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This is common with ladies. While some men stupidly do it.
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It's a turn off to regale a new man who is still trying to know you and make romantic interest, with all your life problem. Or by quickly asking him money early in the dating game . Even if u are broke or hungry, no tell am, it's too early. It will only give a message that u can be had(gotten) with money.
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Nobody like problem, he may quickly deflect or avoid you, if ur first few meetings is filled with problems.
Even if u no get, no show am, even if u are broke, no post am for whatsap status where he will see it. I've stopped associating with some ladies I initially had romantic interest in based on this attitude.
It's not classy at all. It makes u and your family look cheap and poor. Also make you look lazy, disingenuous, unwise, problematic and entitled.
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Project your caring, clever, funny, and interesting side when u meet a new man instead for a while, give the man the reason to fall in love with you, not a reason to run away from problem.
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After a man already fell for u, if they get to know ur problem many of them will want to help in their own way with love.
Don't make them run away before they have that genuine interest to help out of love they have for you.

Okay

Nairalander need small beating sometimes for the atrocity committed online

Hnm

Iyaebe:
Natasha is a very brilliant Lady and a force to reckon with,Reno will not parrot on this accusations much,he'll stylishly wave it off

Lol....tor..I no no the babe...im only active on Nairaland...I no geh time for other social media

Iyaebe:
She spitting the truth about Reno,he's a big pretender and a hypocrite

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Reno who likes to be right all the time may find a way to mitigate the smack down with one yeye clapdown...but then..I won't believe Reno...he's fake to me...
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And I like the writing tone which the babe use give am smack..the babe write like a brilliant sombody ... sarcasm, pun, humor, and sardonic smile all in one gentle write up with heavy smackdown, I don fall for the babe

Lol smack down yí ti pọ̀ jù now..haba smack down plus receipt.
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I for one person am not a fan of RenoOmokri.
He's too hypocritic and loud for my liking, always courting attention in least expected places.
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This babe speak like a classy gal. I like the smack down.

Imagine ur Dad runs DNA on all of u and it turns out u are also not his child ...
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Nothing is impossible especially if it involves vagina people and paternity.

What will now happen?
Will they now change the host or cancel the worldcup? That's my only concern

And so

Nairaland is the collection of Simps in Nigeria

Truth is butterfly is no more common, at least for me, it's being a while I saw them. I don't care anyway.
The question is, what's are the importance or essence of having butterfly around? Do they affect us or our environment in any way? What is their contribution that should necessitate their conservation?

Conservationist should educate us. To me, all these animals have life-cycle and they can't be on Earth forever. No amount of conservation policy will change that..
And what if by conservation we are even disrupting the natural plan and system that set limit to the existential cycle of certain animals and organism? Even human spp have evolved and disappeared at some point. Do we blame evolution or nature?
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So, I want to put it to conservationist who say we should conserve this and that...imagine all animal spp never went on extinct, won't the world be overpopulated with animals today?
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Imagine Dinosaurs were still around and no spp of dinosaur, snake, lion, whale is gone...how will the world cope with such volumnous density of dangerous spp of animals?
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If u say human is the cause of disappearance of animals today? well, animals did disappear at some point, at least before earliest human civilization dinosaurs and thousands of animal spp already gone extinct, so who do u blame for that? Natural disasters?
Then since it can't be stopped, it must be part of natural cycle as well as human civilization which is blamed for decimating certain spp of organisms..About animal conservation, I feel there's so much needless noise and fuss about it.
Though we can document, keep the gene and specimen of certain animals for reserch and posterity, this doesn't require so much noise and fund as being wasted on conservation today.
Many developed country choose to conserve certain animal and leave others cos obviously they can't conserve all spp of animals..so what criteria are they employing in making this choice.?
Conservationist should address all those points and convince us why we should keep promoting conservation for a kind of animals while living others to perish

Dirty politics don start, northern people well done... Just becos of 2023.
That's politics. We need more of this story about Ganduje and other northern politicians too...to balance the equations for all intending or prospective candidates...we need to know their story..not only Tinubu

Sonnobax15:

Why is it that this paternity fraud is majorly common among the black folks?

Well,like I've said here countless times,that I'll make this DNA test a compulsory thing for any living thing that'll live under my roof, not even my dogs and their puppies will be exempted

Congratulations...Men are finally getting wise

Any man who still trust a woman deep down in this century deserve to train a bastard.
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All our woman don turn hoeloshoes...they don't even know who give Dem Belle....too much preeq

CsRockefeller:
Men!!! This is a tough one. Now that a child is involved makes everything complicated.

