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LiteratureRe: Black Maria 5 - Retribution (The Final Book) by fredagu: 1:13pm On Jan 07, 2024
iamL:
When did you start following the story, so that I will know how to reply you?
I started from a tail of two thieves part 1 when Peters parents were killed
LiteratureRe: Black Maria 5 - Retribution (The Final Book) by fredagu: 7:12pm On Jan 05, 2024
iamL:
This story is still ongoing? Una try.
have followed this story since 2015
RomanceRe: Nigerian Man Lists Requirements For His Wife To Be This 2024 by fredagu: 10:51am On Jan 04, 2024
Justdare:
grin

These are not outrageous expectations of a woman, women are nurturers. (women I said, not the block heads with 500k bone straight wigs on it). But what is he offering this beautiful soul he is hoping and praying for? What's he done/doing with himself to keep her when she comes?
Nigerian ladies are so unserious Bunch of baggage with nothing to offer
RomanceRe: Why Are You Still Single, Any Plan Of Setting Down Next Year? by fredagu: 12:47am On Jan 01, 2024
Have not seen the special one Nigerian girls wan use entitlement finish me
BusinessRe: How Long Does It Take EMS To Deliver Packages From China To Nigeria? by fredagu: 6:03am On Dec 12, 2023
Depending on what you want to ship
BusinessRe: He Paid For Goods Over 6 Months, Now Clients Wants Supply At Old Price by fredagu: 5:55am On Dec 12, 2023
Give him his right you can’t eat your cake and have it,you sold goods with enough gain you won’t tell me that you didn’t.you started encountering loss and you want to push it to someone else you are just greedy and envious and wicked you wanted to reap where you did not sow, would you have called his family or tell nairaland if he never come back you will count that one as grace of God now the good man came for his goods and you start talking shit you get luck if na person like me I no go even leave till you supply me my complete goods if you like no get sense settle the man with little loss just follow am go police you go regret why you do so because you will pay the man the charges incurred and you will also pay for police bullshit think about that dear.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gaza’s Al-Shifa Hospital Director Arrested By Israeli Soldiers by fredagu: 9:46am On Nov 23, 2023
Beverlyjean:
Palestinians encourage and support Hamas ...that's why they have been able to be terrorising Isreal...they act all innocent , but they are evil ... they are the reason Hamas do what they do ... they are now forming victims ... Hamas wudnt be in existence if Palestinians were against them
because they know it all they are just too jealous and envious of Israel.
Foreign AffairsRe: Gaza War: IDF Forces Take Over Hamas Parliament ( Pics) by fredagu: 9:21pm On Nov 13, 2023
FarSide:
But wetin gave these Hamas boys morale to attack Israel in the first place??
iran and Iraq and Syria were all backing hamas behind close door but as America put body everybody disappear, hamas is just a scapegoat they no sabi game
RomanceRe: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by fredagu: 2:32pm On Nov 11, 2023
Persephone1:
[i]"Marry a typical Nigerian Man at your own peril"

When I type these words, it's not from a place of hate towards men ( I don't hate anybody) It is from careful analysis of marriages to Nigerian Men which mostly lack genuine love, empathy and kindness. Nigerian Marriages are mostly driven by "needs" and "means" to an end. Too systematic and unnatural and the one with the highest bargaining chip gets the most benefit.

Our mothers didn't teach us enough about Men. They didn't know either until they got married, unfortunately they are still learning about Men too. That is why the popular saying "Ile oko ile eko ni" (Your husband house is a school) is usually the soothing balm to unfavourable experiences a wife has with her husband. One question I always ask myself when I hear these words as parting words of advice for young wife is. Does that mean she is getting married into a strange,unknown and possibly unfavourable world? Why represent her husband as an unending course? And will she ever graduate and be relieved of painful lessons?. Ask these women these questions and they will shake their heads in mockery but the truth is, They weren't taught enough about the Men they are getting married to. How would they when they didn't know who they are either. To understand another person there must be a certain level of self awareness you have reached yourself. This way you have enough level of intelligence to be a perfect judge of character. But when a woman believe all she needs to be is a good cook and good konji reliever then all she will seek is a man who has Kitchen and bed.


