MaziOmenuko:
Petroleum Engr and Petrochemical Engr is the worst course to study. Chemical Engineering beats the duo hands down. Why restrict yourself to petroleum when you can study chemical Engr and be more versatile in the chemical, oil and Petroleum sector?

There's nothing like 'best' Engr course to study; all Engr courses has their area of expertise. But instead of studying petroleum Engr and restricting your employability options, why not study chemical Engr and be versatile in both petroleum and chemical industries?

Proudly a chemical engineer.

joyberry:
Lots of pictures, movies,and many crazy porn videos and stories

I think I like your kind of person, you are always sincere to yourself and not hypocritical like most Naija babes. My kind of girl.
I won't mind getting to know you up close.

XML33:
Before I begin, let me tell you guys the set of people that will disagree with this thread and possibly even insult me.

- Moralistic morons who believe they understand the concept of right and wrong more than anyone else.

- Disney indoctrinated fools who have been brainwashed by the media into losing their masculinity

- Broke ass dudes who have no money, no exposure and no freedom to explore their world.

- Confused set of women who don't even understand themselves and what they want.

- Ugly ass girls who can't relate with what I'm saying cos they are hardly approached by anyone.

If you fall within these pathetic set of people, please politely leave my thread and busy yourself with whatever irrelevant thing you enjoy.

Guys, this might probably be the best advice you'll ever receive in your life - Stop wasting time on just one girl. It doesn't matter whether you are dating or whether you are not, don't invest all your time on just one girl. Always make sure you are seeing more than two girls at every given time, and if you know your way with women, try to fuçk them as well. This is because it would give you an abundance mentality. When you have an abundance mentality, you won't be bothered when women do things that would normally hurt a average guy into becoming emotional and fighting with her. You'd just laugh it off and dump her ass without any drama.

If you are dating a pretty girl, it doesn't matter if she is the most saint like person ever, she always has loads of options and probably fuçking someone else on the side or contemplating it. Forget what a woman says, even if she is the most honest person you'll ever meet, if she is attractive, the chances that she'll cheat on you is very high. So instead of wasting your time being paranoid about whether your girl is cheating on you, just be fucking other girls on the side. This way, even if she cheats, it won't faze you, you'll just dump her and continue your parole with other girls.

This advice also works to keep women more devoted and attracted to you due to how you relate with them. Men who have abundance mentality are always ready to walk away from a woman when she misbehaves because they know that they have other options. They don't have time to tolerate bullshit from a woman. When she misbehaves they just bounce. When a woman knows that you can leave her at any time, it will keep her on her toes and she'll always be willing to please you and it will also reduce the likelihood that she'll cheat on you.

Remember that as a man, your happiness is all that matters. So do things that will make you happy. Always have women on the side. Never invest all your time on a particular girl. A word is enough for the wise.

You are not far from the truth.......

Jazzlite:
A bread seller, Marian Folarin, on Thursday told a Mapo Customary Court in Ibadan that it was her lover that impregnated her and not her husband, Kayode Folarin.

The mother-of-four in her original petition to the court accused her husband of “gross irresponsibility and incompetence” in managing the home.

She said, “My lord, hunger, thirst and wretchedness had been the order of the day with me in
Kayode’s house in the last 20 years I lived with him.

“Kayode and I earlier had a mutual agreement not to have more than four children and he did everything not to violate that agreement.

“But he had been unable to cater for me and the children, beside the constant beating which I receive
from him.

“I stopped Kayode from having sex with me since 2007 so as not to get pregnant. However, as I speak now, I have been impregnated by my lover, Ololade, a mechanic at Gate area of Ibadan.

“I pray this honourable court to order Kayode to stop molesting and harassing me in the neighbourhood because I am no longer interested in the marriage; I have found new love.”

The respondent denied all allegations preferred against him, saying he still loves his wife.

He said, “Marian is a pathological liar because I always give her my love and care and people can bear me witness.

“It is only unfortunate that she is being misguided somewhere. My lord, I want to confirm to you that
I impregnated Marian and not any mechanic.

“Marian was three months pregnant before she left my house.”

Marian’s 14-year-old daughter, in her testimony, told the court that her father was a caring man who did everything possible to satisfy her mother.

She said, “I think my mother is just ungrateful.”

The President of the court, Ademola Odunade, after deliberating on the matter, ordered a court official to take Marian for pregnancy test to ascertain the age of the pregnancy.

