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UltimateStarman:
lol
you are wrong
Anyone in this life can change
Words are powerful

OP doesn't have the personality to control that relationship.
And she already seen OP as inexperienced, she can never respect him unless she just want to fake it just to receive something from him...
You can see how she manipulates and maltreat op even before marriage...by the time she has a kid . Her power will triple..she will have more weapon, she will use the baby, his love for her pvssy, her food, to control guyman and make him do whatever she wants.....

Munzy14:
Na so...Do u even know she is wealthier than alex?

Alex is likely the one turning her to maga...Hiding another woman and chasing fancy...Getting easy visa to visit her and other stuffs as per fiancee...

Typical naija G-boy.

Tor....Alex don lose her be dat...
Alex na hot fine boy..he can get any babe...na to just form love ....Dem go fall....

UltimateStarman:
do you love her and wants to remain with her

That woman can not give OP peace no matter how much love he spends on her.....unless he wants to submit all his money, decisions, respect, manhood for her to control....and later, She will start to cheat and deny him sex...cos women don't respect weak men..infact her sexual attraction for him will die overtime of incessant control over him.
If that's what he wants he can continue with her and not complain

Be ready to get a house boy or house help to do cleaning if u so love her and u want to marry her. She can never change. Just forget change..cos her case na like Buhari/APC change..Which is impossibility tense.
Peace
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Alpha window activated....a stepping stone to another rich maga

debbydams:
why will u rush into. marriage wthoutt knowing the woman u want to marry ehn

The pvssy is sweet...and the woman deceive him to think she's the best pvssy he can ever have free access to....
And guyman na mumu inexperienced who thinks because a woman is giving him sex means she has the best for him...#cashcow

ChineduChinedu:
Yes this is exactly how she treat me
She make me apologise to her even when she is wrong
She has never apologise to me
Except the day I cancelled the wedding

Now this is to tell u that such woman that have power and control over u can still be made to apologise if u know how to do it and take control.
By cancelling that wedding, u acted like a bold man who is not going to bend to her will and she sees shes losing u by that act, that's why she apologized...cos ideally, a street man would have cancelled that marriage. So her apology is to make u accept her deception..lol
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So if u always bend to a woman's will cos u are acting gentle like a Christian lol... she will never apologize even when she's wrong cos she knows u will comeback to bend to her will....its a pattern of habit men make the mistake of.
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That's why men are told to date a woman and not make her too comfortable by always bending to her will, thinking u can't do without them. By always bending to a woman's will, it will make her have power over u and she will use it to maltreat u.
If a woman sense that in u that u can't do without her, her body, her pvssy, her food or anything...she can use it against u... those are the little things u need to know abt all women
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chatinent:
Marry her, her kids goes back to their father. All you wanted was pregnancy, by the way.

The worst thing abt this advice and his problem is that .this woman will love her former three children more than the new child...
she will look for money from this mumu guy to train those 3 children...dats why she needs a new husband she can milk and control....
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And to shock u, the baby may not be this guys baby sef..lol..DNA issue fit arise later (it's another possible twist).
so the woman just dey use this guyman as cashcow, and as free economic ticket to better her life and fend for her children...the pregnancy is just used to tie the guyman down, and to have more power over him to milk and control him using the child, even if it's the guys baby...lol..
Naso woman be o.....This man don enter Gbege...
Sòmè bad guys will have beaten this woman blueblack for this deception. Some will have dump her by now...while some will stop having sex with her permanently and break that her pvssy power . ....but as this guyman is weak..he won't know how to go abt all these..cos the woman don tie his head to her pvssy..lol
He needs to wake up and see the shit

ChineduChinedu:
Yes this is exactly how she treat me
She make me apologise to her even when she is wrong

