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Zuchey91:
I need matured inputs please.

I am a married woman, with a child.

My Marriage has been really rocky. Quarrels every now and then.

What basically causes the problems is our differences, we just don’t understand each other, it wasn’t so visible during dating.

Although we did not date for long....but being married, it has been from one issue to the other, right from a week after our wedding.

I have always contemplated leaving, but I am yet to be fully independent.

Sometime this year, I found out he has been cheating (I was not surprised, but I was heart-broken) my discovery strengthened my resolve to leave the union.

In the process of nursing my heartbreak, I reconnected with an ex, we got talking and he helped my heal. I did not tell him what I was going through at the time...I was just enjoying the attention he was showing me.

I should state that I did not tell my husband about his cheating, I held all the emotions back, it was a very difficult period for me because I am usually the outspoken type.

My ex is not based in the country where me and my husband reside, we just communicate on phone, he says he misses me and would want us to meet when he is in town.

I should also state that my ex was married but divorced.

I would not deny my having feelings for my ex, and I also do not want to believe in a fairytale ending, I am just confused.

How old are you and your husband? Every marriage has it teething issues( permit me to use that)
For a successful marriage, sacrifices have to be made by the parties involved. You are both behaving like teenagers. Adultery should be the last thing on your mind. Your husband has not only cheated on you, he has sinned against God. I will suggest you perish any thought of getting even with him. Think of your child,that child should not suffer for daddy's indiscretion. Forgive him, sit him down and tell him this marriage has to work.
As for that ex of yours, discontinue any form of conversation with him, he is going to ruin you. I wonder why married couples still keep in touch with their exes.( it is a recipe for disaster)

HonNL:
SOURCE

You guys in the north should continue yo deceive yourselves.

Sluacoast:
If you get this you are a critical thinker.
I enter the garden.
There are 34 people.
You kill 30.
How many people are in the garden?

None

[quote author=ISLAMBAD post=105164071]http://saharareporters.com/2021/08/25/nigerias-islamic-group-says-taliban-fighters-must-be-allowed-settle-down-warns-bishop[/quotel]





If they asked the same Akintola to relocate to Afghanistan now, I am 100% percent sure he would reject it.

NORSYK:
Some people are actually deluded to think Messi would win this year's Ballon D'or or what bases?

On winning Copa De Ray?
Or winning a joke of a yearly tournament that comprises of Peru, Bolivia and Ecuador? If you minus Messi's performances against the lowly rated teams Bolivia and Ecuador, you'd find out that he had a poor tournament with just one goal and 1 assist, against a fairly rated teams like Colombia and Brazil he magically disappeared only to be carried by Martinez and Di Maria.

Lewandowski won Bundesliga
Won German supper cup
Won club world cup
Won uefa super cup
Won Bundesliga golden boot
Won European golden shoe
Yet some morons are shouting Messi Messi.

Eibarman wasn't even the best player in Laliga and finished a far distant 3rd
Was humiliated by young Mbappe in the champions league.

The media are trying so hard to push Eibarman agenda

You are spot on. I can not still fathom why some deluded fans are bringing messi into the picture.. funny how they are elavating winning the copa del rey and copa America( a joke of a tournament) over winning the eufa champions league,the laliga,bundesliga, seria A, Premier league or the European championship.

Oluolad86:
Please I need your prayers and financial support to be healed totally from pericarditis please, I'm just 34 years. Kindly say a word of prayers for me in your prayers. Thanks

May God heal you completely in Jesus name( amen)

nairalandankrah:
https://dailypost.ng/2021/08/25/insecurity-fg-warns-nigerians-against-acquiring-arms-to-defend-themselves/

...dead men do not report at the Police station Mr Minister.

[quote author=Praxis758 post=105014848]Over to you, Hishbah.

I hereby petition Kano Hishbah to quickly arrest the wedding planner, sanction all the bride's family, detain the groom's father, lockup the couples and jail the infidel musician for violating Sharia law of Kano state.

That music violates our religion's morals, his dressing is quaranically filthy and the dancing steps are demonic

Mass arrest looming after the wedding [/quot





You know as well as I do that shariah law is meant for the poor northerners. The political class dont give a damn about Hisbah or sharia. Even the man who started the sharia of a thing(Yerima) in Zamfara is still walking free after his indictment by EFCC.

Ryan14:
“I left, and he got new lessons from Ole Gunnar Solskjaer , so he forgot to score goals.

[quote author=NigeriaNawa post=103728157][/quote]Law school is not about Islamic law in the first place, so why the noise?

