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Yes age is just a number as far as you are every year young and she is every year, two years older.

IFELEKE:
ka[b]silly[/b]
You don't need to ridicule yourself to get Cheap Publicity and Attention.

His name said more about him. Meant no insult anyway

hilli666:
Like I said, "If you are a man (real man) It does not matter where you meet a girl e.g Nite club or church, She will comport to your ideals eventually. No matter how hard headed or tough she thinks. Was it not princes Diana that ended up with play boy "fayad" Or the  Woman chair man of a well know American bank the participated in a fraud for her Russian boyfriend totalling 300 million dollars, and the list goes on. Women are genetically predisposed to be submissive or attracted towards people who are more manly. It survival instinct.

Well spoken esp the last line.

But just wanna remind you of the fact that , unless in a special situation, a snake ' s offspring will always be long. Also ,  a leopard spots cant be washed away by any rain or water.

justwise:
How much are we talking about here?

I think it is a big amount , real big amount . I think it is up to 1,200 naira. I believe she kept back 300naira.

190:
@post
she is Bleep.in another AJ city boy well
be there be crying
what do u expect
so ure in the UK
man wit the whyte chicks
man Bleep dem give dem belle
4get the croc u left behind
she has long cheated bak @ u
4get her
she wud com bak and beg u
giv her 6mnths she shud b bak
after the guy don match am tire
get a whyte wife they are the best anyday anywhere any foc.k

*yawns with mouth wide open out of boredom after reading this post*

To start with, I hate club girls, I am really suprised that some people are saying that there could be  an angel in the club . Rubbish!!!!!!!!!!

Till eternity, homely girls will always make the best wives . No two way about that.

lawyer:
Its only in Nigeria that things are extremely topsy turvey in relation to buying properties more especially in Lagos. The truth is that the people to blame are the land speculators and the purchasers who are ready to jump into a high catchment area or percieved choice future area thereby driving the prices higher.

For example, look at the Lekki/Ajah Axis:

Most of the lands there are being owned by traditional families and prior to the forceful takeover of that place by the government in 1994, lands there were selling for a mere N5,000. Now property speculators, corporate bodies, well to do citizens of Nigeria and a host of others want a piece of the good life now. Places like Ikate Elegushi, Agungi, Ikota, Badore now command high price fees for lands that were bought for less than N1,000,000 3 years ago.

The latest mad rush now is to buy a land at Ogombo village, Sangotedo, langbassa etc. These lands costs less than N3million at most or better still N1million but by 2010, they will jump to N5MILLION and by 2012 it will cost N10million for a land there because people are moving there in droves and they see developing amenities that will attract them.

Some people rush to buy these lands so that they can make a profit off it in future and they are the land speculators who drive up the prices. Sometimes i think it is a good idea for people to just buy these lands for cheap and later sell when they have the time and resources to purchase them now but then again, its negative aspect is that they help drive up the prices in future. So it has it advantages and disadvantages.

The only problem i have seen from my own little experience in these matters is that land speculators who buy these lands from the traditional families for cheap end up buying wrong properties with very very defective titles and when they discover the problem, they are quick to put it on the market for another unsuspecting buyer to purchase and walk away with a very handsome profit.

If purchasers pay a closer look to the title and do their own searches, it is a better way to drive down the price if found defective or unattractive because the seller is eager to sell no matter what. I have seen cases where a land has been advertised for N5Million and upon prompt search and investigation, i found out it had a defective title, i was forced to renegotiate that land to N1.8million and helped the person get a good title with an extra N350,000 at alausa hereby saving almost N2.5million for the purchaser. Its another way to drive down the prices

Other situations crop up when the buyer is so stubborn and adamant that he/she must buy a property or land in a high brow area. There are so many mitigating reasons the prices will be unilaterally high and beyond his reach. What they are marketing to you is just branding and not substance it self and buyers should be very wary of it.

Finally the last reason prices jump up is basically due to the fault of estate agents. In law there is what is known as GAZUMPING

Gazumping is a trick estate agents use to over price the property when there is no reason to increase it. For example, you negotiate with the agent for a land going for N1Million naira, you do your statutory investigation and searches on the land and you have intention to buy it and promise to pay a deposit while your solicitor is handling all the paper work to transfer it to you, then you recieve a call from the agent that another person is interested in that same property and he is willing to pay N2million Naira for it and unless you increase your offer, the property wouldnt be transfered to you.

Panic sets in and you begin to run helter skelter to try and make sense of what just happened and you are ready to offer the agent another N500,000 just to make sure that the property is yours because you really like it and you have already spent money on the search.

The truth is, you have just fallen for one of the greatest real estate scams of the millineium. The aim is to push up the prices of that property and make sure you over value that property for the next victim. Usually they select a person to act as the new buyer who is bidding for the same property with you and he is ready to show that he can pay it.

The solution to this is very simple. YOU WALK AWAY! Forget that you have done the search and expended a little money. Be rest assurd the agent will call you very soon to re-explain things to you why the offer to that new person didnt go through and why your the favoured candidiate to buy it back at N1Million.

Agents live on the patronage of buyers and not the other way around. If they sense your too panicky, too enthusiastic, too forth coming, discussing money issues that favors them, then your are in for a big ride with them. Always involve your Property Lawyer when you want to buy a land because they are used to these tricks and will advise you accordingly. If you follow these simple rules, the property crash your expecting will happen. If you walk away, be rest assured that there are other lands out there, more cheaper, better agents looking to do business with you and more security.