That's how women use the power of their pvssy to control men...
Now, try this next time she wants to make u apologize for stupid issue. don't apologize..and don't give or look for her attention...she will try to draw near..And don't even initiate conversation with her,just live like room mate. If u need anything from her, carry straight face and ask with command tone. discipline urself and don't ask for sex too during this time. She will be surprised u have developed such experienced and discipline to counter her..lol.....
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She won't still believe u cos she knows ur mumu button, she knows you may come back to apologise when konji hold u..lol..
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If u still bone her. she may even try wearing skimpy dress and opening her body just to draw ur attention. Act as if u don't even notice...cos if u don't.. she will bring back the issue that u must apologize....
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So bone and snub her...later she will try another tactics to settle matter...by this time.. u should blast her. talk angrily at her. Lol...u must change am and make her apologize.... if u are not experienced she can still change am for u. Bt don't care( be ready to get sex else where if she remain stubborn)
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Ask married men..that's what they face.. it's a game with no manual...u must know how to play it..if not women nature is like that to always take advantage of a man that lack discipline, boldness and experience to put her in her place..

ChineduChinedu:
My mumu nobi here oo
Thanks for the advice

When a man is so naive and inexperienced abt women..once u enter into relationship with a very experienced one, even if she's not that experienced, most women are cunning, so she will use the power of her wet pvssy to control u..
because u haven't had much experience abt sex, she will fvvck u very well, she will make u experience the sweetness of sex and at same time use the power of her pvssy to control yoi because She knows she has tied u to her pvssy...dats wot women do...
It's ur dependence on that pvssy which is something u can't control that she will use to control u and maltreat...she will make u beg and apologize otherwise she won't give u the sex you are now used to....
...She will make demand and u must fulfill it, else she won't give u sex ......and u will miss the sex and her sexiness cos she will be hostile to u..so u will now try to appease her....
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The cure for this is to be experienced to know when she's trying to manipulate u and stand ur ground instead of accepting her terms....
....Another is why men have sidechicks cos when their babe manipulate them and refuse to give Dem sex..they will go and meet the side chick...
So start looking for another babe or else she will continue to use her pvssy juice to wash ur head and ur mumunity will double.
The reason u are confused is because u have been pvssyfied.. she has used her pvssy to control u . U must break that control, so u will need another woman.....and at thesame time...u need alot of stuff to know abt women.... otherwise even ur new woman will still take advantage of u

This foolish feminist woman calling herself a pastor....
I can never attend a church where a woman minister.. except I'm going there just to be fvcking her

ChineduChinedu:
I managed to get the phone number of the
biological father of those children

I called the man
And asked him if he is the father of the 3 kids
He said yes
He also said that he didn't do anything on her head at all
I asked why
He said cuz of family backgrounds

What should I do?

I know I made mistakes
If u guys don't help I may end up dead

since she can not terminate the pregnancy even if you tell her...I don't know what stage of pregnancy she is..
The only solution is to divorce her...it's left for u to decide when to officially divorce her, either now or till when ur pikin is a bit older if the pregnancy can not be terminated....if u can wait till she's older...u can endure living with her, and acting calm and all..but looking out to search for new woman....woman plenty for outside ..
At same time...u need orientation about women..cos if if not..ur next women can take advantage of ur mumunity

ChineduChinedu:
She said she dreamed were I cheated on her and marry someone else that's why she insisted of leaving if I didn't do the court marriage

All their family members hide this secret from me, they intend to tell me after the wedding

You guys may be wondering how I enter this problem
I wasn't into girls at all
I don't anything about girl cuz am a very shy type
For 30 years am a Virgin until I met a surger momy who toast me and took my virginity.
I broke up with my sugar momy immediately I met this girl

I don't know anything about women at all
That's how I landed into this problem
Make una help abeg

Eeya..lol u don't know anything abt women and u want to marry..Pele. woman love to control man wey no geh sense...infact they pray to meet such man especially if he kon geh future or money they can milk.

Manipulation 101 is that dream, the truth is she no dream any one-kobo dream.. lol ...Take redpill una no go hear.....
She said this because She knew over time u will know of her kids... so as expected, any sane man wud divorce her ass. So she's trying to tie u down and finish u kpatakpata like Buhari Is doing to Nigeria...that's why she quickly want u to do court marriage. Dream my foot

She don carry u over3.5 Handicap..chai..after 3 children....u are fvvcked.
30 years old man. So sad o... there are many like u out there Sha...who believes with gentleness and being caring a woman won't hurt them..lol
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When redpill tries to teach u how to treat women, u people think they are fools or angry people.
Imagine an old newspaper ordering you around, controlling ur life, yet u went ahead to marry her lol ..u think she will change abi...she kon still get 3-pikin..over 3.5 handicapp...and you are asking stupid questions that u don't know what to do...?...Wake up!
You either live with her and endure the suffering and frustration awaiting u.....or u dissolve that marriage and take care of your pikin and look for fresh blood to take care of u...don't be a fool.

