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DEmejioba1:
I got married in 2018,since then I have been battling with some unimaginable experiences with my wife even when I thought I married to a religious lady.

To cut the story short,

Prior to our marriage, things was not so good enough for me but because of age consideration of both of us we decided to wed with the help of our families.

The first thing that happened which caught me thinking afterward was that during our make up to wedding,my wife insisted that she's receiving 50k dowry which she knew I wouldn't be able to get it just shortly before the wedding. I told her that there is no way I could afford it then that she should reduce it may be to 20k, she said I should not worry that things will be sorted out. A day to the wedding she told me that when it's segment for dowry collection that she would pronounce that she had collected it. I said no problem. Since then I have not been able to pay it because she wants full cash. Now, any slide misunderstanding she refers to it.

Secondly, immediately after the marriage,I was left with 60k which I thought we would manage to get a room and a parlour apartment for a start, just to do according to my pocket in my present rent house. But my wife insisted that we should let 2 bedroom flat at 100k but knowing fully that my source of income would not maintain it couple with other obligations that I would be discharging. She said, she would lend me 40k.
Thank God I was able to pay her the money. But still thinking over wasteful of almost 50k,while 150k can secure a land for bulding house in my area.

Thirdly, few months after our marriage. We were having misunderstanding and I carelessly said if the marriage can not work it better we go our separate ways, my wife holds on this statement and continue saying that she just need me to say it twice more and the marriage is over.

But I used to think over all these with other ones that I cant write, then, I ask myself if truly she loves me or may be am with wrong person.

What is your thought about this?

Guyman your problem is because u are broke...Go and hustle hard and make money...I've not seen anything bad thatat your wife has done...
You should be in charge...when u know u don't have money to buy basic things why did u go into marriage..in marriage your wife will look up to you........you can't pay 50k dowry..but u want to marry...you only have 60k for rent..I wonder the kind of house 60k will rent...in Lagos it can't even rent one room, in student area ,it can't rent a selfcon...yet you are marrying...is it that u don't know the financial responsibility that comes with marriage?
Your wife borrows you money yet u are stressing her...your wife wants you to aim higher..cos u seem relax for low spots...that's why she's stressing you....Just work harder..all is well with ya marriage

noamchumsky:
Son of man leave big yansh and hot pvvsy out of this cheerful conversation please.

Be deceiving yourself....like say is Madam say...young man..I like you I think u turn me on..oya let's book and room and fire ourselves...u talking as if u no-go do..ole

zakkyzakes:
THE GREATEST WEAPON A MAN CAN HAVE IS WISDOM.MA'M HOW DO YOU EXPECT US TO BELIEVE YOU WHEN WE CAN'T EVEN SEE THIS THINGS YOU'RE TALKING ABOU. COS THAT'S THE SAME REASON I DOUBT RELIGOIN SOMETIMES.MY QUESTION IS MA'M IS THERE ANYTHING I CAN DO TO SEE FOR MYSELF I MEAN SHOULD I MEDITATE OR WHAT SHOULD I DO TO SEE THE SUPERNATURAL THANKS.

So in short u are an atheist..lol...u guys don't know anything...it's even better u are an agnostic...Maybe u will start believing when you see ghost and ghouls...well u all will still term it hallucinations..lol... atheist are always funny to me.

Sisterfire..your last reply is just wow..Na wao..things dey happen....I have a brother who told me he went to about 2 prophets and a prophet who never saw this lady told him that this lady, that happen to be his girlfriend is a powerful girl in marine kingdom...Meanwhile..this girl loves my brother like mad..very pretty and gentle...So my brother was scared of being serious with her.
This babe goes to white garment...and she's from riverrine area...My brother said no matter the prophet that came to church...dat no matter the deliverance going on..that the girl will never feel anything...she will just be glued to her chair and not pertake in anything they are doing.... but she goes to church often.
meanwhile...more than 3 prophets have confirmed that she's a strong marine gal, those prophet told my brother without them meeting her.
The gal once told my brother that if a prophet tries any rubbish by rubbishing her that she's a demon...that it's a lie..that dey dint see nothing..lol...this gal is graduate o..and doing well...I'm even scared for my brother.. lol

noamchumsky:
Bring anything you desire, please. One that will sauce our conversation. Where would you like it be today? And can I have you reachable number?

See chyking and arrangement at thesame time..May God help your hidden intention o....may big yansh and hot pvvsy not wound you one day

SisterFire:
...hahahahaha
I was searching for it btw

okay may your God direct you

SisterFire:
... ♥ Darling tanks
What should I bring along while coming? ♥

your looking good self should be enough for him..abi wot else

Sisterfire...answer my que 2. So I can fire you with more questions

Que. 2. @ Sisterfire

When it comes to Nigerian religious attitude towards ogbanje or spirit possessed girls, It can quite discriminative, cruel and dehumanising. If Christianity and Christian God is so averse to Ogbanje, why is it that, most often, the Marine demon gals are even more seen in churches, cos u can see them in choir or as workers screaming and falling when prophets are casting out demons.
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Is it that there's something about that spirit that loves going to church?..even though church usually give them trouble? And as you said Jesus is a taboo is your world..so why do they go to church at all...and why is it that church deliverance and anointing service doesn't affect you.