He also ordered that her mechanic lover should appear in court, and adjourned the case until May 23 for hearing.

http://punchng.com/my-lover-not-my-husband-impregnated-me-wife-confesses/

She stopped her husband from having sex with her but she was having sex with a mechanic. Women!!! SMH.

NwaAmaikpe:



Water and oil don't mix.
Such a waste of fresh young boobs.
She is a bit pretty too, I just hope the mortuary attendant does not do what is on my mind.


The moral of this story is that girls are not loyal.

Just a little exposure and they'd dump your ass.


Nina went to the BBNaija house and suddenly dumped Collins who enrolled her for it, who housed her and who took her to the airport.

TeeBillz made Tiwa who she is, but she has dumped him for his bestfriend's apprentice.

Now just because this bushmeat left the village to go write WAEC in the town, she came back feeling like a diva and dumped her unforgiving boyfriend.

That's why a wiseman knows better than to upgrade any lady.
Upgrade yourself.
If you upgrade a woman, you'd be automatically placing her above your reach.

Interesting.....

January 3rd

gloriaunobi:
Kwara, Kogi and Benue are not Northernners please.

What are they? Southerners?

wristbangle:
We live in a part of the world where many guys are attracted to flashy and materialistic ladies forgetting that most of these ladies are no go area for any sane man who wants to live a fulfilled life.

However, flashy and materialistic ladies are usually very lazy and unproductive set of people. They have no other thing they are thinking rather than taxing guys for money simply because they so much believe that life revolves around their butts and bosoms. All they talk about is how they can't settle down with a man that earns nothing less than 200k per month even though they themselves have not paid back the N50 they borrowed from MTN for the past three month.

Many a times, you see them artificially dressed from head to toe, always on designer shoes, bags, heavy make-up, massive bosoms and butts and they begin to walk like when Jesus rode on a donkey.

It has been observed that some guys shamelessly lust after these dumb, greedy yet unproductive ladies who only enjoy the comfort of what their pockets will bring to them.

Of recent, guys are now becoming wiser that they have come to realise that getting entangled with a lady who is lazy yet financially bankrupt is a big disaster to their ministry.

Church girls are not in any way different as some of them are mere pretenders, repackaged olosho who disguise as angels of light to deceive a brother in the church.

It's high time guys opened their eyes and realize that the height they will attain in life largely depends on the kind of ladies they choose as companions. If you find yourself dating a lady who can't do without talking about elaborate wedding, how stunning she wants to look and how she wants the jaw of people to break each time she walk, then you should know that your salary will definitely be responsible for that.

Take for example, when you get married to an unsatisfied and unrepentant slay queen, how long will you constantly cater for her personal needs which ordinarily would gulp up your whole salary?. Using your salary or little earnings to make her happy when your mates are already buying lands and building houses when you're still at one spot?

Let's take a look at it from another angle. Imagine a situation where your monthly income is 80k per month. The cost of accommodation may gulp up to 7k on monthly basis depending on the location. Feeding, electricity bill, transport and miscellaneous may gulp to 30k leaving you with only 47k per month. Imagine your parasitic girlfriend always disturbing every now and then for her hair, monthly data subscription and frivolities, why won't you remain on a spot? And if standards are not met, she would resort to extra marital affairs and rob it on your face.

From the above explanation, can you see why some guys have no savings even if their salaries are overwhelming? Meanwhile a wise guy who earns less but knows his way around these flashy and parasitic ladies would have something tangible to boast of as savings at the end of the month.

It's hightime we give ourselves brain. Don't go for stunning ladies because you want people to cheer you up each walking with her on the street but go for a career driven lady with great potentials.

And lastly, don't go for ladies with feminism ideology. They are nothing but waste of time. They are the worst kind of ladies you can ever date. All they need talking about is how they can't offer financial assistance to a man and how they want to be the boss of the relationship/marriage .


A word is enough for the wise. Happy weekend

Words on marble.......

ariesbull:


When you met her for the very first time, her curled hair was well made. Her nails were well manicured. The agreeable smell of her perfume held you ransomed as it lingered in the air. You can’t even get your eyes off her, because neither the dazzling sunshine nor the tantalizing moonlight is comparable to her beauty. You simply knew that you met a slay queen who is so stunning and ravishing in appearance.



