If the men in your family are rapists or the men around you are useless, don't project to others around you.
Upon all the modern world's attempt to ruin and distort nature, you'll still act like victims that you are: victims of your bitterness, bile and lack of self worth.
Nobody can make you inferior if you don't let them.
omokudu: I watch the released video, and it looks more of a product of bad parenting from all the children involved. Judging by the video I watched, It doesn’t look like rape (I might be wrong).
Chrisland was supposed keep a close eye on them, and also inform the parents when it occurred. They are to be blamed to
Joezinho: The crucial question is who raped her? Who recorded it and who were their chaperone to the trip?
Meanwhile, the family should report the school and the rapists to the police and let justice take its course. Social media no be police..
They should not report to social media, why? You want this trail to be closed doors so that the school and rapists' families will buy the police and court?
Joezinho: Ever heard of statustory rape? Sexual relations involving someone below the age of consent?
My own shock is why the school left the girl and boys in the same hotel room with no adult to watch over them..
Please don't mind TheStakeHolder and his likes. God will punish all rape apologists.
Kriss216: The girl was the one that raped the boy. She was riding the little boy. The parents of the boy should sue the girl, her mother and the school.
God please come to our aid. Nigeria is not a place to breed a girl child. Hear what comes out from a suppose human being mouth.
When Sarah says that all men are rapists people think she hates men not knowing she's speaking the facts.
I challenge anyone on this forum. I give you from now till the last day of this month. Post a news article of rape case involving a Nigerian woman as the culprit and I will empty my bank account for you
All of you claim Nigerian women also rape and yet none of you has ever posted a picture or video evidence here.
Check out sapphiere profile. 90% of the threads there are Nigerian men raping women and their fellow men with pictures and videos proofs.
The mother of Miss Julia, a 10-year-old student of Chrisland School who was gang-raped by her fellow students, cried out for justice.
The devastated mother called on Nigerians and the Nigerian government to get justice for her daughter.
In an eleven-minute video, she narrated how the school authority tried to cover up the evil done to her daughter by fellow students.
According to her, the school's Head Teacher, Mrs Azieke called her on a phone for a meeting in her office. On getting to the school, she met two women in the Head Teacher's office and was told they came in from the Headquarters of the school.
The Head Teacher told her that the reason for the meeting was to inform her that her daughter who was among the students who went to Dubai to represent the school in a competition was involved in a 'Truth or Dare' game which resulted in her kissing her fellow student.
The Head Teacher then advised her to collect her daughter's phone from her since it was discovered that the students learnt the 'Truth or Dare' game through their phones.
The Head Teacher and the other women whom she met in her office caution her not to tell her husband what has happened.
She assured them that since the only crime the child committed was 'kissing', she will not inform her father, also, she will collect her phone from her.
Days after the meeting, the Head Teacher called her, then sent her a link to join a Zoom meeting. When she joined, she saw different people in the meeting and the person who officiated the meeting said that the meeting was held to make sure her daughter was fine.
When she heard the statement "meeting was held to make sure her daughter was fine", she demanded to know what happened to her daughter but none of them could open up to her.
Few days later a parent from that school called her to her house and showed her a video where her daughter was ra.ped by some male students.
On getting home, she told her husband and the daughter was beaten. Her daughter later opened up and told her how the school management abandoned them in a hotel room in Dubai and how the Head Teacher after discovering what happened, warned her not to tell her parents what happened.
She also alleged that the school has been having secret meetings with her daughter without her knowledge as a mother and the school also threatened to kill her daughter if she tells anyone what happened.
God1000: For those of you that think Barack Obama is evil because of his policies and stance on homosexuality, he's a surefooted Christian, a true believer in Christ, he goes to church regularly.
You can see him reading the holy bible
He's a proud Blackman as well, I remember him going to his ancestral homeland keyna as senator and president.
Doesn't Satan go to church? Doesn't Satan read the Bible?
Dybala11: So meaning that does that doesn't like sharing stickers are not violent and can never engage in domestic violence?? Still doesn't make any sense young woman.