Bzb

Idiots south south and south western governors. Shay na now una just dey wake up.
Awọn oloriburuku. ..Who is waking u people up. PIB bill came and Federal gvt reduce derivation from 13 to 5%....and none of u talked....ur senators collected bribe...

Even a todler knows the way Nigeria is set up is done in a very unjust way ..we've been crying for God knows when....but theses south south and south south leaders love to be slave to Northerb elite....maybe the juju wey north use wash una head don dey expire
Stupid south south leaders that lack balls to work for their people while the north are only after their own agenda....idiots

Jaqenhghar:
Its not hard abi. Go and see how many programmers have quit the job and are exploring other fields.

That's why I started with if u have science/engineering/love solving logical-maths problem....
The real problem is The doggedness and focus to be consistent....it's not easy in this world of distraction...
U will meet obstacle, but fortunately, everything u need to tackle the obstacle is on internet even free! If u can search and be tenacious...na da focus part be wahala...
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When u hit an obstacle...just leave it for some hours, come back to it, or change ur tutorial material to address that obstacle..then come back...
Na the focus be the koko...cos it requires focus..

Kai

Programming is not that hard especially if u have science or engineering background or u are not too scared of logical problems and u if u were used to solving maths problem.
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The real problem with programming is the focus and tenacity to keep practising everyday.
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If u can overcome this obstacle of focus, concentration, and consistent practise, u will be shocked in 6months of rigorous focus of what u can create with any programming language.... May God give us focus for productive venture and take away distraction from social media, Nairaland, Facebook, Instagram and twitter from your lives.
...............This is from experience.

Hm

If he burst and no body knew nkor? Who Dem go punish after fvcking with burst CD?
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Una dey cease.

Waiting on queue to loot his on loot out of the crumbling system that can not be salvaged unless it is dismantled to the ground for a new foundation

shortgun:
Not placing her on any level she's not used to, not all girls are broke. There are over 5 cars in one of her father's house. I won't let her do public transport for obvious reasons.

Good luck..but don't do stupid shit that may come back to haunt u.
Just threaten them to steer clear..and let them go...and ur babe should also be transparent to u too... Cos before a man can have the gut to come around they might have said certain things in the car....

The moral lesson from their love story is that
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1. Love can be found anywhere, what matters is the heart and genuiness of intention they both have for each other.
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2. Sex can be had anywhere without affecting ur future life. it's human nature to have sex...let's stop demonizing people for having sex

3. Sex on a firstdate doesn't matter if both have genuine intention toward each other and also faithful to each other.

Newsleisure:
I knew this guy was awful when he stole cocoice head of house crown

Really? Stole it for what?

This guy geh small mind. And talks too much...posting his private affairs on the internet giving people chance to dissect his life and mindset

Kobicove:
Must she go by Uber or Bolt?

Ask her to go by regular yellow cabs or buses if you're so worried about guys hitting on her.

I don't understand why people make it seem as if people were not a le to move around before Uber and Bolt came along

Don't mind them...Dem be dey form rich lover boy just to impress babe wey never enter marriage house...later they will say they have no control over her.. how will u...when u place her on a pedestal from courtship. She will turn Queen of England when she enter ur house

Humanity is under the grip of kpekus and and blokos..

SmartPolician:
Islam needs to purge itself of terrorists. These days it's hard to separate Islam from terrorism.

Islam only need to be banned. Cos Islam can't purge itself

Vinnie2000:
Bros...
Na Wa oo..

Explain how the Dullardihno stuff changes to Buhari..

Am I d only one not getting it Right?

U can never understand if you are not a programmer or someone who can code.

President Buhari