Teewhy2: only a dumb person knows this won't be the end. apart from politics, even in a corporate environment say for example you are a senior manager in Glo but you are telling your Board chairman and anyone who cares to listen that your loyalty is with a senior member who moved to MTN and you like the way MTN is going about their business but instead of you to resign in GLO and seek employment in MTN, you are still looking for promotion in GLO do you think that the board won't do anything to frustrate you to resign even when they know that their hands are tied to sack you. You can not be working in Total and want to be collecting salary in Chevron. ko le work.
ritylove: She said she can't stay with her sister husband, I then told her to come to my place and stay, she agreed.
You Never Had Good Intention's Towards Her From The Day She Stepped Foot Into Your Home,Some Girls Are Just So Dumb
Now After Fvcking Her To Exhaustion For 3months And Counting Your Finally Tired Of Her, And Want Space To Deceive Another Innocent Girl Now Your On NAIRALAND And Want Opinion On How To Get Rid Of Her Like She's A Piece Of Trash
Congratulation On Your Newly wedded Wife She's Going No Where
I Just Wish I Could Meet You Personally And Punch You On Your Face You Scum...
hayoakins: I was privileged to interview about about 15 applicants with 1 - 6 years post NYSC experience for a role. My take away include:
Years of experience is just a number - out of the applicants, the applicant with 1 year experience was better exposed, sound and suitable because he had worked with companies that had exposed him to several scenarios than entities that just pay you salaries for warming the chairs. I can tell if you are speaking based on book knowledge or experience and exposure.
Disregard the high unemployment rate, with time you can get your dream job without a godfather - the employment rate in Nigeria is still very high but the competition is extremely low. If you are truly sound, you will get that job as over 90% of applicants are jokers and uncompetitive; they are graduates but not for this jet-age.
When you go for an interview and meet people with Stanford degrees, don't hide and disqualify yourself even if all you got is a HND - majority of the applicants cannot defend their certificates. Be hungry, be ambitious and seek for knowledge. Your dream for a dream job is valid, you can achieve it if you distinguish yourself.
If you want to practice in a regulated field e.g Accounting, HR, Law et al, seek professional qualification before running off to bag an MBA/MSC - I interviewed for a finance role and one key learning points that was visible to the blind and audible to deaf was that applicants who were not even chartered accountants but had only passed a stage of ICAN examinations spoke like professionals and gave reasonable assumptions to practical questions. They could to an extent think out financial ideas and solutions.
During internships and post NYSC, don't settle for the pay cheque, settle for the experience and exposure - majority of the applicants had years of experience without real experience in the years. First hustle for experience and exposure (2Es), money will come knocking when you are fully loaded with the 2Es.
Spend more time learning soft skills and less time with snapchat filters, whatsapp updates - no matter your field, learn how to use Microsoft office's Word, PowerPoint and Excel. You don't have to be an expert, learn beyond the basics. For financial enthusiasts, learn beyond Excel's SUM function, know how to use Pivot table at least.
In conclusion, applicants should learn to own the interview session; speak like you are gisting with your mom, dad, pastor and not a "god". Be lively, laugh (it makes you human). I used to be an introvert but in interviews, I take charge as the applicant; I laugh. I remember tears "loading" in my eyes a few yearsago before a panel of an oil and gas company when they told me I was the best so far but overqualified for the role (who overqualication help Sir? Mr. Panelist, give me this mountain [job]). They gave me a referral to another company but I don't just apply to any company.
It is your stage not the panelist's, don't just perform like most musical artists, entertain, be hungry, be ambitious. You can land that dream job.
I am very hurt. My wedding was supposed to take place last Saturday but it was called off without any explanation.
I met my man through my mother’s friend based aboard three years ago. We had our marriage introduction 2016 and we planned the wedding for April 2017 but sister was like we should postpone it reason is that for the brother to come down to Nigeria that the UK embassy don’t take absent of a spouse because they wanted to do it in his absent.
He begged me to wait that I should please bear with him it was not easy for me because already I have told people about my wedding and the date.
