post=76485010:
Tho, the video was only audible for the first 4 seconds and went with no audio for the remaining seconds,
We can't say we heard her saying that at this particular time, until we are able to get another clip of this episode.

That being said,
Below is FOOD FOR THOUGHT for TRUE IGBOS of our nation,
Truth is always bitter tho......

(Written 5 months ago)
SOUTH EAST: IS IT NOT TOO LATE?

I have read the recent transmissions by Senator Bukola Saraki directed at my Igbo tribe. I have deliberately kept mum on this as I had earlier resolved to speak less on Igbos as regards the 2019 Elections and 2023 Presidency having said quite a bit. 

However seeing as some of my brethren have swallowed the cheap bait, I will chip this in just to keep the reality before us, at least for posterity sake. Truth is bitter but it's still the best medicine. 

My people say; 'He who does not remember where the rain started beating him, will not remember where it stopped'. 

REWIND TO 2014. 
A new National Party was being conceived. Political Parties, political players and Regions were being wooed to the new alliance. 

'We' Igbos (read South East) vehemently refused to touch it even with a long pole. We packaged, sold to ourselves and bought the baseless propaganda that it was an Islamic alliance that would birth an "Islamic" and "Hausa" Party. Simply because those our brethren heavily invested in the PDP at the time were afraid of losing their vested selfish interests.
Till today I'm still trying to fathom the basis for that wicked and twisted deceit especially as many of those Igbo elites who sold that dummy have since ported to the same APC.

We failed to even identify with that new Alliance. Hence the Party, APC was birthed without any remarkable input from us or presence. The few amongst us who aligned were called all kinds of names and abused to high heavens by us even when they were proven right afterall.

Thus the few Igbos who were part of it were at best fringe players as they didn't have the required clout to make serious demands and do the necessary political wheeling and dealing required in Politics to strike the hard bargains since politics is all about interests and numbers. They were even suspect, so much so that it was only their personal political sagacity that gave them whatever they got.

That Party went on to win the Presidential Election which in truth, most of us never believed it could or would, because of our half baked permutations and poor understanding of Nigerian politics. But it did. 

Curiously we turned up at the fore front of telling this same Party how it should share it's 'spoils of war'. We became hypocritical moral champions with an over bloated sense of entitlement. Who does that, in all political reality and practicality? But we did, even while vehemently and vociferously still refusing to shift our position, style and rhethoric.

We dug in. Supported every bad thing and person against the Party, the elected President and the Administration while denying any and every good done to and for our Region.

Fast forward to where we are today. Almost four years after the 2015 misadventure, we have stayed put at 2015, refusing to move forward, refusing to shift grounds, refusing to play pragmatic politics, telling ourselves the same lies we cooked and bought in 2015 and some more. 

Now barely 5 months to another election, we have started again saying "APC cannot give Presidency to Igbos in 2023". "Buhari cannot hand over to an Igbo man because Buhari hates Igbos". "APC is deceiving you", bla bla bla.

Of course. We will believe Saraki, who has only but a fanthom dream of becoming President and whose only known record is selfishness but we can't believe Buhari who's already President and who has a record of voluntarily picking two great Igbo sons as running mates in the past? Chukwu aju.

It is interesting and vital to note here that the PDP which many of us still proudly support and adore was in power for 16 solid years and in those years there were 4 Presidential Inaugurations and on none of those was an Igbo man found worthy by the PDP of even Vice Presidency and we are still bold to say it is the APC that has not even finished one tenure that doesn't want to give power to Igbos. Odi nma. 

NOW; Seriously, let's be sincere. As things stand today politically, why would the APC even hand power to us Igbos in 2023? 
On what grounds? 
On what records?
On what politics?
Is power given to anyone? 
Is it an appeasement or a gift? 

The APC is a political party. The main focus of a political Party is to hold power and keep it to enable it deliver on its agenda. So if the APC reads that the SE does not want the Presidency or does not have the capacity to help them win and keep power, they will stick with the regions that can and work with individuals who are interested. 

