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Likewise WHAT IS WRONG WITH NIGERIAN YOUNG LADIES ... They prefer dating old papa's irrespective of their tummy sizes, weak D I C K S and the number of wives and children the man has. The only criteria is the MONEY.

Caracta: It is in discussions like this that we separate BOYS from MEN. We also get to know HUSBANDS and BOYFRIENDS. We get to know those with proper home training. We get to know our likes and priorities. We get to see beyond the confines of our immediate environment. We get to see those who see their mothers, sisters, girlfriends and wives as SLAVES.

This thread is an eye-opener. If you have learnt nothing so far, just understand that we have some people out there that do not belong to your School of Thought. You see them as free beings and respect them...but they see you as a Slave and inferior object.

All in all, define yourself. Whose report do you believe?

yea likewise in discussions like this we get to differentiate FEMALES from WIVES. Men should also open their eyes to CHARACTER, it is not determined by level of English-Grammer spoken on NL. One important thing I use in assessing a girl is how selfless she is... A girl that is overly concious of her-rights, her-laws, her-own-feelings...without caring much about his-rights, his-feelings, his-ego... Should be abhored O! As in guys shld run 440 away from her.

If men had my kind of mentality a lot of girls wld remain in their fathers houses forever. The high time my fellow Guys stopped getting married to outward looks (Nyash, boops and facial looks), the better homes we would build. The pleasure in S E X doesnt last long, but the joy of character is ''till death do us path''.

Truckpusher: Funny enough most of these guys masquerading themselves as hard men when it comes to women usually beg and cry to get laid by a 19yrs old watakiri ....but when it comes to a faceless public forum they'll all turn expect in women affairs just to be seen as an alpha male.

How many of these guys have been able to convince a virgin to loose her virginity for their sake

you really are a truckpusher how do u expect urself to believe that there are GUYS THAT ARE ON HOT DEMAND. The likes of you cannot afford three meals a day so which kind of girl would look at your face. Go and manage ur poverty life u hear...don't speak whe real men are speaking.

ok ..emm...where was I...before that castrated smallie started showing of his small thing..
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I want to suggest that in order to keep this thread alive no one shld talk about hair again. Its bringing a lot of fights and inviting smallies like the guy wit the small thing

lefulefu: omo u get mouth sha

kai!!! Some guys need to be castrated O!! See this gender confuesd mumu boy ..abi u wan use that style get that chic ..olodo ...see his small P.E.N.N.I.S ...small boy with small thing. Haa..haa.haa

dessy002: WOMEN STOP SUBMITTING TO MEN


Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as unto the Lord. Yes and Amen. But, women, stop submitting to men.Too often in our culture, women and girls are pressured to submit to men, as a category. This is the reason so many women, even feminist women, are consumed with what men, in general, think of them. This is the reason a woman’s value in our society, too often, is defined in terms of sexual attractiveness and availability. Is it any wonder that so many of our girls and women are destroyed by a predatory patriarchy that demeans the dignity and glory of what it means to be a woman?
Submitting to men in general renders it impossible to submit to one’s “own husband.” Submission to one’s husband means faithfulness to him, and to him alone, which means saying “no” to other suitors.
Submission to a right authority always means a corresponding refusal to submit to a false authority. Eve’s submission to the Serpent’s word meant she refused to submit to God’s. On the other hand, Mary’s submission to God’s word about the child within her meant she refused to submit to Herod’s. God repeatedly charges his Bride, the people of Israel, with a refusal to submit to him because they have submitted to the advances of other lovers. The freedom of the gospel means, the apostle tells us, that we “do not submit again to a yoke of slavery” (Gal. 5:1).

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Literally you are advicing young girls to make theselves unpresentable for marriage. Let me ask you this question; if you were a bachelor wld you rather choose a girl that seems unsubmissive-able to a girl that seems submissive COMMON SENSE MY DEAR!!! COMMON SENSE!!! You seem to be very deficient here. You are telling bachelors to flee from you and any sensible guy wld run 440. With this your mentality I hope you wld ever find a husband. ..ha...haa..haa!!! She's even quoting the scriptures... Have you not heard the story of the foolish virgins who had NO OIL in their lamps when the grooms came. My dear your lamp (IQ and character) is TOTTALLY DRY .. *laughs, falls down, and rolls on the ground *