My ex has four sisters and they are kind of very close so involved them in everything he wants to do which I don’t have problem with that.His mum accepted me and me I love her took care of her like my mother even the sister who is out of marriage is staying with her mum with four children I love her too.
Fast forward to when the date was pick which is 25 of August that we started having issues.
It was his sisters that shopped for my wedding things which I complain that I don’t like the color ,they said the list I gave them was too expensive which is the hall and food ,I got a hall of #160 they got a hall of #300k near their house not even the bride side I never complain ,they said after the wedding I will stay with mother in law and sister which I said no due to distance and the nature of my work.
The worst of all that happened is that my ex was telling his sisters every thing we discussed both the argument and my chat he was forwarding it to them. His sister in Nigeria was telling them all manners of lies against me and they believed her.
They put pressure and fear on him not to marry me he has to call off the wedding after buying things for the wedding. He is around in Nigeria now and I try to see him but his family are refusing me seeing him because I don’t have his Nigeria ‘s no.
I was told that he said he love me but he scared based on what they told him. That I am not a wife material. That I will control him and drive him out because he stays in US.
My mother has been begging them but they refuse to listen. He even blocked me since then. His cousin told me they already found another girl for him.
What do I do,I dated this guy for three years. I love him. I already have done introduction. Everybody knows I am supposed to be getting married. The scandal is killing my parents.If this guy still loves me,how do I win him back? He never gave a chance to explain myself. What did I do wrong?
Or should I really move on? After three years? Where do I start from?
I have read the recent transmissions by Senator Bukola Saraki directed at my Igbo tribe. I have deliberately kept mum on this as I had earlier resolved to speak less on Igbos as regards the 2019 Elections and 2023 Presidency having said quite a bit.
However seeing as some of my brethren have swallowed the cheap bait, I will chip this in just to keep the reality before us, at least for posterity sake. Truth is bitter but it's still the best medicine.
My people say; 'He who does not remember where the rain started beating him, will not remember where it stopped'.
REWIND TO 2014. A new National Party was being conceived. Political Parties, political players and Regions were being wooed to the new alliance.
'We' Igbos (read South East) vehemently refused to touch it even with a long pole. We packaged, sold to ourselves and bought the baseless propaganda that it was an Islamic alliance that would birth an "Islamic" and "Hausa" Party. Simply because those our brethren heavily invested in the PDP at the time were afraid of losing their vested selfish interests. Till today I'm still trying to fathom the basis for that wicked and twisted deceit especially as many of those Igbo elites who sold that dummy have since ported to the same APC.
We failed to even identify with that new Alliance. Hence the Party, APC was birthed without any remarkable input from us or presence. The few amongst us who aligned were called all kinds of names and abused to high heavens by us even when they were proven right afterall.
Thus the few Igbos who were part of it were at best fringe players as they didn't have the required clout to make serious demands and do the necessary political wheeling and dealing required in Politics to strike the hard bargains since politics is all about interests and numbers. They were even suspect, so much so that it was only their personal political sagacity that gave them whatever they got.
That Party went on to win the Presidential Election which in truth, most of us never believed it could or would, because of our half baked permutations and poor understanding of Nigerian politics. But it did.
Curiously we turned up at the fore front of telling this same Party how it should share it's 'spoils of war'. We became hypocritical moral champions with an over bloated sense of entitlement. Who does that, in all political reality and practicality? But we did, even while vehemently and vociferously still refusing to shift our position, style and rhethoric.
We dug in. Supported every bad thing and person against the Party, the elected President and the Administration while denying any and every good done to and for our Region.
Fast forward to where we are today. Almost four years after the 2015 misadventure, we have stayed put at 2015, refusing to move forward, refusing to shift grounds, refusing to play pragmatic politics, telling ourselves the same lies we cooked and bought in 2015 and some more.
Now barely 5 months to another election, we have started again saying "APC cannot give Presidency to Igbos in 2023". "Buhari cannot hand over to an Igbo man because Buhari hates Igbos". "APC is deceiving you", bla bla bla.
Of course. We will believe Saraki, who has only but a fanthom dream of becoming President and whose only known record is selfishness but we can't believe Buhari who's already President and who has a record of voluntarily picking two great Igbo sons as running mates in the past? Chukwu aju.
