₦airaland Forum

Biglittlelois:
I'm not asking of your mum's decisions, I'm asking of your outward emotions and reaction to what she did,

The wife the Op talked about expressed her feelings on what her father in law did, which in her right she is justified, no one will be happy of such a scenario except we want to deceive ourselves, and I for one do not like to deceive myself.

If your mother gets pregnant for your driver, you will not be happy about it, but you just have to accept her decision to marry him.

I am sure the woman’s husband and his brothers are not exactly joyful at their father’s actions and decisions but they have to accept it for peace sake.

KoladeChris24:
I have this girl who is the only one I love, but she said she can never attend catholic church.

I told her it's not an issue - that as my wife, she's free to attend any church she likes, but she insisted our family would have to attend the same church.

She won't marry me if i stick to my Catholic faith. Please advise me, she's the only one I love, and I can't start over anymore.

Be a man and stand your ground my friend. Don’t give into that senseless demand. Because if you give in to this one, get ready for more ultimatums. Tomorrow she would tell you to stop sending money to your parents or siblings else she would abandon you and the marriage.

bestman09:

Your dad is your mum's husband!

Get your own husband and do the photo shoot with him

Did she tell you she wants to get married? Did she tell you marriage is one of her priorities? Mr. Jump-into-conclusion

Una think say as una dey die for marriage na so people for oyibo land dey tink. Nigerians have a weird way of thinking and they assume that is how everyone else out there is.

BeeBeeOoh:
I know bro, but she chose wrong words to describe it.

She lives in a different society where the people understand what she means and don’t read unnecessary meaning to words; not here where everyone is holier than the next person yet corruption and all sorts of vices are the order of the day as people continue to troop to churches and mosques on Sundays and Fridays respectively.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar
Isoright ....

First of all Ogbeni op...
There is no legal money on planet earth

I hate when people keep on screaming they don't want to do anything illegal

You hate it because deep down you know what you are doing is illegal and morally wrong.

Bola146:
it's better you do it on Saturday morning, enough rest

Couldn’t agree more. Saturday mornings are the best.

Bola146:
Pap without sugar and moimoi or beans cake especially this cold morning full energy till afternoon

Total opposite for me; the kind sleep wey I dey sleep in the morning if I do dat pap and moi moi/akara combo ennn

jmoore:
Nnamdi Kanu is an enemy of Anambra state


2015 General elections, Nnamdi KANU didn't call for boycott of general elections.

Note that Anambra state election calendar is different from the general elections.

2017 Nnamdi Kanu orders for boycott of Anambra election.

2019 Nnamdi Kanu declared that there will be no boycott of the general elections. He stated “Having confirmed this evening that all our preconditions and terms have been met, signed, sealed and delivered; I hereby call-off the election boycott across Biafraland on Feb. 16, 2019”,
He didn't even disclose the details of the terms and conditions that were met. Maybe he was even bribed.

2021 Nnamdi Kanu orders another boycott of Anambra election.

From the pattern you can see that Nnamdi Kanu is bent on destroying Anambra, but his mission will fail.
He's from Abia state, all the governors from Orji Uzor, T.A. Orji to Okezie Ikpeazu have reduced Abia state to the dirtiest state in Nigeria.
The roads in Aba is the worst in southeast. Nnamdi Kanu has never declared boycott in his home state. Why the special interest in Anambra?
Because he hates the progress in Anambra.

You appear very myopic and limited in you inability to think beyond Eastern Nigeria.

Maryliola:
Hey guys

I’m making this post because I don’t want to be judged and I can’t turn my on people in my real life because they may not understand. Well I’ve been married for 2 plus years I’m 27 with a son. I’m going to get personal so embrace yourself.

Myself and my husband have a good relationship, almost too good because I literally see him like my brother. This is to the point where our romantic/lover side of our relationship is kinda dead. I see him naked, it’s like looking at my brother naked. I don’t feel turned on, or excited. We talk and gist like friends, but romantically things are flat. Our sex life is mediocre I guess. He doesn’t do oralll sexxx and he ejaculates very fast. I’m talking 10 seconds, and it’s every single time despite taking different preventative measures. I know that I’m extremely clean as I’m very observant of myself and he also tells me all the time. Yet orall sexxx is disgusting to him and “dehumanising”. There’s no passion when we kiss, its forced most times.