[quote author=dessy002]WOMEN STOP SUBMITTING TO MEN


Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as unto the Lord. Yes and Amen. But, women, stop submitting to men.Too often in our culture, women and girls are pressured to submit to men, as a category. This is the reason so many women, even feminist women, are consumed with what men, in general, think of them. This is the reason a woman’s value in our society, too often, is defined in terms of sexual attractiveness and availability. Is it any wonder that so many of our girls and women are destroyed by a predatory patriarchy that demeans the dignity and glory of what it means to be a woman?
Submitting to men in general renders it impossible to submit to one’s “own husband.” Submission to one’s husband means faithfulness to him, and to him alone, which means saying “no” to other suitors.
Submission to a right authority always means a corresponding refusal to submit to a false authority.
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literally you are advicing females not to make themselves presentable for marriage abi..let me ask you this question ; if you were a bachelor would you rather choose a lady that presents herself as ''unsubmissive-able'' to a girl that seems submissive.... COMMON SENSE!!! my dear COMMON SENSE!!!. You seem very deficient here. With this your mentality I hope you'll ever get married in future...cos u are telling guys ''run away from me o!'' and they sure will flee from you my dear. Are you not just like the foolish virgins who had NO OIL in their lamps when the grooms came.

50calibre: Yes! My point is - a woman should always be subservient to man whether he insult her or not, she should have endurance, temperance, meekness, long-suffering.

And yes abraham treated his wife not so nicely sometimes, he once called her his sister, he kept her aside and picked a new wife who bore him Ishmael, the fore father of Islam.

And since ancient civilisation started in Africa, it's safe to say abraham was African, (not Jewish, remember his great grand son is the father of Israel)

no..no...my bros you're wrong here.. If you try to impose tolerance and long suffering on a woman she will eventually revolt and fight you.. The best way to keep your KINGDOM POWERFUL as a man is by avoiding troubles ; .i.e. avoid dominating and imposing urself on her. U can make her enjoy respecting you by also giving her the due respect she deserves.

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Don't mention macleans before dem vex. . . Say "chewing stick". That's an African value. [/color]

my dear do you know that chewing sticks are exported and some of its chemical extracts are refined for best quailty toothpaste? This is the point you do not seem to get right.... We should think about refining our core values...(which is hapenning already) rather than condeming it

ItsModella: What exactly are our core values? Reducing women to utter nonentities?

No thanks, I'd rather move with civilization.

itsModella please be sincere to yourself how many elite-Nigerian men opress their wives today? . If you are honest the answer is VERY FEW. So why do you need to classify African men as women-bullies. Let me define the ideal Man to you.. A man that knows he is the HEAD of the family; the LEADER; the KING OF THE HOME- given the regards of a king (a sensible man dosen't miss use this authority by dominating, but treats his wife too with respect) . Does this kind of man look primitive to you?

sexkillz: [color=#000030]Civilization isn't by force, really. If you are tired of what you see around you as a result of western civilization, you are more than welcome to return to the forest where you will live primitively in heavenly bliss. Take your girlfriend with you as well. She'll never have to wear weaves anymore. . . She'll be your pet, your slave, just name it.

It's boring when you live in civilization and complain about people being civilized. The sense in that is none. . . [/color]

so in ur own sefinition civilization means throw ur own away and copy white man ehn Let me ask you this question do you wear African atire or not. If you do not at all..shame on you my dear!! If you do; what kind of material is it made of? Is it still animal-skin or is it AN IMPROVED FORM OF THE ATIRE. This is how you should think about your core African values my dear. Wake up and get civilized. African music, African art, African wears are still retaining their basic looks and fitting into the modern world (this is what is should happen to our values).....this according to you is ''not civilized''...sorry.

50calibre: If there is an area I agree with African tradition, it's the area of women and family. The western media are gradually eroding the values our fore-fathers bequeathed to us and instead, instilling in hearts of African women rebellion, insubordination, and gender equality.

In the old days, african women wore their natural hair, now they wear grass which they call weave.

The west condemn polygamy, yet the bring us their message of homosexuality and expect us to accept it.

What's happening to my culture?

Is'nt it foolish of us that we reduse our values to nothing and bury it under the term '' its primitive,,,its 1969's stuff,,,,it's local'' what a shame. Do we not know that African marriages are rated most sucessful world wide ?. Yet we want to destroy it rather than refine it and let it fit more in our present society. If we assume we are educated/elite/modern and cannot preserve our core values then we shld not even say we are learned. The white man is where he is today because he kept improving on his basic knowlege and passing it from generation to generation. Not by condeming it and calling it primitive as we do.

ItsModella: You are beyond stup*id. Reading through your comments makes me feel like puking. Don't think you can insult me and get away with it simply because we are Africans, which by the way is utter bullshit.

Be warned.

haba....unna wan fight physical fight. I tot this was just a joke thread..hope I havenlt made anyone mad myself.....and........ Seun!! Seun!! Bring koboko O!! .