Ibkhaleel:
You lack common sense and i can see how hatred has clown your mind....ye idiot lemme educate you!!

The North is far bigger in land mass & population than the South.
It has the highest number of states & local governments.
The North has some of the most powerful governors, senators, federal appointees, politicians both serving & retired in Nigeria.
The North also has the richest men & biggest captains of industry in Nigeria.
It has the highest number of military Generals both serving & retired.
The North equally has its fair share of reknown & accomplished academics in Nigeria & abroad in foreign universities.
It has reknown religious scholars & fiery clerics as well as its fair share of unrepentant religious fundamentalists, radicals, hoodlums, criminals & terrorists.
Inspite of all these, watch that whatever positions are zoned to them come 2023, they will choose, present & support their candidate seamlessly with less or no friction, rancour, dirty fight in public or the pages of newspapers & without assassinating each other. They understand politics & leadership. It's no coincidence therefore, that they have what they have. Islam is what regulates them and make them peaceful and never care to address the dirty lies, slander and insults from southerners online.
But you see this presidency of Nigeria Southerners are threatening everybody that they must have come 2023;
this 2023 presidency useless Southern governors & politicians are galivanting up & down insisting they must have -- governors & politicians whose only idea of governance is to issue press statements every month on Fulani herdsmen, cattle grazing & 2023 presidency to distract their gullible state citizens from the resources & allocations of their states they have stolen with nothing to show for it;
you will see how these Southern governors & greedy power drunk Southern politicians will kill & destroy each other just to pick & present one presidential candidate.
Watch how they will burn down the South with insecurity on the eve of 2023 as all these militias, unknown gunmen, Amotekun, Ebube Agu, ESN, OPC, Cult gangs, the various states police & vigilantes in the South will get new sponsors in these Southern governors & politicians as well as new sophisticated weapons from them as they jostle to eliminate each other & weaken the political base of their opponents to be able to pick the presidential ticket for themselves.
The sad shame however is that after destroying themselves, The Southern homeland, wasting the resources of Southern states & the lives of Southern misguided youths just to pick a presidential ticket, they will still turn back & blame the North for the destruction their unbridled greed for power for selfish ends brought on the South.
You see this Southern presidential agitations...
Well, enough said already!

Pele.

SlaveofGod:
People now sell FG job slots for as high as 10million naira in Nigeria. Is there hope for the unemployed youth in this country? How on earth will you pay to go to school then pay to get a job again? Where is Nigeria heading to? Before 2015 slots are sold for between 200k and 500k, now it's in millions. God come to our rescue. National association of unemployed graduates (NAUG) the ball is in our court. What is net please?

This is actually true. An uncle, who is a member of the ruling party said something similar to this, he told me for CBN, FIRs and some agencies/parastatals, 5million is for a slot. He said civil defence is the cheapest at 1.5 million. The funniest part is that hausa/ fulani ' graduates' do not pay. May God have mercy on this Country.

Aderewah:
I'm yoruba. Its igbos that have always called yorubas Cowards in their devilish propaganda even though yorubas have shown more bravery than they ever can.

sorry about that, it was a misconception on my part.

TripleOh7:
There's no way I can post videos here. The picture I attach is a screenshot from the video. His gun was still in his laps.

This is not true,this actually happened in Warri a few days ago. This is a pix of the escort of the APC chieftain that was killed on Sunday. The officer killed was a person I knew, he was no where near Lagos. He was recently posted from kogi to Warri. One of the few good policemen I knew. We are still mourning him please and please stop this.

[quote author=Aderewah post=103326208]One tribe is irrelevant politically, their most powerful elites are governors who are fulani slaves, their agitation leader ran away from the country and was still captured like a chicken thief, they couldn't even create a regional security agency against fulani massacre, they make mouth and chest beat and their guerrilla commanders were eliminated like rats.

The other tribe are relevant politically and call shots, their political elites are elder statemen with a lot of influence, agitation leader will never run away in the face of intimidation, created regional security system despite fulani crying on TV, never chest beat but plan with wisdom and strategy.

We know who the

Kewtt:
FLASH: Street Trader Killed As Police Shoot Live Bullets At Yoruba Nation Agitators In Lagos

Whoever shot that girl should know there are consequences for that action of his, he has brought 'something' upon his own children.

[quote author=BKayy post=103324909]Afonjas how far?

In this life, always use very long spoon while dining with the devil.
When you people where romancing with the Caliphate because you thought they will only wicked Ndigbo you didn't notice that they had eyes on Lagos.
You didn't even know when they took over the control of Lagos and her borders.