Men are the worst in this joke of an institution. Configured to believe all they need to posses is Financial ability to provide. The upbringing of the typical Nigerian Man is very very wrong. Trained with little to no empathy,kindness, self care, sense of belonging, self love but burdened with sense of responsibility brought up like a robot to "provide" only. Most Nigerian men are robotic minded, unable to connect emotionally without aide yet this men are expected to naturally see their brides as a part of themselves. Wishful thinking if you ask me. And when some men luckily achieve this, the society (Men and Women) mock him. Aside this, they don't readily know what they want and are easily tossed by the society.

We create a society devoid of emotional engagement but want the benefits emotions birth. Compassion and affections brings liberty, a man who lacks these will see his wife as his slave and property, he gets to do with her what he seem best and not what is good for her. We really have a long way to go as a Society.

Nigerian Men make terrible horsebands
you really been through a lot but we are all different human being are very different you can ever imagine
PoliticsRe: Drama As DSS, Prisons Services Scuffle Over Emefiele’s Custody by fredagu: 2:45pm On Jul 25, 2023
BoldBrainz:
This current DG of DSS should be relieved of his duties and the entire agency disbanded and replaced with Boys Brigade members.

The agency is useless. It's primary function of intelligence gathering has never been met under Yusuf Bichi. They rather sit in their offices and concoct rumours and gossips, then go to the press, claiming they have "credible intelligence".

