Swiitdoll:

I maintain my stance. Nigerian women abroad who are looking for a partner should either get with Nigerian men abroad who have their own legal staying documents or marry interracial, to avoid stories that touch. Or he can apply for a visa himself and come join her, if he can. I’ve seen some older interracial couples, though not common but it’s probably because most people marry in their own race. I don’t ever see myself going home to find a man, of all the options, white men, Asian men, mixed race men, black men. I’d leave all those and go home lol never! Haha

pocohantas:


If I were a lady based on the diaspora, I will gladly hook up with a Naija guy. What I will never do is hook up with a guy that wants to escape Naija because of poverty. I will direct that one to WHO.

If he has a good job and reputation, we are good to go. Lots of Naija guys are already doing well here, they just want thats security for their kids- hence the relocation.

Will the marriage to the white woman last? How many aged mixed couples have you seen? Women that can tend to the whims and caprices of the Naija man are not so many.

Prettiepearlz:

She probably had this discussion with you because she trusted you and didn't think you would use what she probably told you in confidence to create a thread on Nairaland. Think about it!

naijacann:


$3.5k a month is a very poor salary here in Canada. Which city does the person live? If Toronto, then that's equivalent to earning 120k naira per month in Abuja. A one bedroom apartment here inToronto goes for 1500$ per month cheapest. Some areas goes for 1900$ a month. Does she drive? She spends like 200$ per month for auto insurance. Phone, internet and other utilities gulps like 500$ per month. Reserve about $300 for feeding per month. Plz how much money is left? By the way, 1cnd$=280 naira as at today.

WUdec:


Every diaspora thread always gets derailed at some point becos of all the desperate guys wanting to leave Nigeria so bad, they'd turn the thread to a FOREIGN VISA HELPDESK.

For the record in case most Nigerians back home don't know, every country has an official website.
The official website has all the information you need about moving to your desired country.

Secondly, there are international forums with a lot of immigrants giving you all the information you need to know about migrating to your destination or living there.

The OP has posted a topic worthy of intellectual discussion...instead every 4 lines, "sir, how can I ." or "Ma....how do I....."

The ass licking part is the part that gets to me the most. You can ask a question in the most subtle manner without seeming too desperate. Most Naija guys in diaspora detest that and they will tell you if you ask

Went to the embassy once out in VI and saw how a foreigner was talking down to Nigerians like they were scum and this was supposed to be the receptionist. A Nigerian receptionist who did not even speak the embassy's foreign language yet she got hired

Stop licking foreign ass. You are human and no white, blue, yellow or green man in a foreign soil is different from you. Just be yourself at all times.

Ass licking is the another reason why foreign countries look down on us. Becos we forever depict that slave mentality. Only the wise will learn, the stupid will only talk out their noses.

Just venting

ProudBiafran:
If a lady is making so many videos on YouTube it is a sign that she does not have a man or relationship is not a priority.

Flee from such a lady.

Minxie:

1. google it. there are so many examples and incidences of oppression.
2. societal norms change all the time.
+100 years ago it was unthinkable that a black person could even walk in the same street as a white person.
+100 years ago it was unthinkable that a woman could wear pants.
+100 years ago it was unthinkable that people could stop worshipping pagan Gods.

See how society changes? It's fine, nobody is pressuring you to be an advocate for human rights. Just know that society is changing with or without you. There are more people who want the change. After all, norms are determined by the majority. Sorry guy

dayjeee:
was she working as a customer service in FBN bfor she left?
Sorry I asked because i know customer service in bank does not qualify for Express Entry ...i would like to know the program she was able to migrate with.

