₦airaland Forum

Donlino123:
I can't believe we are from the same country, its really painful!!!

Enter bush na.
If you don't like what is happening why not go to Niger state where the thing is happened and show them how caring you are,instead of this empty threats and needless cry.

Came4apost:
This poster is either uneducated or simply too brainwashed by the so called religion, or you can't depict wrong from right.. Stupid you how did you know the age your grand parents got married.. And if 13 years marry 14 years will anyone be shouting.. You are a big foooooooool

Who cares what you say.

PrinceBBlack:
it was there and that os the reason y its not bringing major development to the north especially so if then no government should be blamed for their own very misfortune

What has marrying a young girl got to do with development?

leave the Oldman alone and his young wife ni.

Na you born am?

PrinceBBlack:
This is part of y Nigeria isnt going anywhere. When the constitution is religiously and ethically biased. It would not procecute a northerner for child abuse due to penal code but could prosecute in the south using criminal act. Northernera are just a negative vibe to Nigeria

Before Lord Lugard amalgamated Nigeria this practice have been there so save your breath.


Who is complaining to you?

I don't know from what moralistic point of view these twerps complaining about.
The girl married to the man is not complaining and there is nothing to suggest this is a pedophile or pedophilia.

Islām can not be crucified becauase some pained idiots don't know that meaning of pedophile and marrying a young bride is.

Most of your grand parents married approximately at the age of 13 to 14 years, and some over night moralist complaining as if what they say would change anything.

BetterPoison:
Mr religion of Piss. You are right with the bolded. Yes! Nigerians are complaining

Are Nigerians the one who took care of her?

You think if I have a daughter that decides to marry a older man who is upright and well to do,do you think I will make her marry an hooligan because he is younger ?

wait who una 21st century help?
21st century relationship achievements :

Increased in baby mamas.
Increase in bastards.
Increase in infidelity
increase in rape.
increase in spousal abuse.
Inrcrease in the rate if indecency.

We can keep reeling them out.

humandroid:
If this is approved by Allah and Mohammed, then I must question the sanity of both entities.

It seems you lost your bearings.


You want to use your washed up 21st century shenanigan to judge a practice you know nothing about?

fatymore:
I am not saying it is good but is still better than those defiling underage kids all in the name of being a man of god...

It is left to wailers to wail.

If there is an agreement between both the bride and the groom then whoever is not pleased can go to court and sue them.

joyfullyjoyous:
This is just wickedness because in no time the girl will become a widow. It's high time this practice is stopped. This is 21st century for crying out loud!!!

But your girls can fornicate with all kinds of guys before they eventually settle down. But when a girl that is matured from the north settles down it is seen as a violation of human rights signed and approved by people for the East.

Please, note that what is okay in culture A maybe not be okay culture B and vice-versa.
Learn to respect people's cultural background.

Segeshow:
Paedophilia is allowed in Islam. Na dem way

It not big head.

Oyindidi:
Uncircumcised long preeq! You no see your mate marry

Is the girl complaining.
I doubt the source of this story.
Until there is corroborative evidences then and there can I say yes it took place.

If it really happened,then the people who have a right to complain are the people from the north not some group of people who know nothing about the norm and social conduct of another people.


After all, the man isn't marrying your daughter or sister or even your niece so why the shouting.

BetterPoison:
ISLAM is everything that is wrong with the world
in fact RELIGION is everything that is wrong with the world

I understand you pains, but unfortunately I can't help you.

MalcomX raised some points and I waiting to see who will respond to them.
And moreover in Islām, if a girl is matured there is nothing wrong in her marrying someone older.
After all, the girl's father, mother, brother or relatives are not complaining.

TommyAnthem:
Epileptic statement, please bury your head in shame, islam is a big problem
to the world, there's nothing to defend. Just remove Islam from this world, there will be total peace for mankind. [/

I have this words for you :

"Whoever should think that Allah will not support [Prophet Muhammad] in this world and the Hereafter - let him extend a rope to the ceiling, then cut off [his breath], and let him see: will his effort remove that which enrages [him]?"


Qur'ān 22:15

simplesearch:
Nobody is even permitted to take the life of another for any reason, any religion that allow a bit of this is not of God as no such command ever emanate from him. That's why under the old testament rule, only those that are eighteen years and above are drafted into the military force, and they are the ones who are permitted to wage war when the need arises. If the offence is domestic in nature the Judges are all there to interpret the law and pronounce right judgement against the offender, so for people who think killing under the old testament was arbitrary and still hold such belief as a basis for terminating other people's life who happens to hold a different or divergent religious belief from theirs are ignorant of God's law. We are strictly instructed by God to be our Brother's keeper and if we can't do that then we should let the person be. Therefore the issue of killing a whole family for one person's offence does not even arise, only the state reserves the right to sentence anyone to death as may be stipulated in their respective constitution, no single person or group of persons has that right. It is therefore pathetic to justify taking another person's life and deny him right to a continuous and peaceful living under the flimsy excuse of not abiding by one's religious tenet or creed. I believe if we all accept and abide by this truth as commanded by God and disallow wicked individuals who set themselves up as prophet or servant of God from colonizing our thoughts with hateful teachings that does not emanate from God, Humanity will be the better for it.