Lately I’ve been finding myself fantasising about being touched by a man , almost every night . A man that will give me orall sexx a man that will turn me on and blow me away. I don’t want to be judged here, but this is genuinely how I’ve been feeling. I don’t want to put pressure on my husband as he has other things to worry about.
A man that will kiss me in all the right places and make me feel like a woman. Sometimes I believe I’m being delusional, or unrealistic. I’m trying to get rid of these thoughts, but I really don’t know how. I have never cheated on my husband and I don’t think I have the guts to do it. I really just want to know how married people cope when that spark is gone. When you begin to look at your spouse like a brother or sister, and romantically the vibes are not there.

Let me also say that I’ve addressed this to him many times, but he stands he’s not willing to compromise.

Help!

Mods, I need this on front page as I need help for people to see this.

Your husband is a huge problem here. He last only 10 seconds, he isn’t willing to compromise, never ever wants to try MouthAction. Na wa oo. Which kind man be that? I can bet he doesn’t even make any effort to reignite the spark in the marriage or maybe hasn’t even noticed something is wrong et or taken it seriously. The key to a successful marriage especially when it comes to sex is flexibility. If your man no gree move, one day you go taya kpatakpata begin dey seriously consider outside waka.

ezugegere:
You both need to make conscious efforts to make your marriage work. I think the major problem here is his inability to last, which can be solved.
Don't try to pressure him into MouthAction since he finds it disgusting. I too don't like it. I don't think it's healthy.

But if your woman agrees to give you a blowjobb you would quickly whip out ya diick, sit back, relax and enjoy right? Una never talk the madness wey dey inside una head. It is disgusting and not healthy....what kind of dirty women do you date sef??

Optimistguy1969:
Medicine is good, but GOD IS GREAT

It is all medicine, God had nothing to do with it.

BlesE:
God is great

It is all science; God had nothing to do with. If he did, then why did he make them conjoined in the first place? Christians, una get brain for inside una head, make una dey try use am.

BornorBang:
May God help them.

We Nigerians deserve every ounce of the suffering, hardship and lack of development we get because we are the cause of our problems.

jamaicabakare:
Mumu talk from an imbecilic fellow.

Person wey done win 4 Europa League cup..(the most decorated manager in Europa League history).

Ex Sevilla coach, Ex PSG coach, Ex Arsenal coach...and you open your rotten mouth to say he's not ambitious for turning down coaching Newcastle...?

Oti ya werey.

You give that idiiot well. All these football fans with low knowledge and IQ go just come online dey talk rubbish!

TechCapon:
This mumu manager. Newcastle is the richest club in the world right now and most managers will jump at the opportunity but fear of premiere league is the beginning of wisdom. He doesn't want to suffer the humiliation he suffered from arsenal again so it's better to stay in his comfort zone.

If you have never coached even the local street boys in your area, shut da hell up!

richmondefosa:


Not an ambitious man in my books.

Manchester United gave this guy relevance by losing the Europa League final.

If not, who is Unai Emery?

An Arsenal reject.

All these bread-and-butter football fans. You think Arsenal hired him out of thin air? Go look up his records before you come online and spill rubbish!

englishmart:
Firstly, I see court weddings as unnecessary. What's the essence of it if you're not thinking of divorce?
I think court weddings favour only or mostly females, who want to have a good share of your assets once divorce happens. Are there any hidden benefits a guy stands to achieve when he court-weds his wife?

Court marriages/weddings are useful when it comes to abroad matters. Daz all!

Bolustical:
Saturday election is between APC and APGA. PDP does not stand a chance.

The so-called umbrella party came a distant 3rd in the last gubernatorial election in Anambra.

When would you Nigerians have sense and realize that all these parties APC, PDP, APGA, e.t.c are one and the same??

nzeobi:
The last thing ebonyi needs now is an airport, many states have airports running at a loss so building an airport for the poorest state in southern Nigeria is a feel good white elephant project of the governor.

