₦airaland Forum

Walealoba:
am trying sir thank you so much i was planing to go site this morning for a labour job but am not strong enough as i havent eaten anything since last 2 night if i have sonething to eat this morning even if it garri i ll go site and work sir things are really tough

How have you been surviving and how come no one has helped you for over two weeks that you been soliciting help? You spend so much time on NL that could be channeled to something else.

Dinner:

Chicken quesadilla and nachos.

Walealoba:
sir when am working at ACADEMIC PRESS ilupeju I bought a new bike but I have short sight i can't ride at night I have to sell it to secure my life

I stay at SANGO OTTA Ogun state

Does this mean even in your environment and with these stories online, no one has ever offered to help even on Nairaland? @blueraydick just suggested something nice, follow it.

Walealoba:
sir am thinking about an alternative I have mini chemist shop am managing before I lost the shop due to fire outbreak since then I have been planning to bounce back and I know how to make slippers I mean leather slippers I was hoping if someone decide to attend to me I ll tell the person if i can get little capital to start from someone where

Don't you think that is you transferring your challenges to someone else?

Would suggest you look for family and friends who could loan you that which you need to start up your business. Thinking a stranger will isn't the best way to start.

Walealoba:
yes sir I swear sir

That's strange cos nairaland users are known to be helpers.

That said, why is it that you are not thinking of an alternative in terms of what you could do?

Walealoba:
please believe sir

So are you saying of the many you have quoted here, not just a single response?

Walealoba:
please sir help me with little amount to buy food eat the hunger is unbearable things are really tough i cant even sleep

I am surprised all you do with this account is beg and I'm concerned about it. How would you want anyone to believe you?

Lunch/Dinner:

Pounded yam and okra with vegetable soup.

tobore4u:
this is your last upload here. What happened, you no dey chop again?

I dey chop. I dey adjust back to my new routine.

Newborn27:
Egbon GboyegaD.... it's been a while you posted on here...I hope all is well Sir?

It is. Just a change in routine and trying to adjust to the new routine.

Thanks for asking and how are you and yours doing as well?

Unfortunately, emi lokan and his allies care less about the insecurities in the nation. His like said nothing just because of his selfish ambition to become the next Nigerian president.

I am sure someone just raised an alarm and the bunch of idi0ts followed up on it. People no dey gree think nowadays.

I only hope we have a credible election come next year and these resources are well channeled.

Amoo89:
And you believe with this our mindset we will ever get to such . Don’t joke my friend

The joke is on you as you know we might not attain such a level as a nation in our generation.

All he does is to coerce and also mute public voices. His isn't true definition of democracy.

NO, you worked for the pay.

Pending when we fix our electricity issues, this is needed.

tonicyril:
How old are u??

Are u married??

What are u sayin??

Have u bn poisoned before by a woman??

Have u bn stabbed before by a woman and she claimed u re trying to go violent on her domestically??

Have u bn turned into an mumu before by a woman, a desperate woman who can do anything to cover her bad deeds??

Seems u re still a jambites or an undergraduate who is stil using his pocket money to pay one girl school fees all in the name of love

Ur eye go clear soon, dont worry. OP must have said more than u are doing but now he is facing reality

Lol, see this one, u wan sit woman down and ask her if the pikin she born is urs or not, lol, u wil learn ur lesson.

See after she had made a false claim and even swear that the child is yours, she wil now start punishing u wil all kind of emotional punishment, na u go taya

Wise up bro, get sense for woman matter.

You are the kids here for you to reach a conclusion on someone else. Anyways, goodluck in your quest to understanding women.

tonicyril:
Yes she did but there are better ways to go about it.

No long tin, even if he manage to sit her down and ask her questions she will still lie and claim OP is the biological father.
The best tin to do is to secretly do dna, if na ur child u go tear the dna result right in front of the doctor and trash it there, and if its not ur child den u know what to do

There's no need been a coward about it and I'm presuming they are adults. Based on the circumstance surrounding the birth, I would want to conduct a DNA on this particular child. Is that too hard to ask?

tonicyril:
so if u re the wife u can be happy and take it lightly if ur husband question ur faithfulness and paternity of a child u have for him.

Why should she be sad? Did she not sleep with another guy while they were separated? It's no big deal he's questioning the child and if she's innocent and feels she can't handle the level of distrust, she should make it known. I wonder why people get married if they can't handle some basic truthful discussions.

bukatyne:
If I were the guy, I might do open testing sef.

Secret testing in this case is serious aponle.

And if she finds out, is to thank the guy for his sensitivity and thoughtfulness under her breath.

He should let her know he wants to do DNA on the child. There's no need hiding it.

By living life a day at a time.

bukatyne:
What is the wife not forgiving in this matter?

There is also nothing to talk about.

The OP should run a DNA test if the paternity of the child really matters to him.

Next time, if someone wants to come back in this manner, give it sometime so some of the reasons can manifest.

If you waited at least 6 months to observe, you won't be in this mess.

The idea of a secret DNA testing.

Tell your wife of your suspicion and the need to take her for a DNA. You can then decide on what your best choice is upon getting the result.

baralatie:
Then get ready for #1240 to a Dollar

It might not get that bad. Remember, there is a level of racketeering going on now that is devaluing the naira besides ours been a mono economy.

The CBN should hand off exchange rate and allow forced off demand and supply determine the rate.

The way we love to hold unto power in Nigeria is alarming. Why can't each person do their time in office and leave others to contest without them interfering?

Castino236:
He does not deserve to rest in peace rather he deserves to rest in hot oil

Justice have been gotten for the victim and that is enough punishment for him, Sir.

They have their names and ID cards I guess. These idiots are too daft for my liking.

Newborn27:
Jeez! Omo!!

In Olamide's
Won fun e lamala on wa sibi,nkan toye ko towobo...lol

I'm salivating...make I bring plate bro D?

You are welcome to join next time.

May the soul of Hanifa rest in peace. For the guilty, rest in peace in advance.

Mvena:
Wow! That simple Thank you so much

You are welcome. Whoever discovered how to peel beans with the blender deserves some accolades.