It is interesting and vital to note here that the PDP which many of us still proudly support and adore was in power for 16 solid years and in those years there were 4 Presidential Inaugurations and on none of those was an Igbo man found worthy by the PDP of even Vice Presidency and we are still bold to say it is the APC that has not even finished one tenure that doesn't want to give power to Igbos. Odi nma.
NOW; Seriously, let's be sincere. As things stand today politically, why would the APC even hand power to us Igbos in 2023? On what grounds? On what records? On what politics? Is power given to anyone? Is it an appeasement or a gift?
The APC is a political party. The main focus of a political Party is to hold power and keep it to enable it deliver on its agenda. So if the APC reads that the SE does not want the Presidency or does not have the capacity to help them win and keep power, they will stick with the regions that can and work with individuals who are interested.
Make no mistake, I have always said, I do not blame us Igbos for the decision majority of us took in 2015. It's our right. But continuing to pretend that it was other regions, Buhari or the APC that made us do what we did then or remain where we are today is purely self deceit and I refuse to play that ostrich game.
As far back as 2014, I and many others made that argument that Igbo Presidency was very feasible in 2023, ONLY under under the APC, ONLY IF we did a couple of things right politically. I personally continued to speak loudly on that even after the 2015 elections until when I realized that we were not ready to play the politics that was required and now I dare say it may be too late. Or is it not? Time will tell.
For now, we can continue to tell ourselves that we cannot hold the Presidency of Nigeria. I heard and read many of our brethren go from PDP to Biafra/seccesion (read IPOB) to Referendum to "Igbos do not need Presidency but Restructuring" etc forgetting that all that didn't lie squarely with us alone. We think other regions are not reading our body language?
I really don't care what Saraki writes or says because they've all come to realize that it's very easy to play us like a flute. So like Saraki, like Fani Kayode, like Fayose, like Atiku, even Jonah Jang of all people, they keep playing us.
I've learnt not to bother myself anymore to avoid unnecessary abuse from nonentities . As some of us have said, it's good governance we want, even if only one village will be producing the Presidents. So be it.
Ka Chineke mezie okwu.
(c) Dr Uche Diala
You are a true son of your father. You are blessed.
ItsMeAboki: They thought they could use religion and ethnicity, so they whipped up sentiments using alleged herdsmen killings and their biased media reporting to turn the ppl against PMB; they also recruited CAN and rouge pastors to preach hate and disunity in their churches; now that the dust is over and Nigerians can see clearly; both Christians and Muslims, northerners and southerners are registering and reserving their PVCs not to vote PMB out (as they planned) but to vote him back in order to ensure he returns to continue the good work he started.
Sai Baba, no shaking, till 2023 - PDP looters and hateful IPOB can go and drink raw acid if they like because PMB is going nowhere.
iClef: Sorry, Sir. The reason you're being attacked is because you're talking like a married man and this post is meant to be posted on family section.
My advice is: use the cummulated money and setup a side business for her. Profit from the business can be used to maintain the home. When you start acting too responsible and bumping a woman money, you're training her for a disaster in the future.
A woman who has seen money will always want to see more money just as woman who has tasted a great bedmatician and has gotten an orgasm from him will always want more. If the bedmatician is not around, she'll look for another one because she needs to taste that thing "orgasm" again.
The day or month you'll not give after a brief quarrel is the month she'll go looking for that "monthly salary" you used to pay her from another man despite her working for her own money.
Na una dey carry una hand spoil una marriages while trying to act like real men who take care of their families.
Before a man should get into marriage, he should study how women work, but most men never do it and we always await their marriage disasters or epistles on front-page.
My wife this, my wife that — I trusted her, I did this for her, I gave her the whole world, I gave her all she wanted, she never lacked, she never this, I treated her like a queen, etc. but she did this to me — blah blah blah.
I don't wish married people bad, but I don't pity married men who think money is all they need to keep a woman or a home and with this, they refuse to learn how women work and focus all their lives on just money.
