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Kobojunkie:
The one whose acts affect you psychologically is your father. He is responsible for why he is not qualified for better position, is he not?

Family school? What does that mean? I suggest you ask your dad to tell you the real reason why he is working that job.

Does the father owe him that explanation if the job is providing the basics they need to survive as a family? He is the ungrateful and entitled one here who thinks it is right for other fathers to be gatemen and not his.

At least, he helped him provide for his family. Besides, if your father wasn't the gateman of your school, wouldn't it have been someone else's dad? There's dignity in labor and if anyone tries insulting you, tell them that the job their father does to pay their school fees, your father is also doing his job to pay your school fees. There's nothing to be intimidated about.

I would also advise you focus on your studies, make good grades, and select your friends and then, the bullying will stop. In my days, I use to carry firewood despite living in Festac (if you get what it means) back in the days. I tell my few friends, if you can't help me carry part of my firewood, we have no business walking together.

Everything works together for good. You are more matured, and I am sure you would know how to make the best use of your time and opportunity. I will suggest you focus on making the best of your admission and start planning what next after school from now.

buckeyemedia:
Who is Peter Obi?

Candidate of the Labor Party in the upcoming election. He is a man who at least has shown can control his tongue unlike FFK who just goes gaffing about.

The level of anti-party activities in our politics is alarming. He should keep mute on his choice for presidency since he cannot work for his party.

Who is FFK? Guess he has been fed again.

I wonder why Ayu is yet to resign from his seat as the chairman of National Working Committee. I am waiting to read the reaction of Obaseki on this.

Set of those who are waiting to loot the country dry.

Reminds me of a friend's cousin. You don't send a child abroad because you have the means. If a child isn't matured, let him grow up first. The street here is full of all kinds of ravaging beast and it takes a matured and strong willed child to survive as the exposure is alarming and one can miss it with ease.

mjuvey3:
At 34,No wife,no kids,no job,no apartment of my own,no savings.

Anyone that reads this will think I'm lazy and nonchalant but I'm not.

Powers from father's side have sworn that I'll never make it in life.... Powers from my mother's side too are waging a war on my life...The war is too much on my head.

What makes is worse is that I'm an only son.

What I need now is a job or someone with spiritual powers that can deliver me.

I'm intelligent, unproblematic and very creative yet life hasn't been fair to me.

I have fasted,prayed,gone to herbalists,alfas etc....Yet no changes....My sister who is a multi millionaire and well connected hates me with passion (My spiritualist said it's the work of the wicked ones... That they know that if she helps me,I'll be great)

I think of suicide everyday..... Nothing seems to work and I've stopped believing in God.

I just wish I was never born

If you believe in powers from your father's side and you don't believe in God then, you must be a joke. It is either you want to believe in spirituality or not and not been selective in the belief as it only creates an avenue to mess your head and experiment with your life.
That said, first take the pressure off yourself. There is no crime in been single without a girlfriend at 33, you are neither the 1st nor the last. Likewise, there is no crime in not having your own crib at that age as well. The more pressure you amass on yourself, the more difficult it is to break out of whatever your challenges are.
As for your sister, I would rather think of it as "the more you look, the less you see". She might not have the means to help as you are made to believe she isn't willing to help. And if she does have the ability to and she chooses not to, her loss.
Gather yourself together, live it a day at a time in high hopes that sooner than you can imagine, things will turn around in your favor. Most importantly, do not engage in activities that will steal your peace.

May his soul rest in perfect peace.

This is what you call people who are ready for government not those who all they say is gossip about other candidates.

Good ending

OP,
Are you a virtuous person? If yes, you will find a virtuous person if otherwise, you are not different from those you are labelling.

You could start your business on the side while still working.

ahnie:
Sir Gboskii,abeg open restaurant.your love for egusi soup is out of this world.

All things are possible.

Bintdawood:
Wow! Thank you so much i appreciate

You are welcome.

Decided to make bread after a while. I made regular bread topped with everything bagel topping.

Bintdawood:
Looks good will definitely taste good too pls whenever i prepare Egusi soup it turns out to be a bit watery. IDK if its the spinach i use pls dont snub

Most likely. A solution will be to parboil it a little and squeeze out the water if it is fresh spinach. If frozen, ensure it is defrosted and squeeze out the water before adding it to your egusi or if you like to rinse the frozen spinach, do the same thing. Just ensure your water is squeezed out.

Sunday dinner:

Pounded yam with Egusi Ijebu.

Shadysen:
stop all this guiding, bros, any girl i said any girl that want to spoil will surely spoilt, are you going to guide her when she go to sch, market, errands, church, ect......you can only advice her in a best possible way but you can't guide throughout. There is one currently now on my street that made her dad cried,after that man bought everything preparing for her sch, boom! belle pops up, four months, after all the advice, beatings, threating. it only GOD can help us.

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The reason why they should have educated her on sex and the necessary things she needs to do. Slapping her at that point in time is just so wrong.

Tinubu has too many issues and the worst of them is desperation. If he isn't trusting the governors enough while not in power, he will be more high handed than Buhari.

What does it cost to be obedient to rules?

Only happens in Africa.

Desusi:
If that be the case,what would you do where no kids available after years of marriage?

He will likely jump ship since it's about the children for him.

The issue with our society is we are very judgmental. Every individual is different.

Richy4:

I have zero idea that u can quote scriptures

Wait let me check the moniker that forced scriptures out of your mouth, this is not ordinary

I was just trying to explain what marriage really is.

descarado:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u6ppFEDRGbk


GboyegaD, check out this babe.

Will check it out. Thanks for sharing.

Moh247:



If you no be Olosho or Yahoo boy abroad

Be rest assured you must work for every cent you earn, pay tax and pay bills like your life depends on it (actually your life depends on it during winter and when hungry)

*If you be waiter, you must stand for atleast 8 hours attending to customers and you must have manners

*IF you be security guard, you must stand on your feet and patrol for 10 hours straight (if you think standing is easy try it for just 3 hours straight)

*If you be cleaner, get ready to use your hands to clean public toilet with gloves and pick horrible items stuffed in the drainage for atleast 6 hours daily

*If you be caregiver, you must change Adult shitty diapers or that of an Imbecilic child, and monitor them all day, feeding and cleaning them

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Is this any different from how those jobs are done in Nigeria?

Sanmel:
That's it.. You can't be with the child at all times..
I've seen countless cases of teenagers brought in to the hospital from their respective schools on account of improperly done abortion leading to sepsis meanwhile the parents are thinking their daughters are still virgins..
I remember how one was pleading with a doctor not to tell her parents and the doctor also a pastor insisted that the father needs to sign the consent form since she's under aged..
It was an emotional scene that day after the man signed, came out of the doctor's room teary, went to her daughter and gave her 2 resounding slaps and then told the doctor to go ahead with the evacuation of the retained product of conception.

Why the slap though? It was poor parenting not to guide the child properly.