After telling her all the lies in the world, she ignorantly decided to give you a chance which led to marriage. The love scene begins. Hide and seek games commences. ‘Tinini tanana’ is unavoidable. Both of you keep singing it on top of your voices as you share passionate kissing sessions. But inside you, you aren’t at rest. Your heart keeps throbbing as your legs keep wobbling. You alone know the bitter truth. You cannot maintain your sophisticated chic period. You never considered your economical or social class before taking her to the altar. You refused to marry according to your pocket. The queen was slaying and it captured your fragile heart. Now, ‘water don pass garri’. Oga can’t run away. He must stay and finish what he started.



Funny enough, challenges sets in when some of these brothers, still demand for total submission from their wives. They can even force their wives to obey them. And I ask: How do you expect her to be submissive, when you fail to marry from your social class? Do you feel pleased telling all the lies in the world before she could accept your marriage proposal? Do you know that a frustrated mind is an alien to submissiveness? It is imperative to let her understand your economical, social and educational attainment before asking for her hand in marriage. Allow her to seriously reflect on the consequences before acceptance. Do not make promises you can’t fulfill. Or even claim to be what you are not. Be who you are. Sit up and be real. It pays a whole lot not to lead a photo copied life style. Brother, this simple truth will save you from high blood pressure.



I don’t care if you are offended. But, that’s the bitter truth. The phrase ‘love is blind’ has confused many and made them wallow in the wreathing state of depression. By no means are all men created equal. All men are simply not born equal. In life, every man has a unique set of strengths, which can aid in achieving the success he desire. We are not all created equal in our ability to achieve success.



Truth is; every woman still needs a capable partner who will always support her to keep real. Brother, do not cunningly exploit her sexually; only for you to put yourself into pressure. Cut your coat according to your cloth. Look for ladies who really love and want you the way you are. Do not fall hopelessly in love, because one day the cyclone will surely blow and the hen’s anus will be exposed. She will surely ‘show you pepper’.

Don’t be a victim of women ‘wahala’. Be real and be safe.



Ogada Chinedu


for more of such stories, visit https://etimes.com.ng/women-show-pepper/

Right on point......

2ruink:


u are simply a classless illiterate. ur English says it all. this is the last time I will ever respond to u.

Confirmed olodo and psycho........

Newbiee:
Sai Baba
A GENTLE REMINDER TO BUKOLA SARAKI AND COMPANY

Theophilus Utchaychukwu wrote:

"If the imaginative 20 million signatures from TAN could not stop PMB. If Dasuki and DSS cannot stop PMB. If hidden WAEC certificate cannot stop PMB. If cancer and death wish cannot stop PMB. If fake prophesies from Pastorprenuers couldn't stop PMB. If thousands of Jonathan support group could not stop PMB. If the dollar distribution could not stop PMB. If militants, OPC and MASSOB could not stop PMB. If Boko-haram could not stop PMB . If ekuke tribal fence sitters could not stop PMB If opportunist Viju milk political analyst could not stop PMB. If war mongers, pipeline vandals and busters, secessionist threat could not stop PMB. What makes you think that 1 million Dino Malaye and Saraki can stop a moving train? Not even a combination of 109 senators can obstruct the movement of this 15 Million coach virgin pendolino train. No miserable senator or wife or ally can stop a moving train. Call it witch hunting Call it intimidation Call it any thing you like. We are hunters! !!!!! No witch will be spared. Dear Saraki, Your koboko is well soaked under the second Niger Bridge. We shall storm the red chambers soon. Go and listen to your party Dear Dino, Ndume, and Yerima, You can even sleep in Saraki house in solidarity. We are not bothered. But you should know that the gentle stride of a tiger is not a symbol of cowardice. Dear wailers, You should commend PMB for allowing EFCC to do their job without interference. Though most of you are far away from your brain, it takes courage to interrogate a party man. Dear President Buhari, Keep doing it 109 vulnerable adults cannot distract us. We the nomadic almajiri is in total solidarity with you and we your blind followers as they call us are satisfied. Keep leading us".

Theophilus Utchaychukwu
I love this post...
#BrinBackBuhari2019

I am with you bro.......

tamethem:
A man that they will disobey and yet still love and worship them in their stubonness

The one that will listen to all their advice and a single advice from him they wont take.

A man when they were still dating they visited and never helped to cook or wash plate for but when he marries them they would call " dear please can you join me in the kitchen. Thanks. Please can you wash those plate for me while I make this Eba"

A man that none of his family members must visit their house but her own mother sister and brother would make their house their second home.