Make no mistake, I have always said, I do not blame us Igbos for the decision majority of us took in 2015. It's our right. But continuing to pretend that it was other regions, Buhari or the APC that made us do what we did then or remain where we are today is purely self deceit and I refuse to play that ostrich game. 

As far back as 2014, I and many others made that argument that Igbo Presidency was very feasible in 2023, ONLY under under the APC, ONLY IF we did a couple of things right politically. I personally continued to speak loudly on that even after the 2015 elections until when I realized that we were not ready to play the politics that was required and now I dare say it may be too late. Or is it not? Time will tell.

For now, we can continue to tell ourselves that we cannot hold the Presidency of Nigeria. I heard and read many of our brethren go from PDP to Biafra/seccesion (read IPOB) to Referendum to "Igbos do not need Presidency but Restructuring" etc forgetting that all that didn't lie squarely with us alone. We think other regions are not reading our body language?

I really don't care what Saraki writes or says because they've all come to realize that it's very easy to play us like a flute. So like Saraki, like Fani Kayode, like Fayose, like Atiku, even Jonah Jang of all people, they keep playing us.

I've learnt not to bother myself anymore to avoid unnecessary abuse from nonentities . As some of us have said, it's good governance we want, even if only one village will be producing the Presidents. So be it.
Ka Chineke mezie okwu. 
Dr Uche

franchasng:
Hmmm, all because of a girl

Why are some guys so dumb

Women are the same. No woman is good or bad. Every woman is good and bad. A woman's good or bad character comes out based on the man she meets.

When a woman or lady meets her dream man, she becomes an angel woman and when she is with a guy she does not like, she becomes a Jezebel!

That bad girl u know is an angel to one guy.

That angel lady u are praising is a Jezebel to one or two guys somewhere!

That girl that is always demanding money and things from u is begging one guy somewhere for love and even using everything she has to please the guy.

That angel Lady u think u have is a witch to some guys somewhere!

So guys stop wasting your time crying for any lady, whenever u are ready to find date or get married, just find any girl that u are attracted to who is completely loyal to you and go for and if she misbehaves, drop her and don't cry about it, and if she drops u, smile and fin another one....all women are the same, just find the one that likes u more than u like her and she will become an angel to please you.


The only things that should make you cry as a man are:


1.) Death of your mother
2.) Death of a dear and valuable sibling
3.) Death of a child (God forbid we bury one)
4.) Loss of crucial political election
5.) Loss of a major business or money deal
6.) Deadly sickness or disease

cold:
Hmmm..you need to take Okafor's Law of Congodynamics into consideration here. For the record, let me just state what the law states...

[b]Okafor's Law of Congodynamics
C 1 P = C ∞

It states that once a Congo has been shined once (C 1 ) , it can always be shined (C ∞ ) provided it was shined properly ( P) the previous times.(emphasis on properly). In other words, "....a woman once knacked, can be reknacked..."
Just like we say "water finds its level"
Which is not exactly how Achimedes narrated his contemplation, of all things floatation.
In scientific circles, opinion is divided as to whether it is actually a law or just a hypothesis. However, there is a large body of evidence to suggest that it is a law but there are others who think it is merely a hypothesis and does not take into account other variables such as M (marital status), O(opportunity) and F (Financial status) of either one or both of the parties.

In lay-mans term what the above jargons simply mean is that.
A hole once drilled, drilled properly even when closed up can always be found and can be drilled forever'
if u have been involved with a girl for a period of time and did a good job in and out of the bedroom (mostly in..), the belief is that u can always go to the girl at any given time and sleep with her again no matter what situation arises (breakups, different lover, etc[/b]..

cptjacksparrow:
Political season is interesting in my country. The way individuals promote their preferred candidate is as if only one person determines the winner. We forget about personalities (candidates) and their party manifesto, their track records. What I can't really figure out is the way educated Nigerians play bias and ethnic politics in chosen their leaders, Omoyele Sowore and Mogelu are begging for our votes but the so called educated Nigerians still prefer old politicians who have failed us before. Nigeria my country, when will our youths be ready to save you from vampires.