Do you know why US judges use American rappers lyrics against them in court? Oh! It's just a lyrics it means nothing. SMH
donleo92: Everybody is hung up on domestic abuse by men against women. Nobody spares a moment to find solutions to the equally devastating verbal abuse men suffer in the hands of their wives. It is worse because men can't discuss what their wives do to them for fear of scorn and derision. They suffer in silence. Timebomb.
Unfortunately, the Nigerian society has little or no support systems for this kind of situation. Little or no counselling services. It's been mostly left to the church to deal with. What happens when the man doesn't go to church? What happens when the woman doesn't believe in spiritual intervention? These women are raising daughters. Their daughters are hearing and seeing how they speak to and treat their husband. What kind of wives will they grow up to become? Those that treat their husbands as kings or those that believe husbands are nothing but verbal punching bags?
We've all agreed and rightfully so that a man has no business hitting his wife. So how then do you stop a wife raining verbal missiles at you? Leave the house? Okay. But you'll return and it will continue. What next? Leave again? For how long?
Recently, I visited a senior friend, an important man in the society and while we were downstairs gisting, the voice of his wife could be heard upstairs. She was spewing unimaginable bile against the man. She called him all sorts of unprintable names. Impotent, wretched fool, miserable man that was nothing when she married him, etc. This is a well respected man. A father of 4 children. She tore at his very core and mocked everything society respected him for. She said he'd soon crash and she'll be there to laugh at him.
I was so uncomfortable as I beheld the man. He was shrunken before me. He was deflated. He tried to gamefully continue the gist to distract me but it was not working. The woman's vitriol was a ceaseless torrent. Uncomfortable silence ensued. I excused myself and left his house.
I was really sad.
You want to know the truth? This is what most men go through in their houses. They labour and toil and build respect but when they return home, the one who ought to speak to the king in them tears them to shreds and tries to deflate their self-esteem. When they are outside, they try to act cheerful and happy but back home, they are shrivelled because the person they live with makes it a point of duty to verbally assault them.
A sad story comes to mind. There was recently a Nigerian Ambassador who was recalled because his wife released a story to the press that he beat her. She also released pictures showing fresh injuries on her body ostensibly inflicted by the man.
In a dramatic twist, their children came out to debunk the stories and said their mother faked the injuries to embarrass their dad. Grown up children.
A particular sentence by the 1st son saddened me. He said it was as if their mum woke up every morning with one mission in life: how to make their dad miserable. They said they were witnesses to how their mum constantly harassed and abused their dad and wanted the whole world to know that their dad was not who their mum was painting him to be.
Yes, opinion shifted on the scandal but the damage had been done. The Ambassador was recalled and nobody heard from him again.
A family is currently at odds with the widow of their son and brother. The wife was constantly verbally assaulting him. Nobody wanted to visit them because each time they were around, it was always quarrel and the wife would call him unprintable names. Even in their presence. When they try to interfere, she will give them their own. The man died recently of heart-attack caused by high blood pressure. He was in his late 40s. The family insists his wife sent him to his early grave with her verbal torments.
Our bars are filled with men who are afraid to go home to their wives for fear of what verbal torment they will go through. Men are finding every excuse to travel because they'll rather be anywhere than in their own homes.
Everybody is focusing on men as culprits in domestic abuse. Who is talking to the women?
The injuries of a 23-year-old lady who was ran over three times in a road rage attack have been revealed.
Morgan Scott suffered deep gashes over 60 percent of her body. She was also left with a broken spine and severed liver after a man known as Vincent Jean mowed her down three times with his SUV.
The attack happened on Tuesday, April 12. The has suspect has been arrested and charged with first-degree attempted murder and third-degree assault by auto.
Writing on Instagram on Saturday, April 16, the lady's father said:
'Recently my daughter endured a horrible attack on her life but God was merciful and spared my daughter from death.'
