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lhordspy:
No i dont think so. I think you being unappreciative is making the government acting like that. They feels afterall you are only going to complain as usual either good or bad. So what is the essence of making it right.

Yet, someone like you will want to raise your children up to always learn to say 'thank-you' after been offered something, even no matter how little it is.

Where is the moral justification?
Do what you preach, sir.

Oga, I owe no government appreciation. I pay my tax and I vote them to do what is expected to ensure I live right. If they are awaiting for appreciation, they can as well step down for those who want to serve.

As for my children, I wouldn't do you the honor of responding because your analogy is whack.

You can have yourself a good evening.

lhordspy:
Mr Gboyega. Being contented is being positive.

Appreciate the little so you can have more.

Appreciate mediocrity? The reason why the government keeps acting the way they do.

lhordspy:
Is it so hard just praising this government and moving on?

You no dey shame? Trying so hard to praise something worse than mediocrity. If you celebrate less than 2miles like this, then I weep for you.

Truvelisback:
Domestic activities are part of the helpmate. The kitchen is major meant women but laziness and inbility to prepare nice meals has forced some men to go into the kitchen.

I rest my case.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Why do most married men eat in the canteen or restaurant? Is it that their wives can't cook nice meals? I'm a bachelor and i do eat in the canteen but surprisingly, i do see married men eat there. Although, the owner of the canteen is a good cook.

I read through your comments on your question and all I can say is I wish you the very best whenever you choose to get married. A wife is a helpmate and not some domestic staff.

Reno made himself inconsequential.

KanuSE:
Make him just pay base on say you just begin dey talk about your use of cheddar (after the fact) even in the face of overwhelming evidence. The guy don even satisfy the burden of proof but that one no concern una. Make we throw evidence & reason out of the window. Interesting.

Hope the cold nor 2 much for your side. Make God butter our bread this week.

Did you read the date on those post? Most were 2 years ago ooo. I still use parmessan more often but I use cheddar too a lot. Thus for me, both answers are correct. If you check my food post particularly on soups and eggs, you will notice cheddar and they will be more recent.

Thanks for asking, the cold is cool. Amen to the prayer.

Oga, if you guys didn't discuss the extent to which in-laws will stay in your house, your best bet is to find ways of talking to her to please sheathed her sword and allow the young lady live in peace. Be sincere you guys never had the discussion and at this time you feel you need give back to your parents by accommodating your sister.

If she accepts, fine; otherwise, think through it and take the action you think is best for your home and sanity. I would say ask yourself critical questions such as if it is worth breaking your home because of an outsider.

All noise. It is a case of "sha 'go nbu 'go" i.e the bear calling the bottle a drunk".

The increase in fees is justified when the funds are used appropriately Horace, that isn't the case most times as corruption is now endemic in our system.

There's no need halting the fee payment they will eventually pay. They should accept it since they all sorted the government to force ASUU and other unions to resume back to school without adequate funding.

omooba969:
I may consider.

Thank you!

omooba969:
Lol Mr GboyegaD, I clearly understand where your sentiment lies but I put it to you that you have a favourite & it's PARMESAN CHEESE. Evidence is everywhere on this thread.

The only place you made reference to cheddar was here... see below.

I reiterated that I use parmesan for my pasta and sometimes for soup however, in most cases, I use cheddar for soup and sometimes on pasta.

Bros, just pay biko.

Chose to take a break from my Sunday pounded yam. Decided to cook yam with owo soup, thanks to my partly Benin route.

KanuSE:
I dey follow this betting over cheese and the thing dey funny me. I com notice say you & Hydriss no wan address the fact say the other guy sef no wan pay up because him sef correct. I don check some of your pictures from last year and I see say you dey use parmesan cheese wella.

Correct me if I dey wrong.

I use both of them. I don't really have a favorite but those two are the ones i use at home. Him winning doesn't negate Hydriss winning and vice versa.

Hydriss:
Bros you see human being bah?

Maybe he's working on the modalities.

TheCongo2:
Com'on ... even a single person can be able to help OP with all that you have mentioned.
And here I am talking about a community called Nairaland coming together to help OP and you think we will fail?

In that case, take it up with TEHN (not sure of the name) i.e. the Nairaland Foundation. Individually, trying to take up all those roles might not be the best since we don't have the mechanism to verify and run the logistics.

He should provide a full record of the call. Providing 11seconds of calls where the only name we heard was Pamela and no record of conversation before and after the take out sentence is insufficient to understand the conversation.

Joyfulgal:
I so much respect you Sir

Thank you!

TheCongo2:
My question is if Aunt Landa's foundation can do it. Why we, as Nairaland community, can't do it?

To pay for someone's accommodation as individuals? We can't achieve compared to a foundation that already has a shelter and people are offered bed spaces. If there's a roof, then we can think of helping by fixing her at a shop where she can do her business and if need be, get her 1 machine while she collaborate with the shop owner on paying some monies (rent) to use other tools.

ahnie:
Be calming down with intimidating us o

Aunty, na just normal food na. Just dey try ensure the turkey finish comot for ground.

amorprincesa:
Why oh why?

What I do madam?

TheCongo2:
Can we put money together and help OP fulfill his dream ?

The question is how does she survive in Lagos? Her going to Lagos shouldn't be the most important if not accommodation. The very reason she should try reach out to Aunt Landa's foundation. When she has a roof over her head, other things will follow.

Dinner:

Turkey infused coconut rice and beef.

ibkayee:
Nom nom nom

Thanks.

crood:
Recently I was promised by someone in Lagos he promised to send me TP, also he promised accommodation and feeding for a week will be at his own expense.

So I was overjoyed, I put my hope there and was eager to finally go and know Lagos.
I intended to look for any menial job like washing cars, going to restaurants to help wash plates or even sell water and gala so that I won't depend on him and become a burden to him.
Also since I sold my wheelbarrow and use it to train myself and learnt tailoring as a skill and handwork, I planned to will hustle there and buy a sewing machine so that I can train myself to further my education, since i don't have anybody to sponsor me...
Long story short, the man completely ignored me and choose not to say anything to me .
Now all my hope and dreams died down and most of the people that I told them about the journey made me their laughing and mockery topic, you know how village is nau, with these experience I now believe to trust anyone help comes from only God but am fully disappointed.
No sewing machine for me.
No travel for me
And no work for now

Never trust anyone.
Share your experience

Link to previous thread:https://www.nairaland.com/7458891/finally-going-travel-lagos-very

If you have a radio app on your phone I will advise you listen to "Sharing life issues" on Inspiration FM 92.3 Lagos tomorrow.
Try to call into the program, speak to Aunt Landa, she might be able to bring you to Lagos, get you a temporary residence in their shelter, while you work to buy your sewing machine.

oxiide22:
sir she insulted me in the other thread

You shouldn't bring that here and you both shouldn't be insulting one another. It is a faceless forum, no need for fight. Abeg, no vex.

Both levels of government failed.

ChukwuObe:
You and your family are free to move to Afghanistan by the time Tinubu wins the presidency

Even the North he's banking on have declared their support for PDP. By the way, I don't need to move anywhere.

Breakfast:

Pancakes and bacon and cheese omelet.