Aquariann:
Except she's widowed or a victim of rape (I still wouldn't though), NEVER EVER DATE A SINGLE MUM.

Single Moms are Single Moms because they're bad decision makers and let their emotions lead them into a bad situation. Bad Decision Making is the worst trait a woman could ever have.

Also, there is no woman more manipulative than a Single Mom. Once the kid comes and she realizes just how hard it is to raise it alone, or the fact that her MMV has gone down compared to single ladies without kids, her female manipulative skills goes into overdrive.

Just like in the Op's case, in the beginning they will go out of their way to keep you by providing you with an unlimited supply of great sex, pay for their own drinks when on a date, prepare home cooked meals, and everything that you think you want in a woman. Every word, every act, every moment has a million implications behind it.

And once you finally get to meet the kid(s), you will very slowly be maneuvered into a parental role. Then after a few months things begin to change but by then you are so caught up in her life to realize that you are just a pawn. You begin to get all the baggage and none of the rewards for your sacrifice.

You'll always comes second (and rightly so) to her kid. You will be a de-facto dad with all of the risks and little reward like never really being appreciated by the child. If you say nothing is wrong with this, ask yourself this, would she be willing to fall in behind your kids from another woman? Never make a woman number one in your life when the best you're going to place is behind her kids.

Now don't get this wrong. I love kids and bond well with them. Most guys do. But with kids from a single mom you intend to or are in a relationship with, it's a different thing entirely. If the relationship doesn't work out or you guys have an issue, she'll bad mouth you to the kid(s) and make it seem you abandoned them also like the man they wanted to have the kid with. You just don't want to get yourself in all that mess.

Again, more often you can't correct the kid as the only authority you have over the kids is comes from the mother. You'll hear comments from her like "He's not your kid, Don't touch him or don't correct him like that". You'll simply be looking after Someone else's child to other peoples standards.

And then, there's having the child biological dad (and possibly his family members) to deal with. He'll always be in your lives.

Once, my group of friends went on a picnic. A single mum and her son were with them. A younger friend and member of the group posed with her son and uploaded the pictures on Facebook. The child's dad (another friend of mine) saw the pictures and called this guy to warn and threaten him not to dare take pictures of his son again nor upload such on SM. Now this is someone who's not even in the child's live and had been actually physically abusive to the child's mum which led to the eventual collapse of their relationship.

My younger friend had to call me to explain what happened and to talk to this other guy that he had no interest in the girl which was the hidden intent for the threat.

And don't forget Okafor's law. More often than believable, single moms always end up under the father of their child again and again, perhaps with the believe it can still work out between them.

StarUp:
Malawi, Kenya, South Africa and Tanzania...Na their way.

luminouz:

My bro,i have never given any gf any monthly allowance since I was born and unless she is my wife,no girl will collect that shiit from me...its a relationship,not a job opportunity.. The sooner men realise u overinflate women's egos when u do these 'allowance' thingies,the better...Don't u see Women are either wired for love or for materialistic gains....u deceive ursef when u think women equate the two...she either truly loves u or she is in it for the money.....
What dafuq is that rubbish statement...'taking care of me as my bf' when she couldn't visit u in Ibadan after Ur accident... What if you died She wouldn't ever give a damn.....Like a poster said above,learn to control ur woman.....be in charge, women are like lionesses...they respect strength,will and power....the moment u show weakness(being too nice,stop taking charge, being predictable,less mysterious,dull) they take over and take you for granted. If only men understood women like I do,the world would be way easier for us to live in.... No matter how pretty she is, a Lich Queen (leech mama) can never get my attention... U need to have something to offer as a woman(intellectually, hardworking, insightful, diligent and so on) before I even look at you... We are supposed to be MEN not he-goats controlled by sex and pheromones....