'Thank you for your love and support she is recovering God is good! God is Good!!!!!' Isaac, an eyewitness, said he didn't believe she would survive the horrendous ordeal.
He and his wife, a retired nurse, say they raced to help the victim and said she whispered 'thank you' when they placed a blanket over her.
Isaac, who watched the attack unfold from his home over the road, said the woman was battling a fractured spine and severed liver in hospital.
He told DailyMail.com: 'I walked out and saw the school bus stopped. People were running and screaming and it was just crazy.
'I saw the lady was lying on the grass across the street. I looked at this woman and it was just awful.
'We took a blanket as the grass was really still wet and I asked my wife - who was a nurse - if she was alive.
'She said the woman said ''thank you'' to her when she passed it over. Every time I look at the video it makes me feel sick.
'By the last time she got run over she looked completely out of it on the ground. She should never have survived that.'
Also new reports reveal that the suspect, Jean, 56, was obsessed with Grand Theft Auto and posted numerous clips of the video game on his social media.
The Scott family said they were devastated at the 'atrocious' attack and added it was 'not the result of any domestic dispute'.
Jean has been charged with first-degree attempted murder and third-degree assault by auto.
Jean is currently being held at the Union County Jail awaiting a hearing.
Googledman: Hi guys, just opened this account to stay anonymous.
I've been dating this girl for 5 months now, everything I've been smooth until just yesterday evening. I was chatting with her through WhatsApp, it was all fun until i used a sticker of this skit maker ''ogb cultist". In that sticker, he raised his hand like he wanted to slap someone and his signature slang "You wan collect??"..
The response i got almost got me mad... She said she has known that I will be abusive, I'm wicked and all manner of talk. Then she said its over... IT'S OVER BETWEEN US. I tot it was a joke, like how can i explain me trying to joke and then the joke is now on me. I told her, i never meant it, it was just a joke. Even the preceding conversations before i sent in the sticker was all fun nd jokes but she said she couldn't risk being with someone that sees slapping someone as a joke. Moreover, why should i joke with such sensitive matters that just recently a claimed life of someone she look up to.
Now, this is serious has she have blocked my lines and no form of communication since.
Pls what should i do... A friend of mine said she is just looking for a slight opportunity to dump me. Is it enough reason to call a sweet relationship off. Pls i need advise.
Is either the girl is stupidly childish or she didn't love you a bit, she needed a slightest thing to use and break up with you.
Move on immediately and don't look back, don't beg her , act as if she didn't exist in your world. If you happen to come across her, don't say anything regarding to that, if she bring up the topic tell her that you're not interested. Please mean it as you're saying.
What is wrong with you Madam Vena? So how do you think abuse in a relationship starts? Must God always come down to talk to us before we heed? That was a red flag and the girl took the right decision. Na from sleep person de take learn death.
PassingShot: I read a NL thread https://www.nairaland.com/7077990/why-tinubu-lose-osinbajo-apc#up suggesting reasons why PYO will defeat BAT in the APC primary election to select who flies the ticket of the party in 2023 and I could not help but to laugh at the naivety and desperation of the writer. Well, without paying any attention to the weak and unfounded reasons he presented in his article, I make bold to advance the following arguments to conclude that Jagaban Borgu remains the only candidate who will win the primary contest, barring any last-minute jettisoning of primaries for consensus which is not even contained in the constitution of APC.
1. Tinubu’s political structure and machineries Even, his political foes will attest to the fact that BAT has built a well-oiled political structure that has not only survived the best of political warriors in OBJ and GEJ (with federal might), his structure has endured the worst of political earthquake and has remained very solid and functioning. In the primary contest for the presidential candidate which will be decided by delegates from APC across the 36 states, Tinubu structure will come in hand to deliver the goods.