Money is good, but a millionaire who knows how women work is better than a billionaire who doesn't.
post=70457812: PRESIDENT MUHAMMADU BUHARI.. WHY?? We will tell you the reasons too.
(Beware: Long post ALERT! This article talking about the reasons we will vote for Buhari over and over again is ONLY for The people that support the President and some other people that are not yet decided on who to vote for. But for wailers, lovers of corruption, children of hate, supporters of thieves and evil politicians, children of perdition that curse the President 24/7, this post is not for you, just scroll down to the next comment, so you won't develop migraine before you read it halfway.... you are WARNED!) NOW, let's go there lovers of Nigeria........
The corrupt people that don't want President Buhari to be President are wailing, kicking and screaming. Mournfully so. The days of their rustication from power will be extended, and they can't bear it. Doomsday is elongated, doors to freebies shut again. They are quite vocal, but much smaller in number, and the elections next year will so prove. There's still plenty where the bloody nose of 2015 came from.
Now, despite the challenges in the country (and very many of them), from Enugu to Borno, Benue to Zamfara, Oke Ogun farmlands in Oyo to Mambilla in Taraba, Plateau to Edo/Delta, virtually everywhere, why is President Buhari still the man to beat? That is the purpose of this piece.
Some of the challenges in the country are genuine. Some others are orchestrated by those the President would say are playing "irresponsible politics." For such people, they would first urinate inside the well they want to draw drinking water from. They would gladly step into power, treading on skulls and crossbones, and on the flowing blood of innumerable countrymen. Ogres! But Nigerians are wiser. They know those who are serving them, and who wish to serve more for altruistic reasons. They also know those who just want to grab power, so that the country can return to business as usual, and their snouts can be dipped in the honeypot once again.
I'll vote for President Buhari over and over, again and again, because he can be trusted. You can trust him with the resources of the country. He won't filch them. You can trust him with power. He won't misuse it. You can trust him with the well being of the land, he cares. I remember one night, I had gone to the residence to see the President. It was about 8 p.m, and there were just two of us in the waiting room. The other elderly fellow has held power at very senior levels in the country. He had even aspired for the highest office in the land. So, he knows what he's talking about.
He told me: "Look at this sprawling place. Just two of us waiting to see the President. It didn't use to be like this. Up to 3 a.m daily, the place used to be like a market, filled with men, women from within and outside the country. They would come to seal all kinds of deals on petroleum, power, transport, iron and steel, and all others. And of course, the President and his household would always have a cut. The wheeler-dealers would also have their cut. Who dares approach this President with such proposals? That is why you see so much sanity here."
A President who won't sell our collective patrimony while the rest of the country is sleeping. That's the one I want. And we all know that man.
Accountability is another reason. Under some presidents, the rich gets richer, while the poor gets prison. Not under Buhari. The resources of the country are for the people of the country. Greatest good to the greatest number of people. The last administration (we won't and can't stop talking about them, never!) sat over resources in billions of dollars. Oil prices hit $140 dollars per barrel under their watch, and stabilized at about $100-110 for a number of years. They met our foreign reserves at $62 billion. When they left, it was just $29.6, yet oil prices had hit the rooftops. What happened? Thievery. Today, with oil prices having dropped to about $30 per barrel in 2015, and now oscillating between 60 and 70 dollars per barrel, our reserves have hit $47 billion, and still growing. Prudence. Transparency. Resourcefulness. Accountability. Will I then exchange this type of government for another? That would mean willful blindness, after our sights had been amazingly restored. That would mean willful backsliding into perdition, after we had been wonderfully saved.
Still talking of accountability, you must have heard of the billions and trillions of naira that accrued to government from agencies like Customs, Federal Inland Revenue Service, NIMASA, JAMB, and many others in recent times. These agencies are not newly created. So, what happened to revenues they made in the past? Your guess is as good as mine. Will I then leave terra firma for terra incognita? God forbid! Because an accountable man is in the driver's seat, the virtue is now flowing downwards.