I agree no religion should permit killing people irresponsibly, but killing under certain condition is still allowed.
You don't preach love and turning the other cheek when a Street urchin, or a hooligan rapes (God forbid) your mother or your wife.
You will. t even bear the psychological effect that comes with such and tell me I shouldn't kill.

You can't also tell me that if you see a thief who is ready to kill you and steal your property, and you are fortunate enough to have the chance to knock him down that you would gladly and meekly turn the other cheek.
who in his right mind do that?
Please, don't go all sanctimonious on me because you want to preach to me that Jesus is Lord,
I know that dude. Jesus is your Lord and personal saviour but, he is not my God neither my Lord.
He is a prophet of God from Nazareth like it was reported in your Bible.
And that is all.

You see why I hate democracy, I mean dem-all-crazy.
Even If it is not a crime there are certain places in this country you dare not try it or you will meet your fire fathers as they say.

Even if it isn't legal to arrest them,why do it in the public.
Humans are not animals and I don't know any right thinking human who claims to worship God that will openly and shamelessly endorse this rubbish.

Imagine one fool asking who has decency helped.
This is how low we can go.
We can copy rubbish from the white people, but our sense goes out the window when it comes to copying them in standing up for justice and upholding equity.

If our fore fathers were supposedly daft for selling their sons for a piece of mirror to their eventual slave masters I am wondering what they will call this.

Many people say this generation is worst.
I say,the next generation will herald the Armageddon.

HungerMustGo:
Hard drug dealers are successful. Does that make them responsible human beings?
What of successful ritualists and yahoo plus fraudsters?

You dey mind the small boy. This is how they got about misleading the young ones.

funmisticqueen:
pls see the psychiatrist for your tangential speech.

OK MA.
You need a brain surgeon for your oblong ideas.

SweetBuns:
And if I say men are enslaved by our honeypots now, they will turn the thread upside down.
Some men lack self control. How hard can monogamy be? Sticking with one girl for the rest of your life is too hard for them
What nonsense. How can someone go through this much pain just to add more weight to his neck?
Its like suffering for more suffering. Idiot

That is where you are getting it wrong.
It's a cultural thing; and it is not universally acceptable.
Men and women are meant to breed and upbring their successors not compete over ephemerals.

Honeypot or not, we need each other.
Don't always make a topic out of women not needing men.
You need us(men) as much as we need you(women).

But this Fulani culture sha,.. Well, everyone as a way of getting what they want.

I read somewhere in one culture in Kenya or Cameroon (I can't quite recall)where women draw out their lower lip wide enough like a plate so that they could look attractive for their suitors.
It is just a case of different strokes for different folks.

If you were Fulani, maybe this is what men would do to marry you.
And you will be selling Nunu and fura like those Fulani women ..lol.
Sometimes we just have to thank God for our lives and where we are born.

ZKOSOSO:
Very remorseful....! I can even feel it here after 8yrs.....yeye boy!!

That's what radical Islam is all about, producing irrationally, depraved terrorists all over the world all because ''Islam is the only true religion accepted by Allah'' bulshit! ''Death to Infidels'' bla bla..

Trust Donald Trump, dis Katsina terrorist go perish for dia..!

USA is not Nigeria where Buhari will release you from jail with cash benefits to go do more....!

Please, learn to stick to the topic.

And who cares if he spends is entire earthly life in that dungeon.

Is father did all a good father could, but as humans we all. have a choice to be good or evil.

Islām never orders anyone to kill anybody just for any reason one feels.
I can't as a Muslim go ahead to massacre a family simply because someone from that family wronged me. In Islām,it is not permitted to take laws into your hands. There is procedural process you pass through to get justice not this .

AbdulMutallib may well kiss goodbye to his chances of coming about of that place. He has mislead many non Muslims in thinking wrong about Islam and Muslims and at the same time wronged us with his unIslaamic conduct.

We pray that we should never see such again.

IamD18:
She's HIV positive.

It seems you are the one who did the test? Social media is turning some dudes to some high school girls.