Until Men start acting like they are men,women will continue to use reverse psychology, click-bait technique and emotional blackmail to make men sissies....I watched a lion documentary of what happened to an old lion who couldn't control his pride...I could literally see the disgust on the faces of d lionesses,they booed him off,shooed him off, chase him round like a little bitch and force him to eat last over a meal...it was the most pathetic thing I have ever seen...they literally killed him themselves (allowing a new male to enter the pride and chase the oldie away,he died the next day from his battle wounds). It taught me a monumental lesson ...no matter what they say,women respect an Alpha,a male in control,it drives them insane and keeps them in check...u lose ur will,u lose their respect...so learn to say No to her demands,keep her guessing,be mysterious,being too nice to women(even the ones who love u truly) translates to weakness.....u were made by evolution to lead,be in control, take charge... Not begging her to 'manage' 25k as if she be Angel Gabriel when she hasn't even given u a kobo since u knew her....or buying her IphoneX cuz she asked for it(of cuz she might have used the line ' a bf must cater for his gf') as if u be her fada. I see some stuffs men do and i wonder whether I'm alone around here with some senses left...u already made her feel like the MAN in the relationship,so she took charge!!

Conclusion:

So,never ever ever ever kowtow or sissify ursef cuz of a woman...be an Alpha.. Be in charge..and watch while they beat themselves up to gain ur attention(money or no money)

#Luminouznuggets#

ojmaroni247:
No. Location?

Rexhenrex:
There are 5 reasons.
1,some women are trouble if u marry them then u are finished because they will kill you by giving you high b.p. And nag you to death.

2,responsible women are scarce.this days, some ladies even brag about there sexcapedes with conviction and vigour.guys like such ladies very well just to flirt with them,but not to marry them if u doubt me ask around..
You too get sense.

3,ladies want people like *bill gates* they want you be carrying money on ur head before the agree. i swear you go dry because he will treat you like rag.he doesn't need to be too rich for u to say yes bae,just make sure he has a planned future.

4,because guys see marriage as a bondage so they wanna continue flirting...

5,because ladies want a perfect man.which is unpossible no i mean impossible

6,last but not the least, because of this pics below ...with this few points of mine i hope you are confused and not convince of the reasons stated to answer the aforementioned question...

LesbianBoy:
Ini Edo and abroad guys though!

pwettyeddy:



A real man never quits a relationship. He must be thinking of keeping her for a reason. Maybe the sex is mind blowing, hot, sweaty and leaving him panting, gasping for breath and wanting more.

If I were you, don't sack her just yet. This is the right time to reply all her messages with no words spoken.
Encourage her life style, but move on without letting her go.

What I simply mean is that you are in her club, cos obviously has control over you at this time.

So technically go back to the open market and look for a good wing man to sign. Bench her and revoke some of her security clearance.
If she has a key to your house, change your locks. If she retained the right of sleeping over for the entire weekend, downgrade her to overnight sleepover, she leaves at daybreak.
No more homely duties especially cooking your meals and laundry.
Or outrighly downgrade her to a day visitor. Come Bleep go. No hard feelings.
If she still does not get the message, invite your new wing man and have her come face the greatest shock of her life.

Battle won with words unspoken. And no sweat lost. That was how my hubby clipped my wings and I wasn't even a wide girl. I was a church girl and he sent this message that I needed to sit up and balance things. Though I later returned the favour with prayers that got him hook up in the church till date. Cos he was a damn wild. Thank goodness he is changed now

spiritedtete:
Where are you... Come here for a slap... To reset your senses. You have lost it bro.

Rule No1. Never fall in love

Rule no 2. Your decision should set you straight

Rule no 3. Learn to get distracted..( girls are all over)

Rule no 4. No commitment until marriage. (Learn to always sink it in them you will see their true colour)

Rule no 5. woe is onto a man who wakes up early in his life and put a lady's issue in his heart.

Rule no. 6 please never find yourself in love .... I repeat be a man and be in control of your emotions.

Rule no. 7. There is no time... (No time for bla bla at all, you have got loads to do to fulfill destiny )


Rule no 8. You are not the only one your single girl is fuçking.
Get that straight.

(No matter how committed a woman is.. when she sees.. money .. fame or power... she will sit down and be humble. Forget about you for that moment)

One of the lessons from my dad. "Never! Never!! promise a woman love.. especially when you are still single"

Staceyjohnsn:
Hi,

Please I need some information.