Elections are coming. And there's no need to fear. Why? Because the will of Nigerians will not be subverted. Never! A President once told us in this country that the coming polls would be do or die. Not with President Buhari. Fair is fair. No foul play. Under his watch, his political party, the All Progressives Congress (APC) has lost gubernatorial elections in Bayelsa and Anambra states. At the last Council of States meeting, Gov Willie Obiano publicly registered his appreciation to President Buhari, for the level playing ground he made available during the election in his state. With do or die apostles, and a certain political party in power, such would never happen. Not with their garrison mentality. All states are territories that must be conquered, willy-nilly.
APC has won gubernatorial positions under Buhari in Kogi, Ondo Edo and Ekiti states. The victories were fair and square. The party lost in Bayelsa and Anambra. This President would never manipulate victory for anyone, not even his own party. And you ask me not to trust him? I will, and no mistake.
Global respect. That is what Nigeria has today. I've accompanied President Buhari to over 30 countries in about three years. And he has been resetting the buttons, relaying the foundation of relationships with those countries. And how the leaders respect him. And they say it. Barrack Obama, the then American President said the Nigerian leader came to his job with a "reputation of integrity." At another time, while introducing our President to the Canadian Prime Minister, Justin Trudeau, he said:"Meet the Nigerian President, who is doing a very good job." And the latter concurred.
In Britain, when David Cameron was Prime Minister, he had made a faux pas when he named Nigeria and some other countries as being "fantastically corrupt." And who rose in defence of the Nigerian leader? The Archbishop of Canterbury, His Grace Justin Welby, who said; "but this particular President is not corrupt." And you ask me to throw away such President when he still wants another term? I'll vote for him again and again, no matter what naysayers claim.
What of the personal virtues? I sit with him, speak with him, and I know. Discipline. Simplicity. Love of country. Lack of greed. A heart for the poor and downtrodden. A realization of the ephemeralness of power, and of life itself. These are things that resonate in his speeches. They don't make them like this anymore. And then, I should prematurely jettison the one I have? Even the Heavens will hold a people who take such decision in derision.
Some people ask; where are the achievements? Well, if they are of such mindset, unfortunately they can't be helped. We don't have the authority to mix spittle with clay, put on their eyes, and direct them to go to Siloam pool, wash, and come back seeing. Once anybody decides to be willfully blind, no matter what you push in front of his eyes, he wouldn't see. If he decides to be willfully deaf, even if there are thunder peals by his ears, he won't hear. Those of us that manage the media of the President put all the activities and achievements in the public domain. They claim not to know. Good luck to them. Those who know, really know. And they are the millions who will stand by the President any day. Strides in security, agriculture, anti-corruption, infrastructure, and many others are evident. When they drive on Enugu-Onitsha Expressway, Enugu-Port Harcourt Expressway, Aba Port Harcourt Expressway, and hear that early works on the Second Niger Bridge have reached about 45% completion, and still refuse to believe, what then can anybody still do? But thankfully, those who believe far outnumber the inveterate cynics.
They talk of the economy, and make it appear as if the heavens were falling upon them. But the economy, according to pundits, began to slow down in 2012. By 2014, it was poised for recession. Before the last administration left, Nigeria was already borrowing to pay salaries, as confirmed by Dr Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala. And that was in spite of trillions earned from oil. By 2016, recession was inevitable. But for how long did it last? Just one year. Due to deft footworks,sound economic policies, transparency and accountability, we were soon out. Today, inflation rate has fallen for the 13th month running. The auguries are good for the economy, but all they want to wail about is hunger, to deceive and beguile. But Nigerians know. They know where food self-sufficiency is coming from. They know where their future and those of their children will be guaranteed. The polls would prove it next year.
When we were awash with money, what happened to infrastructure? Simply nothing. Power, roads, rail, bridges. Nothing! Now, when we are earning about 60% less than what we used to earn, those things are coming. Power was inherited at about 3,000 megawatts, with a large chunk of it not distributable. Today, power generation stands at over 7,000 megawatts, and over 5,000 MW is distributed. Rail projects will cover the national landscape within the next one year. Abandoned projects are being resuscitated nationwide. Recently, the N8.5 billion water project in Otuoke, Bayelsa State, came on stream. It was not achieved when a native of the area was President. The Lagos-Otta-Abeokuta road has been awarded. It was not done when a son of the area was in power. The dredging of Warri port for N13 billion has been awarded. Was it awarded when a native of the region was in office for six years? Nigeria is making tremendous progress, and things can only get better.