You might feel aggrieved that you didnt get that choice area you wanted but remember where ever you end up getting will be the choice area for another person to admire. At least its your money, so spend it wisely and cheaply!

Cheers!

Others are addicted to marijuana or cocaine but I am addicted to nairaland.

Thanks a lot to lawyer for that information. I t just happened recently.

vodkat:
Take the job since it is a contract job ,it is also a learning experience ,infact what you learn from the field is more than what you learn on your Masters course

Work experience does not come as easy as that especially in Naija and in total for that matter .

If i were u i would take the job and defer my admission to the next session,the Job is not going to wait for you but the Masters Course has been going on for the past 70 years and probably will still be there for the next 100 years.


Infact the work experience you get will probably open more doors for you than a Masters cos employers dont want theory they want experience.

See a BSc graduate with work experience is more cometent than a Phd with theory.


At the end of the day is your choice

Well spoken. Experience is the best teacher.

My very close friend really got me this morning when he was lamenting that his bank posted him to far north. :oI couldn't help being sad at the news because he is my very close friend married with two beautiful kids(God is good) .

Infact , I couldnt believe I could be gotten so cheap like that. My revenge is coming next year (By God's grace ) serious one year plan.

royalicon:
I go for my lovely brother Kola Agunleti of Kayo Moore Micro Ltd.
He teach me how to fish when non of these your men could not give me fish to eat after my B.Sc and some professional qualification -"plenfiful application".

He role modeled me to the extent I now employ people to work for me. In my own opinion, being a role model is not about what u have or do, but how u touched my life positively to be relevant within the society.

Kudos to you my guy.

Thank you so much for that. Not those that buy private jet that worths more than 14m US DOLLARS when their fellow men and living in abject poverty.

asha 80:
I wonder if Nigga raw did some yoruba flavor before he became a star.

Was just thinking of this before reading this.

d-baptist:
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No big deal as far as both of them are there.


guy u be mumu
another man go chop ur girlfriend and u know ladies sheand her friend will enjoy a twosome with her friend's guy while you just lose out
loser
in fact you should not allow it if your mind no go carry your being there
but as for me i'd prefer me being the one who has my girlfriend and her friend with me on a bed

small boy,mind your language.

I forgot to add that older ladies seem to be mature in their reasoning attitude. hence the attraction to them.

@ poster

2yrs is still your age mate. I thought you are talking about real older ladies. this is not a case of sugar mummy stuff. Just like a boyfriend -girlfriend stuff. With my full respect . They feared and respected .

No big deal as far as both of them are there.

coughs *goes to the fridge for a cup of milk* *close the topic for another reasonable one*

50-50 situation

Bleep this snazzy and his fake stories. Before it was a manager asking him to impregnate her .now it is about this. No more africa magic channel for you. Too much movies is bad. you sulk!!!!!!!

She must be an introvert. You forgot to tell us that. That is the only reason that can make her to do that.

@ poster

You must be into business, i mean a trader. Girls find it easy to play with your type than graduates who are always smarter.

I wonder the kind of male friends she should be keeping even when she is with you. That is total disregard.

At 24, she is still the toast of boys, any girl you could not control at that age and make her to love you alone must always have other people aside you.

Beware my friend. or better still turn to NAFDAC and shine your eyes.

A case of sand in ones garri

whitelexi:
don't fight the feeling, u wont win!
Find a way to get it on with him, flirt with him a bit - intimidate him by imposing your feminine side on him, trust me - good men love a woman who is bold-minded. He'll get attracted to u instantly. What u do with the crush is up to u sha.

Spread the lurve, don't kill it!

Something similar to what I  used to do to any girl that has a crush on me. For me to resist I face her and joke uncontrollably with her  to the extent that she will find me unattractive again.  

@ poster

I believe if you tell him that it will get into his head and he will exhibit an arrogant attitude that will definitely put you off

Till tomorrow, virginity is still something great. But wait a minute. I value virginity of somebody very attractive and real cute. someone I am sure is under pressure from guys to take to bed. Not just evry virginity of a kind of ugly being that is repulsive. Prolonged hiss

Can I get channel 198 with strong decoder?

Welcome dude, but dont leav us when we begin Bleep up. ;DAnyway I trust my club.Never disappointed me much since fifteen years of being a fan

Rubbermaid:
Dear Seun - Nairaland Moderator,

This is a formal request asking that you ban me [quickly] from your forum. Please do so before the level of English Ninglish used here kills, maims, or adulterates my own command of proper English grammar. 

Following my recent visits,  I have left Nairaland wondering what in heaven's name is happening in Nigerian classrooms? What has happened to those days of yore when you were drilled until you mastered correct usage of English grammar by Primary three?!

For example,  I clicked on the discussion item at the top of the 'hot list' today and almost suffered a fatal blow when the poster started with "Have you ever sit, " I understand occasional 'slip-ups' however, the repeated instances on this forum has lead me to believe that these folks just never [b]learned proper English, or have not bothered to keep up by reading [/b] well written literature or revisiting early lessons from time to time (and as needed).

I am now officially fed-up with Ninglish and would like to turn-in my Nairaland membership before irreparable damage is done. I will now be  moving over to the Nigerian Village Square. Nigerians there seem to have better control of the language. Ironically, they seem to make better sense too.

Respectfully,

Rubbermaid.

PS - English is your friend. Blame those who made it our national language. Peace.

You are part of the crime.

You should say ''has led'' not has lead.

All(except me) have sinned and come short of the glory