Nothing is complicated...some of you are not even better than the OP...ozuor....cheap tears and manipulation u are already alter saying it's complicated...pvssy ass nigga

ChineduChinedu:
This message is from her yesterday


Baby pls, I love u and u know it. I'm so sorry for all I did to u.

That was why I didn't want to tell u anything that will harm our love or harm you. I don't want to say anything about my past because, I was hurt and deceived. I vowed never to love any man after what happened to me. That man met me at my teenage age. I just finished my secondary school. He promised to send me to the university. I was blind and deceived. He took my virginity. I never knew anything abt love. I got pregnant, He said he was gonna marry me. I said okay. After that, I got pregnant for the second child all in the name of you are gonna be ma wife. Then the 3rd one came. I suffered alot in the hands of that man.

While all this was happening, he never went to ma village to pay anything on ma head. Even his family people kept saying we are just having a relationship. Since he hasnt done anything on ma head.

I asked him when is he going to pay my dowry, he kept saying later. Not until he met this woman he got married to and went straight to marry her. Did court marriage. When people who knew him asked him abt me, he said he has never been married, that It was just a fruitful relationship.

I wept and cried to God. And I said to God, fight ma battle. This battle isn't mine. My life was scattered. I looked like a lost girl. I wanted to end ma life, buh God & my family gave me reasons to stay alive.

I vowed never to love and trust any man again in ma life. Not until I met u. I always call u my Hero ��buh u won't understand. U gave me reason to love again. U gave me reason to laugh sincerely, to live again, u gave me comfort, u gave me strength. �����. Ur coming to.me made me believe God answers prayers. U won't understand. Buh God knows I'm writing this msg with tears dropping from ma eyes�����. U wiped ma hidden tears, u made me feel loved again. Tell me, why will I want to hurt someone who made me see reason to live again by telling him what will make him leave me for real. �����

I'm so sorry, I didn't want to lose you or lose our love. �����. Before now, we have been living like twins, not until this news came up and kept us like this. ��.

Words cannot express how sorry I am. Whatever judgement u pass, just remember I will always love u���. And I won't love anyone with ma whole heart anymore.

Punish me, do whatever u wish to.do, buh pls consider the fact that no one is perfect. I'm carrying ur child. Don't abandon us. Even if u don't want to marry me again, no problem. Just don't abandon us. Grant ur baby and I the access to see u. Grant ur baby boy the access to call u dad. That's all I ask. Grant me the access to call u on the phone and ask u how u are doing. U remain the love of ma life.�������

U know I'm not after money, I always manage ur money, and always tell u to invest and make more money.

It hasn't been easy for me, since that Saturday, I felt like ending ma life����. I asked ma self, what's there to life for, buh people around me held me back. All I Seek and ask is to just call me and speak to me. No Matter how angry u are. It has not been easy for me in this condition ������


My Hero, I beg u, we have been living in peace before this news came, pls I beg of u, have mercy ������ My Heavenly Father Knows I sincerely Love you. I can't do anything to hurt u. Pls my love have mercy ����������������


...This message is from her yesterday

Anything 'love' in that message, use cleaner to wipe it off and now press control delete on ur phone.... then go to recycle bin to delete it permanently......
Chinedu ....there are many gals out there who can like u same way and more. If u fall for this cheap emotional baggage and manipulation. that's the beginning of ur end in life. Her tears is meaningless. Ur life is more important.
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It's either u make her happy and lose ur own happiness for life, or u run to make urself happy from afar,,,,she will find her way out...
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If u believe one sentence of this story...then you are an irredeemable big fooool. Even if the story is real....are u her savior? Did u come to die for her sin and carry all her life problem? U better wake up....
This woman can charm u for her own selfish end..she can tie u forever, and she will still justifying it.
Run away from a desperate bittch.. a better woman will tell u the truth...a better woman won't maltreat u and turn u to houseboy...u better thank your God that the secret got leaked out.. if not ur life will have been like hell in that marriage cos she will use everything she has to control u, ur family member, and make life miserable for u...run o...run o...
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Don't even reply her messages.. don't...run o, if u like ur life

Leeleann:
Oga, you are adding salt to injury. This must be a movie script anyway.