For the first time in the history of the country, stealing has become corruption. It didn't use to be so, particularly in the last epoch. No wonder the Excess Crude Account was looted dry. Foreign reserves drawn down. Federation Account, emptied. And the economy was set on an irreversible path to recession. And they say; don't talk about it. Focus on the present and the future only. How we miss Fela Anikulapo-Kuti. He would have said: "I go shout o, I go shout plenty o." If we don't focus on the past, we are then liable to make the same mistakes. "Those who cannot learn from history are doomed to repeat it." (George Santayana).
Stolen monies are being recovered in billions of naira and dollars, and being appropriated and spent on infrastructure. Properties acquired with laundered funds are being seized. President Buhari has promised to sell them, and return the funds into public treasury. No wonder some people are running scared, and had tried earnestly to dissuade the man from going for a second term in office. But the die is cast. Let each mother warn her child. Days of reckoning will come.
A party left the country in ruins after 16 years. It is now crying that the edifice has not been rebuilt in three years. Is it not easier to destroy than to rebuild? The rebuilding of Nigeria is proceeding apace. Another term for President Buhari will take the job very far. Consolidation of the good works is good prospect, not only for us, but also our children. Things may be tough for Nigerians now, but they are like birth pangs, which begin to fade at a point. And they are fading. A woman brings forth only with pains, tears and groaning. But when she beholds her baby, all those pale into insignificance. A new dawn, new visitation is coming our way. We can see the Promised Land. Nothing should stop us from stepping into it.
Archbishop Justin Welby, Head of the Anglican Communion Worldwide, told President Buhari in London this week: "Great statesmen are those who run for the good of their country." Spot-on. The 2019 race is not for self, but for the good of the country. Discerning Nigerians did it in 2015. In greater numbers, they are poised to do it again in 2019. FA.
HardMirror: That girl you think is your friend is most likely your worst enemy. Why? She is only there for you because of what she can get Same old Nigerian guy Nagging Yes we Guys keep complaining about this day in day out but we never seem to learn. When the money comes, we share the money. We spend on people who won't add any value to our lives and impress people who are just there to ruin us.
MY EXPERIENCE There is the girl I was dating when I was I secondary school some 10years ago. I really loved this girl with all my heart (she is a nairalander and I know she would know herself once she reads this story, I don't mind). After leaving school and gaining admission into the university, we lost the vibe and only stayed casual friends. I got admission 2 years before she got admission into her own university (lautech). Fast forward to her year of service and coincidentally she was posted to the state where I worked. Coincidentally, I got a multi-million naira contract. Life was good! We started our relationship over again. I made sure she enjoyed my little money. We were even talking about marriage and life after her service. Then disaster struck. I entered a business agreement with a collegue and contributed all my savings into the deal. The new contract we were pursuing never come through. This girl's warm reduced immediately. Within a month she came up with the excuse of having a boy friend she was engaged to. Later learnt the guy had just gotten a good job. Interestingly, I had a Neighbour, also a single lady who sold shoes and stuff. She was all nice to me when the money was flowing. All of a sudden she stopped asking after me.
Now I got my juice back and she is all nice again.
It is a FACT, women are calculating, they look for the greenest pasture. You got money? You got their heart.
Spend your money on your family and close guy friends, they will be there for you in your down time.
To the women, you may think you are smart, but you lose in the end. I have at least 4 ladies who think they are my girlfriends. They all abandoned their poor boyfriends to be in relationship with me. Guess what. I only use them. Can't count how many I have had in the last one year. You won't command any respect from a rich guy once he knows why you are in relationship with him. It's amazing how easily ladies with boyfriends abandon their guys for richer ones.
To my guys, you don't even have to spend. Just show you got money. They will do anything and cry at the end that you are stingy. Laugh and move on to the next gold digger
They keep seeing topics like this and forming voltron, all na wash, they will never change. Forget all the feminist comments you see here, in real life they cry and beg rich dudes to keep their relationship, all because of money
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You can send a sample to freddaboh@gmail.com If it's good enough then we can discuss more. Thank you.
