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Follow this steps, indulge her in enough pre-intimacy take your time don't rush.
women don't easily get turned on the way we men do, by mere seeing of boobs or the coochie,
Ladies get turned on by some nice little naughty talk and touching of the ends nerves, e.g ear lobes,running your finger along her neckline while your lips is caressing her bottom lips softly kissing her down to her neckline, down to her nipples while all this is going on, make sure there is a soft must playing at the background e.g "usher climax", "giveon stuck with you" or "giveon want you"
Make sure one of this songs is playing at the background,
Whille you let your lips play with her nipples sucking them nipples calmly and your finger stimulating her clitoris gently, moving your finger down to the Virgina opening deeping your finger in her coochie a little bit to get some of the pussy juice on your finger, then slowly back to The stimulation of the clitoris with the pussy juice on your finger while still sucking the two nipples, if she is neat enough or you are cool with head's then u can kiss her down from the boobs down to her belly button suck on the belly button for some secs, then slowly running your tongue down to her coochie let your tongue play with her clitoris for a while , and if you are not cool with heads, you can apply lubes oil on your Dick and using your dick to stimulate her clitoris slowly and gently slotting your dick in her, after this thank me later ��✌️�

Mostly this happen due to emotional exhaustion in the sense that a guy comes with good motives at first but course of his caring attention were never return e.g he does all the calling,gifting but he is neglected his motives change due to too much forming and shakara from the lady, and mind you man is logical woman is emotional, so with that in mind when his emotions is exhausted he becomes logical and tends to want something back for his efforts time n investment so he keeps pushing till he get his reward and that why you see some dude chasing a lady for months
cuz of thier rewards..oo simple advise to ladies if a guy show interest in you form..ooo but don't over do especially when you like him too to avoid this kind of scenario

Ogah its because 70% of Nigerian girl's are short or average height, girls search for what they lack in themselves in a guy to compliment themselves, girls that love big dick thier down part has loosen up, have you ever heard a lady that has closed up pussy searching for big dick or a lady that is new in the sex thing searching for big dick, nah, sexual penetration is all about frictions, while do you think there is a lot of sex style, sex position its helps to make the lady have a good feel of a man libido, that why some girls tends to have favorite sex position, some be like i love doggy style, or cowgirl style,

With your explanation up there i think you still have tiny hope of managing the situation, from your write up its seems the older one has not gone that bad,
For the younger one to call the older one and tell him, his where about it's means he still has a bit respect for the older one than u, what's i will advise,
you should do is to make the older one your friend to be able to confide in you talk to you freely, open up to you, have a one on one conversation with him trust me if u can win the older one to your side he will keep the younger one in check, always report the younger ones mischievous act to the older one make the older one feel like the man of the house give him that sense of responsibility that he is the man of the house stop trying to correct the younger one by yourself always go through the older one, and keep praying for him with time he will overcome all that character by himself
speaking out of experience was ones a problem child but all thanks to my elder brother advise and God

Two things that makes a man betray his fellow man, (1),money (2, ) woman, if you have a friend that's behave differently when issues that involves money comes between you two, like he is always looking for a way to cheat you, distance yourself, 2, if you have a guy that always makes this excuses my woman says i should not do this my woman says i should not do that, he doesn't have his own say oga RUN!! 3, if he is the type that flirt with your woman any slightest opportunity he get, run cuz one day he will get your woman laid

I see Chelsea at 5th place by the end of the season

I think changing of the mindset of the 11 disciple's to believe and follow him as the Messiah cuz one of the most difficult thing to do is to Change the way and pattern in which a person is condition to think cuz it's was very difficult for God to Get rid of the slavery mindset of the children of. Isreal in the wilderness he perfom all sorts of miracles e.g wearing same clothes and pairs of shoes for 40 years without worning out,manners fallen from heaven they still complain why did moses brought them out of captivity to die in the wilderness,
he changed the menu still yet they complain the kind of physical demonstrating miracles God perform in the wilderness just for the children of isreal to believe and Change the way they think
Jesus didn't perform half of it,
so the only way God was able to get rid of thier slavery mindset and pattern of thinking was to let the generation that was held in captivity in Egypt to die and let thier descendants to posses the promise Land cuz after all the miracles God perfom they still lack faith in him and in themselves that's they can posses the promise Land, thier minds were enslaved thier free will was taking from them by the Egyptian thier minds was condition to think they don't deserve freedom so to me i rate that above all

Op thats my dream girl you have there bruh, if i have her type we gon go on so many sex adventure in which we can harness and explore a lot of shit together � cuz if i have a woman that deny me sex 2 to 3 times in a week and i try to explain to her that i love to have sex at Least twice a week and she still come at me with some bullshit excuses sorry boo boo i won't lie am gon cheat big time before them say i rape person pikin like greenwood P.S

[quote author=Thrycimacus post=111241084]Hello guys I'm in need of a solution. I started dating my babe since last year, and we plan on getting married this year.

