie. The Bible is clear that one can give up one's Faith in Jesus Christ. The reason could be because of one's love for a pet sin (as in the example of Samson, although he didn't give up his faith in his case) or it could be because one does not want to suffer for the Lord Jesus in this world (as in the example of Demas, 2 Timothy 4:10) or even because one is arrogantly teaching error to the children of God (2 Peter 2, especially verses 20-22). This does not mean that our Salvation is not secure. It is perfectly secure, because we cannot "lose" it, we can only throw it away. That is, no one can steal us from the Lord or force us out of His Protection. Only we ourselves can leave His Protection, if we want to.

When we believe OSAS, the result, just as with other lies, is that we will begin to act in keeping with the lie. We will put ourselves at risk in ways that we ought not to. For example, we could begin to tolerate sin in a way that may soon bring upon us the choice between apostasy and the discipline of the sin unto death, neither of which is a good thing for a believer. We can pretend that that won't happen, but it does. But the greater damage that this lie does is that it tells us not to obey the Bible and work to build up our Faith so that we can become invulnerable to the seductions of lies and sin and threats to our Faith (Jude 1:20; Ephesians 4:11-16). If we are not growing spiritually, we remain at constant risk of losing our Faith, and we also most certainly accomplish very little indeed of any value at all to the Lord. But if we understand and appreciate that we are on a battlefield (2 Corinthians 6:7; 10:3-5; Ephesians 6:10-18), fighting for great eternal rewards and the Lord's Pleasure in us, then taking pains to build up our Faith and grow more sensitive to the Lord and to His Will will drive us toward spiritual success and away from the possibility of giving up our Faith.

You could still choose not to believe me, although I have shown you these things in the Bible itself. Your objections until now have not been shown to have any Scriptural basis: they have essentially been logical objections, that is, questions of logic rather than Scripture. That worries me about believers who either claim to love the Truth or demonstrate some love for it. If the Bible says something, then you believe it. It does not matter if it doesn't seem logical to you. Only when you believe it will you see how it makes sense, otherwise you are merely defining logic for yourself. For example, ichuka, when you insist that because the Life we are given is Eternal, it should be invulnerable to loss, you completely ignore that we are not given this Life in our own selves, we have it in the Lord Jesus. So while your objection seems logical because Eternal Life should be something that cannot be extinguished, it dispenses with the Truth that we do not possess it in ourselves. If then we give up the Lord Jesus and cease to be loyal to Him, we lose that eternal life as well. In other words, your logic was not complete because it did not account for everything the Bible has to say.

On the other hand, solite3, when you insist that it is our eternal rewards that are at risk (something I have taught on this platform too), you ignore completely that the Bible says very unequivocally that there are people who receive the Truth with joy but lack roots in themselves so that when suffering and persecution comes, they throw their Faith away. So, it is not just eternal rewards that are at stake, it is also Eternal Life.

I wish that you would choose to follow the Truth wherever it goes instead of dictating to it where it must go or banding with those who have no respect for it only because they agree with you, but that is a choice that you can only make for yourselves. I cannot make it for you. Wherever the Truth leads, it is always the right choice to follow. There is no insecurity in our Salvation. If you follow the Truth, you will learn that. But we are in a war, nonetheless, and we must fight to protect the things we value and reach for the things we desire. If you follow the Truth, you will learn that as well.

You have said it all bro. Sin can cause a great havoc to our faith. The bible talks about a reprobate mind ,when gets comfortable in sin.
Sin can open doors to demonic attack.

ichuka:
Hi sis
God cannot contradict Himself.
He said once we believe Eternal Life is ours.
The Life He gives is Eternal.

True but when a beliver has eternal life and later backslide, God can't force himself on them again. Didn't the bible say work out your salvation with fear and trembling Philippians 2:12. Lastly
Hebrew 6:4-6 4 For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted of the heavenly gift, and were made partakers of the Holy Ghost,

5 And have tasted the good word of God, and the powers of the world to come,

6 If they shall fall away, to renew them again unto repentance; seeing they crucify to themselves the Son of God afresh, and put him to an open shame.

Study the word yourself and don't embrace every doctrine you hear in other not to be mislead.
Ignorance they say is not an excuse

lilwetdick:
i am sure you will also see someone that will always say africans are primitive

in asia, there is caste systems, i guess it is alright

many europeans and americans are racists, i guess they are not primitive in thinking stupidly

suddenly as an african does similar stuff, all africans are primitive and think stupidly.