MannieA:
are you a rapist sir
agreed I am not a man... but I've seen the pain these victims go through.... I've seen how much it damaged them
now.. no offence but if as a man.. u can't control urself and you will have the intentions of raping a woman bcoz of the way she's dressed.. DAT means u deserve to be behind bars... it's not an Insult Sir.. but the fact.Coz when u are behind bars.. u won't rape anyone...or see indecent dressing

Another off the track quote.

The topic was essentially about perception and respect for women being abused in our society .
Who was talking about child rape?
You should focus on the specifics not dragging issues which are though related, but separate from the point of focus.
If we are discussing rice don't bring beans to the topic. You should focus of the topic which perception and abuse of women vis-a-vis respect.

Child rape is a different subject entirely from this one.

Do I support women being raped?.never!
But do women contribute to this abuse? Yes.
And we can reel out many contributory factors to show this.
The way they dress.
Where they go to.
Who they move with.
Who they trust .
And ultimately, their care free attitude towards the male folks.

I don't trust myself to the extent of being secluded with a female because the chances of something happening are doubly increased when we are secluded than when we are in the public.

Most ladies should stop thinking that the way they dress can not in anyway influence the way men perceive them because some of us 'can controlv ourselves.
This lame excuse of saying men can control themselves is as feeble as somebody telling me that flies do not perch on excreta in a open place.



I be man and I know wetin I dey talk .

funmisticqueen:
nope, stop trying to push responsiblity,men have an equual role to play, what of infants and children, do they also have responsibility. is it her fault a 10 yr old is raped cos she plays with panties on the stree. You have no point

I agree I have no point because I didn't pander to your 'almighty elixir. '
Like I said, you are totally off track.
Or is it that comprehension is very difficult for you to grasp?
Go back to the topic sis and you will get my point.

As I have always said, I do not support any form of abuse against women, but women inevitably have a bigger role to play in all this.

Maybe this scenario I will paint will help to drive home the point I have been trying to make.
For instance, a lady knows in a specific dark corner in street have some bunch of hooligans who are ready for a catch or ready to tease and abuse a lady at a particular time in the night,and this place is well known to all for its bad vibes, but this lady(seemingly strong willed, but foolish) knowing all these still goes ahead hoping on luck that she will get home unscathed, but unfortunately for her she get abused by these hooligans.
Now honestly answer this question:who will you put the blame on first:
The lady or the hooligans?
But every sensible person would but naturally blame the lady for not taking to precaution.
You don't take risk which you clearly know the odds don't favour you.
Similarly, every lady with an atom of sense would not put themselves in harm's way simply because she is a female.
You don't take risk and blame the factors that forewarned you.
This is all what I have been stretching my back to pass across ; maybe you are a feminist - who never want to take the blame their actions except they blame it on men.
Anyways, you just got busted.

Evans211:
Somehow, Ronaldo thinks he’s very smart. Spare me the bull crap career moves you have made thus far. If you wanna brag about this, go to a team like Leicester, Eiber, Fiorentina et el and see how massively you’d fall. Fine, I’ve an insane respect on your individual achievements in every team. Regardless, not enough justification to brag about it!

All the teams you’ve been to are equally major leagues teams with good history of football and tittle winnings (with or without you they’d succeed). Until you move to an average team, brag not about your career moves.

Messi will forever be a better player than you’re; a play maker, disciplined, tactician, accuracy and dribbles. Stop whining baba.

Don’t be an agbaya. You’re still older remember?

Even we were to put Messi to same test how sure are we that he would make it through?

He couldn't even make Argentina reach the semi finals and you want him to play the way he is still playing?
He is so used to the way Barcelona are playing that if he goes to another club I very much doubt if he can put up. such display.
But Ronaldo has gone on to establish himself as an all-weather footballer.
Was it his early days in Sporting Lisbon(and know Sporting is not a big club when compared to Benfica and FC Porto) to Manchester United, to Madrid and Juventus. come on dude.
Let's be fair.
I know Ronaldo is good and Messi is better but one is yet to test himself in other leagues.

EVILFOREST:
We all know.
If not for the LAZY PLAYERS paraded by ARGENTINA. They expect him to wash their dirty linens for them, as well.

He has Offered the WORLD a lot.
We can’t wait to meet another SOCCER TERRORIST in the next 30 years.

Such players visit the World every 30years

Did I just read lazy players paraded by Argentina are the cause of them not lifting the World Cup?

Virtually all the Argentinian players they have paraded in all the World Cup Messi played in, play for world class club sides, I mean the very best .

Is it Di Maria, Aguero, Nicolas Otamendi, Ezquiel Lavezzi! and others.

I know based on my own personal judgement Messi Is a better player than Ronaldo, even when I am a Ronaldo fan, but being the GOAT in football history is totally out if it.