Believe me, I'm completely in love with her. Since I met this girl, it's as though every other girl isn't worth my time. I would say that we love ourselves to the best of my knowledge.

I didn't ever believe that my babe was a cheat, so I don't suspect her, neither do I read her text messages , nor even ask who called her and all that.

Something stupid happened today though. I checked my babes whatsapp chat out of curiosity without her permission (please guys forgive me for that). She was working on a project beside me while I was reading her chat.

I noticed she wasnt comfortable as I told her I only wanted to preview her whatsapp stickers. As I spent more time with her phone, she became so worried that she had to get her phone, asking what I was doing with her phone.

I told her I was reading her chat, then she got real angry, that I shouldn't have read her messages. There are contents there she doesnt want me to see.

Pretending as though I havent seen anything yet, I asked her , which content? Then she was already angry and collected her phone.

I tried getting g her phone but to no avail. Then I sat her down. Babe tell me, are you a lesbian ? She vehemently denied, asking why I will even ask her such question. Then I told her about her chat with one girl. She was trying to defend her self that the chat doesnt mean anything. The said chat was actually lesbian related.

I asked my babe, is the girl you were chatting with a lesbian, she said yes. I said fine, give me your phone let me continue reading then if you have nothing to hide from me. She refused.

I told her that her refusal only means 1 thing, and that can threaten our very relationship...

To cut the low g story short, at some point, she began to cry. I told her I knew she was a lesbian from that chat, I only wanted her to tell me with her mouth. She didnt directly admit it though, but she said that she was working on fixing her problem.

Admit it baby, so I know if its something I can fix with you, babe said she will tell me everything tomorrow, that she can't get herself to discuss anything with me today. With this, I had to understand and let her go. Hopefully tomorrow she can confide in me finally about her (I suppose) lesbian affairs.

Honestly I love this babe. Up until today, i have always believed that she loves me too. But this revelation is really threatening to destroy my future with her.

Before she left today , after I must have given her my word that telling me all her dark truth will not stop me from loving her, she said I was saying those just so she can open up. That if I leave her or change my behaviour towards her when she tell me what shes been hiding, it will not be good.

Please guys, how do I face this serious problem now in a mature way ?

Please I'm not here to play, I need mature contributions.

I created a new account for privacy sake[ bro its not an issue u should thank your God she was not doing it with a man bro as for me my woman can cheat with a fellow woman no issue won't be bothered but with an opposite sex am gone before you say jack ]

To be honest right any home that is peaceful is because of the woman not because of the man its because the woman is willing to submit to the husband
Just as Bible put it that a husband should love provide and protect his wife and woman respect submit and honour your husband and From your write up its glaring that you are playing your role but she is failing her own role though there are women who are naturally bossy there feel there know it's all they don't like to be corrected especially when they know what to do and they want to do it in thier own specific time and convinient time when you correct such ladies they flare up start grumbling etc and with your story i can tell she belongs to this catigory of ladies,
And why she acts this way is because she doesn't understand or know her role she thinks she is in a bf and gf relationship and she is still using the manual of gf and bf tips in her marriage, so to eliminate this mindset is to have a one on one conversation with her start by admonishing her with Nice words tell her how much you love her then you procceed to ask her my love I want us to have a honest conversation about ourselves.
My love do you want this marriage to work , you need this affirmation from her its very important cuz from the abundant of the heart the mouth speaketh"
If she answered yes" good now, give her platform to speak first ask her to tell you why she acts the way she Acts whenever you ask her to do some things give her examples of her actions points out few to her then listen to her don't interrupt her when she is done pointing out what you do that makes her to disrespect you, at this point you explain some of your actions that she misunderstood and she reacted differently and note some of your own short comings she mentioned and assure her you are going to work on them, vice versa.
why am asking you to follow this process is because "there is no action without a reaction"

Most issues that erupt among siblings in the family is based on the upbringing, my views on siblings love changed the day i met a guy whose family communicate twice a day i mean from the first born to the last one they communicate morning and night and each time they call its always end with i love you
This guy is 32 years old and they still do all that tell me why they would ever have a reason to hate each other, Bible was never wrong when its says charity (Love)begin at home