Any time I see Buhari, I see hope, I see humility, I see integrity, I see leadership charisma, I see a rebirth, I see impending joy, I see resolution, I see honesty, I see sincerity, I see sobriety, I see truth, I see restoration, I see prosperity, I see determination, I see patriotism, I see national consciousness, I see national awarenesses, I see passion and above all, I see an indivisible Nigeria. May God bless the day we voted Buhari to power again, by God's grace 2019
Phunmibi: Hi, OP thanks for this topic. But do you know of any foreign university I can get to do PhD without masters? BTW I am due for undergraduate graduation next year, I am studying Engineering and I am likely to graduate with a 4.8+
There are many schools in the UK that you can proceed straight to PhD without passing through the MSc phase.
Can you get me the op's number (s) so that we can fine tune how i can adopt her.
That's a good one if you really meant it. That's your own decision and it will be binding on you. But I still believe that it's wrong to force the OP to accept what he is not comfortable with, this is real life situation and definitely not Bollywood. I pray that the little innocent girl gets a good home where she can get all the love she deserves. Amen.
NairalandFAYOSE: being with the mum means being with me. I don't think I want that. have read so many comments here where people are calling me names and saying am selfish without even considering if I have the means to take care of her plus my kids. but no one is blaming the useless father who abandoned her daughter because he is married. I know for sure my woman won't take it if its the other way round.
I only seek advice and if you want to blame me, I will say you should first put yourself in my shoes
Bro, you have every right to be careful before accepting such kind of proposition. Yes, it's not the child's fault to be in that situation but it's not your fault as well. If the father can be so heartless to abandon the innocent child then he has no right to expect you to accept it. Now, if I should be in your position with the necessary financial leverage then it must only be on legal ground with all required documentation that will give me the confidence to accept such arrangement. If you are not comfortable with the child staying with you then don't pretend to anyone. Say no outrightly. Most of those lambasting you are just saying all those things because of empathy but if presented with the same situation they will behave in a worst manner. Peace.
Groovenaija360: A Zimbabwean Man from Matobo District who fatally stabbed his uncle with a knife for allegedly boasting that he was having an affair with his wife has been sentenced to 25 years in jail.
Steven Tshuma (32) of Bazha village under Chief Masuku area was convicted of murder with actual intent by Bulawayo High Court judge Justice Nicholas Mathonsi in connection with the death of Pedzisai Mpofu (36).
Tshuma stabbed Mpofu once in the back and once on the neck after he accused him of cheating with his wife.
In passing sentence, Justice Mathonsi condemned violence, saying the courts have a duty to uphold the sanctity of human life through passing deterrent sentences.
“This court has to protect human life and it is required by the law to impose a sentence which underscores the sanctity of human life. We cannot allow people to move around armed with Okapi knives, which they use to take away other people’s lives on the basis of a woman,” he said.
Justice Mathonsi said Tshuma behaved like a village bully and committed the murder in a callous manner.
“There is, however, no doubt that resorting to taking away the life of a person over a woman cannot be tolerated in a civilized society. What is apparent is that the accused person behaved like a village bully. He targeted his own uncle and stabbed him in broad daylight, killing him instantly and walked away like someone who had just slaughtered an animal. The sentence must, therefore, reflect society’s revulsion of that kind of criminality and accordingly the accused is sentenced to 25 years imprisonment,” ruled the judge.
Prosecuting, Mr Trust Muduma said on December 11 last year at around 5 PM, Mpofu was drinking beer at Zamangothando Bottle Store at Bazha Business Centre when Tshuma walked in.
“Mpofu greeted Tshuma who in turn confronted him and started accusing him of boasting around that he was having an affair with his wife, Sinikiwe Moyo,” said Mr Muduma.
A misunderstanding arose between the two men and Tshuma drew an Okapi knife from his trouser pocket which he used to stab Mpofu once in the back.
Mpofu ran for dear life, heading out of the bar, but Tshuma caught up with him and this time aimed for the neck.