Idowuogbo: Who release dis one? U dey pack asewo for dating site for ya mind u b player ba? Msstew! Hia d thing, clap for u say wetin happen? Drogba! Keep selecting ur omo elebis u hia? Weda u spend big or small, all na expense. So in order words, ur situation na cash and carry. Learner!

cof...cof..cof... I won't give you the PRIVILEGE to gist with me.. U'll start braging with my name. .. I'll only drive past you in a ride YOU CAN ONLY DREAM ABOUT ENTERING. The mud water splash shall be all yours my dear. I know you like motto like most ''social-network-classy-chics''

By the way do you like ''hammatan'' becos u go see ''where God hide hammatan'' when u / if u ever enter

[quote author=mondi_cheeks]I clap for u for bragging about the numerous times you have foolishly exposed yourself to STIs...it truly is something to brag about [/quote]ahhhh!!! I use condom naaa...and I know how to use it well-well. I was an STI/HIV prevention educator during my NYSC days so I sabi use am well-well. I even have the female condoms it is called femidom...wld u like to see it I can invite you over to my place so u can take a look at it if u don't mind

Caracta: Some people keep forgetting it's 2013, not 1969.

Not our fault, ya know?

hold on ''miss 2013'' In as much as he didnt have to emphasize that he is a man... The ideaology that being a ''2013 girl'' means u gotta change ur values like that of the white man will only make ur marriageable-value very low. Well except u're also thinking of marrying an oyibo man....then lets see if he wont treat u like a slave.... This is just an advice to be understood only by a wise chic

lefulefu: On the issue of money we give money to u babes because na only if we give una money na im una go open for yanshing.we don already know say u babes una like money pass anything.so u no go blame a guy we conji don kill to give a babe money make dem yansh .ehen if we no give una money una go starve us of sex.
On the issue of sex look my sister if a babe dey shake her yansh at me na weti n u want make i do?
make i just siddon dey look or turn my head the other way?
u know say if a guy no react when a babe dey shake boobi and ikebe at the guy the babe go refer to the guy as a jew or a dull guy.so as a sharp guy if a babe shake boobi and ikebe at me i go hammer the babe wella
on the issue of fake hair or brazilian wig i just wan talk say the money wey una dey take do una brazilian wig or crazy rihanna for head just too dey expensive.u cant expect me to dey give a babe 50k for brazilian wig evry week.me no be maga

bros abeg leave them joor ......

''the hens are showing such exhuberance before being mated''

....its all noise making...if I tell you how many chics from social-networks wey I don f*ccckkk ehn.. BROS U GO CLAP FOR ME and I know that many guys do same. And I didn't spend much money on them. That one talking of brazilian hair. I can swear that she has NEVER seen brazilian hair before o! she just heard about it last week on nairaland and wants to sound ''among'' ...heyn..who dash mbeke handset!!

such a wonderful thread. Its really wonderful to uncover the lie-lie and dubiousness of our dear naija girls..... although we still love u pple shar!

..or at least we love ur ''dat place'' . Okay that is by the way .....my own contribution to this thread is this:

I wish okrika wld become expensive because wen an average naija chic (I'm talking about the preety/educated/sexy ones) buys a fine okirka she becomes very class conscious. And guess the cost of her entire clothing:

blouse N80, Jeans N300, shoe N500 . Is'nt it so AMAZING that the entire head to toe clothing of most class conscious chics in Nigeria is less than N1000. This cannot even buy a guys shirt.

reads post....
*sighs aloud and says*....
Stupid post and stupid editor. THERE A LOT OF FOOLS IN NAIJA O.. Is that even ''sexy''
....walks out of thread..

[quote author=dat_gyal]yeah why not all you guys just mad cos you probably been used in this way lol...and some I did meet again cos you cannot tell if you gonna be compatible over the phone and just chatting so if I met them once and we get on ok Iwould meet them again and what lol...others I was just bored n they was available actin all thirsty n stuff so we arranged a date it passed my time n obviously made them happy being in my company anyway that was like yyears ago I would never treat a man with such disrespect again..I have a bf now so don't even follow that stuff anymore.[/quote]''some you would meet again'' Guys una dey hear super story girl. The easiest way to get girls for f*ckin is via internet and chat rooms. This one says her story is different.... LOL!!! Once upon a time,,,time-time. Which chic wld tell you that that she was f*cked after just a bottle of fanta... NONE,,,which chic wld tell u that she's really professional in f*ckin ? NONE... Which chic wld tell you that she was f*cked on the first night ?...NONE...but we guys know better. So ur super story is really understandable ..okay? Ride on

ogugua88: Maybe she was hungry but had no food in the house, so she asked you to bring her food rather than her going out and wasting fuel and money. Your babe is economical. You should be happy.

just talk big u hear let them think u can even use a guys head. Dem no sabi say many guys dey hammer u turn - turn .