2. BAT’s political alliance This is somewhat related to the first point but not entirely the same. In the course of single-handedly building and strengthening his political base (ACN), Tinubu it was who took ACN into alliance with CPC, ANPP, a faction of APGA and a faction of PDP. In fact, most political watchers agreed that the 2 most important figures in that successful alliance that produced APC are Buhari and Tinubu. The rest were only needed to make up the numbers and the spread. BAT has since that alliance built a working relationship with strong politicians in the north. The likes of Ganduje, Ribadu, Ado Dogawa, Ahmed Lawan, etc. are staunch Tinubu’s supporters who will deliver the delegates from that side of the country.
3. Neutrality of PMB PMB remains a political juggernaut whose support and influence can, to some extent determine who wins the APC ticket. From what I have read and heard, it was this support that Osinbajo was looking for that delayed his declaration. Unfortunately for him, PMB did not assure him of anything, instead preferring to be neutral and asking all the contestants to work hard to win the ticket. While it is possible for PMB to have a preference for PYO (highly doubtful), Buhari has demonstrated many times that he handles situations like this with utmost maturity and fairness to all involved. If he has forgotten how BAT deployed his resources to make him defeat Atiku and Kwankwaso in 2014 and to win the presidency in 2015 and 2019, he will surely be reminded by his close allies like Ganduje and the Senate President of this fact. And Buhari will choose to remain neutral. It is PYO who needs PMB so much and not the other way round.
4. Clear message of endorsement by the APC Senate and Rep Caucuses Not many watchers of political development will have missed the enormous support Tinubu enjoys from the APC senators and representatives. They are not hiding it and they have been saying it loud and clear even to the hearing of PYO. You only need to watch the Senate session when BAT paid the APC caucus a visit to intimate them of his ambition. You can also listen to Ado Doguwa’s recent interview on the same subject https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xqe6AQllcPA and here https://www.nairaland.com/7079123/doguwa-speaks-bola-tinubus-aspiration. I also read that of the seventy-something invited by PYO for Iftar, only 24 or so honored the invitation with majority of them spotting facemask with BAT logo. These speak volume about their position. They are the people that matter in this election and they are not politicians you can intimidate to change their mind. They believe in BAT and they are ready to reward his past support for them too.
5. Osinbajo has no political structure After seven years of being the VP of Nigeria, it is a fact that PYO has no political base or structure of note with which he can be guaranteed of delegates votes. This is someone who lost his polling booth in the last general election. Irrespective of whatever sentiment anyone in the party top hierarchy may want to have for a PYO candidacy, they will realize what a dangerous option his candidacy represents for their party and they will bury the thought without wasting time.
6. Perception of PYO as someone who cannot be trusted Like it or not, Osinbajo’s declaration has portrayed him as someone who cannot be relied upon. In politics, the currency is loyalty and anyone who is perceived as not loyal is usually avoided by those who matter. Even among those currently propping the professor on, there are those who will be murmuring within their heart that the VP cannot be trusted not to betray them at some point, especially if he becomes president and thus untouchable. I will personally be weary of such character too. Yes, he has the constitutional right to contest but he has thrown morality to the dustbin by standing up to challenge his one-time political mentor. I read a piece about how Tiinubu reluctantly agreed for Osinbajo to be the running mate to PMB out of the three names suggested to him. The fact that BAT’s choice was still going to be picked and that he eventually agreed to PYO being named as the running mate is enough for our erstwhile star boy to abandon his ambition for BAT’s.
Anyway, let’s see how far the support of sycophants and traducers of Tinubu can carry him in his quest to wrestle APC’s ticket from Jagaban.
Thanksful: I had to read the story again. None of what you pointed out here is in the original story.
Someone who claimed she confined in her raised the suspension not the neighbor.
I am restraining myself from believing, you're the Glory in question here from the way you're telling the story as an insider.
If my instinct is right. Go to your village and report to the elders for cleaning because this taboo dey wipe family out in Igbo land unless the traditional marriage didn't take place.
Maybe you didn't understand what I mean by the taboo. The accusation itself is as weighty as the act.
Education › Re: Truth Or Dare: Mother Of Julian, 10-Year-Old Chrisland Gang-Raped Student Speaks by FutureIsFemale(op): 11:58am On Apr 18, 2022