People differs, there are some people who you will give hard punishment and there will become worst, there won't see it that you are trying to correct them rather there will see it as if u hate them,

So my advice is this let this one slide just advice her and give her serious warning,
that next time
You won't let it slide.
tell her what you wanted to do to her before you decided to warn her that next it's repeat it self she will have to face the consequences of her actions
At least with that piece of advice if such repeat itself and you are passing your judgement on her you won't be feeling bad cuz u warned her

Am not supporting violence...oo but for a guy to hit a lady two things are involved 1) cheating bae 2) when he is talking and you are talking back at him especially when you are trolling him with some crazy nasty word ,
So auntie which one are you guilty of

Op the craziest set of ladies to be with is the confused ones, and one thing I discovered in your whole write up is that sex is your weakness and she is using that against you that why u can't stand your ground or say no whenever she come over to your house with her super story, bro control your joystick don't let your joystick control you simply put think with your brain not with your dick before that daughter of Jezebel ruin your life for good

Quote me any where this yeye Bello has nothing to offer he is just a political attention seeker
Someone that went to renovate a government hospital that was built by the past adminstration when he heard buhari was coming to the state, is now someone I will now carry my two leg Waka go vote for come 2023,
e no better make I dey fetch water with tea spoon dey fill drum if am that jobless

TheWolfen:
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Which doc go refund stupidity?

All these fake eyelashes
Fake hair
Fake nails
Fake Boobs
Fake booty
Fake attitude

All to to get a man attention?
Tell me why they won't attract fake men.
Later women would complain bitterly playing the victim and calling their ex names which isn't necessary because they pretended to be what not in the first place.

Women are just complicated

Bruh those gender are too competitive with themselves
Some don't even do it cause of man just because of the trends or just because thier friend did it

kenzysmith:
Dont know if am the only one who has this problem anytime i had sex immediately am done i feel this guilt then i begin to look ugly for almost a week before i start regaining my fine boy looks back. When i was on masturbation back then was worst after i jeck off like 2 times i become ugly as hell. Who is also experiencing this shit.

Man it's varries....oo Sha na only sensitive people tends to observe things about themselves after sex..oo
but mine what's I noticed is a behavioral change, e.g if I bleep an ugly girl (a girl considered to be ugly by me sha ) I tends to have low self-esteem but if she is a cutie bro na moral high...oo for me and another one I noticed too is that there are some ladies you will have sex with, after two days or so,
you will start to perceive thier body scent on you mostly when bathing, for a period of time before it's stop

Oga you are a true philanthropist, continue the good work!!!
By the way It's will be very bad of me to leave without giving you something to think about.
Bruh to be honest this journey you have embark on won't profit you at all but if you care about your well being and future just kukuma finish the charity work u started by completing her registration for the catering school so that from the handwork she can support her family
Then you wash your hands off her and look for another woman that is not a liability cuz if you marry her type,
she will leech your pocket until you go broke and heart attack will finally finish you off

Bro big time it's not easy to cut from someone you have been with for a very long time,with what you just posted right there by her comparing you to someone else, her heart is no longer with you she is just keeping you base on the small cash she is getting from you
So start minimizing the impact of the heart break you are going to get in the nearest future by looking for the nearest feminine spare tire to give your 20% emotional attention to
And devote your 70%attention to your hustle and leave her with the remaining 10%
Cuz the motto is hustle now that you are young and relax later

Am seeing models with pot bellies nawao..oo where them pack this ones from?

Quit hating on the chap he is just looking for advice, everybody has a secret at least he knows the kind of heart he has is not cool that why he opens up for help, do u guys think it's easy to say that kind of bad things about yourself .
Bro I think all you need to do is pray about it talk to God he listens and you too need to put effort by always trying to be selfless I believe God will see you through ijn

Ummm..M.O.G one thing you need to understand is that 90% of women don't enjoy sex or get orgasms through penetration of the vaginal, but through the stimulation of the clitoris and proper handling of the breast and nipples, cuz those ladies who gets orgasms through penetration are few and those ones thier clitoris is very close to thier vaginal opening which allows friction between a man's penis and the ladies clitoris, and with what you have said am very sure your solution lies in a very sexual romance meaning taking your time to harness her sensitive part's cuz the fun of sex is having different approach to it and different location sometimes, it's not just lie down let me climb and do,
explore with your imagination,