Now make una come do protest make we see? You people did not know why they didn't tolerate Endsars and June 12 protest in Lagos. You can do your Yoruba protest in Ekiti, Oyo and Osun with no disturbance but you see in that Fulani land called Lagos I dare you Afonjas.

[b]Anyways, Lagos Bridge is falling down... Falling down... Falling down.. Lagos Bridge is falling down..

Nukilia:
The people supporting APC today are the same people who supported Abacha back then....

You are spot on.

Monogamy:
From the pictures posted, they are not even up to 500 yet Lagos state has 20m+ population.

Big flop rally.. I think they are only trekking just to keep fit

Sanwo Olu self Bleep up, instead of using police, he should have used Fulani herdsmen, the fear of Fulani herdsmen is the beginning of wisdom to some Southerners

���� the thing dey pain you talk true.

PrinceOfLagos:
Those ones wearing white dresses would take to their heels at the sound of a gun shot

Forget all that fake white clothe packaging

Why are you pained?

Omooba77:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/07/boko-haram-bandits-are-different-from-ipob-nnamdi-kanu-el-rufai/

Boko haram, killerherdsmen and banditry are sponsored by the northern political elite.

istina:
Can you hear that?
Northerners would rather embrace their own evil than betray themselves to others. That is what the southerners don't have.

One of the reasons southerners should support their own. How many northerners have condemn boko haram, ISWAP and bandits? The Daura secret service have failed to stop boko haram, killer herdsmen and banditry but are quick to frame and attack southerners who rise against these killings. But whatever plans the fulanis have towards the south will not work. The fulanis should know that buhari will go whether they like it or not. Sadam hussain had the Iraqi military, secret service and police populated with his kinsmen but where is sadam today? Same goes for the hutus in Rwanda, where are they today?

humility33:
So akpeyi should be brought back because he hasnt conceded goals in the low life league he plays
Is it that you have no idea of what akpeyi has to offer when he plays for the national team or you're just expecting him to do magic

Some of us with our judgement think we would do worse than rohr

Akpeyi should just forget the super eagles for now. We have young goalkeepers in the team hence the need for us to allow them develop. We should be going forward and not going back.

stephanie11:
https://politicsnigeria.com/breaking-18-apc-governors-to-receive-matawalle-as-he-dumps-pdp/

Atleast, this will solve Nigeria's problems.

tillaman:
at this point I think I should, I actually know a thing or 2 about them though!!
Appreciate you my bro

Thanks. Frederick Forsyth in his book ' fist of God' wrote some stuffs about Mossad which is true. Especially, about what goes on in their headquarters in Israel and what they are capable of.

Beancounter93:
While such a probe will be welcome, at the end of the day, it would reveal nothing

Subsides, by their nature, chop money. The more you keep a subsidy, the more and more money you spend...to maintain it.

Let's say I am Mr Government, and subsidise a loaf of bread , being sold at N400, which costs N200 to make, at N350 a loaf, so that it costs N100 at the subsidised price.

Suddenly costs of making the loaf rise to N400 per loaf...WHICH means by right the same loaf should be sold at N600. Yet I am forcing bakers to sell at N100, and paying them N350...which means instead of the N200 profit they should make, they are making N50.

oF COURSE ...low profit...no means of increasing staff salaries, improving machinery, buying ingredinets, etc etc...

So either the subsidy goes up by N150, or it gets removed

And then the cost keeps rising.


As does the subsidy.

There is a reason why the solution to subsidy corruption is to remove subsidy.

The question is, why are we importing? If Buhari had fulfilled his promise of building refinery, the issue of landing cost and subsisidy would have not arisen?

robosky02:
https://www.completesports.com/im-ready-to-take-up-super-eagles-job-if-nff-wants-me-oliseh/

Go siddon. A divisive character like you should not be talking about supereagles job.

tillaman:
I thought so too because I believe they share intel with one another, when it comes to going under cover Mossad agents can go to any length and the moment they realise you know too much they won’t hesitate to make such person disappear

Mossad can impersonate and infiltrate any Country. They are quick to assasinate any person they see as threat to Israel. You need to read stuffs on them.

tillaman:
so in summary Mossad is more powerful than the CIA?

Not really, but Mossad is more dangerous.

Sonnobax15:

But the same home based super eagle the Brazilian team and even went ahead and win the 1996 olympic na
Abi na Wetin the chief Rohr dey try talk?

Home based? Are you sure you watched the 1996 Olympic qualifiers and the Olympics itself?

chiiraq802:
This thing na Football jersey abi Burial material

Praxis758:
A renown drunkard must have authored your book of history. The book published must be under the influence of strong captivity.