A man that keeps a devilish joint account with them that would alwsys need to seek her opinion just to buy himself a boxer's.

A man that she would rain insults upon that will quietly take his shirt and go out and come back home when her madness has subsided.

A man that she would deny sex for months all in the name of shes a carier woman and shes tired after work and would still be faithful to her. Satisfying himself with masturbation because truely he doesnt wanna sin.


That is a Woman's God fearing man.

Wow!!! That's another good one.

Allwility:

It means they need a man that is rich, caring, tall, handsome, intelligent, goes to church on Sunday, drives a good car, have a good house, can cook, six- pack figure, whose mother is dead, without any other financial responsibility, doesn't drink or smoke and of course doesn't womanize.

That's because they know that only God can make a man all of these.

PS: I forgot to add, he must be able to take all her BS, drama, clubbing and girlish attitude with a smile and act as if it doesn't matter. Her pastor must approve of him and he musnt put a lock on his phone + no exes + baby mamas.

Another correct response...... lol

madone:
They mean a guy will not plan to cheat on them. A guy who has no baby mama. A guy who has money .a house and a good car. Guys without cash are never God fearing. And op for ur info some Yahoo yahoo guys are even more god fearing than some pastors. Cos I am still surprised when u meet some of this same girls that want a god fearing guy and you ask them if they LL marry a pastor . The next thing u hear is God forbid

Correct response..........

thornapple:
1. Judgment

When we continually judge someone, what we’re really saying is their personality is the problem. We see flaws in them as people as opposed to what they are doing. Get to know your partner inside out and you’ll stop the judgment. Spend time with your partner; the better you get to know him, the deeper your relationship. It’s rare to be like this, I know, but it works.

2. Being defensive

Are you always on the defensive, always on the attack if you are criticized? Do you continually moan and whine? Do you just refuse to listen?
This is one of the biggest disasters for any relationship. Even if your partner continually criticizes you, you can learn to accept the criticism, take responsibility for it, and even ask them to talk to you about it. This diffuses the whole situation and you can learn from it. Perhaps there are changes you could make in your life.
Try being positive to your partner in even the smallest of situations and the criticism won’t seem as bad, this really helps to build a relationship. Engage in conversation and notice the humor in situations.This is very powerful in relationship building.

3. Being condescending

This is the biggest issue of all. This is when you try to one up your partner, always putting them down, and making yourself look better. The real reason as to why you do this is because of your insecurities and not his.
Take a step back and start looking at yourself. Build your own self-esteem up and boost your self-worth. You’ll stop feeling inferior and putting him down.
Start acting like your partner is a hero. Start admiring him and start looking at his great qualities. You’ll be the winner here as this is key in any healthy long-term relationship.

4. Rebuffing your partner

You block him out, don’t speak to him, sulk, and shut him out of your life. This tells him is that you don’t care about him, and that’s not really what you mean.
Learn to talk to him and ask questions. Putting up blocks and expecting him to guess causes a larger divide between you. Write it down if it’s not clear but stop stonewalling him.

5. Focusing on the negative

Are you continually looking for the negative in your relationship, focusing on everything that’s going wrong, that you don’t like, that could be better, what others have and you don’t? This leads to real resentment.
Instead, learn about gratitude. Focus on the positive in your relationship and build on what you have. The negatives will start to seem insignificant.
Talk about your future in a positive way, what your dreams are, and what you would like to achieve together, not what you can’t have or can’t do.


Communication and having conversations are the key part in healthy relationship — focusing on how you start these conversations can change the whole relationship energy.

Relationships are a rollercoaster ride. They are all unique with their own formulas.








huffingtonpost.com/entry/5-things-no-one-ever-told-me-would-destroy-my-marriage_us

Quite educative..........

Mrbolt555:
I rally don't understand it. Is it pussy or just validation or low self esteem. U don't know that when a girl wants you, u don't even need to move a step to get her. Guys r really dumb. Iswear. I'm a guy my self and I find it pitiful. I have bleeped countless girls without a dime nor without a chase. I'm a broke nigga by the way. Ive Never chased a girl in my life and I will never. That is for short men or deformed looking men.

The yeye guy no even fine sef. Just look at his aje kpako face. Now back to your question. When we see a girl we want, we ask her out and that does not mean anything to us. We respect the ladies we relate with and even when they like us we still do the honorable thing to do "Asking them out". By the way, where d
o you stay? Ajegunle? No wonder, that's why you have cheap girls and ladies from the slum go after you. SMH.