Thanks

madridsta007:


Someone said they they send the fine ones to the US and the wor wor ones to Canada lol

BreconHills:


Canada is quite expensive. $3500 is not a heck of a lot over there. Translating $ into NGN is not like for like because the purchasing power is quite different..

abnot:

Lol you’ve just shown that you haven’t been to western world , lived in the west or Have very limited knowledge about living in the west . $3.5k per month is a low salary in Canada below the national average ($50k p/a)which means she’s also on a struggle in Canada . 3.5k in Canada is not equivalent to 980k in Nigeria (purchasing power).

greggng:



Bros connect me with one of them ....she most be ugly cos I am not getting the best from beautiful women...she most 've good character to make up for her ugliness

sisisioge:


How many Nigerian single ladies in Canada did you meet? How many Nigerian single men in Canada did you meet? How many native single Canadians did you meet? The truth is that the country is not as socially inclined as Nigeria, UK or USA, so most single people take a while to meet other single people. In fact, the Canadian singles rely a lot on online hookups like tinder, etc to meet people hence the reason our yahoo brothers are making some money there now.

madridsta007:


Finally, someone said it.

bukatyne2:


Do single girls migrate?

Why would a single mature girl migrate alone?

She is not going to college or university where she can meet people and integrate into their society.

ogaontop:


You mean she's gonna leave the job and resettle in Nigeria?

Minxie:


Shame... but this is interesting though. I've always wondered what the differences were in the dating scenes of countries.

Yes I'm in SA but I work in China. Although now with corona, im back in SA

Minxie:


Social scientist, to be specific.
We theorize so that we can find solutions. Even what you just said is a theory and it's a good one.
So therefore we can suggest the solution of educating people about the differences in culture abroad?
I'm totally on board with that

See? that's why people debate
Anyway, i hope those girls adapt and that they realise that some societies in West demands something different than some African societies.

To be honest, i find dating easier abroad because it's very superficial. Men just ask you out on a date randomly. But in SA people will want to get to know you first. I like our way though

Minxie:

Okay, I hear you
In that case, I know the dating world in other places are tough. Maybe they are struggling to bridge the culture gap?

Many things that would be okay in Nigeria, for example, may not be okay in Canada. Dating is different everywhere and maybe these girls are just struggling to adapt. I have also seen the same thing here in SA. Nigerian ladies don't date much. So I've also theorized about it.

These are just my theories. I always think there's not just one answer when dealing with a large group of people over a large geographical or cultural area.

There can be many reasons why these girls are not finding relationships. I'm also just trying to find explanations for this phenomenon.

shollay09:
lol .... I dey one local village for naija..... You wan take me go Canada?

ednut1:
well there is solution to every problem. Date outside your race or use ur pali find Nigerian husband here in Nigeria. He no hard . Any 9ja man dem bring come once they carry belle for am he will pay child support. So na win win

Samadhii:

Please sir, like how much would it cost to migrate to Canada and look for job. I graduated with Biochemistry. I don't mind odd jobs tho

Minxie:
Maybe, just maybe, they're not lonely and they are actually enjoying their lives...

In most countries, it's normal to be focused on your career as a woman. It doesn't mean you're lonely. So maybe these girls just adjusted to their surroundings and maybe they're finally happy because they live in a society where people don't expect them to get married at 25.

Just because you don't understand or agree with a culture or ideology doesn't mean that it's wrong. So just because you don't understand why they are single and career driven, doesnt mean you are right in labelling them as lonely.

If that's your logic, you can label me lonely too. I'll proudly accept

ednut1:
I have 4 ex colleagues that married themselves over there. I also know another friend who is a nairalander that is getting married to a 9ja babe. Even in Nigeria here lots of babes cant get a man. This is 2020 no time for forming and shakara as time no dey. Marriage is alsoa trap most times for men abroad so he no worth am

contematawa:
Good morning sir, since you have been staying in Canada, please what is the chance of me getting work with a tourist visa in Canada and how can I get work permit. Thanks sir.

HeavenlyCherub:


Live and live.. I think you were rejected by one

JustinNepolian:
The problem is that most Nigerians here don't make deep research about their intended destinations ( Canada, US & parts of Europe)... Those guys over there live a very private life and not being related to any of them makes it difficult to accept you, of which most have trust issues if you happen to be a person of colour.

Charleys:


How much do the average make immigrants earn over there?

feedthenation:
The cold weather also plays a part, distance between two locations etc etc