I’m from London. My boyfriend and I were both living in London until he was deported back to Nigeria. We dated for 2 years so due to love we continued dating. We eventually got married two years later in a registry in Nigeria. I was willing to move to Nigeria permanently and forget about London completely. It was time to do the traditional marriage now, he said he’s not doing anymore. Long story short he has the marriage certificate with him in Nigeria. He said he will just tear it up and that’s that and no1 will ever believe me without the certificate that we are legally married.
Obviously I need to one day move on with my life, by Gods grace and remarry. I’m only 26, I cannot come and die because of one man. I don’t want to deal with this issue when I have someone new etc. I don’t want to comit polygamy as that is highly illegal in the UK. Personally, I cannot date another man while I’m legally married. Ko make sense.
Does anyone know how I can obtain a copy of the marriage certificate myself in order to proceed with a legal divorce?
In the UK you can look up marriages online, is there a website for Nigerian marriage information to be looked up online?
Please help me because if you understand the heartbreak I’m going through right now, you will cry for me.
I jus want to begin to legally escape this situation and move on with my life.

vickayo:
From Gistvic.com

Popular Indian actress and former Miss world Priyanka Chopra weds America singer and song writer, Nick Jonas.

Nick Jonas and Priyanka Chopra's first official wedding photos and other photos have been unveiled by showing the happy couple at both their

Christian and Hindu ceremonies in Jodhpur over the weekend.

See photos from the event:

Source: https://www.gistvic.com/2018/12/see-cute-wedding-photos-of-actress.html

Saffi:
I don’t care

WaffenSS:


Oh yeah

See the flower girl at the bottom left

elyna:
January 3rd

ferociouz:
Dear NLs, I need a car that's within the above range. I intend giving it to an elderly couple that desperately needs mobility. Thanks.

zicoraads:
See them :- I know her type all too well. Check at the start of this thread, some of them are commenting already. They hardly ever realize time is going. They slay and do all sorts of whatnot. Even at the time the husband was staring them in the eyes, they'll miss it. Follow the one with no ambition or focus. Get a child out of wedlock. When the nights become lonely, that's when they'll realize everything they were chasing was vanity.

The need to settle down suddenly becomes a must.

CaaseStudy:
see my guyooo. Dubey don blow like play play...


Atiku/Obi all the way........

jd3trice:
Ac in good condition?

nho4:
Sorry to say young man but obviously you are a fool....same thing goes to any young man out there undergoing emotional trauma all in the name of keeping a girlfriend.

To hell with ladies and those dating them.
Why must you subject yourself to such emotional agony just because of a mere lady you are senior to with almost 6 years and you are here crying like a sissy.

I will never encourage my worse enemy to go into what you guys call girlfriend relationship that turns men into puppets.

Dating is a way of placing yourself under emotional slavery. Your Heart and mind keep bleeding at all time and before you realizes what is going on you will start battling with one health issue or the other all because of nothing.

Look at the rate at which our men are dying and the cause is directly and indirectly due to the fact that they want to please women and that is why women have taken advantage of us.
Women should be the one begging us to date them and not the other way round.

I once dated a lady who thought she was doing me a favour for dating me...the moment I realised it, I simply placed her where she belonged by severing myself from her.... When she realized it, she was now the one forcing herself on me and she was trying to get me back but it was too late for her because my mind was already made up to be single and happy....that was the best decision I ever made in my life and I never regretted it till this moment.



Men have become almost nothing in the hands of women and yet vast majority of our young men are thronging in the wrong direction all in the name of love that doesn't exist.

Believe it or not" Love doesn't exist between girlfriend and boyfriend.

Real love only exists between mother and child...

I bet you the number one reason our young men, including you allow yourselves to be traumatized emotionally is simply because of sex.

You don't need to have a girlfriend before you can have sex with ladies.

Instead of killing yourself emotionally dump that girl and be free, because you were born free...don't allow anybody to put you in bondage all because of sex you can get easily.