Dahkogrin007:
They cheat simply because u can't satisfy a woman












U CANNOT give a woman everything she needs. If God Himself gave them eyebrows but they shave & draw their own. Who are U?

That's correct

PROPHETmichael:
WOMAN WAS CREATED FOR MAN!

That is why a woman's happiness is directly connected to a man.

Any time you see an unhappy woman, you're seeing a woman who is not properly relating to a man.

That is why you must turn a deaf ear to every woman who claims she doesn't need a man.

She's a baldfaced liar!

"Neither was the man created for the woman; but the woman for the man" (1 Corinthians 11:9).

For a woman to say she doesn't need a man is as asinine as a fish claiming it doesn't need water or a plant insisting it doesn't need soil.

Every woman needs a man!

But Western society (dominated by the lies of the Devil) deceive multitudes of women into believing they don't need a man.

And that is precisely why those women oftentimes end up old and single and bitter at the world instead of old and happily married and pampered and protected by their man.

THE WEDDING DAY IS NOT THE WOMAN'S DAY BUT THE MAN

Western society (dominated by the lies of the Devil) deceive multitudes of men and women into thinking that the wedding is the woman's day when in actual fact, it is actually the man's day. It is a day a man invite his family, friends and well wishers to come and celebrate with him for finally locating "the bone of his bones, and flesh of his flesh" Genesis 2:23(which was taken from him). It's like losing your most priced possession and one day you found it, you called your friends saying come and celebrate with me for i have found that which i lost. The wedding day is the day a man calls his friends and well wishers to come and celebrate with him for he has found a good thing "He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord."Proverbs 18:22.

News Flash!!! Traditional marriage is actually the woman's day.



No wonder the Word of God admonishes,

"And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind" (Romans 12:2).

Don't be conformed!

Ladies, don't let your perspective on romance and marriage be shaped and molded by the ungodly heathen of this world and their satanically-inspired points of view.

Allow your thoughts, rather, to flow in harmony with the clear teaching of God's Word.

By doing so, you will find and enjoy the degree of happiness that you both desire and deserve.

Believe the prophet!



EVE BUCKED AGAINST ADAM'S LEADERSHIP BEFORE THE FALL!

Think of that.

While woman was in a state of perfection, yet she elected to operate independently of her husband's leadership.

Indeed, she went and ate from the Forbidden Tree anyway although her husband strictly told her not to.

What kind of rebelliousness, pray tell, do you think woman is now capable of exhibiting towards the headship of her husband since the Fall?

Tremble at the mere thought of it.

Selah!

nice piece

Limitednow:


http://www.socialtimesng.net/2017/04/2015-election-blame-yourself-not-the-north-for-your-failure-ijaw-leaders-tells-jonathan/

Objective assessment from the Ijaw
leaders. GEJ was a good man but the arrogance and corrupt practices common with people working with him brought a resounding defeat in the election.

newbornmacho:
Wife

JANUARY 21, 2012 BY VICTOR PRIDE

You have two options: You will get married or you won't get married. If you will get married then this article is for you. We will not review whether or not you should get married but we will review how to pick the right wife.

Picking the right wife is of utmost importance. Marriage is a life-long commitment and requires a great deal of forethought. Getting married without a plan and without any forethought is a terrible decision.

Getting married is a business decision. Marriage is a contract between two entities. You've got to enter into it with the ruthless mind of a determined businessman for it to work.

You've got to pick the right wife like a businessman picks a company to invest in. It shouldn't be left to chance (“love”) – you've got to be pro-active, know what you want and then go after it.

Marriage isn't about love or connecting with your soul-mate. Those are inventions of TV and movies. Marriage is an exchange of resources. Your wife shall provide A and you will provide B. If your wife doesn't, or won't, provide her share then she should not have the privilege of marriage with you.

Marriage is a contract and you've got to try your hardest to make sure that contract is reinforced. You cannot make the best decision when you're emotionally love-sick like a 16 year old school girl. No businessman who wants to stay in business will sign a contract in an emotional state of mind and no man who wants to stay married will sign all of his power away just because he loves her. It takes rational, clear-headed planning and thinking to pick the right wife material.

There are only two reasons a man should ever get married:

1) He wants to start a family.

2) His career or political ambitions demand he has a wife (he is interested in going into politics). We will not talk about this except to say that a political wife is for show and show only. For this article we will assume the reader falls into the first category.