Where would you place Johan Cruyff?
Franz Benkabuer? Roamario? Rivaldo? Zinedine Zidane? and other world cup winners and their likes.
Not even mentioning Maradona and Pele. who are fat ahead of him in that respect.

If it were argued that he is the greatest Barcelona player I will not argue, but in the world of football history? Never.

Let him win at Super Americano (South America nations cup) and maybe a World Cup then we can start talking, but now he can only be GOAT in Barca.

funmisticqueen:
man is a higher animal who has the power of will and choice. A man chooses to rape a woman, it is not the devil.
Women are moved by what they hear, yet we dont rob every man who says he has money , do we?

No.
I was only narrowing it down to the topic from the article .

I totally condemn any form of abuse against women,but women themselves shouldn't put themselves in harms way.
I am not saying ,I am support rape or any form of abuse in anyway, but women have a bigger role to play in all this, by being conscious of what they put on, where they go to, who they visit and who they move with.

Oreofepeters:
Bro as long as we respect our mothers we should respect women. Don't let all these slay queens change your mentality.

Respect is reciprocal.

Women of these days especially ladies, should dress the way they would like to addressed.
You can't dress like a prostitute and expect me to respect you ike my mother.
Mbaaanuuuu!

funmisticqueen:
that is not an excuse to rape or be raped, if that is the case, nursing mothers who breastfeed in public will be raped too.

This your point is totally off track.
We men are stimulated by sight(what we see) and this biological,its not what you can unlearn.
And you women know. this too. well that is why a prostitute will put on less clothing just to attract any willing customer.
If any man tells you he can control himself 100% at the sight of a non well dressed woman just know he is lying through his teeth or probably needs to see a psychiatrist.

This is the fact of the matter.
We (I) personally love, cherish and respect women who are always well dressed and represent the African culture of modesty not these generations wannabees who want to look like Nicki Minaj and Kim Kardashian and are also demanding for what they can't give.

Westaslave2:
so if u arrest him d hundreds of pple who die everyday cos of terrorism in north which apc govt is hiding frm us, wl stop,

U nid wisdom, he wl pierce ur wicked heart wt truth until u develop depression

This is not an insult,but the question is ,how can a lady be this senseless?

You are still rooting for a man who obviously cares more for his dead dog(Jack) than his 'Biafra-or-we-die foot soldiers (as well as online keyboard warriors).

I wondering the kind of spell this wild albino orangutan cast on you people that has made it your stock in trade in defending whatever rubbish he says.

swiz123:
Kanu really shouldn't be bothered about this.

The north will bear the full brunt of ISIS wrath. I just hope my Igbo brothers resigns from the zoo army

OK. The zoo is meant to keep those who acknowledge it as a zoo.
And we all know who the animals are.

diggles:
At least take a moderate amount to be safe.

It starts with moderate amount, it never starts with large amount. . It is bad to take alcohol no matter what.

awakeupcall4all:
I thought you Mr. Omokri has been dismissing this assertion that we now have an impostor as a president....

This is not a joking matter though.....This BMC zombies should all stop been stupid for goodness sake....It is absolutely stupid to wave off a piece of information without making even the faintest of effort to research about that...May be because the loudest cry has been coming from Mr kanu??

So in 2018 you all still believe it is impossible to have double or a clone which ever one suits you..invest little data and make researchs on YouTube....There is no chance in hell a shrivelled and almost lifelessly emanciated Buhari will come back from London looking like a 50 year old.....make una use una brains now..

This is national security we are talking about here...Madam Aisha Buhari even got tired of how docile and gullible people has become in Nigeria lamenting where are Nigeria men!!!!

Yet some cursed soul are still shouting sai baba up and down....So you want to vote for Abba Kyari and Mamman Daura while the dummy moves around claiming president??....Una head correct so or are you guys under spell ni

There is one thing I like social media for.
It creates this huge,humongous delusion that even if you are saying rubbish you have more than enough may be curable simpletons willing to support your trash with likes and shares: as if INEC now conducts election on Nairaland.

No body believes and peddles Nnamdi Cownu's epistles of falsehood except his goons and those who have political scores to settle with this president.
Even the fake Wendell Simlin aka Reno Omkiri who was caught for a somewhat similar crime(yet to be substantiated with valid facts) is here trying to deodorize himself as a paradigm of virtue.



https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/top-news/174113-wendell-simlin-american-woman-accuses-reno-omokri-identity-theft.html

BeautifulMind2:
Buhari is a movement in the north

I love Buhari as my president, but what I won't tolerate is somebody lying so pervasively that it becomes utterly ridiculous to even the foolish.