I don't do relationships or dates and I am the happiest person all because I am free emotionally.... I sleep like a baby without having to worry if my partner is cheating on me because I have no fucking girlfriend.

Each time sexual urge comes in, I simply walk down to the nearest ASHAWO JOINT in my vicinity to ease off the urge with just N1000, and I am relaxed. I am in control of my happiness and not any fucking lady.

I am in control of females around me because they can't control me with their pussies and they have regard for me....because I don't own them a dime.

If you don't belittle yourself as a man all because of sex, women will respect you...but is unfortunate that most of our young men have reduced themselves to power zero in the hands of ladies just because of sex.

All I can tell you is that you own the key to your happiness...

wink2015:
It is only in Nigeria we see all this rubbish.

In Nigeria today, Bsc and HND degree dichotomy has been dragged by both politicians, educationist, and the citizenry for years.

If you do not want to scrap HND and replace it with Bachelor in Technology then make HND and BSC to enjoy the same status.

Back to the main topic, MBBS and Medical Laboratory Technology dichotomy.

Donshaga:
Beautiful women easily bullshit one gullible guy after another and they’ll automatically assume they can fool you too.

It’s MUCH BETTER to hurt her feelings, call her out on her bad behavior, and risk her never talking to you again than it is to be the gullible, nice guy, and fool she thinks you are.

In this short article you'll discover the #9 Signs She's Playing Games & Not Serious About You.

All right, Let's roll...

#1. She Never Calls or Texts First:-
When you’re texting and calling first and she never takes the initiative to be the first to text or call, you’re wasting your time. You’re allowing her to treat you in a way that is less than you deserve. Just because she texts back or answers when you call doesn’t mean you have to be OK with it.

When she KNOWS she doesn’t have to make an effort because you’re going to keep calling and texting first, it strokes her ego and makes her feel better about herself.


#2. She Only Calls and Texts When She Needs a Favor:-
Women “use” guys for drinks, rides, and “help” with things they can do themselves. Once you’ve helped them, they magically disappear.

You may think helping her out is the “nice” thing to do, but you have be smart enough to recognize when “helping her” becomes a pattern, you’re getting nothing in return, and she says things like, “Aww you’re so sweet and such a great friend!”

#3 She Constantly Talks About Ex-Boyfriends:-
It’s obvious when she’s seeing you but still involved with her ex.
If she was actually interested in you and care about losing you, she wouldn’t “risk” talking about her exes too much. But if she always talks about how “mad” or “irritated” her exes make her, then you should tell her to contact you once she’s “over” her exes, not under them.

#4 She Chooses Her Girlfriends Over You:-
When you’re low-priority in her life and ALWAYS choose her girlfriends over you, she’s playing games.

Once in a while, it’s no big deal. It’s good to let her have fun with her friends without being a control freak, feeling left out, and feeling like you need to be part of the fun. Encourage her to go out and have a girls night.

But if you’ve known her for a while and she’s choosing her girlfriends over you more than 50% of the time, then you need to confront the problem or walk away.

#5. She Says You’re Just Her “Friend”:-
When she pulls the “we’re just friends” nonsense, that’s when it’s time to shut down your feelings and emotions for her. It’s clear she’s not into you the way you’re into her.

Start seeing other women and if she has a problem with it, tell her, “But we’re just ‘friends’, remember?”
Don’t play the “friends” game with anyone. Don’t allow women to friend zone you.

#6 She Always Needs “Time”:-
When she acts interested but always refuses to advance the relationship because she needs “time”, give her all the time she wants – meaning that you’re not going to waste your time “waiting” for her.

Simply tell her, “Take all the time you need. I’ll be over here dating these other women until you can learn how to make decisions like a grown up.”

#7 She’s Always Busy:-
When she’s always too busy for you, the solution is very simple – you’re, all of a sudden, too busy for her as well. Two can play that game. If you’re not worth her time, she’s not worth YOUR time. Don’t make it complicated.
She says, “I’m sorry. I can’t. I’m just very busy.” and you reply with, “OK. That works perfect. I’m too busy for people who are too busy for me.”