Buhari really bastardised the agency. This is
supposed to be the Nigerian equivalent of the FBI, acting with utmost unprofessionalism and always disgracing themselves in public. Foolish set of animals with oversized guns!
Mind your words them they Nairaland
PhonesRe: Threads: See Elon Musk's Reply on Twitter's attempt to sue Meta by fredagu: 10:27pm On Jul 06, 2023
INVINCIBLECSP1:
Just like the idiot in ASO rock who cheated his way to the seat of the people. If you think you still have it, allow competition and test your popularity. Stop using money to buy everything. Remember money cannot buy life or breath of life. That drug kingpin should be in jail and not ASO rock.
unfortunately your opinion doesn’t count you are invincible
LiteratureRe: Black Maria 5 - Retribution (The Final Book) by fredagu: 1:19am On Jun 24, 2023
I wish he be caught but he will not be caught because that blackmail video will eventually fit in somewhere.
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Meets Swiss President, Alain Berset by fredagu: 4:07pm On Jun 23, 2023
I always knew that Asiwaju will do well believe me trust the process.
PoliticsRe: Former President Buhari’s House Interior In Katsina Causes Stir (Video) by fredagu: 1:57pm On Jun 02, 2023
Buhari wey get sense make he buy mansion make Efcc start Dey probe am that man is fucking smart.
RomanceRe: What's The Longest Time You've Spent Trying To Woo A Woman? by fredagu: 12:58am On May 29, 2023
I can’t spend more than 1week tops,why will I spend my time with someone wooing someone that will still come for my money I don’t woo them simple with absolutely nothing to offer apart from sex so why will I waste my time if she feels to important because she’s curvy or pretty with nothing else to bring to the table I cannot waste my time
PoliticsRe: I Won Fair And Square, Thank You Nyesom Wike - Tinubu Says In Rivers (Video) by fredagu: 7:23pm On May 03, 2023
I think that Bola Tinubu is a good man and he will do well as a president he is old and
Matured to rule a country like Nigeria I am from eastern region and I know that he will do well Nigeria does not need a saint as a president I prefer Tinubu Cv and he also has a lot of money he doesn’t need to steal Nigerian money because he knows that Nigeria is borrowing he knows the problem we face today he is very corrupt and I still know that if you want to keep your money safe then give it to the thief in the room Tinubu will do well I know that but you will remember this.
Christianity EtcRe: What Is The Most Embarrassing Situation That Has Happened To You In Church? by fredagu: 1:03pm On Apr 23, 2023
i want use style give 20naira offering the thing fall for ground shame no gree me pick am .
RomanceRe: What Killed Your Feelings For A Lady? by fredagu: 4:01pm On Apr 11, 2023
Ijaya123:
What should ladies in that age range be doing with their romance life?
HOOKUP
RomanceRe: What Killed Your Feelings For A Lady? by fredagu: 3:58pm On Apr 11, 2023
one thing is certain every sensible man always has a girl that he builds with, if you are waiting for the already made then you might always end up as the side chick my main babe dey by my side she knows what she want and shes a very smart young woman i will always choose her i might flex as a man with women who thinks like you do but at the end of the day i will always go back to my home builder life is simple as that dont get so engrossed in looking for success that you forget the most important thing in life is actually have a life, you might get all the wealth but losing all the affection needed to keep you sane life is not balance you might not be destined to marry a successful man, you might be destined to be that success an average man needs life is so unpredictable most times life happens.
Nairaland GeneralRe: What Did You Say You Won’t Do That You Are Doing Now? by fredagu: 7:54pm On Mar 14, 2023
smoking now i smoke like chimini
PoliticsRe: Tinubu's Supporters In Lagos And Desmond Elliot Take To The Street To Celebrate by fredagu: 11:32am On Mar 01, 2023
I am from eastern part of Nigeria believe me tinubu will do well he will rule to impress he knows people never wanted him to win he will try to prove those people wrong let’s give him a chance Nigeria will be great again
PoliticsRe: Lagos LP Rally: Hooligans Stabbing People In Lagos Traffic - Kayode Akintemi) by fredagu: 11:16pm On Feb 11, 2023
Siwisheswereesh:
Not good at all
you are also a Nigerian this old politicians are not helping this country tribalism is bad at this stage
TravelRe: What Scares You The Most About Relocating Abroad? by fredagu: 1:20pm On Jan 02, 2023
Whether
CrimeRe: Young Lady Killed And Dumped By Roadside In Anambra State (Graphic) by fredagu: 6:16am On Dec 14, 2022
It's simple she visited a friend who poised her and she died on her way home she wanted to call someone when she started feeling very sick but she couldn't the poison was hard on her so she succumb and died. My opinion though.
PropertiesRe: My Landlady And Her Daughter Want To Finish Me! by fredagu: 8:47pm On Dec 12, 2022
Jennyclay:
Your landlady and her daughter didn't pull a gun on your head to lend her 10k or buy meatpie for her. If you don't have money to lend or buy meatpie politely tell them you're a broke man and they would understand.
Broke men with their numerous wahala Nawa o., you hurriedly open a thread because of 10k and #500 meatpie undecided. Shame on you.
you are very rude men and women are not the same respect any man you see because men foot your bills doesn't mean that it is easy to make money.
LiteratureRe: Black Maria 5 - Retribution (The Final Book) by fredagu: 7:54pm On Dec 11, 2022
Double update please
PoliticsRe: What To Expect As Tinubu Holds Lagos Presidential Rally On Saturday by fredagu: 5:30pm On Nov 25, 2022
Abeg make una no vess WHO BE BUHARI PRO MAX
SportsRe: Korean Team Members' Names: If You Were The Commentator, What Would You Do? by fredagu: 7:45pm On Nov 24, 2022
Man United want to buy Kim in the South Korean team
FamilyRe: "This Is Not My Son"- Mum Reacts After Her Son Showed Her His New Hairstyle by fredagu: 8:31pm On Nov 19, 2022
Mastakija:
Gradually the responsible generation is leaving
Now we are faced with deep irrelevant and irresponsible tenure of this present generation gradually turning into parents
While most of them sex tapes are littered throughout the internet some who are parents are grooming their children to become a social media professional ashewo
and your mom is keeping quiet

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