There is absolutely no other reason to ever get married. Love is not a reason to get married. When you get married you sign all your power over to your wife – it must be of some benefit for you to do so. That benefit is to grow old with your family.

The goals of a marriage should be:

1) Minimize the chance of divorce theft and child robbery.

2) Maximize wife's happiness with her wifely and motherly duties (the complete opposite of everything you will see, read or hear). It's not about empowerment (or any other buzzword designed to kill the traditional family), she should be completely devoted to her family. True happiness for a woman comes from her family, it does not come from her career, or her “independence”, or her sexually liberated point of view.

3) Have a healthy, happy family with well educated, respectful children – non-sissified sons and girlish daughters with strong family values.

Be honest about what you want:

Most men don't want an “independent, empowered” woman. That's code for bitchy slut with a chip on her shoulder.

We all want a sweet, nice, joyful, feminine woman who treats her man like a King.

Bullshitters will suck up to the dregs and say the opposite in a futile attempt to get some action. These poor suckers get shit on the most and never understand why. Hear this gentlemen – women love men who go after what they want, who don't take a woman's BS seriously, and treat her like a woman, not like a man in drag. Women hate suck-ups as much as they hate stepping in dog poop on the street. To a woman, a male suck-up is less than human.

Divorce:

There is no denying that marriage is a very, very bad deal. When you get married you immediately give your wife all the power over your money and your children. “No-fault” divorce really means “his-fault” divorce. If your wife is to decide she wants a divorce she can have all the benefits of being married and none of the drawbacks. Divorce is theft from the man. It's a redistribution of wealth from men to women. She can live off of your paycheck via alimony and child support and she can keep your children and raise them in a single-mother or step-daddy household. She has the complete and full support of Papa Government behind her. In the eyes of the law she can do no wrong and you can do no right. And there is nothing you can do about any of that. That's why you have to choose the right wife in the first place to eliminate much of that risk.

Steps should be taken to minimize the chances of divorce. You must take extra special precaution to choosing the right wife so you can avoid the possibility of a financially devastating and family ruining divorce.

When to get married:

The best time for a man to get married is after 30 years of age. At that age he has had a long time to live life, earn money, think of what he wants in a wife, and settle down a little bit. The ages of 20-30 are the wild years but after the 30 year mark men will tend to settle down. Most men under 30 years of age aren't mature enough to make the best decision about who to spend their life with.

Now remember, 30 years old is the starting age to think of marriage. That doesn't mean you should get married at 30 or by 30. Anytime between 30-45 is a good time to tie the knot. Between the ages of 30-45 is when a man's marriage value is at its highest.

We have spoken about the need for a good woman here. In the following section we will look at how to determine good women from bad women.

The top 12 rules for picking the right wife to maximize a happy life and minimize the chance of divorce…

1) She should be young.

The woman should 30 years of age MAXIMUM. 25 is even better and 20 is the best age.

A woman's body does not age well. You want the most amount of years with your wife having a tight, young, firm body. After 30 it goes downhill fast. At around the age of 31 a woman's beauty really declines fast.

It's a tradeoff, she gives you her good years and you put up with her in her bad years. Never take a woman already in her bad years.

Women do not age well. “Cougars”, older women that younger men find irresistible, are an invention of the movies. Single women over the age of 30 have wasted all their pretty years having a lot of random sex and now they want to find a sucker who will take care of them without having to give him any of her good years. Don't be that sucker.

A young body is especially important for bearing children. Old women cannot have and don't have healthy children. At 30 years of age a woman is already 15 years past her child-bearing prime.

But I like talking to smart women. 20 year olds are stupid.

Her IQ won't grow much with age. A dumb 20 year old is a dumb 30 year old. The difference is that the 30 year old dumb woman is a lot more bitter and has a whole lot less to offer.

2) She has to come from an intact family with original mother and father.

No step-mommies and step-daddies. Children from single mommy homes cannot be healthy. A mother simply cannot raise healthy children alone or with step-daddies. You want an emotionally healthy wife. Women who grew up with divorce have too much baggage, use sluttery as a way to get attention from daddy, and will not know how to act in a proper family setting.

3) She cannot believe in divorce or even imagine getting a divorce.

If she mentions the word ‘divorce', what to do in case of divorce, praises a friend who got a divorce, or says divorce is an option then she is not a keeper. Throw her back in the water and go fishing some more.