#8. She Won’t Take Pictures with You:-
She’s either embarrassed to be seen with you or there’s some guy she doesn’t want seeing your pictures with her. Awesome stuff.


#9 She Keeps Cancelling Plans and Dates:-
When women are actually interested, they don’t break plans. If she’s cancelling but keeps agreeing to go out, she’s playing games and wasting your time.

If she cancels more than 2 times, just tell her you’re no longer interested – it’ll get her attention very fast.
Stop with the “Ok, that’s fine.”, “No problem”, and “I understand…” responses when she keeps cancelling. Have some respect for yourself and tolerate anyone wasting your time.


Conclusion

When she’s playing games and you’ve had enough, you shouldn’t have to spell it out for her. If she’s smart enough to know how to play games, she’s smart enough to see the obvious signs that you’ve figured out what she’s doing.

When you stop calling, texting, and seeing her, your ACTIONS should communicate, loud and clear, that you’re not as dumb and a mugu as other guys, you’re not cool with it, and she’s wasting your time.

- Chris Uzor


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Tracypacy:
Marriage is not something you manage If you are already walking on egg shells when you are with him, don't marry o. I have been there and its not a good experience. He constantly reminded me that his mother had over 8 children and suffered alone to train them and do house chores
just because i told him we will require a house help since I won't be doing domestic chores everyday whenever I have a full production week. He lacked communication skills and instead of telling me when I offend him. He will rather carry grudges like satan and punish me emotionally. I will beg for my sins and the sins of the world.Which man in love ignores 39 missed calls from a woman he claims to love ? . He had a 9 year old daughter and hid it from me.I found out in the most casual and painful way.I would have treated that child like my daughter,but why hide it from me?. I talked about him running a genotype test because I am AS and since he claims AA when he said he used to be AS ,ain't it better,we redo a test in another hospital?.

He preferred to call off the wedding plans. No matter how you try to make up excuses with love. An abuser is an abuser. I was engaged, my friends were happy but I was miserable.I lacked peace of mind. Should marriage be this way ? I never enter and e be like this?. I didn't have a dime.I was dependent on him and the little money I got from sewing for people. I thought about starting all over again and it affected my self esteem. I was a depressed bitter woman. When he left,I was bitter, little did I know that It was God who saved me from an impending doom. Not everyone will be lucky. Maybe I would have been a single mother with a child and no penny in her account.

Single woman, Hear me!...Never settle for less .... I may not have a man now to call my own but I am happy!..very happy!
My parents do not lack,even though daddy is retired ....I take care of them and I ensure everyone is catered for. .. I once asked him if he will ever relocate to my location if I had a good job that fetches money more than he does,he said NEVER!. Most men in their quest for headship lose out.
You earn 30k in Abuja and wifey earns 500k in Lagos, so wife will resign to join you and your miserable 30k because you are the HUSBAND and HEAD. Arth thou not a FOOL?.

Now the EX is regretting,he said he hasn't found a woman like me and I assured him he will never find. My type is LIMITED EDITION. We are scarce and not just for any man. I AM A GOOD WOMAN, AN ASSET TO ANY MAN provided he treats me right, yes,ask GOD, he knows this too.So ladies,love with sense,peace of mind is what money can never buy. Na me talk am. If he is rich and treats you like shit, he is not worthy to be called a husband. If he is poor and doesn't treat you well, I pity your condition because even when he makes the money, you won't be treated well. If his family doesn't like you, don't marry him,you will be miserable. There is a lot I wanna say but this pos
Wait,let the biological clock tick.
Wait for a good man to come ...don't marry a wicked person to pepper your friends.
Don't marry a selfish man who thinks about his family only. If my husband cannot care for my family the same way I will care for his own family ,then he doesn't deserve me. Note that there is no perfect man. but at least be sure he falls into what you desire in a man.
Don't ever make a mistake of thinking he will change when you marry him ..You are not the holy spirit..
MARITAL MISTAKE CAN LEAD vONE TO AN EARLY GRAVE