Mpofu fell to the ground, bled profusely and died before he could be rushed to a hospital.
A report was made to the police leading to Tshuma’s arrest.
According to a post-mortem report, the cause of death was assault, stab wound, and hemorrhage shock neck.
In his defense, Tshuma, through his lawyer Ms. Thandolwethu Dube Mazibisa of Ndove and Associates Legal Practitioners, said he acted out of provocation and in self-defense.
Amarabae: I want to talk to some of my fellow ladies. It's Oriaku rant series again The professional table shaker.
Before I used to frown at those Girls that are fond of milking a guy's money down in a relationship or a date. But not any more. I blame the guys for being stupid and not sharp enough. I don't know why someone will think that she is born to be spoon fed by men all her life just because she has a vagina. Walking upon and down with a stupid sense of entitlement. That's why I so much love feminism ideologies, it shaped me in many ways, One of the things feminism taught me is that "A real woman should not be a financial parasite to a man" A girl needs to wake up and have something doing that will be fetching her some money, am not talking about being a cheap runs girl, Yeah runs girls are cheap sexy toys used for pleasure by men. Oriaku says so! God bless every hardworking lady out there, Men owes us nothing as women when it comes to finances! Get your lazy azz up. And it is the same girls with entitlement attitude that will be criticising feminism online because the movement exposes their flaws, There are many skills a girl can learn, many are smiling to the bank, all thanks to their skills, Learn one or two today so that you can be financially independent as a woman. I hate seeing a fellow woman disgracing herself in the name of being a financial liability to men, We need to break that cycle, Hell will not break loose if you take him out on a date and cater for the bills, Relationship is not a poverty alleviation program, But some girls have turned it into one, . Look at the society and see how some girls are messing themselves up due to money gluttony, Laziness coupled with a sense of entitlement drove some of them into the mess they are into. A girl that learnt catering and is working hard and making some money from it will not think of stopping so low to be a runz girl. There are many skills that a fellow girl can pick and learn even if you are a graduate and there is no job. Dear runs girl, I hope you will read this thread and stop embarrassing women folk. . An incident I witnessed this afternoon left me speechless, A guy was seriously beating one girl who should be in her middle 20s on the road, few people intervened ,but nobody could hold the enranged guy until one military guy came on board, What's the problem? The boiling young man brought out a torn unilag bachelor's degree certificate that the girl teared(though not in pieces, just straight tearing that can be joined again by a *cellotape*)because of 10,000, When the stupid young girl was asked about the issue ,she accepted that she did that because the guy was owing her 10k they agreed on before having sex in his house, After the sex, he only gave her 2k which enranged her, she managed to see the guy certificate in an envelope and took it, teared it to teach him a lesson, When the angered guy descendent on her, she ran out for help , Can you imagine? Of course the guy ran after her, caught her and brutalize her. *you are very silly and stupid *- the angry remark came from my voice towards the silly thing. You tored his certificate because of 10,000 , Why? Just because you turned yourself into a sexx toy.
I just don't understand. There are many girls like her who are under the sun working off sweat and maintaining their dignity, No she doesn't want to suffer, By the way, she has vagina, so men should spoon feed her forever. . Women we need to wake up! We need to protect our dignity! We need to work hard and earn our own money. Men owes us nothing financially. If a man gives you freely, no problem accept if you want But the mentality of "he must give me because he is a man and I am a woman " must be dropped. Feminism have shaped some of us to know that whether in marriage or relationship, the both partners needs to be financially independent. Ndewo nu. . NB : Stupid mentions and replies will be ignored
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Johnnyessence: [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]Woman Who Said Even Though She Is Ugly Her Vagina Is Tighter Than Most Beautiful Nigerian Girls Shows Off And Kisses Her Oyinbo Boyfriend. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NZE2QQCQGus.
Very funny looking woman. That her Oyinbo boyfriend is probably a loser. Well, I still like her sense of humour.
Politics / Re: Aisha Alhassan Dumps APC, Withdraws Her Membership (Letter) by freddaboh(m): 5:03pm On Sep 29, 2018 