[quote author=Man_51ut]did the bible say beat the child into a coma?

are you a goat? you need to be beaten to do good? where are you now sef? what have you achieved in life? not in an insulting way, i'm genuinely interested to know what this wonderful beating, slapping and caning has done to give you a competitive advantage in life. cos i taught at a school where they beat the students like goats, and all i saw was children to afraid to think for themselves. all they did was cry and beg, and then do the same shite the next day, week, year.

these teachers don't know whether the child is ill or not. i remember in the school where i served, one girl died, and all the teachers were now thanking god that they didn't beat her the day she died. (she'd been ill and hadn't done her assignments).[/quote]its like u are still being flogged at home mr Man51,,,and you u are sloliciting for children like you [quote author=Man_51ut]did the bible say beat the child into a coma?

are you a goat? you need to be beaten to do good? where are you now sef? what have you achieved in life? not in an insulting way, i'm genuinely interested to know what this wonderful beating, slapping and caning has done to give you a competitive advantage in life. cos i taught at a school where they beat the students like goats, and all i saw was children to afraid to think for themselves. all they did was cry and beg, and then do the same shite the next day, week, year.

these teachers don't know whether the child is ill or not. i remember in the school where i served, one girl died, and all the teachers were now thanking god that they didn't beat her the day she died. (she'd been ill and hadn't done her assignments).[/quote]its like u are still being flogged at home like a goat mr Man51,,,and you u are sloliciting for children like you ...haa...haa..haa,...oyibo-man wey miss road land for Afirca

Ntabeh: . If proper investigation is carried out, u will discover that the teacher hav an affair wit that student is nt common for a student to put up obnious attitude towards a teacher, just sayng anywhere, i stand to be corrected

''investigator,,,investigator'' so this is all ur brains can give you ehn... '' the teacher hav an affair with the girl'' because u heard male teacher and female student. I shake my head in dissapointment .. Probably what goes on in ur very home...everything male and female is about f*ck. So u speak what u know. I just pray you become a teacher in future

[quote author=Man_51ut]which bible are you reading? where does it say use a cane. it's people like you that will abuse children because they are witches.[/quote]....my dear... ''oyibo commentator'' what kind of parents did u have? I guess you must be a spoilt child..either the kpako spoilt pikin or the mumu kind of aje-butter. (but u sound like kpakororo wey wan form aje shar) .Let me tell you this : ...if you think that ''not flogging'' ur kids makes u civilized then go bleach ur skin and become oyibo ..it is people like u who destroy African values.. Abeg go jare. My parents flogged me when i was a kid,,and so will i flog my kids too

[quote author=gbaky_floor]I am sorry but flogging doesn't solve anything most times. It only instills fear in the child for a while: give the child a maximum of three days and he/she will commit same offence.

I was flogged a lot in secondary school at times for an offence I didn't commit. I was nicknamed "chester" because I never cried when being flogged.
It was only punishment like "drive okada, pick pin"etc that deterred me from certain offences like late coming.

I feel the word of mouth is better: in this case he should have berated the girl her looks in front of the whole class.[/quote]...my dear YOU ARE TOTTALLY WRONG O!!....have u ever lived with a child brought up without some flogging or spanking... The likes of oyibo kids Most of them are RUDE becos they know that no matter what they do, you CANT flog them. I think the good advice here should have been this; the teacher should flog with conscience. I have taught some stubborn children and I flogged them sensibly ( without injuring nor sending them to coma) . Guess the result? The parents were even grateful to me for helping them discipline their kids. Pls take note : I WILL SURELY CAIN MY OWN KIDS WHEN THEY DO WRONG: I AM AN AFRICAN: NOT OYIBO.

Rooneyboy: Una sure say that teacher no dey fvck that girl

Cos I don't see why a girl her age would be that rude.

*i can bet my last penny that they both know each other outside of the school premises *

...out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks....so this is all you can contribute to this thread ehn. ..ure mind is DISGUTING... Hope you do not f*ck your sister at home O

during my University days I noticed some girls practiced a different style of f*cking for money.. apart from staying in brothels. This one is called ''sugar Daddy''. I don't want to conclude that it is the same thing as prostitution, but two things I know are similar to brothel work and sugar daddy business are : .... ''Oga must pay or else no f*ck'' in other words in both cases ''money for hand bottom for ground''. The second thing is that the physical looks of ''oga'' or ''sugar dd'' does not matter as long as the pay is available for the f*ck. This issue surprises me cos when people see these sugar daddy chics they call them ''big girls'' but when they see a brothel girl they say she is ashawo. Please my people is there actually any difference?