To make a marriage work, both the man and wife must think of divorce as no option at all.

4) She must have the natural body type you prefer.

Every woman will gain a few pounds when they settle with a man. It's unavoidable. What is unacceptable is a woman blowing up to whale proportions. If a woman was once very fat, lost the weight on crash diets and ultra-gym sessions, that weight will ALL come back plus more when she gets married.

If she has to constantly diet and go to the gym she is about to blow up like a balloon when the ring is on her finger and the vows are spoken.

You must pick the natural body type you like. That means she must have the same body type her whole life, never yo-yo'ing up or down in weight.

She should have a pretty face. When her body goes the only thing that will be left is her face and you will have to see it every single day.

5) She must be image conscious.

A woman who gets pig-fat after marriage is a disgrace to herself and her family. She must be aware of her image and keep her body trim for you. Women will always gain a few pounds after marriage, but there is a difference between a few pounds and one hundred pounds. Take a look at all the women in her family, if they are all pig-fat it's a good idea to walk away as fast as you can. You will have to see your wife daily, you don't want to be thinking about skinning some bacon off of her back to cook breakfast.

6) She must be family oriented and not career oriented.

This is going to be the mother of your children and the keeper of your house. An Ass-kicker doesn't need two incomes, he can provide, what he needs is a keeper of home and heart.

Two income households leave the raising of their children to expensive day cares and schools, and then mommy goes to work so they can afford to pay for day care and babysitters.

I don't want children.

Don't get married. The only reason to get married is to have a family.

But I want a career woman.

Doesn't matter, even if she is a career woman when you meet she will not be when she is older. No woman wants to work but it takes some of them a long time to figure that out. They waste all their youth playing/working their career and then realize what a huge mistake they made and leave their jobs to take care of their (quite possibly retarded – that's what happens when old ladies have babies) child. How many 45 year old married female lawyers or other professionals do you know?

The women who work in middle age do so because they have no choice and they whine about it every day of their life. They would give anything to leave their jobs and take care of their family instead.

No woman truly wants to work. Work is a man's world and always will be. A woman's work should be in the home taking care of the home and children.

7) She must be a “good” girl.

She cannot be a drinker or a smoker or have any tattoos. She cannot have a party girl past, a sordid past, and she cannot have gone out more than a couple times drinking. You cannot turn a LovePeddler into a housewife. The more sexual partners she has had the more likely the marriage will end in divorce.

Are you saying all party girls, smokers and drinkers are sluts?

Yes.

The fewer sexual partners your wife has had, the better. The ideal wife should be a virgin. Remember: The more sexual partners she has had the more likely you are to be divorced in about 6 years and lose most of your money, possessions, and your children.

If you think she needs help or that you are helping her and she is changing then you are being foolish and you are being played. It's going to end badly for you when you get hitched to a woman like this.

Always pick a good girl. That means a virgin (or close), family oriented, pleasant, eager to help, a smiler, and patient.

She must have no problem signing a pre-nuptial agreement.

A Pre-nup probably won't save you much money, if any, in the case of divorce but her signing a pre-nup does one very important thing for you: it shows you she is serious about making the marriage work.

9) She should change herself for you.

When a woman is in love she will change herself to please and conform toyou. Her new favorite food will become steak and eggs, she will enjoy watching all six Rocky movies with you, and she will do things to please you she has never done or liked before.

I don't want a woman who flip-flops!

A woman who doesn't flip-flop is a woman who does not respect you.

Women are not men and should not be held to the standards of men. A man who changes his views on the whims of a woman is a sissy. A woman who changes her views on the whims of a man is a woman who is in love. She should not be degraded for that because that's what ‘keepers' do.

10) She must look up to you and respect you.

Women marry up and men marry down, since the dawn of marriage. If she looks down on you she will leave with your money and your children. You've got to be a man that she can look up to, admire, love and respect – always.

11) She should not have any children from a previous affair.

In the animal kingdom when a Lion takes over a pride he kills the cubs of other Lions.

Raising someone else's child is cuckoldry with your full knowledge and consent.

If you raise someone else's child you will be taking care of another man's seedling and there will always be another man in the picture.

Be selfish and keep your wife and children to yourself. They should be yours and only yours. Don't settle for another man's leavings and sloppy seconds.

Here is what women with children do: They have unprotected sex with a stud, get knocked up, and look for a sucker to raise the bastard.

or..