U fooolish women are always on this forum to downplay the pain of a man when he brings his relationship story, so that u can support ur evil gender ...
this trend is so common here and most of u all are as evil and have same tendency as the lady who victimized the guys....Nonsense manipulating foools

dapadawee:
Happy marriage enjoyment rather? Am lying on my bed the way I lay it. Give your life to Christ and know the ways of God then you will not marry from the street but from the spirit.
How can I date u for 1 weeks and not know you're deceptive where then is the holy spirit revealer of all secrets. I meet with you I know the kind of person you are. Except I disobey the spirit of the lord within me u can never deceive me

Foool...lol.
Na Person like u woman go give bigyansh doggy style, u go begin misbehave....u no go fit think we'll again

dapadawee:
Me am married and I married a virgin u c say i get sense pass u
And am blessed with a fine boy.

Happy marriage ENDURANCE

Kingsasian:
you just described in details exactly what I experienced in the hands of a single mom I dated.

Some idiots are saying it's a lie...cos they haven't dated enough girls or lived with a babe they are dating....na inside marriage e go shock them

dapadawee:
I will understand when I grow up
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But me I no need insult u no need to call mad man mad man because its obvious

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Go and date fine babe and live together without even marrying....u go dey geh sense small small

Another pvssified nigga...later u will be looking for advice after everything burst...

efficiencie:
You need to have a chat with her. If you are confident she is not wayward and she is generally a good wife, schedule a chat with her. Let her know you are not averse to sacrificing and providing for the family and that she has to stop lying and always come clean if she is to continually earn your trust. Tell her to arrive at a verbal covenant with you that both you will never lie to each other and that both of you will use your resources towards the betterment of your family (both nuclear and extended). [b]Create a family business in your name and have your wife manage the business. You too, oga, be open to your wife. [/b]Don't do what you don't want her to do. Lead by example. May the LORD GOD of marriages keep your marriage as sweet as fresh wine!

It's like u people can not read....after setting business for her, and sponsoring the business he should create another one...u people worship woman like God...the one she has she never use am finish...na another one she needs abi... someone that doesn't do anything for the family. Nonsense

dapadawee:
Believe not all report
This is fiction
Not all stories are true
In fact 99% percent write are lie Mohammad

You be mumu
Wetin wẹ don ṣee, If wẹ put am for Nairaland, mumu pikin like u will say na lie......
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U will understand when u grow up.

mac04:
Boss, I beg you in God's name let it slide, while not trying to make an excuse for her she might have forgotten the actual amount she withdrew since the withdrawals were made on different days, you can just tell her to careful and pay more attention to how she manages her finances, this is just a test for your family, try to pass it

This is a pvssy man wrong advice.!
Nonsense.
The woman is not a baby...she wants to manipulate the husband...that's how they start their bad behavior if the man does not caution her...he should caution her and warn her not to try it again.....a good woman will apologize to bury the whole issue...either she apologize or not...the man should register his displeasure and be firm abt it before he can let it slide....that's how to treat a woman...not giving foolish excuse on her behalf after she fvck up

armstrongadeola:
She didn't forget .she just lied but we will be fine tomorrow morning .We don't let our dispute go beyond a day but I still don't know why she said that .

I will not even ask her again .Bygone is bygone .That's the kind of man I am.i will just let it slide

Thats the mistake men make instead of calling out a bad behavior they go the soft route.
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Bring it up when next u come home. tell her how u were shocked at her lie, that is it that she wants to give u reason not to trust her anymore. Tell her you are really disappointed in her,yes, tell her face to face... let her feel the shame. You discipline a woman like that when she fvk up.
After u have now registered your displeasure in a firm manner she will know u don't tolerate such attitude....u can now let it slide and forget abt it....she will sit up and respect u more.
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If u don't register ur displeasure on that issue, she may think she can always get away with petty lies.

So his brother is now a celeb for browsing his brothers Instagram page?
Which time I go turn celeb for browsing on Nairaland day and night

HedwigesMaduro:
This story can't be a real life story. No one can be this stupid.

Very possible my brother....it happens when guyman love up with no sexual experience and enjoyment in the past......wicked woman will use her pvssy to wet his brain such that he won't be able to take rational decision....lol

azraeljaheel:
The rate at which people bring their marital/relationship issues to this forum is alarming! Hence the question. Has this forum ever solved your marital/relationship issues?

Don't see it that way
People need people to confide in
People have a lot of relationship issue they don't know what to do or whom to meet, and it's causing them headache and depression
.. and being a Faceless forum that protect ur identity....u can get objective advice from some experienced folk