Two wrongs can't make right. Outcast in this generation, I'm so surprised

1Sharon:
Even at that, I've never been a heavy blender. Dripping on the floor ke?

individual differences. Mine is worse

Its very possible

1Sharon:
Except heal amputees

mamajj17:
I be Woman ooo, no be so our Menstrual Blood be ooo Africa Pastor go kill Person oo

I am a woman. It looks like menstral blood

Anonymous29:
na so menstral blood dey be? keep deceiving yourself!!!

how menstral blood be?

solite3:
fire brand? You dont know what it means to be born from above hence your argument.
If she had a new birth she wouldnt have died in sin.
You think people die by mistake? Not even a single bird who are lesser animals die outside the knowledge of the father how much more humans.
Look when one is born again, he is regenerated spiritually and passed from death to life. Furthermore the holy Spirit takes permanent residence in him. He has eternal life and the father and Jesus Christ keeps him to the end as the Holy Spirit in him is also his seal until the appearance of Christ.
If a bornagain Christian do sin, the spirit in him will convict him and lead him to repentance. God through hardship, or through other believers will put him back on track and because of his regenerated state he will obey the voice of christ and as a Son he will remember his father.

The story of the prodigal son very much explains things.
The prodigal son departure was cut short by events that happened to him and guess who is in charge of times and happenings? Yes God.
Secondly he remembered where he belonged and guess who made him remembered? (the holy Spirit) and whose voice he heard? (Jesus)
The father knew his son would return home because he was his Son.

Although there is a loss of reward but his soul was saved.

A bornagain christian can lose his reward in heaven but God would make sure he or she gets home safe.

John 6:39 And this is the Father's will which hath sent me, that of all which he hath given me I should lose nothing, but should raise it up again at the last day.




1 Corinthians 3:13-15 Every man's work shall be made manifest: for the day shall declare it, because it shall be revealed by fire; and the fire shall try every man's work of what sort it is.
If any man's work abide which he hath built thereupon, he shall receive a reward.
If any man's work shall be burned, he shall suffer loss: but he himself shall be saved; yet so as by fire.

Hebrews 6:4-6 King James Version (KJV)
4 For it is impossible for those who were once enlightened, and have tasted of the heavenly gift, and were made partakers of the Holy Ghost,

5 And have tasted the good word of God, and the powers of the world to come,

6 If they shall fall away, to renew them again unto repentance; seeing they crucify to themselves the Son of God afresh, and put him to an open shame.

ichuka:
Hi bro
These topic had been trashed here in NL.
Christains need to understand the full/correct meaning of Mercy/Grace of God.
Even in the OT the Mercy of God in the life of David was SURE!!thats no matter what David did,Mercy covers all.
That's the sole reason the Kingdom wasn't taken away from his linage.
Isaiah55:3..,Incline your ear, and come to Me. Hear, and your soul shall live; And I will make an everlasting covenant with you— The sure mercies of David.

I read a story narrated by Kenneth Hagin, Jesus was teaching him about demon possession. He saw a vision of a lady who happens to be pastors wife. He knows them very well. The lady left her husband. God was trying to tell Kenneth Hagin about what happened to the woman. The woman was born again, spirit filled. Satan tempted him by saying "oh lady, if not that you're born again, you would have gain power and firm with your beautiful look and voice" she knew it was Satan and rebuke him, later the same talk came and she pondered over it then her husband was no longer appealing to her again. She divorced him, dated another, left the man, to another man. Jesus said if she had repented, she would have forgiven her and restore her. But something happened. During those times she backslided church member always come around to try and win her back. Until one day, a church member met her in a hotel room and tried winning her over, she said "as long as Christ is concern to hell with all of you". Kenneth hagain said immediately, her spirit was full of darkness. Jesus told Kenneth, she has made her choice, she ha rejected me. It is impossible to save her now because she has embrace darkness. This story plus others. It is very possible for one to loose his/her salvation. Read the triumphant church by Kenneth Hagin

Addicted2Women:
I'm 26 years old and i will continue to hate your imaginary God till the day i die

Your stinky father is 97 years old and he's been believing in God since he was 5 years old, what has he achieved ?? What has your foolish God done for him except by making him poor

Even your mother who loves God died a terrible death

You will also die a miserable death

Hungry dog

serving God doesn't mean one don't go through trials my dear. Serving God is not just for this world alone but in the world to come.

Treasure17:
Can't say for TRCN. Go to any local government with with your national identity card and ask for LASRRA office.

is it only national identity card? Would they accept international passport?

Treasure17:
Of course it is. LASRRA number is like NIN in Lagos.

is TRCN certificate compulsory? Please how can I get LASRRA number?

Have been waiting for this

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Bacteriologist:
Over 500million people that will go to bed without having eaten anything today will disagree with you. Your god loves everyone but kids in Sudan and Yemen are starving to death. That's fake love.



No it's what you have been taught to believe. The moment you begin to question your indoctrinated beliefs and wake up from sleep, you will realise you've been fooled into accepting the religion of the Europeans.

my friend I've not been fooled. I will be a liar if I say I worship who I don't know. I've not just be taught, I have I know God and he knows me. That's what people failed to realize, serving God is not a religion but a relationship. It's a different life entirely which is wonderful. As for the case of starving children and all, God knows and sees all things. He said come to me or ye that labour and heavy laden, I will give you rest. God can never force himself on mankind. He has given us freewill to make choices. Either you're for him, or against him. Regardless of everything he still loves us and wish for all mankind to come to him.