She has already been married, had children, and then divorced the father and left.

In each case the woman is unfit for marriage.

12) She should be a smiler.

She should smile when she sees you. Her eyes should light up. She should be excited each time she sees you and reward you with her beautiful smile.

A big, bright shining smile from a pretty girl is worth more than any university degree she has, worth more than any job she has, worth more than any other baloney modern women wrongly believe makes them attractive to men.

You want a happy woman. You don't want a frowning, nagging, pessimistic bride.

Always pick a smiling, warm, happy-go-lucky woman to share your life with.

Things to remember:

American women have been indoctrinated since birth to believe in and embrace divorce. They have been indoctrinated and instructed to believe that their feminine instincts are wrong and bad. This causes a great deal of confusion in their minds and, to put it plainly, many of them are unfit for marriage and raising a family. Especially avoid women who use psychiatric drugs and especially avoid women who go to therapy. Therapy only makes women more insane and teaches them to blame men more for their problems.

Party girls are for fun, good girls are for marriage.

If a woman cannot or will not cook daily, how will she ever care for children? She can't. To raise non-fat children you must marry a woman who can and will cook.

As a man your options do not dwindle as you age. Your options only increase with your age and wealth. Conversely, as a woman ages her options plummet. That's because men age gracefully, like a fine wine, and women age like milk. That's why you must pick a beautiful young lady. It is highly advisable for a man to wait until he is a little older to get married. 30 years of age is an acceptable starting age for a man to start thinking of marriage.

Never, ever take advice from a woman on how to be attractive to women. Be nice, be yourself, be courteous, buy her gifts only works to put you in the friend zone and rightfully so because it's pathetic behavior.

You should avoid women who have a lazy, entitled, “me-first” attitude.

Don't let your wife have complete and utter control of the home decor. You don't want to live in emasculation-station with throw pillows and doilies and dolls and flowers everywhere.

Men are not women and women are not men. Things that women should do do not apply to men and vice versa. Double standards exist. That's life.

You are the leader. She is the follower. Lead her.

When she loves and respects you she will enjoy all things about you. She will not demand and nag you into changing. If you smoke a big fat cigar and your clothes smell like an ashtray she will enjoy the smell. She should want to sleep in one of your shirts because it has your smell. That's the power you should have over your wife for her to be happy and content.

If she's a nagger before marriage then that is a sign you need to give her her walking papers. Nothing is going to get better with marriage, it will only amplify.

Marriage should be old school traditional for it to work. Pick a non-traditional woman and have some baloney non-traditional marriage and you can expect non-traditional results: Alimony payments, child support payments and seeing your children every other weekend.

Never get married just because. Have a purpose and a reason for the things you do.

Getting married is a dangerous proposition – make sure you know how to swim before you dive in head-first.

Dealing with the one who got away:

There are over 3 billion women in the world. The median age for women the entire world over is 29 years old. There are millions of women who are possible marriage material. “She” isn't the one or your soul-mate or other baloney. There are millions just like her. And if she was your soul-mate you'd still be together. Let her go and move on. There are plenty more where she came from.

Personal recommendation from BOLD & DETERMINED to find a suitable wife:

Picking a woman from your own country and culture is always the best solution. Unfortunately, there is wholesale, systematic destruction of marriage and family in many 1st world countries, especially America and England, which has narrowed the options tremendously. One may have a broader selection if he were to go abroad to another country where marriage and family are still valued. But, and this is a big but, think long and hard before you marry a woman of another race and father half-breed children.

Remember, it is best to marry a woman of your culture and race. If that option is unappealing for the reasons described above there is a whole, big, wide world for you to choose from.

Conclusion:

Growing old alone and with no children to carry on your name seems a worse prospect than following this checklist and picking the best wife you can.

Civilization exists because of the nuclear family. Certainly marriage has been tainted in the last 50 years, to the detriment of all, but if you make smart decisions you can cut down your risk tremendously.

If you are going to get married, do it the smart way.

If you aren't going to get married go ahead and have a beer.

Good luck and Godspeed.

Wow!!! One of the best piece I have ever read from nairaland.

queency11:
Tnx to the Op, this is nothing but the truth nd to ladies out there it wl be better for you to take to this advice. Don't and never date a broke guy.

Keep fighting for the few and available 'made men' while the sleep with you and enjoy what you have to offer they will move to the next girl with your kind of mindset.
Do not come here and start saying that men are wicked.
I don tell you my own.

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