SisterFire:
..tanks, I expected changes from now ,is 4 ur good n that of ur generations unborn,

N wats deep my dear, let's rub mind?

The response

Very deep explanation sisterfire. Thanks for the answer, you really tried typing that long response...More questions to come

SisterFire:
... brilliant question but should I tell u wat u wanna hear and break the rules of this game or be obvious ?

I'm all ears!!!
..but if you don't feel like being obvious..then hold it until you feel comfortable

Sisterfire.
For now I have about 10 questions..will be releasing it one by one.

No. 1

1. You mentioned you are not a Christian by religion. Then why do you still go to church sometimes ? Is it the social fun and camaraderie of church going..or the relationship and sexual opportunity that discretely avails in church setting that makes you go? I know we guys or the irreligious sometimes go to church for that reason...what's your own personal reason even though Jesus is a taboo in your world.

Sisterfire. I'm finally back from my busybusy to give you those questions I promised. They are a bit plenty Sha...hope you answer it all. Will appreciate

Dapcity207 asks the most stupid and childish question on this thread ...Na wa for da juvenile pikin...I'm always laughing reading his questions..yet Madamfire still manage to answer him with Grace....I see Dapcity207 must be a virgin teenage boy

Sisterfire stay tuned...I'm reading all of your thread; I'm in the 5th.
Will be back to ask you many questions I have always harboured which I believe is related to your experience, and that u will be a good person to answer them...
Meanwhile, some guys are really asking stupid question...but u are gracious enough to answer most of them....I'm enjoying your thread, especially your confidence and playfulness

Shortyyy:
Every business now has gone online. Stay in your village and don't get exposed.

It must be the reason why the headquarters of prostitution is now online

Oluromantic:
I'm not a girl but I'm interested. Let us be the first gay there. It will be nice

This guy na fool

Yvv@

Shortyy:
Just imagine

You know it's the truth.....tell me you don't get carried away by tall guys.. especially how shorties like u believe tall guy have the perfect BBC package that u wish could ram your cunt agape

It's cos you've not committed the suicide.. thats why u keep me wanting. ... . Meanwhile...don't kill yasef

Organs:
Mr man just shut the f up. You and those reasoning like you are part of Nigeria’s problem. We don’t want to call out crime because of reputation, etc that is why the country is so messed up. Tell me how will people learn and take precaution? Pastors will rape people and they will blame people calling the pastors out, politicians will steal money and loot public funds and his tribes men and religious affiliates will defend him. Call out crime, put it in social media shame the hotel snd the person that way hotel owners will pay more attention in recruitments snd trainings and will be quick to fire offending staff. This is the reason why Nigeria is a shithole and abroad is not.

okay sir...I've already stfu.

Truvel:
I Don't Av Any Short Girl As Gf Let Alone As Wife. By D Way, Who Told U It's Only Short Gals Dat Get Fuvked Easily By Tall Guys?

Many of them have low self esteem and self-conscious around tall guys.. then their usual fantasy is to be approached and fvvcked by a tall man...

Any guy who does this kind of display of babes is a chronic masturbator .. repent.

Short gals get fvvcked easily by tall guys...So your wife will be easily assessible to talk guys and she will swoon and fall for them

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Did anyone notice davido no longer talks about Chioma at all since the baby came...No more assurance talk or even “I love my Chioma”.

Even the public expensive trips and vacations have all ceased. He now travels alone with his crew without her.

Why are men like this? they say I love you and then when they get you pregnant, they stop loving and respecting you.

By the way, it’s just an observation.[/color]

This is the longest shit I have seen mamagee write...
.From her always opening thread just to ask people to rate her dp, I usually feel maybe she's just a troll or some lady with certain mental or self esteem issue....I know I may be wrong about the later, however I'm surprised she wrote this long like some who's got her shit together...

Professional misconduct and invasion of privacy. That's what it is. it's not an offense that should land him in Prison. But this woman seems to want him imprisoned. Cos I wonder why she brought it on social media to soil the name of the hotel rather than let the management handle it as a cooperate misdemeanor
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He will surely learn decorum after the whole saga. Guyman shouldn't invade customers privacy and learn to be professional at work..
My issue is her bringing it to social media

hashtagged:
When a lady was ready to finger herself on an online live call for 30k just how much lower can they get.

hmmm

Attention seeker... I hate attention seeking on Nairaland... honestly...Your pics is of no consequence her..pls go to Facebook or Instagram..they will welcome you there. Here is for banter and intellectual gymnastics...don't turn here to beauty pageant

My question is: Why is a ten year old on Instagram?