Let him massively educate his people, invest in agriculture and processing to eradicate poverty or you can tell me if he had done any of these appreciably

Have you taken your medication today?

nzeobi:
And what did you point out

Read my previous comment again but this time, slowly.

uptimum123:
Jagaban Borgu Our next President

Bola Ahmed Tinubu Is A Visionary Leader

A great Intellect

I just love this man

Please provide me a list of Tinubu’s achievements in terms of growth and development

7victor:
There is a belief by scientists that lifes had existed on the earth at certain times and were later annihilated.



This existence and annihilation had continued over time till our present age of homo sapients, according to them.



They believe that since the earth began,different forms of lifes had existed and were annihilated at one point or another.


This is the idea which is at the heart of the belief that human lifes could be wiped out by climate change.


Scientists seem to countenance the belief that the destruction of previous lifes was a result of natural disaster, disease, famine or weather change.




They belief it could happen to us anytime soon if care is not taken.





But we who believe in God do not support such belief.


We don't countenance the idea that something can suddenly end all lifes on earth.


God would protect us.


Everything is in God's hands.


Although man must also do his best to curb everything leading to the negative climate change.


Please know that Jesus Christ can save you.

Call upon Him today and show love to someone today.

Your comment made me burst into laughter; your own brainwashing by religion strong no be small.

Odewaleadesoye:
I will still repeat what I have said earlier:

Sentiment apart, Obi Cubana did nothing wrong.

How about those thieves at the house of assembly and all? Are they too big to visit EFCC office too?

This is not good at all.

#FreeObiCubana

Two wrongs don’t make a right.

shigishege:
This is a real tragedy. God save us all.

There is no God, stop wasting your time. White people don’t believe in God yet they take great care so such disasters rarely happen and make sure there are heavy consequences for those responsible whenever there is a tragedy like this as a means of preventing a reoccurrence. That is why they rarely experience such tragedies but in the Jesus loving and Allah worshipping country of Nigeria, they make no efforts whatsoever yet expect their “Almighty” to come down from heaven and perform miracles.

Guestlander:
Preventable tragedy. Profit before people.

In saner climes, when the government is done with the contractor of that building and its owner, they would never be able to build even a boys quarter again, but in Nigeria...corruption and nonchalant attitude is the order of the day yet we expect miracles to happen.

uptimum123:
It is well...May the soul of the departed rest in peace.


Everything possible must be done by the Lagos State Government to make sure such doesn't happen again

Nothing will happen and nothing will be done by the Lagos state government. We Nigerians are an unserious bunch, yet expect miracles to happen.

nzeobi:
Members administering a national party should come from all parts of the nation, there's nothing wrong with that

I already pointed out what is wrong with that.

nzeobi:
Each region was given a slot and the youth leadership slot was for his zone that was how he emerged

This zoning of a thing na im go kill Nigeria! Instead of us to be looking for competent leaders irrespective of where they come from, we are sharing positions to please every tom, dick and harry

Victorfresh008:
I SAW THIS ON her wall again. I think it was posted 4days ago. Question is How? How does she does it?

No, the most important question here is: How do you write such impeccable English grammar?!

SenatePresdo:
At this age, Soludo is still playing politics of name spoiling.

He should be telling Ndị Anambra what they need and how he would provide it.

SMH

You think that is what people in Anambra are interested in? Soludo should better go about sharing bags of rice and groundnut oil because that is what Nigerians are interested in whenever elections are around the corner

Fahdiga:
Reno is a selfish man. If his wife didn't allow him into her life how would he have conceived the daughter

Let the girl mature small na; don’t be a pedophile.

yyba:
Illiterates ipob online miscreants will soon invade this thread with hate comments

You neva taya to suffer?!

Recently, he left Nigeria and went to a saner clime with one of the best medical systems in the world. This man has never spoken out against the nonsense happening in this country. 2023 you would vote him as President and soon after he would jet out to continue getting the best medical care while your doctors are on strike and your health system is in shambles.

Look at your hospitals below and look at what Tinubu has to say about “One Nigeria”.


Nigerians when una go get sense!!